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*rincessgabby
writes:I really like the guy who sits in front of me but his girlfriends is one of my friends. I don't want to tell her in case she get mad and thinks that I am trying to steal him from her. I really like him and wished he would even like me a little bit because i really like him!!! What do I do? Shes one of my close friends but i even dumped my bf because i am more interested in him! What do I do?!
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reader, Princess Aunty  +, writes (28 November 2010):
It seems you are a bit irritated with the answers but its the truth.
you told us what you should do? you asked us advice about what you should do. and we've told you its bad to ask him out and you seem not to like the answer.
and by saying this :- ''I am not doing anything wrong here i never said i was actually going to ask him out!!! ''
if you was so sure that you was not doing anything wrong, then you should not have seek help here
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 No one said you were doing anything wrong and if they implied that then they are wrong. It's not wrong to like a guy and it's not wrong to like one of your friend's guys, but depending on who you are as a person is how you deal with it.
I liked my best friend's boyfriend when I was about your age and I (stupidly) told him that I liked him and he told me that he liked me back. I thought hey that's cool, because I never acted on anything, but he went behind my back and told my friend that I was trying to take him from her and I wasn't. I wouldn't put my friendship with her at risk over a guy and she knew that.
Her and I have been friends for almost 14 years now and it's a friendship that I really cherish. She is always there for me.
She has liked a few of my boyfriends and I have liked a few of hers as well. As two girls you are going to like each other's boyfriends. There is a reason you two are best friends and you may even have the same taste in guys, it's inevitable.
How you deal with that is your choice. You can tell him you like him and if he does like you back then maybe you two will date and you'll lose your friend, or maybe she will be ok with it. Who knows for sure?
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reader, princessgabby +, writes (27 November 2010):
princessgabby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not doing anything wrong here i never said i was actually going to ask him out!!!
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reader, princessgabby +, writes (27 November 2010):
princessgabby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto all of you i know for sure this guy likes me back!!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (26 November 2010):
She is obviously one of your best friends, so I would back off, is losing her friendship worth getting her guy? Whom you might not even get if he doesn't like you back.
I don't understand why you dumped your boyfriend for this guy who isn't interested in you and is dating one of your best friends. Will you tell me?
If I were you, I would forget about it. There are some lines you just don't cross and this is one of them.
Your friend will get mad and might even be hurt if you tell her that you like her boyfriend (trust me I know).
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reader, Princess Aunty +, writes (26 November 2010):
Well its absolutely wrong. yes YOU ARE TRYING TO STEAL HIM FROM HER.
and if your best friend come to know about it then your friendship will surely break up and on top of that you might me more distanced from the guy you like if he is not interested in you.
Well firstly what do you think? Is that guy interested in you? through his manners towards you..what it shows..does he care for you? if he do and wana be in a relation with you then its not a problem.
but if you are as if trying to get his attention by doing things, this will be absolutely SNATCHING. and remember its absolutely wrong. because today if you are doing it with someone, tomorrow someone else might to do the same with you. it is said you reapt what you sow.
besides if you tried snatched him then you might lose both him and your best girl friend as well..
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