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*wardson10
writes:Hello,My fiancee broke up with me a few weeks ago for reasons i have no clue. Her birthday is next week and i was wondering if i should send her a card?I still love her and care about her and i really do want her back, everyone is telling me not to but i think if i ignored her birthday then any chance that she might of gotten back with me would go away, what should i do?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 sure you can send a card it'll be thoughtful and she'll know you care enough to remember and send a cardbut as Emilysanswers says don't wait until then!!! you can do that too.try talking to her or her friends to see if she's said anything to them as to why she broke it off?maybe they can give you some answers or hints to why she did.Best of luck :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 May 2009):
I wouldn't wait till then.
Call her and say you don't want to fight you just want to know what went wrong.
She can't just disappear for no reason.
If she won't talk to you then do you know any of her friends that you can ask why?
You need a reason. Then you can fix that reason and hopefully get her back.
Send her a card but stay in touch. If she just ended it then you should still be on friendly terms so tell her that you need to know why it ended so you can move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): I would! There is no harm in sending a birthday card. It will let her know you remembered and are thinking of her!
Go for it!
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reader, Denizen +, writes (19 May 2009):
 I don't think a birthday card is going to do it - but that is no reason not to send one. It's a nice thought.You probably need to leave some time for the dust to settle. Perhaps she thought things were getting too serious. It's hard to know. After a few weeks ring up and ask her out for a pizza. If she says yes you can find out more about what's on her mind.
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