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Why do these guys think I'm easy?

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Question - (1 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay.. here we go.

for a few months now, guys i barely know have been coming up to me asking if i wanna make out, or worse! one even asked if i wanted to be f*** buddies!

im 14 and im still a virgin, and plan to be for a while. the worst thing ive done with a guy is made out and he got a little touchy. but i go to church, and have near perfect grades! (not exactly my idea of that kind of person)

i honestly dont think im that attractive.. plus im taller then most of the boys (im 5'9") and i weigh 150... not exactly my idea of hott..

why do they all think im so easy that illl do all these things with them??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

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sorry i meant leggings not jeans xD

i think it might also be because of my ex bf, like you said.. he was one of those guys that only wanteed one thing.. the kind of person that (even my mom said) is gunna end up getting a girl pregnant before he turns 18.. and of course i wouldnt do those things with him..

so he might have started it

thank you for all your answers :) they helped alot

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008):

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i wear alot of t-shirts and just jeans. i rarely wear low cut shirts.. i wear mini skirts sometimes but i always wear jeans under them.

im not sure if that could be it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008):

I had a buddy who would go into a bar, check out the talent, and home in on one. His opening line was something like "Would you like to f**k?". 75% of the time he'd get slapped around the face, 25% of the time he's get taken up on his offer. He reckoned that 3 out of 4 slaps around the face was worth the 1 in 4 bonks.

Maybe he's been in your neck of the woods?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2008):

What do you wear?

If it doesn't involve very many clothes then that might be your problem.

Other than that they just might be teasing you. If they know you are a good church going girl they might know it bothers you to be asked this stuff.

Just tell them to keep dreaming and walk off. They'll soon give up.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2008):

what about how you dress? maybe you dress older then what you are? this can sometimes give off the wrong impression.

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