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writes:Hi im just a teenager and all, but unlike most other teens i've never been in a relationship .. serious or not. Those little middle school relationships dont really count to me and i think since i havent been in one ever thats why its holding me back. The label of me having a boyfriend just makes me feel so weird so thats a reason why i break up with them. Everytime i tempt to dating someone, i never how i feel until they like someone else. When i look back and see how good the relationship coulda been, it stops me cause then i get stuck on that one person and dont pay mind to the person in front of me. Im also a virgin and the only one of my friends, so the guys i tend to talk to seem like they only want to have sex and thats it. I seen so many of my friends get hurt of this and i know it wont happen to me but why waste time if your only in it cause of that.? Please help :) signed a lost cause :( Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (23 November 2010):
 You're not a lost cause. I think it's pretty awesome that you are still a virgin, that's really rare in these days. I didn't lose mine until I was eighteen and I thought that I was supposed to lose it so I did it against my better judgment. Don't feel pressured to have a boyfriend or to have sex, be confident enough in yourself to know what you want or what you don't want.
You need to decide what you want.
You are young (so am I lol) you have your whole life ahead of you to worry about dating, sex and boys. It's okay to concentrate on you and your schooling, even what you want to do with your life. Discover who you are first before you try to discover someone else's world, it makes things a lot less complicated when you do. Single life is awesome and full of freedom. Enjoy it!! Good luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Your not a lost cause at all. Maybe you are just not ready to be in a committed relationship and that is perfectly fine, some people dont start dating until they are in there 20s so dont be worrying you still have plenty of time. There are many guys out there who are only out for sex but at least you are mature enough to say no to them, someday a guy will come along and he wont be just after one thing and you will no within yourself if you are ready for a relationship or not, but for now just go out and enjoy single life..there is plenty of time for commitment.
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