I am scared of sex!!!!!
Q. I am actually 13 and one of my friends has been having sex (or so she says she does) and I was thinking maybe I should but I'm scared and my parents are overprotective -- not toooo much but I want to, now will I be a virgin forever if I'm scared to ...
A. 18 October 2008: please do not go and have sex! 13 is far too young and if your friend is having sex at that age then she is being really silly. at that age you can not handle the emotions involved with a sexual relationship. stick to going on dates with boys if you ... (read in full...)
Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!
Q. my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...
A. 17 October 2008: I'm sorry to say but I am with your mum on this one. You should ask yourself what does a 30 year old guy want with a 16 year old!?! sorry honey but it just sounds creepy and he is obviously only after one thing. at 16 you won't really see this in ... (read in full...)
I'm very worried that. if it comes out only by holding it, then how do I have sex?
Q. Halo, Hope i'll get my answer here, I'm 22, and i never had any girl friends before aged 21, but my problem is, she's only just held my penis 2 times, first time it was just for 15 to 30 sec and second time, close to 1 min. just she holds it and ...
A. 17 October 2008: if it is a little bit then it's pre-cum. it;s it full on, then i suggest you go slowly with the foreplay, don't let her grab your penis straight away. take it slow and try not to get yourself too excited.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend checks out nude guys in the Internet prior to sex, then dresses in uniform for me. Odd! Is he gay or bi?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and our life together has been pretty much good. It's our sex life that's become an issue, however. For the past six weeks my boyfriend's refused to have sex with me until he's seen enough Brad Pitt, Johnn...
A. 17 October 2008: it could be either that he is gay or he could be insecure and wants to be more like these typical "hunks" such as movie stars and men in uniform. it;s also a power thing, being famous and having a uniform. ... (read in full...)
Sometimes when we're kissing he has his eyes closed, which is very odd to me.
Q. I've been dating a guy for about four months now and I really care about him a lot. He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him. He's eleven years older than me but I don't think that really matters. I love him. I do have a concern though. ...
A. 17 October 2008: eyes closed when kissing is normal. having them open would make me go cross eyed and it;s not very sexy going cross eyed and noticing every little dimple on his face. most people close their eyes when having a full on kiss. if it;s just a little ... (read in full...)
Why do I black out when having an orgasm?
Q. I'm sure I'm not the only one but I swear I haven't seen this on this site...and i need help so here we go... Recently me and my boyfriend have "got close" and on quite a few of these occassions when it has come to orgasm i have blacked out/ fai...
A. 17 October 2008: yeah i heard it's an all over extreme body orgasm. he must be a good lover! but i would still go and see your doctor, just incase it is medical. otherwise if it's not and u r not enjoying it, maybe when u get nearer to cumming u should ask him to ... (read in full...)
Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?
Q. My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ...
A. 15 October 2008: Don't ever do anything you don't want to do. Plus you say he likes it when it hurts you! That's awful, he should have more respect for you. You need to tell him you do not like it and do not want to do it any more unless it is pleasurable for you. ... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed about posting this, but I seriously need the help.
Q. Well its quite embarrassing, but Ive only just turned 14 and i have a spot on my testicles that always itches. Its always in the same spot though, its strange and i dont want any of my family to know. But the craziest part is I've never ever had ...
A. 15 October 2008: My advice is to either call a health line or simply go and see your doctor. It's probably nothing, but you won't put your mind at ease unless you sort it out. If your doctor is a woman and you don't feel comfortable then ask for a male doctor to see ... (read in full...)
We're 20 year old virgins, who want to keep trying to have sex. Any tips on how we can relax?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years and we have talked about having sex for a while, last time we tried it hurt me a lot and we haven't tried since. We're both virgins BTW. we are planning to have a weekend alone no room mates, no ...
A. 15 October 2008: You have the right idea. Maybe have a nice dinner then after a nice bath together with candles and lots of bubbles. This really sets the mood but make sure when you are in the bath you don't touch your sexual zones (vagina, penis, breasts,etc) let ... (read in full...)
When will I find another serious boyfriend? I miss loving and being loved.
Q. so my last serious bf was over a year ago.. I've met a few guys since then but I don't feel like I felt when I met my ex.. I want another serious relationship and it sounds corny but I miss loving someone and I miss the love from a bf. when the hell ...
A. 15 October 2008: Wow you sound like me. Don't worry though, I thought the same after my last ex. Just don't go looking for that someone special, just let him find you. Mr right shall appear eventually, I can't say when or where, but just wait....... (read in full...)
I fell down the stairs at school... AND HE CAUGHT ME!!!
Q. Hey everyone it's me again and my problems are growing rapidly. Today I told one of my best friends that I was gay and she said that's cool. I also told her about the guy I liked and she said he's cute and I should make a move. Should I? Again I'm ...
A. 15 October 2008: Sounds like a little romance movie. Before you make any sort of move on him you need to find out if he is gay or straight. As you don't want to get hurt. If he gives off the right vibes to you then sure go for it. What's the worst that could happen, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks it's nasty if I "go down" on her.
Q. Well me and my girlfriend have been talking about oral sex lately and she says wants to give me a blowjob but thinks it's nasty if I go down on her therefore she won't let me. Is there anything wrong there or anything I should be worried about??...
A. 15 October 2008: Wait a minute,... she wants to give you a blow job but she does not want to recieve!?! She has obviously not experienced the pleasure of getting oral sex before, a lot of women find it more pleasing then penetrative sex. There's nothing for you to ... (read in full...)
How do I make her have sex with me again?
Q. I am a 19 year old man and have been dating an 18 years woman since April 2007. We had sex once in November 2007 and now that we are in a long distance relationship I called her yersterday and she told me that she is not prepared to have sex with ...
A. 15 October 2008: you can't "make her have sex with you" if she wants to have sex with u she will. but she obviously has a reason for not wanting to. maybe she has had bad experiences in the past or is worried about std's, pregnancy,etc. it;s abit odd that she wants ... (read in full...)
My ex is telling everyone about our sex life and it's making me feel cheap.
Q. Hi I'm 15 and my ex boyfriend has started telling people about our sex life. He is also 2 years older than me and told people in my school. It's making me feel cheap and disgusting and I don't know what to do :( ...
A. 15 October 2008: this calls for a little revenge. Ask him why he is doing it and ask him not to, if he does not stop then u need to start telling people some little porky's about him, such as he is no good in the bedroom or has a little penis. of course this is very ... (read in full...)
What can I say to make her feel comfortable enough to send me some sexy pictures?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we don't live together and we are like two peas in a pod. We are greatly in love and have everything in common. Now the problem... Recently I was forced to go on a business trip in ...
A. 15 October 2008: it's because guys usually show their friends these pics or they end up in the wrong hand. just take no as no. or like i said before take pictures of u and her together at some point, that way it's not such a pressure on her.... (read in full...)
She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...
Q. Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 month...
A. 15 October 2008: well you do sound like a great guy and like i said before you obviously love her. but u have to ask yourself could u live without sex?
like i said the best thing to do is just talk to her, men need to talk about these things more with us girl... (read in full...)
Will the first time hurt?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for the first time, since im a virgin im scared to know whether i will bleed or it will hurt as ive heard from my friends, im totally ready for sex just have my worries that it will hurt, does your ...
A. 14 October 2008: lol that male reader made me laugh. "may go unconcious" what a load of rubbish. yes it will probably hurt and you may bleed a little after, but it's not even the same amount as a period. so don't panic if u do bleed. i did and at first i thought ... (read in full...)
Am I gay, or is this just my hormones at the age of 17?
Q. Ok, I am 17. I dont have anything against being gay but i definitely dont want to be gay. I can masturbate to both gay porn and straight porn. It is easier for me to orgasm with gay, but i still get erections looking at straight porn videos. Am i g...
A. 14 October 2008: just because you watch straight and gay porn does not make u gay. ask yourself what the reality would be like for u? for instance i find myself sometimes looking at lesbians on tv programmes and thinking wow thats sexy, but the thought of actually ... (read in full...)
I cannot seem to stop watchin porn! Please help
Q. I have been watching porn sine 6 years and when i am trying to come out of it i am not able to do so. Every time i think of not watching it , but again i watch it. really i terribly feel bad.Need your help badly....
A. 14 October 2008: as for the abused girls comment from someone, you do realise that most of those girls and guys do it because it pays them aload of money. anyway if a guy wants to watch porn then why shouldn't he? men are visual unlike us ladies, they need to see ... (read in full...)
How many women out there enjoy sex as much as their mates do?
Q. Last week my girlfriend was told by her doctor that she needed to wait at least a week before having sex again. This was the first time since we started dating that we've gone more than a three days without it. The funny thing is, I think she had ...
A. 14 October 2008: it depends on how good your partner is at pleasuring you. some men just don't make sex comfortable and it can sometimes hurt, so women are therefore put off as it either hurts or their partner just simply can't find her clit or does not know how to ... (read in full...)
Should I just give up and accept the fact that him 'going down' on me just isn't going to happen?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now, but I have known him since we were in Junior High. We were high school sweethearts that just barely realized it. We started having sex about 1 week into the relationship but only because we ...
A. 14 October 2008: that answer is spot on. i think us girls learn that if we give then don't recieve, then we don't give at all. with a bit of age i have realised that we should never give before we get, always get before u give. lol. after all now that he has had a ... (read in full...)
What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talkin...
A. 14 October 2008: i don't think he meant for it to come across like that. maybe you should take abit more control in the bedroom, just to let him know that he can't get his way all the time. use things like role play games, dressing up, whatever turns u and him on. ... (read in full...)
What can I say to make her feel comfortable enough to send me some sexy pictures?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we don't live together and we are like two peas in a pod. We are greatly in love and have everything in common. Now the problem... Recently I was forced to go on a business trip in ...
A. 14 October 2008: ok Mr, for a start if she is not comfortable sending pics of herself to you then do not force/ pester her to do so. best thing for you may be a dirty boys mag. maybe next time you are with her you should take pictures of both of u together, laying ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to lose your virginity to someone you're not going out with?
Q. I wonder - im still a virgin and this one guy wants to have sex with me but we are not going out , do you think its wrong to lose your virginity to someone you don't go out with ? and yeah im jst 16 years old ...
A. 14 October 2008: before i answer this i'm going to say one important thing, make sure you are 16, i still think that's too young, but if you're going to do it, u will do it. also make sure you are really ready for sex. if you're not, don't do it.
ok now to the a... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a boyfriend to forbid his girlfriend to make new friends?
Q. tottaly dig this girl but she chose to remain in her current relationship. All is fine , I found peace with her decision as i do have a crush. Tho , I would like to know her and hang around as friends, not that strange feeling right ? I don't de...
A. 14 October 2008: her bf sounds like a control freak! she needs to realise that and break free from him or tell him that she is her own person and can do what she likes. i don't understand when these younger girls do as their bf's tell them to. if a guy told me i ... (read in full...)
He's 18. I'm 15. Does anyone think this is bad?
Q. Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April. Does anyone think this bad ?...
A. 14 October 2008: of course it is bad. you may not think it is, but say if your parents or someone found out. they could report him for being with a minor, therefore he could end up being done for rape and end up in prison. he sounds sensible in not wanting to do ... (read in full...)
If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia, what could happen?
Q. If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia what could happen?...
A. 14 October 2008: if you used a condom then you should be ok, but remember condoms are not 100 percent safe. if you are really worried go to your doctor or local sexual health clinic.... (read in full...)
She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...
Q. Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 month...
A. 14 October 2008: you really do need to sit down with her and talk about it, but do not talk about it when you are about to get close together in the bedroom. could be a real mood killer for both of you. you seem like a great bf and you obviously love her. so i'm ... (read in full...)
She said she didn't want to rush into anything, I'm afraid I'll annoy her by breaching the subject again?
Q. i have been chilling with this girl for awhile. we go to break together talk kiss have a great time . now we went on a date to my place(per) her request and we started getting into it and it stopped and she left. she said she wanted to postpone this ...
A. 14 October 2008: i would not worry too much and i would not bug her too much about it. maybe she is just nervous and wants it to be special. trust me there's nothing worse then a guy pestering a girl about why she does not want to get intimate. how long have u been ... (read in full...)
I performed oral sex on a man early Saturday evening and now have a real sore throat, could I have caught an STD?
Q. I briefly performed oral sex on a man early Saturday evening. He didn't cum and there was no precum. Early the next morning I woke up with a sore throat and it has been a bit sore ever since, well not in the day but each night. Could I have caught ...
A. 14 October 2008: i'm no expert, but if it is worrying you that much either see your doctor or call a health line. i'm sure it is nothing serious. did you use a condom? ... (read in full...)
My daily hobby is checking out charming women - is this normal or a vice?
Q. I feel pleasure in looking at beautiful women every day,it's become a daily routinue just like food and water. If a charming lady is sighted on that day I feel comfortable, otherwise I feel something is missing. That is my recreation and hobby since ...
A. 14 October 2008: it just sounds like the one thing that most men do and probably what most women do. i find myself always checking out gorgeous men, i would not call it a hobby, but if it makes you feel good and it may make them feel good, then there's no harm in ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to ask a girl's number if you just want to be friends?
Q. I met this girl at a party and she was really fun. I asked for her number cause I really wanted to hang out with her again. But now I'm wondering if I did the right thing cause I'm not interested in her sexually, I just want to be her friend. Is it ...
A. 14 October 2008: of course it is ok. but as long as she understands that you just want to hang out with her as friends. if you have given her the wrong idea you need to set her straight, before she gets hurt. ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but I think I love her younger cousin too...
Q. I'm 20 yrs old, I've been with my girlfriend(19yrs old) for 3 yrs now and i love her, but over the years ive grown feelings for her cousin too(16 yrs old) i was first very atrracted to her and i thought that was wrong because she was only 13 and i ...
A. 14 October 2008: it's simple, leave the 16 year old alone. being a girl i no what 16 year old girls are like, they are hormonal and just see a cute guy and not much else. plus if you did go off with your girlfriend's younger cousin then you would break her heart, ... (read in full...)
Why am I so dry down below when we make love?
Q. Why, when me and boyfriend have sex I'm horny but when it's time for him to penetrate me, my pussy is very dry, why is that???...
A. 13 October 2008: make sure foreplay starts before you even get into the bedroom. don't let him touch your breasts or vagina, just start by alot of kissing on the lips and around the neck. then get him to slowly starts paying attention to your breasts and then when ... (read in full...)
During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards.
Q. During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards. This has been happening for the last year or so and I can't avoid it. My question is does this ...
A. 13 October 2008: if you are getting any pains go to the doctor. it could be just an all over body orgasm or maybe it;s just because your partner is hitting the right spots and really giving you intense orgasms. if you don't like the feeling maybe you should try ... (read in full...)
I cannot seem to stop watchin porn! Please help
Q. I have been watching porn sine 6 years and when i am trying to come out of it i am not able to do so. Every time i think of not watching it , but again i watch it. really i terribly feel bad.Need your help badly....
A. 13 October 2008: i don't see that as a problem. but if it is over taking your life then you need to maybe find another interest. take up a hobby or something. or when u feel abit horny do something else to take your mind off it. watching porn in moderation won't ... (read in full...)
My ex found me online and wants cyber sex despite having a girlfriend
Q. I recently was found via a social networking site by an ex from over 20 years ago. We had exchanged the odd email - nothing major just catching up and thought that's good. This weekend he started sending more flirty type messages, I tried to ...
A. 13 October 2008: don't do it! he just wants you to help him get off. don't lower yourself like that, think about how you would feel if you were the gf and u found out your bf was masturbating over the net with another girl. ... (read in full...)
Do I ask him about this supposed porn collection?
Q. I was friends with my current boyfriend for two years before we started dating. Back when we were just friends, he told me all about the porn he'd make with his girlfriend. Now that we're dating, I find myself wondering whether he still has all ...
A. 13 October 2008: hmm thats a hard one. well maybe you should just casually bring it up, but not make it a big deal.if you are abit adventurous in the bedroom maybe you should make your own private porn, so then he has you on tape rather then his ex. but the best ... (read in full...)
I give him oral, but he doesn't orgasm. Why not?
Q. right i have just started giving my boyfriend (of 6 months) blow jobs, i have gave him two so far but he hasnt ever cum. he seems like he enjoys it because recently when i did it he was gripping hold of the metal bars on his bed and holding my h...
A. 12 October 2008: start by stroking him then slowly lick,kiss the top. then slowly suck the top of the penis while you stroke the rest with your hands, so that the whole of his penis is getting attention. also another trick is to use your breasts to rub the penis ... (read in full...)
Why don't I have a girlfriend?
Q. I am 22 and i have a problem that im trying to do something about. I really want a gf but i have never had one before when ever i go out places or go on holiday i see couples together and i get really jelous and think why is this never me?. I go out ...
A. 12 October 2008: you boys sound perfect for a friend of mine. she is 22, has never had a bf or even a date. so there are girls out there with the same situation.
the best thing to do is just be yourself, please take it from me when you are out clubbing DO NOT touc... (read in full...)
How can I use my tongue when I snog boys?!?
Q. for some reason when i snog a boy i cant use tounge, why is this and how can i solve my problem n use tounge? please help thanks xxx...
A. 12 October 2008: just start kissing without tongue, then slowly massage his tongue with yours and if he is good it should just happen nicely. there does not have to be alot of tongue action, otherwise it just is slobbery, no1 likes slobber around their faces. just ... (read in full...)
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