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Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   8 February 2009: maybe you need something to take your mind off this crush. after all nothing can happen and i think you know that. maybe you should take up some sort of hobby or join a club and meet guys your own age. i'm sure there is some cute guy out there for ... (read in full...)

Normal for different guys to ejaculate differently?

Q.   I have been going out with my boy friend for about a year. We are both in college. About two months ago we broke up for about a month and then got back together. During the breakup time I went out with another guy for a while and sometimes I ...

A.   4 January 2009: i think it has alot to do with their diet and health. i did hear that different foods and drinks can effect a guys cum. i can't say for sure if it is to do with being more turned on or not. one of the guys may answer that one. but i am sure diet is ... (read in full...)

Horny! Advertise for sex?

Q.   Every month just before I get my period I fel really horny and desperate for sex. I'm single though I'd like to be in a relationship and I don't sleep around. I know that I could give myself pleasure, vibrators etc but what I really want is the real ...

A.   4 January 2009: i am the same, i get really up for it before my period. must be a hormone thing. but anyway dont lower yourself to advertising for sex! you might as well call yourself a hooker if you do that. knowone would have respect for you if you do that. you'd ... (read in full...)

Fallen for a teacher...

Q.   I guess that as soon as you read the title you’ll think I’m some stupid little girl with a crush on her teacher and perhaps I am - it doesn’t feel like just a crush. It feels like so much more than that but I don’t use the word ‘love’ lightly. I ...

A.   4 January 2009: well all i can say it that at the end of the day you are a student and he is a teacher. it is wrong for him to cross the boundary and have a relationship with a student. he would loose his job and probably would not beable to teach again. all you ... (read in full...)

I need help from the girls!

Q.   Hey this question is short and to the point for girls... why do you guys wear the kind of underwear you do??? I'm wondering because my girlfriend is really plain with her underwear so I don't know how I can change that or even if I can!...

A.   3 January 2009: i think it depends on how sexual a girl is and what her personality is like. i like to wear sexy undies when i am out or with a guy, but when i am at home on my own i wear the comfort stuff. when i wear a posh dress and know i am not going to be ... (read in full...)

How can I make my boobs bigger???

Q.   How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 ...

A.   3 January 2009: you are only 13. you are still growing. don't panic! your boobs will develope and get bigger. they will still develope untill you are in your late teens and possibly early 20's. you are at the start of puberty, things dont happen over night. you ... (read in full...)

14 dating a 23 year old with kids

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting ...

A.   2 January 2009: here is a sentence that i will say, which sums up what is wrong with this.... he is 23, you are 14 (minor/illegal), he could go to jail for rape. i think you should stop dating him. not only because it is illegal and also because he has k... (read in full...)

Mixed signals after first date

Q.   ok here goes..went out on somewhat of a blind date that was set up by a mutal friend..it wasn't so much blind b/c we exchanged pics and there was a mutal attraction. the date went great..we laughed and really hit it off..when i got home, she texted ...

A.   2 January 2009: don't panic! it just sounds like she is playing it cool and not making herself look desperate. it's kinda like what some guys do, one min they are always texting and calling and another min they just stop for a few days. whatever you do don't pe... (read in full...)

Too much hair!

Q.   well here goes this is inbarassing but oh well im 14 and have alot of hair down below every time i shave it , it grows back evan more i hate it i cant evan go swimming i havnt been in ages and i just want to get rid of it all completely please h...

A.   2 January 2009: ok the best thing you can do is go to a beauty salon or tanning salon and you will find the offer various waxing. for you as you are so young, i would only say to get the bikini wax done. it will sort out your embarrassing issues at swimming. it is ... (read in full...)

If a guy was just trying to "score a virgin"... would he...?

Q.   This question is more for the guys (lol) (this is a girl that is asking tho) If a guy was just trying to 'Score a virgin', get a 'v-card' or whatever - not nice but there are guys like that!!! lol 1. Would you still keep the girl around ? ...

A.   2 January 2009: guys are assholes! of course not all men are like this, well actually i wouldn't put it past them. all you can do is maybe look out for the signs that he is using you or going to use you. like he will talk about sex all the time, find out abo... (read in full...)

I like having my butt rubbed..weird?

Q.   i really enjoy it when my wife rubs my butt hole through my undies, and only through undies...is this normal 4 a 22 y.o male??? ...

A.   1 January 2009: well a guys Gspot is up his butt. so it is obviously a sensitive area. most guys love a bit of butt attention, but just dont like to admitt it. it does not make you gay if you like your girl to touch your butt. enjoy!... (read in full...)

I want to wear a thong

Q.   i really want to try wearing a thong...im 22 year guy and as far as my friends go only girls wear them...im worried it wont be comfy also im not always clean down there, would this be unhealthy also do they get that smelly and what if u fart?...

A.   1 January 2009: i'm sorry...what do you mean you are not always clean down there? that is disgusting! whether you wear a thong or not you should always be clean! no girl wants her guy to be dirty down below, not to mention you would get a buildup of smegma and as f... (read in full...)

Do I fake it or tell him the truth?

Q.   if my partner isnt good in the sack do i fake an orgasm or just tell him?...

A.   1 January 2009: nither. you should never tell a guy he is crap in the sack! it would ruin his confidence. you should never fake either, because then he will always think that he really gets you going and the crap sex will continue. what you should do is whe... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and want to have sex with my 14 year old cousin

Q.   Hi i am 15, and I have these really deep feelings for my 14 year cousin who i badly wanna have sex with, i did it with her once when i went to her place out of town for a week, and it was great, and it brought us closer, she didn't resist, but we ...

A.   1 January 2009: NO NO NO NO NO! what is with young kids wanting to jump in bed with eachother. whether she is related or not you can't do that. it would cause so many problems in the family. you may not be blood related, but you are still related! you're still fa... (read in full...)

I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!

Q.   Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least ...

A.   1 January 2009: the problem is hun you are obviously being too protective and too clingy. girls don't want a bodyguard, they want a bf to hang out with and have fun with. not someone who will follow them around and protect them to the end of the earth. espe... (read in full...)

He perves at young girls and looks at porn, am I overreacting here?

Q.   I found out that my 32 year old husband looks at porn online. Mostly just pictures of naked women and women with lingerie on. This doesnt bother me too much BUT I recentely discovered he has been looking at young teens. Now I am only 30 and am g...

A.   1 January 2009: i dont think it is uncommon. i have come across alot of older guys who like to look at younger women. if the girls are all 18 and the sites are legal, then don't worry too much. but i would still maybe talk to him about it. i think some older gu... (read in full...)

Can I get some detailed thoughts on what I should do and why?

Q.   I am 16 and I am a virgin, I just recently got a really nice girl who happens to be 14. Whenever I look at this I think I am a wierdo, but in all actuality I really just want a good relationship and I think she can provide it. So we were talking ...

A.   1 January 2009: don't have sex with her! you would be breaking the law and if her parents found out, i'm sure they would report you! if you really like her then just stick to dates and hanging out. why do young teens always want to jump into bed. i doubt sh... (read in full...)

How can I make it better re sex?

Q.   Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...

A.   1 January 2009: i have a little tip. carry on with his penis between your breasts. let him thrust it a little bit, you squeeze your breasts together to make it tighter for him, then if you can reach lick and suck the top of his penis as he rubs between your ... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   1 January 2009: yeah he could ignore our advice, go have sex and become a father or get an STD. then he will come back on here with a question like "i'm 13 and i am a father with HIV,help" then i will just say i told you so you stupid little idiot. there... (read in full...)

Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

Q.   My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick ...

A.   31 December 2008: it should be fine and it sounds normal. unless of course you notice a smell or you have any pain. thats when you need to go to the doctor.... (read in full...)

Has anyone stayed with a guy who finds sex painful?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have not had sex and I can count on one hand the number of times I have had success in giving him a hand job. When I try to give him oral sex he prefers me to just use my hand. I find that ...

A.   30 December 2008: are you sure that he is not a virgin? maybe it;s a confidence thing, nervous of sex? tight foreskins can cause problems. also maybe his past sexual partner (if he had sex) did not get wet enough, so it could have caused friction and been painful ... (read in full...)

Missed pills... can she be pregnant???

Q.   My girlfriend has been on the pill for 2 years. Two weekends ago we went on vacation and she forgot her pills, so she didn't take them for 3 days. During those 3 days we didn't use condoms but I tried my best to pull out before ejaculating (a ...

A.   30 December 2008: there is a possibility. best do a test. what i dont understand is that you both knew she didn't have her pills, but you still didn't use a condom?!? that's crazy! pulling out does not mean that she cant get pregnant. do you know that on the tip ... (read in full...)

I'm not ready to talk sex yet!

Q.   I am 23 and have just started University. On my course and around University campus, I have met a few guys who seem friendly. We became friends and I decided to hang out with them but they seem to only want to be in contact with me because they ...

A.   30 December 2008: if they only want to have sex with you, then they are not going to be interested in you after the sex. they are obviously trying to butter you up so they can use you and get what they want. you need to make it very clear to them that they have no ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and fancy an 11 year old!

Q.   My question is . . . I am 15 years old and there is this young girl who is 11 years old, she fancies me. I think she is really attractive! Her mum is also my mums friend. I want to get with her but im afraid she will tell her mum then it will be ...

A.   30 December 2008: hun when she is 16 you will probably be with someone else. you can't wait around for her, she will probably be into someone else anyway. just forget about her and move on with someone your own age. you know when you quoted that she was in year 7 and ... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   30 December 2008: well if you are not going to listen to any advice on here, then why did you bother asking the question? it just shows that you are too immature to be having sex as you obviously dont care about the consquences.... (read in full...)

Shaving pubic area

Q.   Ok well im only thirteen and like any young girl i have pubic hair. Many girls in my school have attempted to shave their pubic hair and naturally it itches and whatnot. I was curious as to if there was any way you could get rid of your pubic hair ...

A.   29 December 2008: yeah waxing is best. but why on earth would a 13 year old girl want to shave all the pubic hair off? that just seems a little disturbing.... (read in full...)

First timer... Does it really hurt?

Q.   So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...

A.   29 December 2008: oh please! first time sex for girls hurts because of the hymen being broken and the vaginal opening being stretched. it has nothing to do with whether the guy has a big penis or small one!!!!!!!!! what a stupid thing to say. typical boy! so yes it w... (read in full...)

Playing with each other in school

Q.   Hi I do alot with my girlfriend, im 15 and i finger my girlfriend under the desk at school, she has never said anything about it she just flows with it, sometimes she wanks me in class too, is this ok? should i be worried about being caught? O...

A.   29 December 2008: stop with the classroom fondling. if you got caught you would be in serious trouble. leave the fondling for after school.... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and fancy an 11 year old!

Q.   My question is . . . I am 15 years old and there is this young girl who is 11 years old, she fancies me. I think she is really attractive! Her mum is also my mums friend. I want to get with her but im afraid she will tell her mum then it will be ...

A.   29 December 2008: leave her alone. she is way too young to even think about a boyfriend. gosh when i was her age i was still riding my bike and playing with barbies. you need to stick to girls your own age! after all you will be classed as a legal sexual person when ... (read in full...)

Have sex? Or wait?

Q.   Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...

A.   29 December 2008: wait wait wait you are only 15. i dont think at 15 you are emotionally ready for sex. it can bring alot of problems. also would you feel ready and responsible for a baby? as lets face it contraception is not 100% safe. so if you are going to have ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   29 December 2008: well hope it helps you out.... (read in full...)

My mum doesn't like my boyfriend... what can I do?

Q.   I have a boyfriend and we love each other very much. I didn't let my parents know about him, but a week ago, my mom saw our picture on his website and now she told me not to date him any more because she doesn't like his appearance, and he is not ...

A.   28 December 2008: surly they have another reason for not liking him? it would be very shallow of them to not like him just because of his income and looks. i think you need to talk to them and just say that you are now an adult and who you date is up to you, not them... (read in full...)

I feel romantically attracted to my dog!!!

Q.   I have been having some very strange feelings about my beautiful Dobermann Pincher named Shelly. I have owned her for aout 6 years and she has been a wonderful, loving and loyal pet. It just feels like more than that lately. I don't have many ...

A.   28 December 2008: ok step away from the dog. you need to basically build yourself a social life. you need to just get out and meet people. join a club or something, where you can meet people who have the same interests as you. you are only looking towards your dog ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a guy in his thirties to have wet dreams?

Q.   Is it normal for a guy in his 30's to still have wet dreams? I get them almost every night, and since I don't have a clothes washer I cannot keep changing sheets. What do I do? I am feeling very uneasy and worried about this. Thank you in advance....

A.   28 December 2008: i have heard of guys who still have wet dreams in their 20's. maybe you should talk to a doctor or call a sexual healthline? ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   28 December 2008: it's not insulting advice at all. believe me. you just need to let it go like any crush. you go through the stages of being all loved up and then it just slowly goes, unless of course you get with the person. but just let it pass and you will feel ... (read in full...)

I've lied about having orgasm

Q.   hi. i know this is of my own making but ive lied to every boyfriend ive ever had (2) about orgasming. i make noises and they thik im having a great time. i do this really because it makes the experience more sexy for me, but i know its totally ...

A.   27 December 2008: making noises during sex is fine, they love it and if it helps you to enjoy it then do it. i think people need to be more vocal during sex. as for the faking, it's only you who is missing out. you need to maybe teach your guy what you like. us... (read in full...)

He's playing hard to get what do I do?

Q.   SO ive been in love with this kid right we went out and really fell in love then i broke up with him for no reason and he got a girlfriend and like we text each once in a while but he is so serious..i am going to hang out with him maybe ...

A.   27 December 2008: this works like a charm. play him at his own game. ignore him for abit, he will then start to wonder what has gone wrong with his playing hard to get and will be running after you in no time.... (read in full...)

Bi friend/having sex with her?

Q.   ok i have this friend she is bi, and i think she likes me! i have caught her looking at my boobs. the thing that scares me is that she tells me her parents are going to a hotel some where and leaving her home by herself and she asks me to stay the ...

A.   27 December 2008: just because she is bi does not mean that she fancies you. you are her friend, so you should beable to feel comfortable with her and i'm sure she won't hit on you. ... (read in full...)

Why can't I get a guy?

Q.   I am 27, I have never had a boyfriend. I have never kissed a guy, much less had sex. I am fat and ugly, I know that. I am shy but really sweet. I have seen so many fat/ugly chicks with hot guys....I am just wondering, why I can't get a bf. I want a ...

A.   27 December 2008: it's probably due to the fact you have a low confidence. guys like girls to have confidence. if you see yourself as ugly and fat then you will walk around looking depressed. if you learn to love yourself then it will show. you just need more ... (read in full...)

Helping to find it in the dark?!

Q.   My wife has a rather small clitoris and lately,I have found difficulty locating it with my finger. This occasionally annoys her as we have been married 21 years and this started only about 3 months ago. We always make love in the dark.(Her idea). ...

A.   27 December 2008: just run your finger up to the top of the slit in her vaginal lips (vulva) and then rub around the top of that area. it's nice to have the sides of the clit rubbed as well as the clit. so make circles around the top of there and as she gets more ... (read in full...)

What do these terms actually mean?

Q.   Just, can someone give me the definitions to these terms. been felt up/ been fingered: given handjob, blowjob, eaten out. oral sex, cybersex, any other types of sex besides the "regular" Im pretttyy sure i know what the first one is...

A.   27 December 2008: is this for real? how have you not heard of these simple terms? you are between 18-21! oh well. being felt up means someone has touched you in a private area. being fingered, is as simple as it sounds...someone has fingered your vagina. tha... (read in full...)

Having trouble with erections

Q.   hi, im 25yrs old boy,from the age of 18 yrs i used to press my penis r testis for ejaction of sperm,but one day my penis loose erection power.now when ever i watch sex scene my penis will not erect what is my problem it is Erectile dysfunction r ...

A.   27 December 2008: it could be either mental or physical. you could be worrying about it so much that you are simply stopping yourself from feeling relaxed and turned on, so therefore you are not getting an erection. it could be a physical thing, i'm not a doct... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   26 December 2008: i know how it feels because i once had a teenage crush on a teacher. of course nothing happened because i realised that nothing ever could happen. the reason i said that you were immature was because you are too young to realise that nothing can ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   26 December 2008: you are obviously immature. another reason why nothing will happen. get over it and grow up!... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   26 December 2008: just because you like to jerk off alot, does not mean that you are ready for sex and most girls your age are def not ready for sex. you are still a child and under the age of consent.think about why these laws are inplace and then you may see that ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   24 December 2008: i'll say what i said before...you need to get over it. and trust me when you are older you will look back and see that it was not love, it was lust. you are too young to understand what i mean. but for now just forget about him and move on. it may ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   22 December 2008: leave him alone! if you tried anything or anything happened you would be expelled and he would loose his job, go to jail and never be allowed to teach. it's simple realise that it is just a silly schoolgirl crush and that you will get over it... (read in full...)

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