Why does he get sore the next morning after our sexual play?
Q. Okay my boyfriend have been pleasuring eachother with our hands for a week now. I come almost every time he fingers me. He always pulls my hand away before he comes because he says he doesn't want to gross me out. We do this a few times in a night, ...
A. 17 November 2008: he might as well just let you stroke him untill he cums and if any cum gets on you just wipe it off with a tissue or wash your hands. normally i find if you dont stroke the top of his penis when he is about to cum you get less cum on your hand, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are having some sex problems.
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having sex problems. When we have sex he tends not to get a "boner" and when he sticks it in it just falls out and its both frustrating for me and him because it just happens over and over till i get tired of it and we stop. ...
A. 16 November 2008: sounds like he needs a little help with relaxing. set the mood with some chilled music and make the lighting just right. then spend lots of time on foreplay, not always paying attention to just his penis. kiss him all over and tell him how much you ... (read in full...)
Help - my older step brother wants to have sex with me!!!
Q. Hey, I'm 15, umm last night I was looking after my little brother and my younger sister who were both upstairs sleeping. I came downstairs to wait until my dad and step mum got home and my older brother (17) was watching tv so I decided to watch it ...
A. 16 November 2008: ok sweetie for a starter you need to tell your parents then you need to tell the police. he needs to be punished for what he did and he needs to learn that he can't get what he wants!
also he sounds like he needs help, being that he wants to have... (read in full...)
What to do about my mascara? My eyelashes seem clogged up.
Q. hello ok this is a make-up question for the girls. i apply mascara everyday and stuff, but recently my eyelashes are clogged up and my think comb mascara brush wont go through them! please help! what should i do? X...
A. 16 November 2008: it may be to do with the mascara that you are using. if it's a cheap brand it may not be that greater quality. also how long have you had it for? they normally only last a few months before they go clumpy and horrid. i suggest you throw it away and ... (read in full...)
What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 16 November 2008: well this is abit of a tough question, because every person has their own ideas of what is attractive. my idea of an attractive guy is the surfer look. so blonde hair, bit of a tan and a rather nice toned body.
but i also like guys with amaz... (read in full...)
I'm happy without a boyfriend, so why is it always on my mind?
Q. Okay, basically, I'm EXTREMELY confused with myself. Honestly, I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend. Usually I am happy with this, I really don't care whether I have a boyfriend, and can be happy without one. I have my GCSEs comi...
A. 16 November 2008: You seem to be on the right track with not being too fussed about a bf, especially with your exams coming up. you have loads of time for a bf, what's the rush? i always say don't go looking for a guy, the right guy will find you when the time is ... (read in full...)
He's going to jail for 3 months. Should I wait for him???
Q. Hey! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we care about each other a lot. But he is going to go to jail for about 3 months and he wants me to wait for him. I want to wait for him but I'm afraid I might get over him just lik...
A. 16 November 2008: Don't wait around for someone! If you really like him, maybe say to him when he comes out you will see how you feel and if you want to get back with him then fine. but don't do dating jail time for him. you shouldn't suffer just because he did s... (read in full...)
Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a guy that would make you feel good?
Q. Hello. I like this girl, blah blah blah, you've heard it before. I'm hanging out w/her as much as I can without seeming too clingy, but the problem is, is that most of our time is silent. Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a ...
A. 16 November 2008: I can tell you the questions i hate being asked by guys on dates. it may help you. 1) When was your last relationship? - Why? Is it their business? 2) How many guys have you slept with? - Again nothing to do with them! So those are my two big... (read in full...)
My first time having sex... is all that foreplay needed? What positions are best?
Q. ive been thinking about sex lately and my bf has too and weve both talked it over and decided to this weekend D: i know im ready im not scared of anything but what am i suppose to do... just lay there? ive read up foreplay before sex and ive given ...
A. 15 November 2008: yes yes yes foreplay is needed. it;s what turns him on and more importantly it's what turns you on and what makes your body produce it;s natural lubrication. without that sex hurts! as it's your first time i would have to say the missionary ... (read in full...)
If you are male and you finger yourself, are you gay?
Q. i wat to know if you are male and you finger yourself are you gay ? because only males and masterbate there penis but can u finger ur *** ? i wanted to kno are you gay if a male fingers himself ? ...
A. 15 November 2008: you're not gay if you finger your ass. alot of guys like their ass to be fingered, because thats where your G spot is located. it's just not something that guys talk about, as it has that reference to gay sex. there's nothing wrong with it and ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity?
Q. if i am a virgin and someone fingers me and i bleed afterwards did i lose my virginity if i feel it in my heart?like it makes me emotionl.does that mean it's gone?most people say that when you lose it you will remember it for the rest of your life ...
A. 15 November 2008: you are still a virgin. the only way that you lose your virginity is when you are penetrated with his penis. so his penis has to go into your vagina for you not to be a virgin anymore. as for people telling you when you should lose your virginit... (read in full...)
How can I ask him out without scaring him??
Q. I'm tired of having my crush ignore me a lot of the time. So, instead, I am considering asking him out, but considering I'm only 13 and never had a boyfriend before, I'm really unsure as to the best way to ask him without scaring him. Any advic...
A. 15 November 2008: just go up to him when you see him on his own. if his friends are there it could be awkward for him and you. just say something like i'd like to get to know you better and i like you, so would you like to go to the cinema or something? then just ... (read in full...)
Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?
Q. best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops....
A. 15 November 2008: you can't make your boobs any bigger or smaller, unless you have surgury. the only thing you can do is get an enchancement bra or a padded bra. even chicken fillets. why do you need bigger boobs anyway? whats the deal with not being happy with what ... (read in full...)
When should the condom go on?
Q. hey i recently had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom just after he said that hes ready.... anyway he did wear it but now im over a week late for my period... im soooo scard what do i do Additionally, from the same question asker: th...
A. 15 November 2008: um they need to put the condom on before you have sex!!!!!
as soon as he has an erection the condom goes on. there's no point in just putting it on before he cums, because on the tip of his penis he shall get pre-cum, which you can get preg... (read in full...)
I bled when he fingered me. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hey, i need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 month now, and last week he fingered me for the first time [i've never been fingered before] and i bled, then he done it again today and i bled..is this normal? why am i bleeding...
A. 14 November 2008: it's normal. especially if you have never had anyone finger you before. have you ever touched yourself or used tampons? cause if not it;s probably just your hymen breaking a little. you may find after you have sex for the first time (no rush ... (read in full...)
How can I change my masturbating up a bit?
Q. as a guy, i love to masturbate but doing it the same way can get boring after awhile. any suggestions to change things up a bit? any tips are fine with me....
A. 14 November 2008: Okay, I know I am a girl, but from experience of giving hand jobs, why don't you try and use a lube which has a slight tingle to it? You can buy these in any sex shop or online. It adds a little something to the sensation. Also the way you move ... (read in full...)
Why do guys enjoy it when a girl swallows?
Q. I read a lot of these questions.... and i'm actually wondering... why do guys enjoy it when a girl swallows his cum?...
A. 10 November 2008: it's because in the porn movies all the girls do it, so they think that girls should just do it in reality.
i can't stand it, it;s disgusting. some girls like it, but not me! if a guys asks why i don't want to swallow i just say why don't you swal... (read in full...)
Do you get used to the taste of cum, like getting used to the taste of beer?
Q. A questions for the girls out there. My girlfriend was wondering if the taste of cum is something that you get used to? You know, like how you have a beer or liquor for the first time, and it just tastes absolutely horrible. But as time goes on, ...
A. 10 November 2008: I never like the taste. I think it is revolting! That's why I never let the guy cum in my mouth. The only thing which can help is that the guy changes his diet. What he eats can have an effect on the taste, also if he smokes this will make it taste ... (read in full...)
Will it get bigger or has it stopped growing?
Q. I have a little below average penis and I'm 17, will it get any bigger or stay like this....
A. 4 November 2008: sweetie take it from me, she only said that because she was p'd off about something or she just has not seen many penis's in her lifetime. like i said before the average is 4"-5". so stop worrying about it!
also they are small when they are not erec... (read in full...)
Do I talk to my Ex about how quickly he's moved on?
Q. I'm just going to jump straight into this. My boyfriend of three years and I have recently split. It was a mutual thing, we weren't getting on so decided to end it. The things that's bugging me is that on the same day we decided to end our relat...
A. 3 November 2008: honey i hate to say this, but once you have broken up from a guy, whether it is mutual or one sided, he and you can see whoever you want to. it's just something you have to except. you can't talk to him about his new relationship, as it is non of ... (read in full...)
My penis is aroused every morning, is that normal?
Q. Hi. I am 22 year old guy. Every morning when i wake up my penis is erected and really hard. I am a virgin and i masturbate quite often. (daily or once every two days). I masturbate to pornography. I think i dream too much about the pornography,...
A. 3 November 2008: i've heard that most guys have a hard on in the mornings. it's obviously a normal healthy thing, apparently the best way to get rid of it is a cold shower or by peeing. ... (read in full...)
First time sex jitters! How do I get past this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. I really want him to be my first sexual partner (he is not a virgin). He never pressures me to do anything; he always ask. When we attempts of having sex, I always get nervousness. How can I get ...
A. 1 November 2008: it's natural to be a little nervous, as you do not know what to expect. i was nervous and in the end i just thought to myself "just do it." so i did and i felt much better after. so all i can say is relax and just let him do all the work for your ... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted with this problem I have, please help.
Q. Hello every ; ), I have a really personal problem that I'm disgusted by. I have white vaginal discharge everyday and sometimes I get really smelly down there. Also. I've been to the gynocologist numerous times and they always say I'm fine. Its em...
A. 1 November 2008: it's normal for your age. it's a part of puberty that the schools forget to mention. it;s you natural lubrication. when i was younger i used to exerience that, and then as i got older it stopped unless of course things get heated with a guy. it's ... (read in full...)
Will it get bigger or has it stopped growing?
Q. I have a little below average penis and I'm 17, will it get any bigger or stay like this....
A. 1 November 2008: the average size of a penis in the UK is 3"-5". so i would not worry about it at all, also it;s not the lenght that really gets a girl ticking, it;s the width and how you use it. not to mention the average vagina is about 4" deep. so does it really ... (read in full...)
Is 14 too young to be going out with a 17 year old?
Q. im 14 years old and i met a guy at my families halloween party who is 17. he is the son of a family friend, and he gave me his email. do you think i am too young to go out with him? i really like him and he isnt some sort of player or something lol....
A. 1 November 2008: there is no problem dating a guy who is abit older then you, however if things were to get sexual then thats not good, as you are classed as a minor and he could go to prison for that. but if you just want to be friends or date and have nothing too ... (read in full...)
I am desperate for sex!
Q. I am 27 year old, I desperately want sex - for fun. However my socioeconomic status is not good enough to get married and have 'legal sex'. On the other hand i do not want to 'buy' sex as it is inhuman, i think. what should I do for my desire? ...
A. 1 November 2008: i think the idea of a man going to a hooker is just abit desperate and sad. why don't you just go and hook up with a girl in a bar or something and see where it goes. buy some male sex toys for when you feel horny and there's no girls around. ... (read in full...)
Why do these guys think I'm easy?
Q. okay.. here we go. for a few months now, guys i barely know have been coming up to me asking if i wanna make out, or worse! one even asked if i wanted to be f*** buddies! im 14 and im still a virgin, and plan to be for a while. the worst thing i...
A. 1 November 2008: what about how you dress? maybe you dress older then what you are? this can sometimes give off the wrong impression. ... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 and I think I'm pregnant !
Q. About 2 months ago, i had sexual intercorse with my boyfriend even though i am only 12 YEARS OLD!!! i really regret it because i started my period a year ago and i havent had my period for ages! and i think i might be pregnant. i am really scared. ...
A. 29 October 2008: before i give you any advice i am going to say that you are very stupid to be having sex at 12 years old! that is insane and you are obviously not responsible to be having sex at that age, as you now face a pregnancy scare! seriously why are such ... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin? We had anal sex.
Q. I'm a freshman in at a catholic school college and I am catholic. I want to save myself for marriage, but one night me and this girl (we were both drunk) went to my room and started making out. One thing led to another and our cloths were off. I ...
A. 28 October 2008: OMG use a condom! how could you even go there without a condom, you can get STD's and give STD's through anal sex. HIV is a big one to think about. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that we could end up bi or lesbians if we keep doing this?
Q. hi, i have a question that is too awkward to ask anybody that i know. it involves me and my bestfriend. we are both girls, 15 years old and have been best friends since we were small. some in our family say we are cousins, but we aren't really. ...
A. 28 October 2008: ok first of all i would like to say, no one just "turns into a lesbian or gay" thats a stupid thing to say! some people are so ignorant!
also it seems like it is bothering you, so maybe you need to talk to your friend and ask eachother if this ... (read in full...)
Sex questions
Q. hi im 35years old and started a new relationship but im not very experinced when it comes to sex and my partner wants me to go on top but have never done that b4 as im queit large built and im to embarrased if i do it wrong and he wants me to go ...
A. 28 October 2008: honey you have come to the right place!
ok lets start with the blowjob. don't worry about looking like a porn star and trying to put the whole of his cock into your mouth, sometimes it just isn't possible as we gag! so the best tip i can give is ... (read in full...)
How to give a hand job?
Q. Ok, so not the easiest of questions. I am in my 20's and want to know how to give a hand job as i don't know how and have just recently started dating someone and want to try it out but i am too embarrassed to tell this guy that i don't know how to ...
A. 28 October 2008: it's easy. just start by either touching his balls and rubbing them with the palm of your hand then move your hand up the shaft of his penis slowly, then when you get to the top use your finger to circle the top of his penis then move your hand ... (read in full...)
To men: top ten things you want in a girlfriend?
Q. This is, I hope, a very simple question for you men to answer. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything, but I have always been curious about how they see girls... Hopefully not as just a blow-up doll for most of you guys out there. ...
A. 27 October 2008: lol at Lance. i just had to say that made me laugh so much! ... (read in full...)
Why do guys think boobs are sexy?
Q. Why do guys think that boobs are so sexy? I've always wondered that. And stop with the whole mates-that-support-children-and-produce-better-milk crap. Do you honestly think that when a guy looks at a girl with big boobs he is thinking "Wow I bet ...
A. 27 October 2008: what's wrong with guys liking boobs? it's normal for guys to like boobs, it probably because they don;t have them and in our western culture they are seen as sexual objects. but if you travel to some other countries they find the butt sexual and ... (read in full...)
How can I "talk dirty" to my boyfriend?
Q. How can I talk dirty to my boyfriend to turn him on more? Just to make our sex life better? ...
A. 27 October 2008: i don't agree that 16-17 is too young for sex, i would not advice it as you need to be emotionally ready, but here in the UK 16 is legal.
as for the dirty talk the best thing to do is maybe tell him which parts of his body you love and why and then... (read in full...)
Cervical orgasms, are they possible?
Q. I'm in an explorative state of a love affair, and I'm learning and improving my love making skills. The question I have is about cervical stimulation, or deep pelvic orgasm. How is this achieved? I'm already interested and practicing Karezza and ...
A. 27 October 2008: leave the pelvis alone, but concentrate on finding the G spot. it;s great for her and also a little challenge for you. ... (read in full...)
All about orgasms...
Q. What are the different orgasms for a girl? when I use a dildo I cum white stuff from my vagina. when I use a vibrator on my clit it just pulsates and nothing else except moaning and panting and when I manually play with my clit I squirt out of my...
A. 27 October 2008: well when using a dildo you are pentetrating your vagina more, so the natural lubrication shall be on the dildo, thats what the white stuff is. however when you just touch your clit your not coming into direct contact with "the white stuff", even ... (read in full...)
I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me.
Q. I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me. I am very attracted to ideas of being harshly dominated by men or animals. I imagine working as a prostitute or being raped among other things. These ideas horrify me. I even allowed myself to ...
A. 27 October 2008: hmm i would say having a fantasy is harmless, but when you act it out it;s often not good. the reality is very different as you could tell. i think maybe you need to figure out why you are having these thoughts about being dominated. there is always ... (read in full...)
This is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross!
Q. this is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross! I produce a lot of discharge, clear and white. its gross. it smells nasty. I probably produce more than the normal amount. what can I use to clean it? I wash it everyday. should I douche? I'm ...
A. 26 October 2008: it's normal for your age to experience this, it's one part of puberty that schools just don't mention. don't worry about it, if the smell is bothering you try some products like fem-fresh wipes or something, they are more sensitive then normal ... (read in full...)
He really hurt me 'down there', how can I stop him from doing this again next time?
Q. I really like my new boyfriend, and hes one of the best kissers i've ever been with, but last night when we were together, he started fingering me really hard and rough. It was much too painful to be enjoyable, and today i'm bruised and swollen ...
A. 24 October 2008: i have been in your posistion before and i know it is not good.
some guys think that because they enjoy being touched a little roughly, we like it.
the best thing for you to do without shattering his male ego is to place your hand on his and almo... (read in full...)
My husband physically and emotionally abuses me all the time.
Q. Hi, I need to make this quick because I'm not "allowed" to be on the internet right now. My husband is thirteen years my senior and we've known each other for two and a half years, been together that long, and married for two years. We have a ...
A. 24 October 2008: honey there's only one thing you can do.....leave your husband and take your little girl. no woman deserves that!
don't be afraid and remember there are support groups and hostels for women who are escaping from an abusive relationship. please plea... (read in full...)
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