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I don't think I'm really "qualified" per se to help people, I'm not a professional nor do I hold any degrees or anything of that nature, I just like giving advice when people ask for it and hopefully the mistakes I've made in the past can help someone else from having to go down that road. I'm very honest. I'm not going to sugar coat anything.
I love spending time with my son, everything is an adventure to him and he is discovering everything for the first time. And he says the funniest things at the perfect moments like he times them. I also love spending time with my family (most of the time) My mother passed away last year and I have four sisters and two brothers, we are all very close, I help out when I can.
I love movies. Due Date was hilarious! I love Supernatural, 1000 Ways to Die, Bones (excellent show) and Gilmore Girls (we share an addiction to coffee although I can't drink it now). Recently went and saw Rango, very cute movie.
"I want urine samples from everyone and a latte. Don't mix up the two."-Rango (Johnny Depp)
I wish everyone the best as we travel through this crazy complicated thing called life and hopefully with this website it will help us make it through just a little bit easier.
"The hardest thing to do in this world, is to live in it."
"Live life to the fullest moment, cause you never know if it's going to be your last."
"Enjoy your time as a teen; after that it gets so complicated."
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Isn't it usually the girlfriend who doesn't want sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We just moved into an apartment together. We both signed the one year lease. While I still love my boyfriend, I'm having a few issues regarding sex. I love sex and while I woul...
A. 5 May 2011: Have you perhaps tried to entice him with sexy outfits? Being in the right position (bent over something) when he walks in the door?
Have you talked to him about the lack of intimacy and how it's making you feel? ... (read in full...)
If you give a blowjob are you still a virgin? Is he?
Q. If you give a guy a blowjob are you still a virgin? And is the guy still a virgin too?...
A. 3 May 2011: You are still a virgin. If and or when his penis enters/penetrates your vagina you both are no longer virgins.
YOu are still participating in sexual activity otherwise it wouldn't be called oral SEX. I think you are too young to be getting ... (read in full...)
Why do guys talk to ordinary looking girls while gorgeous unattached girls exist?
Q. I know this is an insecurity problem, but I don't know how to overcome it? I know i'm not ugly, but when I meet a guy who shows he is interested in me, it's then i think 'why would he want to talk to me?' The next day, I'll be out and see these...
A. 3 May 2011: Maybe you haven't realized the full potential of the awesomeness that is you. Not all men are shallow and require a certain breast size or bubble on the butt to talk to you.
I wondered the same thing when I met my fiance and I asked him that que... (read in full...)
How do boys act when jealous?
Q. How do boys act when they get jealous? ...
A. 1 May 2011: Depends on what they get jealous of. Another boy showing interest? Competition. Give me some more details.... (read in full...)
If a guy wants to sex with you does that mean you turn them on?
Q. When a guy says they want to have sex with you does that mean you turn them on? My boyfriend said he wanted to but he won't because we are too young and we are. I rather not be a prego teenager. That would ruin my whole life plans. Anyways this is ...
A. 1 May 2011: It could and it could not, but adolescent males are turned on by the smallest things most of the time.
Be careful. Teenage males will say anything to a girl to get into their pants, trust me, I wish I had the knowledge that I have now. He could... (read in full...)
Should I let this guy know that his fiance sleeps around?
Q. There is a girl who works in my office who is getting married in less than 6 weeks time. However, she continues to sleep with other men. Friends of friends and men she works with. She does this when her fiance is working(a policeman so does his ...
A. 1 May 2011: I personally would let him know that she is being unfaithful. Perhaps present some type of evidence if you have any so he knows you aren't joking or trying to pull some type of prank or sick joke.
I would want to know that the person I love and... (read in full...)
It seems like my b/f just can't wait to watch porn!
Q. What to do about boyfriend's porn usage? I know alot of people would say that watching porn is perfectly normal, something that guys do when their girlfriend's aren't around or to watch something in particular that they wouldn't want to ask their pa...
A. 1 May 2011: Sexual fantasies are normal, even the depraved ones (most of them) and most of these types of fantasies are the type that we don't want to reveal to our significant other for fear of being judged, rejected or persecuted for what we envision in our ... (read in full...)
Should I be mad that my boyfriend wants to "hang out naked" with another girl?
Q. My boyfriend and I are currently having a fight over this. I'd like to know if I'm wrong to be angry about it. Last night we were in a hot tub with some friends of his (male and female both). He had done a fair bit of drinking and wanted to take his ...
A. 1 May 2011: YOu aren't being unreasonable at all. Maybe a little too reasonable if anything. I think it's awesome you didn't fly off the handle at him for getting naked in front of other people first, even if he was inebriated.
I would have zero toleranc... (read in full...)
Why is she cheating just 6 months into our marriage?
Q. me and my gf have been dating for 2 years, married for 6 months. the other day she left her computer for work left on. i went to switch it off but in the screen was one of these "meet up for sex" websites. i read her messages and she'd been talking ...
A. 1 May 2011: Find out for sure, without a doubt that she is cheating and confront her if and or when you find incriminating information.
People cheat for a number of reasons. Insecurity, emptiness, depression. Not getting what they "need". Lots of reasons.... (read in full...)
My husband was cheating with my best friend and he left me for her!
Q. My husband was cheating on me with my best friend and I think it is fair to say that I am devastated. I love this man with all my heart. We have been together 7 years and he is now in a relationship with this woman. How can they do this to me? Why ...
A. 1 May 2011: Its very difficult to be in the situation that you are in right now and I am truly very sorry that you have to go through this.
While your vows meant everything in the world to you, they obviously didn't to your husband and a "best friend" ... (read in full...)
Does his defensiveness mean something?
Q. What would you make of this?...My husband and I are driving in the car, he says: "I'm going out of town on Monday I have a meeting and I put in for two nights so I can do this other thing while I'm there and kill two birds with one stone." ...
A. 29 April 2011: I would find his behavior suspicious. Especially since he grills you about your whereabouts and such. WHy is it such a big deal for you to know a few more details. What if there is an emergency?... (read in full...)
Am I the only one who thinks the justice system protects sexual offenders?
Q. I am a 39 yr old woman, who has been in state care and also sexually abused, physically abused and mentally abused. I recently took one of my abusers to court and he got off. Since then my health has spiralled out of control, i have a personality ...
A. 29 April 2011: You know I think it's great when people are all about forgiveness for people who have done evil. I believe that God's judgment will be just for the sins created on earth.
Someone who could condemn 6 million people because of their religion... (read in full...)
How can you marry someone when they can't be a team?
Q. i've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. she moved to a different state to be with me. to me, i see us as a family now. she has a son that i've taken on as my own. so to me, when things happen, we should look to each other for ...
A. 29 April 2011: Her parents and grandparents have always been her support system, always there for her when she needs them. Never waivers. She knows that she can count on them for anything and perhaps she isn't aware of what she is doing by running to them instead ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my sister's ex and hiding it from her
Q. so my sister was with this guy for a year. She cheated on him and he broke up with her. She moved on, as did he. I always liked this guy while they were together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me2. A year AFTER they broke up, (she ...
A. 29 April 2011: Um if I were to find out that my sister was dating one of my exes behind my back I would be furious.
Be honest with her. She cheated on him, she might not care. I personally don't agree with dating sister/friend's exes, but to each their own and ... (read in full...)
Isn't it usually the girlfriend who doesn't want sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We just moved into an apartment together. We both signed the one year lease. While I still love my boyfriend, I'm having a few issues regarding sex. I love sex and while I woul...
A. 29 April 2011: Is he really stressed out at work? Perhaps he isn't getting enough quality sleep at night. Chamomile tea, anyone?
I have the same problem with my guy, I love sex and having sex with my fiance reassures me that he still finds me attractive and make... (read in full...)
1st time pregnancy questions
Q. Hi. Hadnt been here in a while so it kind of feels odd to be doing this after so long. Well i got married last year and i'm now pregnant for the first time ever. I wanna ask all the moms out there a few questions. First how do i deal with the ...
A. 29 April 2011: I am 27 weeks pregnant with my second child, my first daughter and I had extreme nausea with my first child like you are. Ginger ale is really good with nausea. Saltine crackers and ginger ale is what worked for me.
Depending on how far along yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has changed and I don't know what is going on
Q. Hi people! Recently i've moved Out of the Town (5 miles difference) from my boyfriend and I told him I want to stay close with him and he agreed with it. But..... Every time I ask him if we should hang out, he's always busy and something is wrong...
A. 29 April 2011: I have been in that very same situation, except my bf is where you are and I'm where your bf is.
I'm not a good communicator and I don't like to "unload" my problems on my bf even though he insists that he can handle it and he loves me and he w... (read in full...)
What else relieves stress apart from masturbating?
Q. Ok so i think i need better ways to release my stress, i always masterbate and thats the best way but i cant keep doing it all the time....... so what else can i do?...
A. 27 April 2011: Exercise. When you exercise your body releases endorphins, which make you happy and relaxed and that post workout "high" or whatever you want to call it is awesome.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is very good to me but I worry all the time about him cheating
Q. Okay.. so here it goes. I met my boyfriend about 1 month ago after I left a really bad relationship(my ex cheated on me and lied to me for almost a year) but I kinda got over it. I had a long time where I had no attractions to people. b...
A. 13 April 2011: THat is a very childish excuse for him to cheat on someone as a "payback". Why not just break up with her? I think he could cheat on you, but I don't think that is likely unless you provoke him or he feels that he needs "payback" in a way.... (read in full...)
Is that me just being overly jealous?? Or is my wife the one in the wrong by constantly talking about her ex boyfriends' even though it makes me mad??
Q. My wife constantly talks about her ex's, not in great detail about stuff they did but she constantly brings them up at times and it's pretty annoying... She thinks that I'm overreacting and that I'm a "baby" because she thinks its harmless when she ...
A. 6 April 2011: I had the same problem with my bf to an extent (not this bad though) and I didn't understand where he was coming from until he showed me by getting in touch with his exes. I'm not saying that's the way to go, but that's what it took for me to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is very good to me but I worry all the time about him cheating
Q. Okay.. so here it goes. I met my boyfriend about 1 month ago after I left a really bad relationship(my ex cheated on me and lied to me for almost a year) but I kinda got over it. I had a long time where I had no attractions to people. b...
A. 6 April 2011: Have you talked to him about your fears?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont go to the doctor about a potential STD! What can I do?
Q. my gf about 6 months ago had sex with another man during our break up and just now she notced red bumps on her breast where this other guy had licked before and she thinks it could be an STD the bumps are itchy and no pain and she won't go to the ...
A. 6 April 2011: It could just be a skin irritation from new laundry soap or a bra that doesn't fit right, but if your gf is unsure of her STD status then she should def get checked just in case. Most places offer 100% privacy to minors and won't give the ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated while I was pregnant. His family knew too. How can I get over his betrayal of my trust?
Q. I have been married for 2 years now, and we have a one year old daughter. Before we got married my husband cheated on me, I didnt know, but his family did. No one told me I found out when I was 3 months pregnant, it still hurts and I cant get over ...
A. 1 April 2011: It's hard to get over the fact that someone you love has cheated on you because the trust is completely destroyed and it takes a long time to rebuild.
It can be done, but it takes time and a lot of effort on both sides. A relationship can recover ... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous if my girl sits in my friends lap (innocently)?
Q. Hello Everyone. I have been dating this girl for about a year and a half and so far we haven't really fought over anything major, at least rarely. Recently, after saying I would stop being jealous over stupid stuff, might have been a bad idea, she ...
A. 31 March 2011: Wow. I don't think it is okay for her to sit on another man's lap, just as I don't think it's okay for you to have another woman sitting on your lap.
I don't care what the situation is, if there is a shortage of chairs, sit on the floor or stand... (read in full...)
Can I still think of myself as a virgin since my ex had a small penis?
Q. Is it possible to think you're still a virgin after you've had sex a few times??? Im asking this cuz my ex had a small penis and im ready to have sex with my new partner but im afraid cuz he has a 9 inch penis... Give me your opinions...
A. 31 March 2011: I feel your pain. Lol. My first bf ever had a very small penis, about four inch and my fiance has a ten inch penis, it hurt quite a bit when we first had sex.
You can't however consider yourself a virgin because your vagina has been penetrat... (read in full...)
I'm scared to leave her, what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for about 2 years now. In those 2 years alot has happened to her, both of her grandmothers died, 2 friends of her friends died, her brother became an alchoholic. What I didnt realize before I started dating her and got ...
A. 31 March 2011: Wow you are in a very tough position. It is really difficult to be around someone who is always so pessimistic all of the time and especially when they won't seek help.
All claims of suicidal thoughts shouldn't be disregarded, she could possibly... (read in full...)
I think our roomie is flirting with me, should I tell my fiance?
Q. hey everyone im just wondering if anyone else views this situation the way i do.. so here goes, i live with my fiance and a friend of his that is a guy. we have all been living together about 6 months or so. at first i wasnt very comfortable a...
A. 31 March 2011: Sounds like a good plan. :) good luck... (read in full...)
What do you find attractive? Opinions wanted please!
Q. Hello :) My question is personal opinion! Feel free to answer! I really have been curious about what everyone is attracted to in a woman physically. Full figure, small hands ext. This is not shallow, and I KNOW personality plays sometimes a bigg...
A. 30 March 2011: I like my men tall and broad shoulder and well built so I know they can protect me. I just feel safe. My fiance is this way. Cut jawline, piercing blue eyes, a smile that makes me melt, but I think the best part about him is when he smiles and his ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont go to the doctor about a potential STD! What can I do?
Q. my gf about 6 months ago had sex with another man during our break up and just now she notced red bumps on her breast where this other guy had licked before and she thinks it could be an STD the bumps are itchy and no pain and she won't go to the ...
A. 30 March 2011: Which breast are the bumps on? IS it a lot of bumps or just a few? How long ago did she sleep with the guy and when did the bumps appear? How long after she slept with him did the bumps appear?... (read in full...)
He feels the situation is ok because we are not married yet, apparently I need the 'wife' status first before he helps me out!
Q. My fiancé and I were going to get married this year. Then he got a job that involves being away from home for 4 to 6 weeks at a time. He’s been doing this for 5 months now. He only gets paid at the end of each contract. I’ve got to manage our home ...
A. 30 March 2011: He obviously doesn't trust you enough to leave you with money to help you out while he is away or set up a joint account with you so you can pay what you need to pay, etc and that is a big probably especially since you are engaged to be married.
... (read in full...)
I think our roomie is flirting with me, should I tell my fiance?
Q. hey everyone im just wondering if anyone else views this situation the way i do.. so here goes, i live with my fiance and a friend of his that is a guy. we have all been living together about 6 months or so. at first i wasnt very comfortable a...
A. 30 March 2011: It sounds like harmless flirting to me, at least right now it is. IF I were in your position I would sit down and talk with my fiance and let him know about the roomie. Tell him there is harmless flirting going on and how he makes you feel a little ... (read in full...)
How do we tell our friend that his girlfriend is cheating without everything blowing up in our faces?
Q. Hi. Any advice given on this would be greatly appreciated or anybodys oppinions or view points. Im in university, have a great group of girls that im close to and i have a wonderful boyfriend that ive been with for a year and a half. However i ...
A. 30 March 2011: Wow that is a very tough question and I feel your pain, I had to break this type of news to a very close friend of mine.
I suggest sitting your bf's best friend down and both you and your bf tell him together. Tell him that you don't want to hurt ... (read in full...)
3 years we've been together and suddenly he's calling me by his ex's name?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 happy years but in the last month he has been getting my name wrong and calling me by his ex-girlfriends name. This has happened on 2 occasions now and it has shocked and upset me so much. When It happened the ...
A. 30 March 2011: Three years you've been with this man? And he is just now starting to call you by his ex girlfriend's name?
I could understand if he was just fresh out of the relationship with her and it was just force of habit to say her name, but I don't th... (read in full...)
I think I'm getting sexual vibes from him but what if I am wrong?
Q. Do we take our friendship to the next level? I have recently reconnected on facebook with an old school friend from many years ago. He was the first boy I ever kissed. I has been very nice to see him again. We have always had a strong attraction ...
A. 30 March 2011: I would go for it. There is never a sure way to know if a man is mutually interested or not, but the only way you are going to find out is if you make the first move or if you blatantly ask him.
Life is short. Stop wasting time and go for it or yo... (read in full...)
Am I meant to be the other woman?
Q. Hey to all of you that will read this. ;) OK so my question is am only good enough to be the other woman? I'm soon to be 20 ( yay me ) and Im single. At first I didn't mind but after the months kept rolling me past I started to get down. I'm very...
A. 24 March 2011: I had the same problem when I was younger. Except I didn't want or need a boyfriend. I watched all of my friends and their drama with their boyfriends and I didn't want to put up with that at that time.
I know it seems like it's going to take for... (read in full...)
Can I please a woman with a 4 and a half inch penis?
Q. I masured my penis it is 4 1/2 inch erect can I still please a woman with it?...
A. 24 March 2011: Not so much the length that matters as much as the girth (how big around it is) that depends on pleasuring a woman.
The average woman's vaginal canal is only four inches long. So as long as you have a good girth you'll be fine.... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity and now he says he doesn't want a relationship
Q. Two nights ago, I had lost my virginity. The first time, I really do love this boy, even though we had have a rough past. Very rough. He's the type of boy I had kissed when we were in about grade 7 and I had felt a "spark". He hurts me to the point ...
A. 23 March 2011: I really hate to tell you this. And as a fellow woman who went through the exact same thing when I gave my virginity to a man who I thought "loved me", I feel your pain.
He used you. He only wanted one thing from you (sex) and he got it so now h... (read in full...)
Is protected sex before marriage alright?
Q. Is protected sex before marriage alright? Or sex after marriage will be better?...
A. 23 March 2011: I believe that you as a person need to figure out what your stance is on the subject.
I personally wish I would have waited, at least until I have met the right guy (my fiance) not necessarily before marriage, but I wish I would have waited f... (read in full...)
Can having frequent anal sex cause incontinence later in life?
Q. My boyfriend and I have done anal five times now. The last time was a couple weeks ago but I'm wondering how much you have to do before you risk becoming incontinent? I don't want to be in my 60s and not be able to hold my crap inside me til I can ...
A. 23 March 2011: Incontinence is caused by damage to the sphincter muscles of the anus and although anal can cause damage to these muscles the chances of anal sex affecting or damaging these muscles bad enough to cause incontinence is highly unlikely in a person ... (read in full...)
I can't hav sex with my gf...because she reminds me of a horse.
Q. Hey aunties I feel really terrible about something about a dashing lady that I've been seeing for almost 7 months. That's why I'm here looking for advice. We get on well, have lots in common and here lately we've been getting frisky. We haven't had ...
A. 23 March 2011: Sexual attraction is very important in a relationship and although most people consider that shallow, all people subconsciously pick their partners based on certain features (physical, mental, emotional) that they find attractive.
You say that her... (read in full...)
How do I make cheating boyfriend realize I may not always be around?
Q. my ex tells me he doesnt want to be with me right now? what does that mean i love him a lot but i need to be strong how can i make him think that i aint going to always be there? i mean thats why hes says not right now right? i mean the only reason ...
A. 23 March 2011: Don't be available. When he calls, don't answer, when he texts, don't reply. Him calling and texting you is his way of keeping tabs on you. He cheated on you and is now out having fun with the girl that he cheated on you with and you're just sitting ... (read in full...)
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