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writes:ive been thinking about sex lately and my bf has too and weve both talked it over and decided to this weekend D: i know im ready im not scared of anything but what am i suppose to do... just lay there? ive read up foreplay before sex and ive given him plenty of blowjobs but hes recently started to finger me (its greatt) is that all the foreplay needed? what positions do you guys recommend the first time? please and thanks.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (15 November 2008):
yes yes yes foreplay is needed. it;s what turns him on and more importantly it's what turns you on and what makes your body produce it;s natural lubrication. without that sex hurts! as it's your first time i would have to say the missionary posistion is prob the best, as it's simple and you are comfortable. as first time sex can hurt and be a little uncomfortable, but at least with him on top you can almost control how deep he goes into you. ask him not to go all the way in if it hurts, also if it gets too much just ask him to stop or take a break. after the first time you may feel a little sore, so don't rush into another steamy session if you feel uncomfy. but trust me..things will get hot and better after your first time and you can then try posistions that work better for you both. have fun with it and relax.
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reader, Desired23  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 It sounds like an exciting weekend for you both. The first time can be really exciting and a bit scary all at once. My suggestion would be not to go too fancy for starters. Make sure that you two are both comfortable with what you are going to do. I would just start out with missionary position; it's classic and is still, to this day, one of my favorites. You can read alot on what makes sex great, what foreplay is best and what positions are preferred, but honestly you two need to figure out what works for you. Reading advice is great, but really just feel out what is going to be the most comfortable and enjoyable for the two of you; have some fun with it, relax, and it sounds like you two will have alot of fun. :-)~Des
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