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I don't think I'm really "qualified" per se to help people, I'm not a professional nor do I hold any degrees or anything of that nature, I just like giving advice when people ask for it and hopefully the mistakes I've made in the past can help someone else from having to go down that road. I'm very honest. I'm not going to sugar coat anything.
I love spending time with my son, everything is an adventure to him and he is discovering everything for the first time. And he says the funniest things at the perfect moments like he times them. I also love spending time with my family (most of the time) My mother passed away last year and I have four sisters and two brothers, we are all very close, I help out when I can.
I love movies. Due Date was hilarious! I love Supernatural, 1000 Ways to Die, Bones (excellent show) and Gilmore Girls (we share an addiction to coffee although I can't drink it now). Recently went and saw Rango, very cute movie.
"I want urine samples from everyone and a latte. Don't mix up the two."-Rango (Johnny Depp)
I wish everyone the best as we travel through this crazy complicated thing called life and hopefully with this website it will help us make it through just a little bit easier.
"The hardest thing to do in this world, is to live in it."
"Live life to the fullest moment, cause you never know if it's going to be your last."
"Enjoy your time as a teen; after that it gets so complicated."
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Is he a player or does he mean it?
Q. In the past I have always gone for guys I knew it would not work with, or guys I knew who were really just in it for sex. It worked for me at the time cause I was not ready for a realtionship. Now I am wanting to get into a Relationship, and have ...
A. 17 December 2010: He is probably waiting for you to call or text him. Or he knows he is driving you crazy. So call or text him first, its the 21st century and you are allowed.... (read in full...)
Trust or not trust
Q. I'm married seven yr old, I never had sex before marriage and I expected my wife also must be virgin and I believed always she was virgin as she said/says but after 8yrs now she said everything about her past, now i understand that she had 2 boy ...
A. 16 December 2010: SHe was abused before maturity, in that connotation do you mean sexually abused or physically?
It took your wife eight years to finally tell you the truth about her past and yet she still maintains that she is a virgin. IF she told you that she... (read in full...)
I'm absolutely sure that he likes me, but is just to afraid to ask me out!
Q. Well, there's this guy that I really like, and everyone says that they know he likes me, but he's really shy and I don't think he'll ever get the courage to ask me out. I'm getting pretty sure that he likes me because we text all the time, stay ...
A. 16 December 2010: Ask him out as a friend. "Hey, do you want to go see this movie with me and "insert friends name here" it's a no pressure way for you two to get to know each other and you don't have to seem like you are asking him on a date. This way you can find ... (read in full...)
He got really demanding when I was giving him oral, has he been watching too much porn?
Q. when my bf and i had sex the other day he asked me for a bj and i accepted but he got really demanding. i think he watches too much porn he says he doesn't but i have seen him download it before. What should i do?...
A. 16 December 2010: What do you mean he got really demanding? In what way did he get really demanding?... (read in full...)
Does he like me even though he is shy around me?
Q. i would like guys the age of plus minus 26 to give me thiere opinion. Im 19 hes 26. Im chubby. He has sort of a nice body. He has'nt had a gf in 5 years. I want to know if he might like me. He is shy in fornt of me. We met at church. Ive like...
A. 16 December 2010: It's quite possible that he doesn't know how to approach you. You said he hasn't had a gf in five years? Why don't you make the first move and find out for sure if he likes you? I know that is easier said than done, but you can ask him to dinner and ... (read in full...)
I don't want our relationship to end but I do need to think about the well being of my little girl.....
Q. I'm having a lot of issues here I really need some help. I'm engaged to marry this guy. But I'm not so sure if its such a good idea anymore. I have been with him for a year now and we did date in high school. We still act like a new couple and love ...
A. 16 December 2010: I would show him tough love. Get help, keep a job or get out.
It's awesome that you are thinking of your daughter first, as shocking as it is, most parents don't do that and put their partner first. Having your daughter grow up in an environm... (read in full...)
Is this weird? Are we doing it wrong?
Q. I really don't like being fingered. I don't like doing it to myself and I do not like my bf doing it to me either. Is this weird? Are we both doing it wrong? It's just a shame because it turns my bf on more than anything :/...
A. 16 December 2010: Does he hurt you when he has his fingers in you? Possibly putting too many inside at once? Do you feel pain when you do it to yourself? Are you lubricated when he is attempting to finger you?
It could just be something that you aren't into and... (read in full...)
Talking to his ex......again!
Q. Last summer, my boyfriend (lets call him T) and I had to be long distance for about 3 months because of school. During those months, his ex got back in contact with him. Now, T met this girl on some social networking site. At the time, she was li...
A. 16 December 2010: You know I really dislike social networking sites, which is why I don't have one anymore.
1. They have never met and probably never will. She has a bf and he has a gf.
2. He needs to stop talking to her because it is hurting you and he shoul... (read in full...)
While dancing with another woman, my boyfriend got an erection. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend needed to attend a formal dinner/dance event. Though I was the partner of choice, I could not get out of work on time to make it to the benefit. Instead, My boyfriend invited a friend to be his partner. Later that night, he told me that ...
A. 16 December 2010: Yes it's normal. Some men can control when they have an erection and because of hormones, other men can't control when they get an erection and it just happens, even when they don't want it to. It's quite possible that your bf had one of those guy ... (read in full...)
I want to try anal but she's really against it. Can I convince her?
Q. So I have been having sex with this girl for a while. We jumped into bed together really from the start of things, but that was really the only quick thing about it. She for almost a yr never entertained the idea of her on top or doggie, she just ...
A. 16 December 2010: Your girlfriend isn't even into new positions and you want her to try anal?
Your girlfriend sounds pretty reserved in the bedroom, very shy, almost like she has some intimacy issues and it's hard to get someone to jump from new positions straight... (read in full...)
When a guy is all over you, is it a turn on or turn off?
Q. girls; if a guy is constantly all over you, praising you (telling you how hot you are, randomly buying you things, texting you all the time, etc), while trying to court you is that a turn on or turn off? ... do you find that by his doing this y...
A. 16 December 2010: I think this depends on the woman as an individual. I personally wouldn't like a guy to text me literally all of the time or just show up unexpected all the time at my place. I think there is a limit. What do you mean by constantly all over you?
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Boyfriend's family hates me so bad he has to choose between them or me!
Q. I am dating a very wonderful guy who I have been with 8 months. At first everything was great and his family liked me. Then, things got messy between me and the guy and we had several arguments and both said mean very hurtful things. We got back...
A. 15 December 2010: Why does his family hate you? There has to be a reason for them to not like you to the point of "let's get a body bag." So, what is it?
Don't make him choose his family or you. Have you tried talking to them on an adult level? Letting them hea... (read in full...)
I sent him pictures of me in my underwear and now he is not talking to me! Should I wait for him or move on?
Q. Okay, So i am in 8th grade. About 3 months ago i was talking to a freshman (9th grade) that i really liked. He had dated some of the hottest girls in school so i felt like i was dreaming, no i couldnt really be talking to him. He was sweet and ...
A. 15 December 2010: I can't believe a mother could do that to her child, you are a brave girl and you will find someone that will respect you and treat you how you deserve. Good luck. And don't let your mom get you down, everything happens for a reason.... (read in full...)
I never 'finish' during sex!
Q. Hey all. So i have been having sex with this girl for almost a year now. We dont do it very often and in fact for a while I used to get the im too tired or not in the mood routine all the time. She never seemed to get horny, the few time she said...
A. 15 December 2010: Very normal, more than one would think. My bf had a hard time finishing the first few times that we had sex, he would just go on and on and on like the frickin energizer bunny. So I made it my mission to turn him on and stimulate him to the point of ... (read in full...)
How do I tell ask my girlfriend about my fantasy of her with another guy? Will she hate it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and we are very much in love. We are both 21 and attend different colleges. To make a long story short my fantasy involves her messing around with a guy she might find attractive. She was a virgin ...
A. 15 December 2010: I don't know your girlfriend as a person or what her values and such are. But most of the time, shy and reserved girls are usually the more kinky. So I would mention it to her in passing. Just ask her if she has any fantasies and if she asks for ... (read in full...)
B/f said he thought anal was gross and only did it because I liked it
Q. My boyfriend of 1.5 years and I decided to try anal a few months back. It hurt in the beginning but once I saw through the pain, it became very enjoyable to him. We were talking the other day and he accidentally said that he thinks anal is "kinda ...
A. 15 December 2010: Relationships and sex are about give and take. DO you do things for him in the bedroom that you don't particularly enjoy? ... (read in full...)
Should he have called to wish me a happy birthday?
Q. Would you be offended if the father of your kid did not call and wish you a happy birthday? We're not together and haven't been for 7 years......
A. 15 December 2010: Does he usually call you and wish you a Happy Birthday? Has he done that for the past seven years?... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to buy his ex a mother's day gift?
Q. my boyfriend has a daughter and he and i have been together for 5 years. Do u think its appropriate for him to buy the kid's mom a mother's day gift? is it ok for me to feel a little jealous over that?...
A. 15 December 2010: Unless he has more affectionate gifts than a card for her, then I wouldn't worry about it. I would actually be proud of my guy for showing the mother of his children that much respect and dignity. He is also showing his children a good way to be. ... (read in full...)
No matter what my girlfriend is always mad at me!
Q. My girlfriend (of 2 years) is constantly mad at me. Nothing I do is good enough for her, I try so hard to make her happy you know do cute stuff for her and everything, still upset. Just lately she is just mad at me, almost mean to me, even when I ...
A. 15 December 2010: Leave her. Leave her. Leave her. IF you aren't making her happy and she isn't making you happy, then tell her good bye.
You're young, do you want to waste more of your young life putting up with her crap? Find someone who will appreciate you and ... (read in full...)
I had a surgical procedure, am I still a virgin?
Q. Hi. I just want to know if im still a virgin coz i was curious i did put my finger on my vagina (masturbate) a lot of times. does this means im not virgin anymore? im 26 and dont have any experience so im curious that's y do the masturba...
A. 15 December 2010: You are and always will be a virgin until you have had sexual intercourse. Where a penis penetrates your vagina in a sexual manner. Until then, you are a virgin. Some women are born without a hymen.... (read in full...)
My mom and sister are like the gruesome twosome!
Q. Please help! My sister has suffered from manic depression and a chronic eating disorder for the past seven years. Living at home with her had been an absolute nightmare! I stayed in my self-contained flat at the house because I wanted to be t...
A. 15 December 2010: Move out and get your own place. Limit contact with your mother and your sister. They do have a co dependent relationship and possibly something more since they both seem to turn on you at the drop of a hat.
Your dad (no offense) needs to grow ... (read in full...)
Will 1st time sex still hurt when I am 32?
Q. I am so embarrassed to be a 32 year old virgin and am wondering if sex still hurts even when you're this old. I have kept my virginity for so long because I was caught up with studying and also because of cultural beliefs. I am just worried if I ...
A. 15 December 2010: Depends on the woman. The hymen is what causes pain during intercourse and depending on your body structure will determine if it will hurt or not. When you do decide to have sex, take it slow and I'm sure your partner will understand and appreciate ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong because I feel uncomfortable about girlfriend's relationship with her ex?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together about 10 months now and the only issue we really fight about is her ex boyfriend who she is still friends with. Now, they only dated for a month or two and then decided to be friends.. which I was generally ok ...
A. 15 December 2010: You have every right to feel this way. Dinner and wine alone when you aren't available? My bf would go through the roof. I'd tell her she needs to reevaluate her "friendship" with this guy. Would she be comfortable dealing with this if it were you ... (read in full...)
I think she got back with me only because she's pregnant
Q. hi, me and my girlfrind have recently got backtogether from a break, but i feel that she has only got back with me because she found out she was pregnant, we have another child together, but i am doubting pperternity of the child she is carrying, as ...
A. 15 December 2010: You know, she could have cheated and she could have stuck to the rule of no one else. As a current pregnant women, I don't have a sex drive right now and I'm not as affectionate as I usually am and I think that is mainly due to hormone changes.
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Do girls look at porn?
Q. Do girls look at porn? And why are girls so shy to say they "flick the bean"? ...
A. 15 December 2010: I think that depends. I look at porn and I am not shy to admit that I masturbate. Everyone masturbates, just most people don't like to talk about it, especially women because we have grown up believing that it is wrong to tell of our wants and ... (read in full...)
Can you get morning sickness if you havn't slept yet? Does it always happen in the morning?
Q. I work 12 hour night shifts which my body is used to. I am 20 years young. My question is this: Ive been getting nauseous in the past 3 or 4 days. The first time was a morning I woke up to. The second I was working my night shift and everything was ...
A. 15 December 2010: That could be a number of things. And I know they call it morning sickness ( i have it right now ugh) but they should really call it, any time of the day sickness because it can happen at any time of the frickin day.
I would take the safe route an... (read in full...)
I met the love of my life, my soulmate...but he cheated on me with his ex!
Q. I just found out a month ago that the love of my life was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend at the beginning of our relationship. I have NEVER IN MY WHOLE LIFE met anyone like him. It was like we instantly had a connection and we could already ...
A. 15 December 2010: You know what really sucks about being human? Being human. No one is perfect all of the time and even the most amazing men of all time occassionally screw up and when they do, it's pretty bad. I went through the same thing with my fiance, he was ... (read in full...)
Too shy to ask my husband for sex!
Q. I want to have sex with my husband, but I am too shy to ask, what can I do?...
A. 15 December 2010: Men actually like it when women make the first move, it makes them feel like they aren't pressured to always make the first move.
Ask him. Or don't ask him. Let him know that you want him with your actions instead of your words. Seduce him. Wea... (read in full...)
Feeling left out.......
Q. I have this best friend and I love her like a sister, but I feel that every time we go out somewhere together she gets all the attention and guys never even notice me. I know I'm not unattractive, or anything, but she's really pretty and guys are ...
A. 15 December 2010: Does she dress very skimpy when you guys go out? I had the same thing happen with me and my best friend. YOu need to become comfortable with yourself and have some self confidence.
Try new things that you haven't done before, ever. Thats a real c... (read in full...)
Drunk and possibly cheated, this is so out of character for me! Should I come clean?
Q. I have been with my partner for two and a half years and we are amazing together!many peole comment on what a close and genuine couple we are! we are so happy! But a couple of months ago he left the pub early and i stayed out with his friends....
A. 15 December 2010: I would be honest with him and tell him that you don't remember what happened and you feel that your drink had been spiked (although its possible you did just mix drinks)and you talked to his friend who was very calm about the whole ordeal.
He ne... (read in full...)
Why do I never get it right?
Q. I was dating a girl recently and I thought it was going well but then she made excuses to avoid me and as a result we broke up. I'm 23 and I have dated 3 other women. The first broke up and got back together with her ex, the second was not looking ...
A. 15 December 2010: I agree with Aunt Honesty. Every woman is different and has different wants and needs and views on what is too forward and what isn't.
Communication is key. It is the foundation for everything in a relationship. Do what you feel is comforta... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has stopped replying to my texts!
Q. My boyfriend stop replying my text since like 2 days ago. I dont know why he stop replying me. We didnt quarrel when we last text each other. I didnt say anything to piss him off. I have texted him yesterday and today asking why hasnt he reply. I ...
A. 15 December 2010: It is possible that something might have happened to his phone and he isn't getting the texts. Have you tried to call him? Go to his house?... (read in full...)
How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. I like this guy but my parnets don't agree with me . I had a 9 mouth old baby he treats him good n me too. What can I do so my parnets can accpet him so I can be his girlfriend...
A. 15 December 2010: OKay, I'm gonna need a little bit more detail than that. Why don't your parents' like him? What are the specific reasons they don't like him?
How good is he to you and your baby (congrats by the way)? What does he do for the two of you that mak... (read in full...)
I sent him pictures of me in my underwear and now he is not talking to me! Should I wait for him or move on?
Q. Okay, So i am in 8th grade. About 3 months ago i was talking to a freshman (9th grade) that i really liked. He had dated some of the hottest girls in school so i felt like i was dreaming, no i couldnt really be talking to him. He was sweet and ...
A. 14 December 2010: Don't ever let a guy pressure you to send pics of yourself to him of you nude or in your underwear. It sounds like that is all he wanted from you and now he has them. Your pics are out there and God only knows how many people have seen them.
Don't... (read in full...)
His ex girlfriend still texts him, should I be worried?
Q. I`ve just been in a relationship 3 months ago and now I`m with someone else that had the same ending..3months ago.My relationship ended very cruel I`ve been suffered from him but now the problem had been a bit solved.The real problem that its making ...
A. 14 December 2010: Red flag.
If my bf's ex text me and said that she needed my bf then I would have to ask him to end communication with him or I couldn't be with him. If he is over her then he shouldn't have a problem with not talking to her.
He needs to kno... (read in full...)
Gave an ultimatum and he counter offered?
Q. I told my husband that I do not like that he text other girls and flirts with them thru texting. He claims that he understands and that the flirting is wrong and will no longer do that. However he is not going to stop texting them and he deletes ...
A. 14 December 2010: How did he meet these women and why is it so damn important that he talk to them?
To me, he is saying that they are more important to him than you are and he is disrespecting you by texting these girls in the first place. He is your husband ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teen son about my new girlfriend?
Q. I'm recently divorced from a long, unhappy marriage, and with a new partner whom I admittedly was involved with while my marriage was failing. I have a young teen son who has been pretty OK with the divorce, but he knows nothing about my partner. ...
A. 14 December 2010: If you are going to have a real relationship with your current partner then she needs to know your son and your son needs to know her and the longer you keep this from him the worse it's going to get.
Tell him. Be honest. He is a teenager and old ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my cousin I love her?
Q. I am 32 years old, and i belive i am in love with my cousin, she is 28 years old (she is my frist cousin) for the last year all i do is think about her. what should i do tell her or not....
A. 14 December 2010: You know you can't help who you love. This type of situation happens often so don't feel bad. What if she doesn't feel the same way about you? Can you handle that?
How are you two going to be together? Will your families be supportive or complete... (read in full...)
Is he a player or does he mean it?
Q. In the past I have always gone for guys I knew it would not work with, or guys I knew who were really just in it for sex. It worked for me at the time cause I was not ready for a realtionship. Now I am wanting to get into a Relationship, and have ...
A. 14 December 2010: If he had good game, then you would have slept together. He seems genuinely interested in you. Take it slow. There isn't a fool proof way to know exactly what he wants from you without time.
Be open and don't judge him before you get to know him... (read in full...)
Why does the break up still hurt so much, after all this time?
Q. My question is simple, Why Does it hurt so much when my ex says she is sorry for what she has done to me? I thought I would feel better but it just hurts and brings back all these emotions. Like to keep things quick and short, we broke up over a ...
A. 14 December 2010: I think it's more than natural to feel this way. It's very hard to get over a relationship especially when you have very strong feelings for the person.
Of course you are going to care for her and you probably always will care for her. It sounds l... (read in full...)
I never 'finish' during sex!
Q. Hey all. So i have been having sex with this girl for almost a year now. We dont do it very often and in fact for a while I used to get the im too tired or not in the mood routine all the time. She never seemed to get horny, the few time she said...
A. 14 December 2010: Do you get off when you masturbate? What factors cause you to be unable to get off? ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my PE?
Q. Right here's my story. I've suffered with premature ejaculation for a good 2 years now. I literally last seconds in bed. I had a girlfriend for over 2 years and we had sex atleast 3 times a week but I never seemed to get better. When we broke u...
A. 14 December 2010: If I were you I would go back to the doctor's office possibly see a specialist and talk to him about a long term solution to your premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common conditions affecting men.
If you really w... (read in full...)
How do I tell ask my girlfriend about my fantasy of her with another guy? Will she hate it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and we are very much in love. We are both 21 and attend different colleges. To make a long story short my fantasy involves her messing around with a guy she might find attractive. She was a virgin ...
A. 14 December 2010: You know I think this strongly depends on your gf and who she is as a person. If my bf told me that he had a fantasy about me being with someone else, sexually, I would be very upset that he would even consider the idea of sharing me with another ... (read in full...)
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