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I don't think I'm really "qualified" per se to help people, I'm not a professional nor do I hold any degrees or anything of that nature, I just like giving advice when people ask for it and hopefully the mistakes I've made in the past can help someone else from having to go down that road. I'm very honest. I'm not going to sugar coat anything.
I love spending time with my son, everything is an adventure to him and he is discovering everything for the first time. And he says the funniest things at the perfect moments like he times them. I also love spending time with my family (most of the time) My mother passed away last year and I have four sisters and two brothers, we are all very close, I help out when I can.
I love movies. Due Date was hilarious! I love Supernatural, 1000 Ways to Die, Bones (excellent show) and Gilmore Girls (we share an addiction to coffee although I can't drink it now). Recently went and saw Rango, very cute movie.
"I want urine samples from everyone and a latte. Don't mix up the two."-Rango (Johnny Depp)
I wish everyone the best as we travel through this crazy complicated thing called life and hopefully with this website it will help us make it through just a little bit easier.
"The hardest thing to do in this world, is to live in it."
"Live life to the fullest moment, cause you never know if it's going to be your last."
"Enjoy your time as a teen; after that it gets so complicated."
"A mother holds her child's hand for a short while, his heart forever." |
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How do I tell ask my girlfriend about my fantasy of her with another guy? Will she hate it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and we are very much in love. We are both 21 and attend different colleges. To make a long story short my fantasy involves her messing around with a guy she might find attractive. She was a virgin ...
A. 15 December 2010: I don't know your girlfriend as a person or what her values and such are. But most of the time, shy and reserved girls are usually the more kinky. So I would mention it to her in passing. Just ask her if she has any fantasies and if she asks for ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my PE?
Q. Right here's my story. I've suffered with premature ejaculation for a good 2 years now. I literally last seconds in bed. I had a girlfriend for over 2 years and we had sex atleast 3 times a week but I never seemed to get better. When we broke u...
A. 14 December 2010: If I were you I would go back to the doctor's office possibly see a specialist and talk to him about a long term solution to your premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common conditions affecting men.
If you really w... (read in full...)
I want a baby so bad, but... is he the right one?
Q. I'm 21 years old and I want a baby really bad i'm prepared to be a mum but I dont think my current boyfriend is the right one even though he is very cute he makes me feel spacial, he loves me and he wants a baby too but i dontknow if i want him to ...
A. 14 December 2010: I'm 21 years old as well and I just found out recently that I'm pregnant with my second child (first child with my bf the man I'm deeply in love with.)
I love my son I wouldn't trade him for the world, but I wish I would have waited for the righ... (read in full...)
How do I tell ask my girlfriend about my fantasy of her with another guy? Will she hate it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and we are very much in love. We are both 21 and attend different colleges. To make a long story short my fantasy involves her messing around with a guy she might find attractive. She was a virgin ...
A. 14 December 2010: You know I think this strongly depends on your gf and who she is as a person. If my bf told me that he had a fantasy about me being with someone else, sexually, I would be very upset that he would even consider the idea of sharing me with another ... (read in full...)
Everything was going so perfect, why did he do this?
Q. hey agony aunts. ok so ill get straight to the point. i broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, i was with him for 9 months, he was my first serious boyfriend. he wasnt right for me, i knew it and so did everyone else, he constantly questioned ...
A. 14 December 2010: I think every serious couple goes through this. I have been with my bf for two years, known him for four years. We broke up at once for three months so we could both get ourselves together and sort through our lives and it was the best thing we ever ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her? Even if it's wrong?
Q. Well I'll start at the beginning. I have been in love with a women that's ten years older than me for three years. I want to state very cleary right now that I am not a naive obsessed teen either. I first met this women through my church, which I ...
A. 14 December 2010: If you really love her, then tell her. Or do you want to always wonder what could have been?
Why is it wrong? You can't help how you feel or who you feel it for.... (read in full...)
Men, would you date a girl with a tattoo?
Q. Not a relationship question and i'm quite sure its probably been asked before but was just wondering what guys think of girls with tattoos, not the big sleeves and manish tattoos just dainty ones and ones that have meaning to the individual? Would ...
A. 14 December 2010: You know, I think it depends on the guy and what the tattoo is of. I'm sure your current bf wouldn't want to look at a tattoo on you like say, your ex bf's name.
If it were a tattoo to document something or a tat that tells a story I'm sure the... (read in full...)
She left me after years of my asking her if she'd ever cheated on me!
Q. i need help. ive been with my woman for ten yrs and have 2 kids. ive cheated on her numerous times because i thought she cheated in the first few years of our realationship, mainly because we had sex the first nite. she used to leave me and go out ...
A. 14 December 2010: Communication. You two need communication. She shouldn't have been going to clubs and "making you jealous" if you two were in a committed relationship and riding around with other guys I can see why you would question her faithfulness.
She s... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend cheat on me with his psycho ex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. From the begining his ex, mother of his two children, has been harrassing me. She's jealous of me and wants him back. She is also jealous that her kids love me. She really went off the deep ...
A. 9 December 2010: Good for you. I can't believe he cheated on you (while you are pregnant) with someone that could threaten a helpless baby, makes me so mad. Restraining order on him, it sounds like the whole situation is kind of whacky.
Good luck sweetie.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be his booty call!
Q. I'm a little nervous. My "friend" made a comment as he left my house after fooling around about loving "booty calls." The thing is, I don't want it to be a booty call. I don't know the way to try to tell him gently that either he has to be a man and ...
A. 9 December 2010: Then don't be his booty call. Tell him in plain English, "I want a committment, not a casual thing and if that's not you, then you need to go."
Guys won't do subtlety. You have to be straightforward with them and to the point, otherwise they wil... (read in full...)
Products to remove hair efficiently? And should you use lotion to make it smell better down there?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months now, and all we've ever done physically is make out. He's not a virgin, but I am, and recently we've talked about trying oral together. I'm comfortable with our relationship moving forward ...
A. 9 December 2010: It's not safe to use removal creams on the genital area unless they are specifically designed for removing hair that is on the genital area, so I would stop using the creams.
If you can't wax either because of the pain, then the only method you are ... (read in full...)
Who has the greater chance of being the dad?
Q. i am 18 and 27 weeks pregnant, there is a doubt that my boyfriend can be the father of my baby because i cheated on him with another guy. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend a few days before receiving my next period, but this period was shorter ...
A. 9 December 2010: Its really hard to tell with this one as both times were unprotected, but if you know your due date, then you can roughly estimate your conception date and since you said they are two weeks apart in when you had sex then that should help you a ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about cheating on my girlfriend, but I don't intend on leaving her for this other girl!
Q. i am cheating on my girl friend and i am feeling really bad about it.My other girl friend broke up with her guy for me and she is in love with me as well.And just to make her feel better,i ended up saying that she is the one for me and because of ...
A. 8 December 2010: Stop playing with both of these girls and make a decision. You're currently cheating on your girlfriend but you feel so bad about it? Then make a decision. I wouldn't want to be either one of these girls, I would be so pissed.
You got yourself into... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to send my ex a Christmas card or even a gift?
Q. So my ex girlfriend of one year and I broke up back in September and it's been almost three months since we've seen each other. As far as I know she's been dating somebody else almost a week after we broke up. It wasn't best of news when I heard ...
A. 8 December 2010: If you two are friends and just friends then by all means send her a gift or a Christmas card. But don't make it into more than just a friend gift.... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend cheat on me with his psycho ex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. From the begining his ex, mother of his two children, has been harrassing me. She's jealous of me and wants him back. She is also jealous that her kids love me. She really went off the deep ...
A. 8 December 2010: Has he always told you the truth before? He probably just wanted to spare you the stress of knowing she was over there, although he should have told you. One to three in the morning is ridiculous.
I can understand that its hard watching your kid... (read in full...)
Stay or Leave?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we are very compatible. Recently, for the second time, (his ex fiance who is married) has stayed at his place because her relationship was so bad and she had supposedly no where to go. It was for a few ...
A. 8 December 2010: Yes, it could very well be worked out. It's nice of him to let his ex stay with him while she has no where else to go, but highly inappropriate. She can stay in a hotel. SHe doesn't have friends?
If that makes you uncomfortable then make sure he a... (read in full...)
Cheated but it was protected sex, now I am pregnant but don't know who this father is!
Q. I had protected sex during my ovulation week. I had a lot to drink that night and it was a big mistake. But at least we used a condom and correctly. But i have a boyfriend that i had been trying to have a child with. And we have unprotected sex all ...
A. 8 December 2010:
It's more than likely that if you have been trying to have a baby with your bf and you had protected sex the one time, then your bf is more than likely the father.
If you don't want to tell your partner then track it back to find out your due... (read in full...)
What exactly is a relationship?
Q. I have a wierd question: What exactly is a relationship? i have never had a relationship, but i see all these happy couples around town holding hands, kissing, buying things for each other, doing nice gestures for each other, and obviously saying...
A. 8 December 2010: I don't think there is an exact definition of an intimate relationship.
There is an intimate relationship that is shared between two people that truly and unconditionally love each other. We, as humans, all have a need to feel loved and have a s... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for feeling uncomfortable about this?
Q. My relationship has become a twisted vortex of confusion and I need to get some opinions before I explode. Its gonna be a long one so get ready. October 20th I break up with my girlfriend. We were having problems, quite a few that I was causing my...
A. 8 December 2010: No, you're not crazy for feeling uncomfortable about this and it's definitely a huge red flag for her to be spending time with him already (i don't think she should be spending time with him at all.)
I don't understand why you waited for her, esp... (read in full...)
Why do women play hard to get?
Q. I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but I get extremely angry when a woman is interested in me but she plays hard to get. Why do women do that? Why can't they just throw themselves at you if they are genuinely interested. It w...
A. 8 December 2010: I think both men and women like to play this games. Although some of us play is more than is needed and sometimes too extreme.
I think generally we play this game to test a person's affections and to see how interested they are. To decipher... (read in full...)
Has he always felt disgusted by my past and my son's ethnic origin? Or is it just an excuse to dump me?
Q. My boyfriend is a bit older than me, we've been together for about 18months. I have a son from a previous relationship who is 5 years old, he idolizes my bf and I thought the feeling was mutual until just recently. We have been having a lot of ...
A. 8 December 2010: You know, he sounds extremely immature. Four times in the last month? That's once a week. Why do you keep taking him back?
Stop taking him back. IF he can't accept your past and your son, especially your son (regardless of his ethnicity) then leav... (read in full...)
Do men think about other women whilst having sex with their partners?
Q. Ok i am curious..i myself when i am having Sex with my fiance he is all i think about, not any other men or nothing like that, i have been like that with all guys i have had Sex with..i only get off on what is in front of me and what i am feeling, ...
A. 8 December 2010: YOu know, it's perfectly possible that your guy is thinking of you while you two are having sex and its more than likely that he is.
Men are very visual creatures (at least mine is) I asked my fiance this question ( I had to know, regardle... (read in full...)
My ex is ruining my current relationship!
Q. my ex is going to end up ruining my current relationship because she fucked with my self esteem my current gf brought up a threesome today and i was all for it but at 1 in the morning i woke up at 1 and was and am freaking out now what if she gets...
A. 8 December 2010: I think it's perfectly normal to feel the way you are feeling in this situation. Any person, even the most confident one, would question their performance in bed if their gf/bf asked for a threesome with another man/woman.
It implies that they nee... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin?
Q. pls help me out, am a 17 years pld virgin and my boyfriend put his hand inside me which really hurt me and later i saw blood coming out. my question is ,am i still a virgin? pls i need answer urgently.thanks...
A. 8 December 2010: His hand? His whole hand? If he used his entire hand you need to inform him that was too extreme and he needs to be more gentle with you, a lot more gentle with you.
The definition of a virgin is a woman who has never had sexual intercou... (read in full...)
"He's single, he can do what he wants" I'm told. But in MY house with MY friend?
Q. I'm 20, he's 22. We dated for two years before I broke up with him. Very bad breakup because I ended up dating someone else soon after and he thinks I was cheating on him. I wasn't, he just got really hurt by everything. He has been totally ...
A. 3 December 2010: 1. I wouldn't care if he is friends with my brother, if he is in my house then either he leaves after he is too drunk to be around or he doesn't drink at my house.
2. Get rid of your "friend". Friends don't sleep with their friends' ex boyfrien... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me? I want to help Karma out!
Q. What's wrong with me? I broke up with my bf of 5 years, it has been the most difficult thing I have ever had to go through. A year and a half later and I still feel as if I got kicked in the gut. I caught him cheating, he is now living with the ...
A. 3 December 2010: I understand how you feel. But that's the good and wonderful thing about Karma, is although she may have a lot on her plate, she still manages to get around to everyone who is deserving of her wrath.
I would leave it alone. Move on. And eventual... (read in full...)
Pisces man dumped me, will he ever swim back?
Q. Pisces Man Dumped Me Will He Ever Swim Back? Pisces dumped me He has a lot of girls around as friends and a girl best friend that he used to be with..also they say pisces men are freaks..well its true because he's always saying things about men..how...
A. 3 December 2010: He is young as you know and perhaps he just doesn't know what it is that he wants yet. Which is probably the case.
I don't know if you are into astrology, but I believe that the zodiacs do hold some truths of relationship between two people and ... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin even though I use tampons?
Q. I have never had sex, no penis have enter my vagina, but I have used tampons so my question is am I still a virgin???...
A. 3 December 2010: The word virgin comes from the Latin virgo, which means "sexually inexperienced woman".
Until you have have sexual intercourse, where a male's penis penetrates or is inserted into your vagina, you are a virgin. A lot of people have a lot of diffe... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?
Q. Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...
A. 3 December 2010: I think it's normal that you are losing your attraction to her even though you still love her. Most people who get into long term relationships find that because they already found who they want to be with for the rest of their lives, they figure ... (read in full...)
Wide set vagina?
Q. well here the thing me and my boyfriend was together a year and half he never really pleasured me and i relised i have a large vingina .. i ask him this and he said he can't feel the wall's plus he manage to stick 4 fingers up me.. but part of the ...
A. 2 December 2010: Yes, Kegels are amazing. Sit on the toilet when you have to pee and while you are in the middle of peeing, stop, just stop peeing, those are your pvc muscles. The ones you need to work to help tighten your vagina. You can clench and unclench these ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to put everyone's feelings ahead of your own?
Q. Is it bad to always put everyone elses feelings ahead of yours? I have a problem. I think? Its not all sexual but im just going to give an example. Im pretty un happy with my life so I always try to make my boyfriends better even when I know he ...
A. 2 December 2010: 1.Yes it is bad. Very bad to keep putting others and their feelings ahead of your own.
2.Stop doing things that you don't want to do or that you hate doing. Don't make it your mission in life to please everyone else. Trust me, you will be more mis... (read in full...)
My husband has a 19 year old female friend! How should I react to this?
Q. What are you really supposed to do or how do you react when your husband has an 19 year old friend that's the opposite sex? He knows you don't approve of it. But he says that's his friend no matter what nor how you feel. And he's 36 years of age. ...
A. 2 December 2010: How did he meet her?
I'm curious as to what they have in common and it kind of irritates me that he is putting his "friend" before his wife's feelings.... (read in full...)
He adds pretty girls on Facebook and has blocked me from seeing his profile!
Q. I've been in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. In the past we had a lot of problems because he lied to me and also had an emotional relationship with his ex. Everything was going really well until I recently found out that he is lying to me ...
A. 2 December 2010: Three year relationship? He is lying to you. Adding "pretty girls" on Facebook, I personally think that if you are posting pictures of yourself half naked on the internet then you're more streetwalker than a "pretty girl."
I would leave your guy.... (read in full...)
B/f puts his job before me!
Q. My bf currently puts his job before me. I can deal with this for the time being, but I am more worried about the future. If he's always going to put his job before me, Im not sure if I want to be with him. Please help. :(...
A. 2 December 2010: What do you mean he is putting his job before you? In what way is he putting his job before you?
People need jobs to live because jobs give them money, so I'm not understanding how he is putting his job before you.... (read in full...)
B/f has told me he'd kill my family if I left him
Q. I found out i was pregnant a few weeks ago. Its not the best news but im learing to deal with it. Im only 21 and recently moved to sweden to be with my boyfriend. Before i found out i was pregnant i wanted to leave him and go home. I have nothen ...
A. 2 December 2010: This type of situation can be extremely scary, extremely. But to be perfectly blunt, get out of there now. Right now. DOn't waste anytime. DOn't tell him you're leaving, just go.
I don't understand why you moved to Sweden with this guy when you... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not supposed to be with anyone
Q. Hello again I'm sure many of you have heard that thing about nice guy vs the bad boy type and the bad always wins I am a nice guy I am very loving and caring and also very sensitive (not a quality I'm proud of but its there) and I love to help ...
A. 2 December 2010: Everyone deserves love (besides those individulas who engage in atrocious behavior and don't give love) Including you and there is always hope in this world, always.
It is true that typically girls in your age range usually go for the bad boy type... (read in full...)
How do I get noticed by Mr Right?
Q. What do guys want in a dating,marriage relationship? How do I get noticed by mr. right?...
A. 2 December 2010: Like Aunty Honesty says, be yourself. Don't worry about finding Mr. Right right away and just let yourself be.
Concentrate on you and making you happy right now and Mr. Right will come along. Put yourself in the Mr. Right environment.
Men are usua... (read in full...)
How do I get the courage to talk to a girl and ask her to dance?
Q. hello friends I am 15 i am not in a relationship uptil now,i just want someone to love me,noone loves me,I want someone to hug me when I am sad,wipe my tears when I cry,noone does,it....it just hurts very badly, soo my question is I study in a boy...
A. 2 December 2010: YOu know its really understandable why you would want a girlfriend, everyone else has someone, so why can't you? Right?
How can you expect someone to love you, if you don't love yourself first? Don't put so much pressure on yourself to have a g... (read in full...)
Hair conditioner question....
Q. Okay, so what's the difference between leave in conditioner and regular conditioner? ...
A. 2 December 2010: Leave in conditioner is meant for after you get out of the shower (after using regular conditioner) either on damp or dry hair. Leave in conditioner doesn't use oils, they generally use glycerin, which helps untangle the hair and provides extra ... (read in full...)
I slept with my dad's best friend!
Q. okay so my dads best friend is 8 years younger than my dad so he is 30. any ways he lives with us in our house with me and my dad . my dad is divorced because my mum is a alcoholic. anyways i came back from school on wednesday and i had stayed b...
A. 1 December 2010: Hey anonymous, why are you so judgmental? People are human, we all make mistakes. Calm down.... (read in full...)
Loss of feelings and now I'm pregnant
Q. I have a problem I don't think I'm In love with my boyfriend and I'm prego and also has no sex drive at all. I just found out I'm two months preggers happy but scard. Three months ago I went on two crusies with my family and sadly couldn't bring my...
A. 1 December 2010: Don't try to stay with him for the sake of your baby. Thats dumb. People who do that raise children in the environment of hate and resentment, so don't do that. stay with him because you love him.
He is bound to be a little clingy, you just went... (read in full...)
Any advice for keeping calm in interviews?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm new to this and I have a problem that no one seems to take seriously. I'm a temp at work and looking for another job before my contract runs out (that and commuting 20+ miles every day is terrible) I've been looking, sending...
A. 1 December 2010: Be prepared. Have someone you know that is close to you, friend or family, run a practice interview with you. It gives you a chance to practice and after a while you can become comfortable with it.
At a job interview it's not just you being inte... (read in full...)
Loss of feelings and now I'm pregnant
Q. I have a problem I don't think I'm In love with my boyfriend and I'm prego and also has no sex drive at all. I just found out I'm two months preggers happy but scard. Three months ago I went on two crusies with my family and sadly couldn't bring my...
A. 29 November 2010: Congratulations on your pregnancy! I also just found out I'm expecting, I can't wait.
It could be the hormone changes in your body, that might be why you suddenly want nothing to do with him if it was all of a sudden. I would look into that.
If yo... (read in full...)
I slept with my dad's best friend!
Q. okay so my dads best friend is 8 years younger than my dad so he is 30. any ways he lives with us in our house with me and my dad . my dad is divorced because my mum is a alcoholic. anyways i came back from school on wednesday and i had stayed b...
A. 27 November 2010: Is it legal? Really? Here in the US that's illegal. (Not trying to be rude, but that's interesting to me).
Anyway, do you think it is wrong to sleep with your father's best friend? The man your father is trusting to live in his home with his daug... (read in full...)
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