How can I break my hymen, since using a dildo doesn't work?
Q. Hi, I'm a virgin, and I'd like to break my hymen myself, so I won't have to worry about the pain when I eventually have sex. The problem is, that I've tried inserting a dildo before, and was able to get it in, but there was no bleeding, and no pain. ...
A. 6 February 2009: or just wait untill you have sex.... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal? And are my friends really as big as they say?
Q. I'm 16 and have around a 3" penis when erect, is this normal? Also my "friends" say their like 6+ can this be true or are they just trying to show off?...
A. 6 February 2009: 5-6 inches is not what i call the norm, it's called average. theres no such thing as normal. some guys are small, some are average, some are big. whatever they have it does not matter. ... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?
Q. I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...
A. 6 February 2009: the whole finger thing is not true!when i was a virgin all those years ago,lol,a guy would beable to get 2 fingers inside me. sure it was tight but it was not uncomfortable. you dont get much out of a finger tip. ... (read in full...)
Any tips about 'domination' in the bedroom?
Q. Hi guys, I was just wondering about 'domination' in the bedroom. Me and my bf have a good sex life, but we're a relatively new couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. Seeing as it's valentines day soon, I wanted to experiment some sort...
A. 5 February 2009: well it's best to start of with a little soft core domination. as you don't know if you will like it yet, so don't go straight for the gimp masks.lol.
start of with the sub being blind folded and being told what to do, such as where to touch th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend raped me and he doesn't believe me...
Q. I'm not really sure what to do or say and if I should. Basically just before the new year my boyfriend, his cousin, and I went over to his best friends house for some fun time of dancing and drinking (just the four of us). After it got to being ...
A. 5 February 2009: did you report it to the police? remember it was not your fault! also an important part of recoverying from a rape is that the ones you love should believe you and support you through this. i'm sure your bf was shocked when you told him and he ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to wear my military uniform for her!
Q. hey Connor again lol. ive been talken to my gf more about valentines day and somits come up. she wants me to were my ACF uniform (Military Kit. she really likes puttin on outfits and all. that dont bother me one bit :D. but , and this sounds silly, ...
A. 5 February 2009: maybe take a photo of you in the uniform and add it into her card. then possibly buy a cheap fancy dress uniform and use that for in the bedroom. i agree that you don't want to get your uniform messed up. otherwise wear some combats, a vest top and ... (read in full...)
Someone is trying to blackmail me
Q. Hi I have some problems with someone blackmailing me online. He has threatened to post some pictures ( compromising ones) online if i do not do what he wants me to. I do not know what to do. I only know him online. I have no idea of his ph...
A. 5 February 2009: go to the police and report him. tell them everything! even about the things he is saying he will put on the internet. give them his name,address, number anything which will help and let them deal with him. he won't feel such a man when he is in ... (read in full...)
Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?
Q. i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...
A. 5 February 2009: it probably is a case of people learning to respect other's boundaries. i think kids need to be taught about respecting eachother, which could help men and women to respect eachother sexually when they are older. sure guys are hornier then girls, ... (read in full...)
I think the boy I like is disguising himself as a girl on msn to get to know me
Q. Hi, i liked this boy for ages and lately this person added me claiming to be a girl howevere i don't belive so, but the person keeps askin questions etc... and already has the answers to them, were i live, etc.. who i am etc...... but they claim ...
A. 5 February 2009: the answer is simple. stop giving your msn out to people you don;t even know. it could be a pervert! only add people you know!!!!!
there are too many perves and freaks out there and they are all looking to find gullabal, naive kids who will bel... (read in full...)
Sex with her is rather messy..is there a way to approach this with her?
Q. I have recently started seeing this great girl, the relationship is going well and the sex is great. However, there is one thing that I feel a little awkward talking to her about. She is fortunate in that she can orgasm very easily, literall...
A. 5 February 2009: a towel is the only thing you can do. i watched this documentary where loui theroux went to some american brothel and they put towels on the beds before sex, not a passion killer for those paying men. i know we can't really compare a brothel to your ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant... what happens if I have sex right now?
Q. Hi, i am 16 and well....prenant. I am a couple monthes in. I havent been to a doctor so i ahvent been able to ask but... Well, okay so the first time i lost my virginity was when i actually got pregnant. ironic, right? anyway, me and my boyfriend ...
A. 5 February 2009: not to mention your doctor will beable to give you a due date and tell you exactly how far you are. you say you are a couple of months, but are you that sure? it could be more or less. if you are a couple of months then you really need to start ... (read in full...)
I'm stressing out! Am I having an orgasm or not?
Q. Hey guys, This is kind of a personal question, and i wonder if anyone else has the same experiences or not. Since i was about twelve (five years ago) i have been rubbing my clitoris and believing that i have been making myself have an orgas...
A. 4 February 2009: i think you def have had orgasms. the women in alot of videos especially porn, are very dramatic when they "cum". it's not reality for most women. so ignore it. we dont all scream and shout with joy. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant... what happens if I have sex right now?
Q. Hi, i am 16 and well....prenant. I am a couple monthes in. I havent been to a doctor so i ahvent been able to ask but... Well, okay so the first time i lost my virginity was when i actually got pregnant. ironic, right? anyway, me and my boyfriend ...
A. 4 February 2009: just a question...why have you not been to see a doctor yet??????
you will need to tell your doctor as he/she will have to help you get signed into a neonatal clinic or something, where you will need regular blood pressure tests and a 16 week sca... (read in full...)
Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 4 February 2009: ok i don't think anyone should tell someone to get a divorce. that's not going to really help.
just make sure you take part in her weight loss. food shop together, cook together, take up an activity together. you will both be fit and healthy ... (read in full...)
Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?
Q. i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...
A. 4 February 2009: also i would like to say that the title for this question was actually re-phrased, so it makes it sound alot worse then it actually is.
the original was more like " why do young girls feel like they need to give up their virginity, even though t... (read in full...)
Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?
Q. i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...
A. 4 February 2009: excuse me but i never said i gave in to any guy! it just seems there are alot of young girls on this site who are all saying the same thing. " i'm a virgin and i'm not ready for sex, but i want to please my bf and have sex so he does not dump me" ... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal? And are my friends really as big as they say?
Q. I'm 16 and have around a 3" penis when erect, is this normal? Also my "friends" say their like 6+ can this be true or are they just trying to show off?...
A. 4 February 2009: yes you are normal and the reality is, is that your friends are probably talking crap. most girls dont want a huge penis anyway, it just hurts.
guys seem to have this thing, where they need to make out they have huge cocks so they can feel rea... (read in full...)
1st time sex and he had a glow on his face
Q. I am just wondering what is that "glow" on my boyfriends face when we had sex for the first time? I'm not sure if you understand what I mean, but I'm just curious what that means, his face just seemed bright and glowing....
A. 4 February 2009: sex leaves you feeling hot. so that adds to the red face. also blood pressure rises, that adds to the redness too. not to mention all the excitment and hormones. you probably had a red face too. ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to sleep with another man's wife?
Q. Is it o.k to sleep with another mans wife. I have a married wowan friend at work who has expressed a wish to sleep with me, she has given me details of her marriage woe's etc. I admit she is very attractive. My ex wife cheated on me with my best ...
A. 4 February 2009: NO IT IS NOT OK!... (read in full...)
I can't believe that today I cheated on my GF, what do I do now?
Q. i cheated. I cheated. I f***ing cheated! I feel like shit. I hate myself so f***ing much right now. I swore ide never cheat on my gf, I did today. I cheated on her with my ex, who cheated on me! my girlfriend has never done anything like that at ...
A. 4 February 2009: deal with what happens!
you need to be honest for a start, cause she will find out eventually. try being a man and tell her what happened. sure the outcome probably won't be good, but hey you deserve it! what do you expect for cheating on your ... (read in full...)
Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?
Q. i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...
A. 4 February 2009: well as a guy you obviously don;t know about how other guys can make a girl feel when they pressure her into having sex. it's not an immature comment, it's a sad fact, that there are young girls, such as 14 who are not ready for sex, but their ... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?
Q. I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...
A. 4 February 2009: to be honest, why does it matter if she is a virgin or not? her past relationships don't really have anything to do with you. ok so it may have been your best friend, but it was in the past! like i said why does it matter!?!... (read in full...)
How can I break my hymen, since using a dildo doesn't work?
Q. Hi, I'm a virgin, and I'd like to break my hymen myself, so I won't have to worry about the pain when I eventually have sex. The problem is, that I've tried inserting a dildo before, and was able to get it in, but there was no bleeding, and no pain. ...
A. 4 February 2009: you will still probably feel alittle pain or discomfort when you first have sex. there's no escaping that. it's just all to do with his penis stretching your vagina. it's just natural and you just have to relax and maybe use some extra lube.... (read in full...)
Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?
Q. Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I...
A. 3 February 2009: also if you knew she was only 13-15 why talk to her? she is still under the age of consent and in most people's eyes is still classed a young teen or even a child. stop talking to her!... (read in full...)
Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?
Q. Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I...
A. 3 February 2009: i just re-read your post...i'm sorry you have not even seen a photo of her yet!!!!!!!
how can you be in a relationship with someone who you have not even seen!
really get over her and find someone who is 100% real. for all you know she could b... (read in full...)
Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?
Q. Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I...
A. 3 February 2009: no offence but you are not really in a proper relationship with her. you live 100 of miles away, you probably have never even seen her. if she sent you photos they could be fakes, it's easy to do on the net. also do you really consider a ... (read in full...)
Lose my v-card to him?
Q. So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 2 days. only 2 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he ...
A. 3 February 2009: if all he wants is sex, then what more do you expect from him? he won;t want anything more.
also if you don't want sex...DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM! you will regret it. i just asked a question about this actually, about young girls feeling pressure... (read in full...)
Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?
Q. i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...
A. 3 February 2009: that still does not explain why guys just won't wait for these poor girls. instead they just get nagging them and make up stupid things like...my friends say i should dump you,etc.
as for the "not as strong as me" comment it took alot for me t... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...
A. 3 February 2009: glad it turned out to be good. ... (read in full...)
Non-experienced girlfriend with master of experience boyfriend.
Q. I'm a 15 year old virgin with ZERO experience in the sex department and my boyfriend seems to be a FREAK in that department. He's 18 but you see I wanna be able to fufil his sexual desires but I'm a virgin and I dunno if I wanna lose it yet. Yet I ...
A. 3 February 2009: don't have sex with him just to "fufill his needs"
your first time is about you, not him. if you are not ready for sex then DONT HAVE SEX!
also your first time will be painful and probably uncomfortable, so you won't be thinking about h... (read in full...)
Why does our country (UK) come to a standstill when it snows when other countries manage to keep going with transport etc?
Q. Why can't the UK get it's self together and provide snow ploughs and more gritting lorries when it snows, instead of just giving a weather warning out and having drivers crash? Why does the country have to come to a standstill? They want us to use ...
A. 3 February 2009: emilysanswers i'm not asking for snow to be banned. that's just stupid! i'm just saying no one can prepare for bad weather in this country. do you drive? if not then you won't understand what it is like to slide around the road and have cars coming ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps pushing for sex and I don't feel ready!
Q. My boyfriend keeps pushing the issue on 'Sex' And I'm not ready. He tries and tries again, but his efforts are useless. We've gone as far as very passionate kissing and touching, rubbing that kinda thing. I'm not a tease but he initiates all this ...
A. 3 February 2009: just tell him he needs to wait! if he does not like it, he can get lost.
i was in a similar situation when i was younger. i was not ready for sex, think i was 17 at the time. so anyway my bf at the time kept going on and on and on about having s... (read in full...)
Why do I keep thinking of cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. Dear cupid. I'm thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. I do love him and we have a baby together and there is a guy totally hot for me and we kissed today, and the thoughts I have about him are wild. And I can't get this feeling out my head that ...
A. 3 February 2009: i'm sorry but i don't agree that it's the "modern way" what a load of bullshit! that's just the excuse that cheating scum bags use to make themselves feel better about the situation they have created.
either break it off with your bf or forget t... (read in full...)
I'm seriously considering getting a hysterectomy...
Q. I have a question that may offend some people, for which I'm sorry, I just feel like I can't ask anyone I know, because they'll judge me. I'm a 16 year old female, and started my periods when I was 12. Every month, I get such extreme stomach ...
A. 3 February 2009: babe they won't just take away your uterus because of bad period pains. they only do that if there is a major medical problem. ok your periods may be really awful, but there are other things you can do, such as go on the pill.
you may not want kid... (read in full...)
Why does our country (UK) come to a standstill when it snows when other countries manage to keep going with transport etc?
Q. Why can't the UK get it's self together and provide snow ploughs and more gritting lorries when it snows, instead of just giving a weather warning out and having drivers crash? Why does the country have to come to a standstill? They want us to use ...
A. 3 February 2009: there is nothing wrong with a day off and snow! just the fact nothing is ever made safe, such as the roads! bout time they sorted it out rather then just um and ar about it and go on and on about the snow and "dangerous road conditions" on the news. ... (read in full...)
Why do gay men like to talk about sex in public? Is this in fact true?
Q. Why do gay men make point of talking about sex in public like in a graphic way . I don't know of any of my straight friends that need to fulfill such a urge. Are they just exhibitional, is this part of being gay? I find it kind of degrades them an...
A. 3 February 2009: you're telling me that straight guys don't talk about sex in public!?! please, i've come across far too many straight guys who like to talk about sex in graphic detail while in public. i think it's a man thing, rather then a gay thing.
... (read in full...)
Are his questions healthy?
Q. Is it healthy for a boyfriend to ask his girlfriend about her past in such details so as to know (for example) how large another man was, how he made her reach orgasm, how strong the orgasms were with other men, or how long they would go down on her ...
A. 3 February 2009: he sounds insecure. i used to date a guy who was similar, but instead of always asking about the ex, he would always want me to compare him and the ex. however i refused and i got so sick of it i ditched him. you need to tell him it is bothering you ... (read in full...)
Any way of being 'less tight' during first time sex?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a while now and am seriously considering having sex with him in the not too distant future. I'm a virgin and he's not, one of my main concerns is the pain I might experience as well as the fact that I don't think ...
A. 3 February 2009: no.
you just have to relax and take it slow. ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep thinking of cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. Dear cupid. I'm thinking about cheating on my boyfriend. I do love him and we have a baby together and there is a guy totally hot for me and we kissed today, and the thoughts I have about him are wild. And I can't get this feeling out my head that ...
A. 3 February 2009: how can you say you love your bf yet you want to go off with someother guy? that's mental.
you need to decide who you want, you can't do that to someone, it's awful! think about how he would feel if he found out, and usually people do find out... (read in full...)
I like to watch gay porn
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?...
A. 3 February 2009: sure people get addicted to porn,kinda sad. but by watching the odd bit of gay porn does not mean you have to stand up in a room and say hi my name is blah blah...
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I like to watch gay porn
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?...
A. 2 February 2009: i don't think she is addicted to porn. she just likes to watch abit of gay porn. there is nothing wrong in that. it's normal. ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my age... how can I tell him the truth?
Q. I lied to my boyfriend about my age. When we first met I was 18 (and he was 27) but I told him that I was 19. It wasn't a huge deal because it was only 1 year but now I'm about to turn 20 and he thinks I'm going to be 21. Going out to bars and clubs ...
A. 1 February 2009: why did you lie in the first place?
when he finds out he will be thinking what else has she been lying about. there's no trust there, one lie always leads to another. sorry to say this but you should of just been straight with him from the star... (read in full...)
Lack of trust...
Q. If your wife doesn't give you her my space/page address do you think that is wrong or what?...
A. 1 February 2009: it's not wrong at all. just because she is your wife, does not mean you own her and have to know all of her business. alot of women have secretes that a man will never find out. she should have her own email,my space,friends,money,etc. you shouldn't ... (read in full...)
Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 1 February 2009: i can't believe what Leonardo said! that if she does not loose weight then she is not a good wife. how fudging backward and stupid is that! what is wrong with some men? sorry but that reply made me so angry, i feel sorry for any woman who goes with ... (read in full...)
I like to watch gay porn
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?...
A. 1 February 2009: i must admitt i like watching gay porn. i don't think it's because of the male on male action, it's because gay porn actors have really hot bodies! you don't find many good looking guys in normal porn, as it's all about the girls. so i'd say you are ... (read in full...)
Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 1 February 2009: you're forgetting one important thing....how do you think it is making her feel?
when a woman puts on a little weight she starts to feel unconfident and unsexy. with you not wanting sex with her, probably is not helping her feel good about he... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...
A. 30 January 2009: if you don't want to have sex during your period, just tell him and ask him to wait a few days. if he says something like "your not really on your period" or whatever ask him to stick his hand down and find out. that always works, because the guy ... (read in full...)
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