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female
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30-35,
*hmanders
writes:Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really shy and all that good stuff! So I finally told him I liked him and he ended up saying he liked me to and he asked me out the next day. Everything was perfect. I was SO in love. We made out a lot and did all that stuff and I loved it. He told me he loved me a lot and ya I loved him a lot. But the thing was is he started smoking pot and he started to change. He started to be mean to my friends and hang out with these really bad kids at our school. I couldn’t take it anymore and decided to break up with him (we dated for 5 months)... It’s been about a month since I ended and I'm still not over him! ahh I have dreams every night that he’s about to kiss me or he’s holding me in his arms and saying how much he loves me.... it makes me cry when I think about him and I cant take it anymore! Please tell me how I can get over him or why I’m not over him yet! pleasseee!!! thanxxx! :)
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 hun you did the best thing i mean no guy is worth your time really if he is mean to your friends and he started smoking pot.
you're probably not over him because you really liked him and probably wonders why he changed so quickly...
you will get over him just think you did yourself a favour i mean you'll always have a soft spot for him despite what he's done because he's like your first love in a way and you'll never forget him :)
you will get over it hun don't you worry you'll find some other amazing guy who'll be there for you and get along with your friends.
just think forward :)
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (20 May 2009):
Since you crushed on him for so long, it is going to take a while for you to get over him. You did do the right thing by breaking up with him for smoking pot and everything because, I wouldn't wanna boyfriend that smoked pot. It will be hard but try to focus on school, doing fun things with friends this summer, or maybe you'll start to crush on someone else. You just gotta try your hardest to focus on other things besides him. If you need any other advice, then just message me. :)
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