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writes:My mates girl, well he aint much of a mates, fancy's me, she's always flirting and touching her breasts in front of me, keeps hugging my everytime she see's me, and i dont know what to do, i mean she is attractive and such, but i aint some dick that fools around with girls that are taken, however i feel that soon im going to break and will end up doing something, i cant just stop talking to her becuase she's a mate too, she wants to get me drunk all the time ( i dont drink me) The other week we were out and she fell out with her boy friend, he went off with some girl and she stayed with me, she amediaintly linked arms with me and started touch her breats when i was looking at her, i almost cracked and kissed her, What should i do,If you could help that would be swell :) Cheers
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (20 May 2009):
 She sounds like she enjoys teasing you.....don't take any notice of her, either pull her aside and tell her straight...shes making you feel uncomfy!! If you feel you may break and then end up doing something with her then you need to nip it on the bud now! A girl who teases men when she has a boyfriend is TROUBLE!!!!
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reader, jayne_staaa +, writes (20 May 2009):
i know its quite a bitchy thing to do but what you should do is say to your mate look i duno if your gf is like this all the time but sometimes i get the impression she wants something to happen and im worried that am guna break one day and give it to her. then atleast your mate knows and if you wana keep her off you talk about girls you fancy lol itl make her back off
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (20 May 2009):
 well you seem decent so why not just like ignore her
pretend you don't care.
if she asks you for a hug say nah i'm good or something.
if she plays with her boobs infront of you she doesn't really have a high self esteem if she feels that's how she needs to get boys.
i mean if you got with her! not saying yuo will but if you did wouldn't you feel that she'd do that to some other guy?
i mean she pretty much doesn't care about her boyfriend if she's trying to get with his mate.
but good for you for not cracking :)
perhaps you should warn her boyfriend of what he's gotten himself into.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Next time she asks for a hug, reject her! Say no no not right now.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (20 May 2009):
 She sounds like the sort of person who you would want to be running away from screaming never mind kissing! Firstly she is a complete slut for acting like this! She is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with his friend?! And she touches her breasts in front of you?! She clearly has no morals, no sense of decency and likes to make a fool out of herself in public! How embarassing to touch yourself like that in front of someone else, the idea of it makes me want to laugh out loud and also gag at the same time! And for her to be trying to get you to drink when you have said you dont drink?! She just wants you to get drunk so she can take advantage of you! Gross!
Why would you want to kiss a girl that acts like this? Why would you even contemplate going near her?! God she is the complete opposite of the sort of girl you want to be involved in, she is just trouble.
I would just tell this girl that you are not at all interested in her, she is not your type and you wouldnt do anything with her behind your friend's back. You need to talk to her otherwise this will continue and you will lose a friend, make a name for yourself for stealing other people's girlfriends and then you will be left with a girl who isnt even remotely trustworthy! Stay away from her, she just isnt worth all the trouble!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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