People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 8 January 2009: i never said anything about teens not having sex. i just don't understand why some teens and even adults don't have basic sex knowledge. like for instance someone asked if women have sperm? seriously! that is just worrying. ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 7 January 2009: just stop questionion it and get it checked out. it maybe nothing serious, but at least you will know and feel better about it. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?
Q. I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...
A. 7 January 2009: well they are not a best friend if they bully you are they?you need to talk to your parents or even her/his parents. make them suffer a little, by facing their parents and possibly a punishment for being a bully. you need to speak up about it. maybe ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 6 January 2009: look i had a bf who had the same problem, apart from his did tear and gave him extreme pain, he ended up having to have a operation.
if it hurts when you get hard then that is not normal. therefore you need to go to the doctor. why ignore advice t... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 6 January 2009: pre-cum. you obviously have dreams what turn you on. there is nothing wrong in masturbation. it may help.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!
Q. I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared....
A. 6 January 2009: hun you have a normal sized penis.
men need to stop worrying about the size of their ding dongs! you know what i agree with satindesire, big penis's just hurt and are not that enjoyable! only porn star women enjoy them. which brings me to proba... (read in full...)
Is 2 years a long time to be single?
Q. hi Just a quick one. I'm 22 and I want to know is it abnormal that I haven't had a girlfriend for over 2 years?! I was going out with a girl from when I was 16 until 20, after we broke up I found it really hard to go out chasing other women like...
A. 6 January 2009: i'm 22 and been single for nearly a year. i have liked it actually, there is nothing wrong in being single and young. early 20's is time for fun, sure some people find themselves in serious relationships and that's great. but one of my friends has ... (read in full...)
He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!
Q. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...
A. 6 January 2009: i think it is normal. there was a programme on a while ago about a guy who tries to have sex with his wife while he is asleep. ... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 6 January 2009: oh i do think they need to learn about body parts, i think most kids that age learn that anyway. i think it is important that they know the difference between a girl and a boy too. but the sex stuff is a no no. ... (read in full...)
How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date?
Q. Honestly, I want a guy's opinion on this one! How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date? And how fancy of a place or settle for a quick bite to eat and not let her super size?!? LOL. Say you both met online (dating site) an...
A. 6 January 2009: ok i may be the only girl in here who pays her way on a first date. if he insists then i let him, but i don't like to feel like a guy has to pay for me on everything. guess i'm just alittle independant at times.
also i don't mind where a guy take... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?
Q. I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...
A. 6 January 2009: ok you need to tell your teacher everything, she or he can't sort out all of the problems unless they know it all. do you have a school councelor? go to them, as they are very clued up on this sort of thing. also tell your parents! these little ... (read in full...)
Are there any home remedies to remove ingrown pubic hairs?
Q. Hi, I am 17 years old and I have a feeling that I will become sexually active with my girlfriend soon. However, one concern that I have is that I am a virgin (which means it cannot be a STD) and I have TONS of ingrown hairs on my penis shaft an...
A. 6 January 2009: ingrowing hair is a normal thing for guys and girls. girls can get it in their armpits too. so don't worry about your girlfriend thinking that it is an STD.
you could try and remove the hairs one by one or maybe talk to your doctor, there are vari... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 6 January 2009: i don't agree with little kids being taught the facts of life too early, such as this crazy government scheme to teach 5 year olds about sex! but i do think kids who are early teens need to have the talk with their parents or a teacher if a parent ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 6 January 2009: you should see a doctor because if you try and stretch it, it could cause it to split and therefore it would be very sore and could get infected. maybe tell your dad? you can't ignore it. your parents used to change your diapers, they know what is ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 5 January 2009: the only thing you can do is go and see your doctor. dont be embarrassed or worried, they have seen it all before. you may be given the option of circumsision or some sort of procedure to get rid of the layer of skin. i'm no medical professional, so ... (read in full...)
Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?
Q. Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input ...
A. 5 January 2009: you are still a virgin because you have not had intercourse( when a penis enters your vagina)... (read in full...)
So did she have an orgasm?
Q. im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble ...
A. 5 January 2009: wait a mo, i'm abit distured by something....you went to the nursery room? is that like a feeding room for babies? and you fingered your girlfriend in there. ew! seriously that is so wrong. do it at home or somewhere where babies and small children ... (read in full...)
All my friends have done it but me and now I've met a guy who wants to take my virginity, should I do it or not?
Q. Hey i knw am under age n all... buh am just having second thoughts... all my friends have done it. there's this guy at skwel a little bit older than me and we only started talking on msn..( as friends) then he mentions tht he wants so bad.. 4...
A. 5 January 2009: don't lower yourself and have sex with this idiot of a guy. he obviously only wants sex, so he has no interest in you as a person. he just wants to be the one who can brag to his friends about taking your virginity.
wait untill you are older to... (read in full...)
I found porn on his PC, young girls about 14 years old and it's freaking me out.
Q. I should first mention that I have recently been pretty down, dealing with stress, sadness, and so forth. It is taking it's toll and making me suspicious and irritable. My boyfriend and I are in our twenties, and we have been dating for 3 years. On ...
A. 5 January 2009: i would double check about whether the girls are really a young age or if they are 18 and just look young. it is important to check if it is leagal.
i would not worry too much about it right now, maybe check in a few weeks and see if there is... (read in full...)
Too young to buy a dildo- Now what?
Q. i masturbate and watch porn, but i want a vibrator or dildo. the thing is, im only fourteen, and i dont think anywhere will sell them to me, or will they? ive looked at some online, but i cant buy them because it will be sent home which will be ...
A. 5 January 2009: try everyday objects. anything that is a similar shape to a toy. if not that something that vibrates like an electric toothbrush.just don't put it back in the toothbrush holder for someone else to come along.lol.
whatever you use make sure it ... (read in full...)
We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...
A. 5 January 2009: why do people not have good sex ed these days!
seriously! what is going on. you can't get pregnant from kissing, sperm does not come out of his mouth and you certainly don't have eggs in yours.
your periods are probably not regular because ... (read in full...)
How do you masturbate to make it feel good?
Q. How do u finger yourself to make it feel "good" i guess? xoxo *thanks* ...
A. 5 January 2009: what alot of guys don't realise is that we can't finger ourselves as well as what a guy can, simply because sometimes we can't reach in as deep as someone elses fingers. but i do believe that women need to learn more about finding how to orgasm ... (read in full...)
Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it
Q. Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...
A. 5 January 2009: nothing wrong with it. you were experimenting.
just make sure you use condoms on things like fruit and veg. you don't want to get an infection. ... (read in full...)
Do girls have female sperm
Q. im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls hav...
A. 5 January 2009: you must remember that porn movies are very unrealistic! not all girls have female ejaculation. we don't all gush with fluids.
i really think you need to brush up on your sex ed. for a 18-21 year old not to know about women having eggs and men havi... (read in full...)
Anonymous answers please about lots of ?? about penis!!
Q. Okay I know this is another Penis size question and that people are probably sick of it,but for men it's a huge insecurity. Answer anonymously if you please. 1)Would you ever breakup over a lovers size? 2)What do you consider small? 3)What do y...
A. 5 January 2009: 1) no, i'm not that shallow. plus the size don't matter. if a guy can't find your clit, then that matters!
2)no penis at all
3)anything that really hurts and won't go in all the way. we are not porn stars.
4)average.
5) 2nd ... (read in full...)
?? for females about sex
Q. i have some questions about the sexual feelings of a female. 1. do girls or women maturbate? 2. if yes,why?only for fun or getting sexual satisfaction too? 3. do they feel excited seeing a naked well built guy? 4. do they want to touc...
A. 5 January 2009: most women probably play with themseleves,not as much as men though. there is no number, that's like asking how many times a week do men play with themselves.
women like all different types of men, like men who like different women. some like bui... (read in full...)
Is my mum cheating? And my mum's boyfriend is a transvestite! What should I do?
Q. My mum has a boyfriend, who she has been with for about 4 years now. But, for about a year I have noticed that she has been on dating sites. Sometimes I'd go on the computer and see that she has the website up, and the chats so I can see what she's ...
A. 5 January 2009: you can't really do anything. your mums private life is non of your business. i know that sounds harsh, but you can't tell your mum how to run her life. you just have to stay out of it.... (read in full...)
Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?
Q. Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...
A. 4 January 2009: it may be that you just have not started puberty yet. if you are that worried talk to an older male in your family,dad,brother,etc. then get them to take you to the doctor for advise if it is that worrying to you.
i think it is just a hormone ... (read in full...)
My b/f is really clingy
Q. Hey,I have a boyfriend, OB, but the thing is he is really clingy and he calls and texts all the time. It sounds really stupid but I tried avoiding him for one day and he was really upset about it and told me if I have a problem about us then I ...
A. 4 January 2009: you should take his own advice and tell him that he is being too clingy and you need some space to be with your friends and that he should take sometime to be with his. if he cant be away from you for more then a day he has issues.
you are only youn... (read in full...)
I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.
Q. So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was ...
A. 4 January 2009: i would say it;s normal that a younger girl looks up to older guys. i think all young girls do that. but becareful, as there are alot of creeps and perverts around.... (read in full...)
I fancy my dermatologist... is she too old for me?
Q. Okay this is an add on to a earlier question I have asked! Once again I am an almost 18 year old virgin who hasn't kissed a girl. My Dermatologist who is also my regular doctor is quite beautiful. I know she is divorced and she has children. Sh...
A. 4 January 2009: yeah sorry to say this as well, but i doubt anything will happen.
she is a professional and if anything did happen then she could loose her med license. i doubt she would want that, as it probably took her years to get it. plus she has chil... (read in full...)
Why do women laugh when they cause you to have blue balls?
Q. Why do women laugh at you when you've got blue balls? Do they like to see you in pain or something? I really don't like girls at the moment.....
A. 4 January 2009: well i dont see why sexual teasing would be a turn on? teasing is only a turn on when you first meet a guy, not once you get him in the bedroom and get him eroused. it's a turn on to see a guy climax and cum. that way you know you have really ... (read in full...)
What can I do to feel something when he sucks on my nipples?
Q. the only time ican be alone with my bf is in the car...we are not public about our relationship because where ilive u r called names if uhave abf...so in order to be together we go to a different town, where i live weekdays because of uni. so my ...
A. 4 January 2009: i know what you mean. there is not that much feeling going on there. i think that's because when women breastfeed they dont want strange sensations, whether good or bad.
you can buy a tingle gel from some sex shops or even online stores, such as ... (read in full...)
Not sure what to do now?
Q. So i've a crush to a guy from another country .I meet him online.We talked till late at night everyday for like around a week.He did say he likes me in a joking way and after we talk and talk again,I said I like him and he said he likes me too.But ...
A. 4 January 2009: most people you meet on the web bullshit about alot. so don't jump into meeting him. plus he is from a different country, so what exactly can happen? do you really want to have a long distant relationship over a cam? sure it's nice to meet new ... (read in full...)
Why do women laugh when they cause you to have blue balls?
Q. Why do women laugh at you when you've got blue balls? Do they like to see you in pain or something? I really don't like girls at the moment.....
A. 4 January 2009: you just asked this question but with a different title?
i told you, it is probably because of their age. girls dont like to see guys in pain. when you say you get blue balls, what exactly were you doing to get so eroused? were you touching... (read in full...)
Great first date but very confused now
Q. here goes..i posted here a few days ago about a date i went on and got mixed signals from the girl..me and this girl went on somewhat of a blind date..we hit it off..the night i got home from the date she was texting me how i was an amazing guy and ...
A. 4 January 2009: hmm well maybe she was helping a friend move. or maybe she just was not as into you as you were into her. personally i would just tell the guy instead of getting his hopes up. so maybe you just need to text her again and ask if she wants to go on ... (read in full...)
How to make the first move?
Q. i want some advice...my bf and i are moving on in our relationship...but there is no sex, until we are married he knows it very well and wants me to be a virgin on our wedding night, where i live its very important to be a virgin, so for sure we ...
A. 4 January 2009: wait a mo. if you want to keep the sex at bay i suggest you dont do too much foreplay and def not oral. because like you said one thing always leads to the next.
but if you want to pleasure him, when you are both getting close and kissing just pla... (read in full...)
Tiny bumps inside of my vagina - normal?
Q. Hi well I'm worried something might b wrong I am a VIRGIN but I noticed that I have tiny bumps inside my vagina if u have any ideas what this could b or if its normal your advice would certainly b appreciated...
A. 4 January 2009: they are normal. dont panic. i think most girls have them. ... (read in full...)
Fetish for white socks
Q. I have a fetish for girls in socks, small white socks. Is there any possible reason for this? I'm quite perplexed myself because it just... happens, just getting turned on by girls in white socks....
A. 4 January 2009: i've never heard of this one before. but maybe it;s just like any fetish, you know shoes,stockings,etc. maybe you should look it up on the web. there is bound to be something. i may look myself now.lol
i dont know many girls who would wear whi... (read in full...)
Why do women sexually tease men?
Q. Why do women sexually tease men? They get you all riled up and expecting sex (intentionally) - but then deny any form of release - and provoke physical pain (referred to as blueballs). It hurts! So why do it?...
A. 4 January 2009: sounds to me like you have just come across girls who are not ready for a sexual relationship. looking at your age you seem really young.
women dont all sexually tease men. if a young girl is not ready for sex then she won't do anything sexu... (read in full...)
Scared my parents will leave me!
Q. please Help me... I've recently realized that Time passes by so quickly... and I'm scared that my parents will eventually leave me someday and i don't know what i'll do then... please help me......
A. 4 January 2009: when you say leave, do you mean die or pack up and leave?
everyone dies one day and sadly parents will die. but if they are healthy and happy then they could live till they are really old. death is just something that is certain in life and we a... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with this much older man?
Q. ok i dont no if i should be with my man. he is older and say he loves me. he told me that he wouldnt change a thing about me, and latly he has changed. before it was all dirty, but he is now calling beautiful and other things that r really sweet. a...
A. 4 January 2009: sweetie he sounds to me like he is grooming you. that's what pheadophiles do. they butter up their victim, make them feel nice and they eventually get what they want.
if you have sex with him, he is breaking the law and should be put on the sex ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with this much older man?
Q. ok i dont no if i should be with my man. he is older and say he loves me. he told me that he wouldnt change a thing about me, and latly he has changed. before it was all dirty, but he is now calling beautiful and other things that r really sweet. a...
A. 4 January 2009: sweetie he sounds to me like he is grooming you. that's what pheadophiles do. they butter up their victim, make them feel nice and they eventually get what they want.
if you have sex with him, he is breaking the law and should be put on the sex ... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD from myself? What harm can my own sperm do?
Q. I'm really really worried. Well, my friend said that jacking off is really addicting, so I tried it. When I did, sperm got out, and got onto my hands. I forgot to wash them. ( I just cleaned my hands with a piece of tissue ) Then I ate a bag of ...
A. 4 January 2009: you cant get an STD from yourself!
you can only get one from another person who is carrying that. of course cum would come out on to your hand. it wont just stay inside. just wipe/wash your hand after playing!
i suggest you research about S... (read in full...)
Normal for different guys to ejaculate differently?
Q. I have been going out with my boy friend for about a year. We are both in college. About two months ago we broke up for about a month and then got back together. During the breakup time I went out with another guy for a while and sometimes I ...
A. 4 January 2009: i think it has alot to do with their diet and health. i did hear that different foods and drinks can effect a guys cum. i can't say for sure if it is to do with being more turned on or not. one of the guys may answer that one. but i am sure diet is ... (read in full...)
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