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I don't think I'm really "qualified" per se to help people, I'm not a professional nor do I hold any degrees or anything of that nature, I just like giving advice when people ask for it and hopefully the mistakes I've made in the past can help someone else from having to go down that road. I'm very honest. I'm not going to sugar coat anything.
I love spending time with my son, everything is an adventure to him and he is discovering everything for the first time. And he says the funniest things at the perfect moments like he times them. I also love spending time with my family (most of the time) My mother passed away last year and I have four sisters and two brothers, we are all very close, I help out when I can.
I love movies. Due Date was hilarious! I love Supernatural, 1000 Ways to Die, Bones (excellent show) and Gilmore Girls (we share an addiction to coffee although I can't drink it now). Recently went and saw Rango, very cute movie.
"I want urine samples from everyone and a latte. Don't mix up the two."-Rango (Johnny Depp)
I wish everyone the best as we travel through this crazy complicated thing called life and hopefully with this website it will help us make it through just a little bit easier.
"The hardest thing to do in this world, is to live in it."
"Live life to the fullest moment, cause you never know if it's going to be your last."
"Enjoy your time as a teen; after that it gets so complicated."
"A mother holds her child's hand for a short while, his heart forever." |
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Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you?
Q. Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, ...
A. 11 November 2010: Different positions, slow and soft; hard and fast. It really depends on the mood you two are in. For me an hour and a half is a quickie. The longest I've ever gone with my fiance is six hours, that was the first time we ever had sex with each other ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 11 November 2010: Experience has told me that any man, no matter the age, likes, enjoys and wants sex. Some men that is all that they think about night and day and others can go forever and ever without it. You need to figure out which one he is. Whether he is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is struggling and I don't know how to help him?
Q. Ok. I've known my boyfriend for almost four years, we have been dating almost 2 of those years and we are very close. I had my first son six months before we started dating and I no longer am as slim as I would like to be or used to be. He has pack...
A. 11 November 2010: He has extremely bad knees to the point of where it's hurting him to walk around on them right now. I personally like fruits and veggies, I feel better when I eat them and I don't drink soda at all. Alcohol, I only drink when he takes me out. He kee... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone and not be so upset all the time?
Q. Hi I was just wondering how you get over someone?? because I am in love with someone but they don't love me, but everytime I try to forget about them something just comes along and just reminds me of them, or someone will say there name or somethin...
A. 10 November 2010: If you're really in love with someone then its really hard to be just their friend. There is no way I could watch the man i'm in love with love someone else. There is no use in holding onto someone you've already lost, but don't forget about them. ... (read in full...)
Should I take a minute of joy, for an hour of heartache?
Q. I'm falling love with a woman that's not going to near me in a few months. I can't stop myself from having feelings for her. When she's asleep in my arms my world is her. When she's not near, all I think about is her, everything else has the volume ...
A. 10 November 2010: Enjoy it one day at a time!!! Better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. I hope she knows what she means to you. Those are memories that you can look back on and your heart will smile. ... (read in full...)
Ladies and Men. How important is love to you...and is it worth fighting for?
Q. Ladies and men...have you ever fought for the one you loved even if they were in another relationship? If so, how did it turn out? I ask because I am currently in that situation. Some may think I am crazy, but would you really let the one you ...
A. 10 November 2010: There would be no passion in the world if we didn't have to fight for what we love.
Just be there for him, don't overwhelm him, especially since he is in a relationship and don't cross boundaries.
If you love him and absolutely need him that muc... (read in full...)
Boyfriend made me throw up from his comments
Q. After a comment my boyfriend made about my weight I started to throw up food after eating it I know I shouldn't I know it can cause a lot of health issues but if I don't do it ill sit their biting my nails feeling really anxious until I do it. I ...
A. 10 November 2010: See a doctor, Bulimia is not healthy. 5'7 and 140 pounds? You are not fat or ugly. I would kill for that kind of ratio. Tell him to jump. He shouldn't be making you feel that way about yourself. ... (read in full...)
Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?
Q. I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...
A. 10 November 2010: Guys, no matter what their age, love virgins. The seductions, the plan and the execution. To be the first for a woman, especially in this day, is like the ultimate accomplishment for a male. Especially with him being 40. And you seem to be a little ... (read in full...)
I'm average so why talk about it?
Q. I have an average size penis ok, I used to be realy confident in myself UNTIL my girlfriend kind of let me know how large her ex was. I was like oh no and look at me. Iv turned so insecure now. Only yesterday her friend slept with a lad and I asked ...
A. 10 November 2010: Us women by nature are very curious and we like details, that's probably why she asked. My girlfriends and I talk about our sex lives all of the time. Guys that are too big hurt way too much for the sex to be enjoyable. And hey, average is average, ... (read in full...)
What exactly is my wife getting jealous over?
Q. I'm trying to put my finger on my wife's jealousy issues so I'd like to know, primarily from women, what images could make her feel this way. As a man, I feel sick when I think of who/how she went down on other guys...but what about women? What ...
A. 10 November 2010: I compare myself to other women that my fiance has been with and I always wonder what they did, positions, thoughts they had while having sex, if he looked at her the same way, etc. My fiance always tells me how much he loves me. Remind her that you ... (read in full...)
He makes me me out to be this bad girlfriend.
Q. I do not feel my boyfriend is proud of me. He is lovely to me when it is just us, or in front of MY friends. He DOES hold my hand and cuddle me in public. But it's around HIS friends that i feel this. I know facebook isn't that important, but he ...
A. 10 November 2010: Two years and he hasn't introduced you to his closest friends? That would really upset me. Why won't he put you on facebook? Has he said why he won't put you on there? Do you have a facebook? Is he on yours? Take him off. My boyfriend and I deleted ... (read in full...)
I keep finding his ex's stuff around the house!
Q. I have been dating G for almost 3 years. We are engaged to get married in January. While cleaning his house because I'm moving in, I found many personal items of his former live-in girlfriend. We discussed and I felt since they were her childho...
A. 10 November 2010: He's offering her sofa set back to her, well it was hers originally and if she doesn't want it back then give it to good will. Her childhood stuff, tennisstar88 had a good point, drop it off at her house. 10 to 12 emails is kind of ridiculous, but ... (read in full...)
We were born on the same day and year, tell me we're not meant to be together!
Q. Ok here it is exactly 4 months after me and my girlfriend started going she calls me one morning and say i can't do this anymore....we had a great time together....we were born on the same day and same year. she made me feel like we were a dynasty. ...
A. 10 November 2010: It sounds like she wants to be your friend more than a girlfriend. Which you can work with. Be her friend. Be there for her. (To a certain point) Raises your chances of getting back together.
People, especially couples, who are born on the same... (read in full...)
My ex and I still have sex even though he has other women. Why can't I leave him?
Q. hi every body i need help. well first my son's father and i was together for about 2 years and a few months. yea it was my first relationship, first time in love, and my firsy baby. well we have been broken up for about a year now but we still ha...
A. 10 November 2010: It's so so so hard to move on from your first love. In my perspective, if he has other females then obviously he doesn't want to be with just you. Don't break your own heart by staying with him. My son's father did the same exact thing. I can't take ... (read in full...)
My ex abandoned me during my pregnancy, started taking drugs and now wants to come back
Q. I am pregnant and due in less than a week with my first child. The father and i broke up around my third month of pregnancy because he decided he did not want a baby..in fact he said it was solely my fault i got pregnant.. and refused to help ...
A. 10 November 2010: Just because he donated sperm (we know you didn't do it on your own) doesn't make him a father, nor does it make him father material. Based on what you said in your question, I personally wouldn't let him around my daughter until he proves himself. ... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!
Q. I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...
A. 31 October 2010: Tell your wife what is going on. I'm sure when you try to "rid" yourself of Lynn she will either threaten or she will actually go to your wife and tell her what's going on. So you need to tell your wife. It sounds like you don't want to be with you... (read in full...)
He won't stay and he won't let me move on
Q. im currently 26 weeks pregnant and my bd walked out on me so he could concentrate on being a good dad to his 2 children from a previous relationship and our soon to be born son but the problem is his ex is stating that he isnt to have anything to do ...
A. 31 October 2010: 1. You don't have to let him see his child. Father's don't see their children by choice every day. 2. The fact that his ex would even say that he can't have anything to do with your son is ludacris. She sounds very demanding, unrealistic and imma... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but my new boyfriend really likes anal sex, and his ex liked it too! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 days and 8.5 hours is the love of my life. We have known each other for almost a month now and never go anywhere without each other! I'm a virgin and my boyfriend likes anal sex a lot. Should I just tell him I don't want it.. He ...
A. 31 October 2010: "5 days and 8.5 hours?" Are you serious right now? Do you even know him if it's only been five days? I've known my boyfriend for almost three years and I'm still finding out new things everyday. I don't think that you are in love yet. On the new ... (read in full...)
Getting over my ex is hard!
Q. We've been broken up for 3 months now. We only went out for two months (he was my first boyfriend) and that might mean it isn't that big of a deal to others who've experienced longer relationships...but I still felt for him. That should account for ...
A. 31 October 2010: It's hard to get over your first. Until you find your second :) I don't care what anyone says, it's perfectly normal to facebook or myspace stalk your exes and their new conquests and whoever says they don't do it is full of crap. He dumped you. So ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend advice needed!!!
Q. Hey, Well, a couple months ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months and a couple days after i lost my virginity to my ex, I found out that he had pregnant his ex girlfriend of 1 year. How did i found this out you might ask.. ? Through ...
A. 31 October 2010: He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. I was dooped like that as well, as soon as I slept with my son's father, the next day he was cheating and broke up with me for someone else. He wine and dined me to get down my pants cause I was an ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is flirting with his ex girlfriend... what do I do here?
Q. hi this is my first time using this and it's probably because I want to hear other people's opinion on this and might help me. okay so here it goes. I've caught him (boyfriend) before during valentines day, he gave his ex girlfriend the same cake ...
A. 31 October 2010: I would tell him I've found someone else and break up with him. If he really cared for you and wanted you as his girlfriend he wouldn't be texting his ex and giving her presents. So on that note. Dump him and move on. He is using you as a side plan ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you?
Q. Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, ...
A. 31 October 2010: I'm 21 and been with my current boyfriend for almost two years and the first time we had sex was six hours and 43 orgasms later. Not I like about 4 hours, enough time to explore and have some fun while we make love. I honestly think it depends on ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if its stupid or foolish in a sense that I'm 'waiting' for another chance at 'us'.
Q. to make a long story short, i was in a relationship with this guy for about a year. in the beginning, i lied to him about my past, which really hurt him and tainted the relationship. we took a 'break' after that, and since then we've been in this ...
A. 31 October 2010: I knew my boyfriend for two years before we ever thought of each other romantically, we starting dating and three and a half months later we broke up. We were still having sex with each other after we broke up though, kind of like a friends with ... (read in full...)
Can 6 inches be satisfying to women who have been with very well-endowed men?
Q. My penis is only about 6 inches long on a good day, but have decent girth at about 5.5-6.0 inches. I need an honest answer from women if you think this is enough to be satisfying if you've been with well endowed men before. I'm older, and ...
A. 31 October 2010: six inches in girth? wow. Most women I know don't care about length, it's about girth and as long as you have good girth and you know how to use your parts, women will be satisfied.... (read in full...)
He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!
Q. i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...
A. 31 October 2010: Are you wrong for that? I think you are wrong to have stayed with him for three frickin years. You have kids and he has no job? WTF is that?! Screw that. Kick him to the curb. That's not fair to you or your children. He is jealous because of somet... (read in full...)
How to open communications with an ex when you want her as a friend?
Q. So my LDR girlfriend, of 10 months, and I have been broken up now for about 2 months now. She was the one who decided to end things and at first I didn't agree with the breakup but over time I've come to realize that maybe it was for the best ...
A. 31 October 2010: Tell her what you just wrote. You were originally upset when you two broke up, but after time has past you realize it's for the best and since she is so awesome (i'm assuming she is otherwise you wouldn't want to be her friend) you still want to be ... (read in full...)
She rejected me before I asked her out!
Q. I did really like this girl. But she rejected me before I asked her out. Her words were: "I don't like him, he don't like me and that will never happen." I tried to shrug it off but it didnt work and I cried..but not in front of her. I wish she ...
A. 31 October 2010: She said, "He don't like me." Maybe because she thinks you don't like her, she won't admit that she does like you. you will never know unless you ask and if she doesn't like you, then so what. There are three women to every man on this planet, you ... (read in full...)
What is a good height for men?
Q. What is a good height for a man?, I'm 5 10 or 5 11, and i'm 25 years old.. i have always wanted to be tall. Sometimes i ask my self whether im tall or short. i never seem to get the right answer.. my dad is well over 6 feet and my brother is 6 or ...
A. 31 October 2010: Depends on what would make you comfortable for yourself. Most women don't like men past 6 ft. National average height for a man is 5'11 so your normal. Just because your dad is 6ft whatever doesn't mean you will be too. I'm 5'4 and my boyfriend is a ... (read in full...)
My married man won't respond
Q. Happy Halloween everyone. Well i have a new problem,I know the answer that everyone is gonna say but i just want some reassurance on what i need to do. I have talked to my friends and coworkers and they have said what i think i should do. This ...
A. 31 October 2010: I think that depends on how badly you need an explanation. If he is married, he might just feel guilty because he is talking to you while his wife is at home and so he is staying out of contact. I have no idea. If you need an explanation, then I ... (read in full...)
Does a man ever suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ?
Q. Does ever a man suggest to 'have sex for fun' even if he is truly interested in a woman ? Or is this always a sign that he has no emotional interest in her?...
A. 31 October 2010: Not always. Not in every case it doesn't, but in most it does. ... (read in full...)
Is cheating/open relationship ok in this case?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and up until recently things have been amazing. We're both in college and he's under a certain amount of pressure to be single, but he's always been more mature than them and has coped fine. ...
A. 31 October 2010: For me 1, Open relationship to me is out of the question. If someone wants an open relationship and they are ok with me sleeping with other people, then I don't want to be with that person. I am very much in love and happy with my fiance, but if he ... (read in full...)
I found out he's got someone else and I went into shut down mode
Q. I have a broken heart. And I need advise to get over him. See I like this boy and I thought he liked me. I went on his Facebook to add him to be my friend and I see he's in a relationship. I went into shut down mode. How do I get over him? Thanks...
A. 31 October 2010: Sweetie, just because he is in a relationship now doesn't mean he is going to be in one next week. If you like him you can still be his friend. Don't go into shut down mode, don't let guys have that much control over your life. Be happy because you ... (read in full...)
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