My husband physically and emotionally abuses me all the time.
Q. Hi, I need to make this quick because I'm not "allowed" to be on the internet right now. My husband is thirteen years my senior and we've known each other for two and a half years, been together that long, and married for two years. We have a ...
A. 24 October 2008: honey there's only one thing you can do.....leave your husband and take your little girl. no woman deserves that!
don't be afraid and remember there are support groups and hostels for women who are escaping from an abusive relationship. please plea... (read in full...)
My girlfriend does not like to have her vagina touched or for me to give her oral sex. What is wrong with her?
Q. My girlfriend does not like to have her vagina touched or for me to give her oral sex. What is wrong with her?...
A. 24 October 2008: maybe she does not have a high sex drive or is very sensitive? all you can do is talk about it with her. no1 can give you an actual explaination, as it;s only your girlfriend who knows what she is feeling and thinking.
maybe she find when you touc... (read in full...)
Why is sex so important to men?
Q. Why do men love sex so much? And dont try to tell me that women love it just as much. I mean sure if feels great to have that connection with someone is amazing but we dont think about it 24 hours a day and dont lie or say anything just to get laid. ...
A. 24 October 2008: ok so men like sex, but then so do some women! women go to strip clubs too, in fact me and some of my girlfriends are going to the dream boys strip club next year in london. nothing wrong in that!
i think you have just had some bad experiences with... (read in full...)
How do you "dig in"???
Q. hi i have a girlfriend and we have met(snogged) once before shes not my first girlfriend or anything but im getting really stressed out cause when we were meeting like its hard to explain but she was moving her head around the place going towards me ...
A. 24 October 2008: i have never heard of the phrase "dig in"
maybe i am getting old.lol. i don't really fully understand what you are trying to say, but correct me if i am wrong you are saying she moves her head when kissing you where as you keep yours in one plac... (read in full...)
I am very upset by the amount of women that cheat in the world...
Q. I'm surprised to find out that women do cheat more than men in a relationship! Men do cheat more technically but in general these are men who don't get themselves into a stong relationship. I'm talking about mature couples in mature relatio...
A. 24 October 2008: well i'm sorry but i think men are alot worse then women!
for instance one of my ex's told me he was "falling for me" then in the next breath he told me he was planning to date another girl and would i be ok with that? HELL NO was my answer. ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for girls to make themselves orgasm?
Q. Ok, well this is very embarrassing to be asking about but is it ok for girls, at my age (14) to make themselves... orgasm? Becacause I have this thing I do where if I imagine certain things (no need to go into that though) and rub against my... you ...
A. 24 October 2008: oh as for the wet part thats what would happen when you have foreplay with a guy, it;s just your natural lubrication so it will make it easier for a penis to enter you. it;s just your body's way of telling you that you are turned on and feel good. ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for girls to make themselves orgasm?
Q. Ok, well this is very embarrassing to be asking about but is it ok for girls, at my age (14) to make themselves... orgasm? Becacause I have this thing I do where if I imagine certain things (no need to go into that though) and rub against my... you ...
A. 24 October 2008: it's normal for a girl your age to start exploring her body and feeling sensations that are nice. it;s how you get to know about your body for a start and is a good start for when you are older and sexually active, as you will know what you like. ... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant this way?
Q. hey... this is kind of embarrasing but.. If a guy rubs his *ahem* against a girls.. area.. with underwear on, is it possible for the girl to get pregnant if the guy cums? Sorry but this question has been bugging me.. thanks xxx...
A. 24 October 2008: well never say never.
but it is probably less likely if you both have your clothes on. also it depends on where abouts he cums. was it above your vagina or on it/almost in it? if you are really worried about him cumming on you then ask him to w... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of losing my virginity.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and everything is going so well. It couldn't be going better except for one thing; I'm a virgin and am still scared of losing my virginity. My boyfriend has been so understanding, and we ...
A. 24 October 2008: i was abit like you before i had sex, the thought of having sex was really scary and i kept putting it off and making excuses untill one day when i thought just do it! so i did and yes it was uncomfortable and i did bleed a little bit, nothing ... (read in full...)
Is coitus interuptus rude?
Q. I know a long list of people are going to tell me to use a condom but will ask this anyway. Is it rude for a guy to pull out and cum all over you if birth control wasn't discussed before sex? I say it is and he says it isn't....
A. 23 October 2008: simple...use a condom. you are both silly to not use one as pre-cum can still get you pregnant!
as for the cumming on you, some guys and gals like to do that, so maybe it is normal for him? maybe he enjoys it. but if you don't then you need to tell... (read in full...)
My parents arent supporting my decision to have this baby
Q. please help me! im 15 and i am 38 weeks pregnant. my parents arn't supporting me at all and they are threatening to throw me out once the baby is born unless i have an abortion. my boyfriend died just after i became pregnant as he got ran over so ...
A. 23 October 2008: i don't have experience on this subject to help you, but all i know is that you would be turned down for an abortion anyway as you are too far into the pregnancy.... (read in full...)
Condom or the pill?
Q. Soo... umm... I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and shes already discussed with me about having sex, but shes a virgin and soo am I, but I'm not quite sure whats the best thing to do, bucause she doesnt want me to use a condom, she ...
A. 22 October 2008: for gods sake use both! my friend got pregnant while on the pill, so it just shows you it;s not 100 percent safe, and nither is the condom. so if you are both sensible you will use both forms of contraception. ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried that I will bore my boyfriend in bed... how hard is it to make a guy climax?
Q. hi everyone, i feel kinda wierd asking this, but my boyfriend and i are talking about sex, im a virgin, and he definately isnt. i want to be good for him, and not be known as the boring virgin who just lied there. i have no idea what to do. how hard...
A. 22 October 2008: I remember my first time, he was on top and as it hurt so much I just lay there and did not move. He still came and enjoyed himself, but he could tell it was uncomfortable and horrid for me. As for the cumming, well you can feel his penis moving ... (read in full...)
I can't stop using the adult chat room!
Q. Hi. I am 15 and have got many problems. Firstly I can't stop using this adult chatroom. This chatroom is mainly used by men and of course is only for people over 18. When I'm on it I completley reinvent myself and make up story's as I go along. ...
A. 22 October 2008: being a young teen is not easy, you have alot of hormones racing around, which can lead you to question your sexuality. the adult chat room is probably something that most teens do at that age, i remember i used to use them when i was a young teen. ... (read in full...)
My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I ...
A. 22 October 2008: it could be that he has a crush on you. i've come across guys like this before, they don't have a clue how to express their feelings, so they just turn into jerks. like i said before, just bring him down a peg or 2. ... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?
Q. My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...
A. 22 October 2008: your stupid comment has really ended it for you. let it be a lesson to you and all men, DO NOT EVER CALL A GIRL FAT!... (read in full...)
What is the reason people give hickies/lovebites?
Q. Hello everybody, just a small question for you all. How do people give hickies/lovebites and what is the purpose of them? I was just wondering because I haven't come up with a good reason myself as to why people give hickies except for leaving a ...
A. 20 October 2008: yeah i would have to say it;s a young teen thing, i think they look stupid. the thought of someone giving me a nasty love bite, nothing worse. plus when you are older you don't want to be in a professional working environment with a big ugly bruise ... (read in full...)
What is the reason people give hickies/lovebites?
Q. Hello everybody, just a small question for you all. How do people give hickies/lovebites and what is the purpose of them? I was just wondering because I haven't come up with a good reason myself as to why people give hickies except for leaving a ...
A. 20 October 2008: yeah i would have to say it;s a young teen thing, i think they look stupid. the thought of someone giving me a nasty love bite, nothing worse. plus when you are older you don't want to be in a professional working environment with a big ugly bruise ... (read in full...)
My teacher liked me and is now being prosecuted! How can I help him save his job?
Q. hi i have just been reading all the student teacher relationship questions and answers...and i really need help one of my teachers has told me he really cares about me and that he could imagine us spending the rest of our lives together i ...
A. 20 October 2008: just leave him be now. it's up to him if he stays or goes, i'm surprised they even gave him the choice, normally it would go straight to the board and sometimes he would not be allowed to teach again. seriously walk away!... (read in full...)
What should I do to make my breasts most attractive?
Q. What should I do to make my breasts most attractive???? Secondly, my mom urges me to wear a bra. I don't like it and so does my boyfriend. In this case, What type of bra would you suggest??...
A. 20 October 2008: a bra is a very good start!
it depends on what your breasts are like to what bra is good for you. there's so many, if you are a larger cup then balcony bras are very good. if you are smaller then maybe a push up bra would work.
the best thing t... (read in full...)
My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I ...
A. 20 October 2008: whoa whoa whoa!
for a start you are only 14! trust me boyfriends at that age are usually all immature and you end up just wishing you were haning with your friends rather then the bf. As for your friend he sounds like a right asshole! you need to ... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?
Q. My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...
A. 20 October 2008: wow another man does it again. you guys really need to learn that calling a girl fat is the same as a girl telling you, you have a small penis and can't find her clit. seriously!
all you can do now is grovel, but to be honest if my bf called m... (read in full...)
I am so insecure about "down there" after he asked me this!
Q. Sorry if this is graphic but I have always been a little uncomfortable with myself in that area but now I am so self consious about sex!! My "lips" are large, especially the right side and they are a darkish color, like gray/purplish. My now ex ...
A. 20 October 2008: there's only one answer for this....your boyfriend is clearly in-expeirneced and probably has not seen many women's bodies at all. he is talking aload of rubbish if he has told you he has been with alot of women, because he clearly hasn't.... (read in full...)
How do I guide my boyfriend during sex so that I feel pleasure, too?
Q. male comments please :) Im in a relationship with a guy we have been dating for 3 months and our anniversary is tomorrow, i am young, and people usually look down upon sexual activities at such a young age. any ways, when my boyfriend and i ...
A. 19 October 2008: yeah i have been there before with a guy who was lovely but rubbish in the bedroom, i just felt unsatisfied and really fustrated. maybe he has not had much experience and just needs to be guided into the right places and like i said before, you are ... (read in full...)
Blowjobs or handjobs for uncircumcised or uncut men?
Q. Blowjobs or handjobs for uncircumcised or uncut men. Help? Should you do things differently than with a circumcised penis? How? Please, help me out. Tips/techniques/general things to know are all welcome, as are websites. Thank you....
A. 19 October 2008: i've been with both and they seem to have both been fine. ... (read in full...)
We lost out virginity to each other, I want to do it again but I'm not sure he feels the same, he's been different - what should I think?
Q. my boyfriend and i were officially together for 3 weeks when we had sex for the first time. i know it was too soon but we both really wanted it. we were both also virgins. after that we didnt see each other for four weeks. and we still havent had ...
A. 19 October 2008: maybe he had expectations of how good it would be, when the reality of it is the first time is always awful. Maybe he thought he would perform better then he did. just ask him if anything is bothering him. it gets better with time, he just needs to ... (read in full...)
How do I guide my boyfriend during sex so that I feel pleasure, too?
Q. male comments please :) Im in a relationship with a guy we have been dating for 3 months and our anniversary is tomorrow, i am young, and people usually look down upon sexual activities at such a young age. any ways, when my boyfriend and i ...
A. 19 October 2008: you know what honey it;s not the age..some guys are just a little unsure of how a woman works. they think because they like it a certain way, we must like it like that. for instance i was with a guy who just poked so much it hurt like hell, so in ... (read in full...)
How can I get into a strip club?
Q. I am only 18 years old, but I am wondering what I could possibly do to get into a strip club?...
A. 19 October 2008: wait till you are old enough. anyway the reality of a strip club is just some girl who is rubbing against a pole and is beng paid a hell of a lot. hmm maybe i shouldn't of mentioned rubbing against a pole. lol. but what i'm trying to say is that a ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be so calculating about losing my virginity?
Q. Hi I am 16 and literally the only person I know and am on a level with that hasn't lost their virginity. I dont think this bothers me too much as i DONT usually conform to peer pressure. However I am ready and do want to lose my virginity. The thin...
A. 19 October 2008: don;t plan things like that, because the reality of it is far from what u imagine. guys that age don't last long, they don't know what they are doing and well the whole situation is just awful. also it hurts and is uncomfortable. you're better of to ... (read in full...)
I'm so lonely! How do I deal?
Q. Hi,im in college and even though i go to a school of 14,000 people, I have never been so lonely in my life. I dont have any close friends here, just acquaintances and the people who I live with dont have anything in common with me and think i am a ...
A. 19 October 2008: college was a lonely place at first, but if you join some groups,teams,etc then you will meet people who have the same interests as you and will find some friends. also if you are not happy with your roomies then talk to the people in charge of the ... (read in full...)
Edwin and his sexy talk
Q. So I meet Edwin on tagged (it's like bebo) and I liked him I'll admit cuz he is very handsome, but the thing is we started talking sexually from the first time we meet, now what I want to know is how do I encourage him to have a normal convo with me ...
A. 19 October 2008: the best thing you can do is forget the guys who sit at their computers talking to cyber "girlfriends" and go out and meet some nice genuine guys who want to get to know about you and not just about your bra size. he;s only a guy off the internet, ... (read in full...)
Why a play instead of out to dinner? Does he not want to talk face to face?
Q. Hi this guy im interested in didnt want to go for dinner/ lunch with me but instead invited me to a play. I find it quite strange, does he find it uncomfortable to sit and talk with me face to face? do you think he's just being polite or he likes me ...
A. 19 October 2008: he is probably trying to be a little romantic. did you ever mention to him in the past that you like theatre? i think when a guy takes you on a date to the theatre it's really old school dating, bringing abit of romance back into the modern world of ... (read in full...)
In love with a girl, but she has someone. What can I do?
Q. Over this past year, I've met the most beautiful person of my life. She's funny, smart, and just makes me get the most biggest smile on my face when I'm around her. I met her about a year ago and we've worked together ever since. I've liked many ...
A. 19 October 2008: you know what..if i was her i would want you to just tell me how you feel. DON'T go on a date with some other girl to just make her jealous, it won't work, as she will just think that you are nothing more then just friends. it gives the wrong ... (read in full...)
Any advice on anal sex? I'm scared I might poo!
Q. I have tried anal sex a few times.There were on a few occasions that after my guy pulls it out there will be "air" coming out which is similar to passing air.But i know for sure that its not me.Im guessing its because of the thrusting of the penis ...
A. 19 October 2008: it's best to make sure you empty your bowels as much as you can before hand, will take the presure off. As for the air i don't think there is alot you can do, it's simply just from his thrusting. maybe try a differen't posistion? people think that ... (read in full...)
How do I convince her parents?
Q. Heres my situation, me and my gf ahve been dating for about three months and her parents wont let her see me unless her mom goes. And her mom wont let us hang out at each others houses. Also i have family in vero beach which is about two hours aw...
A. 19 October 2008: they sound very protective of her. the best thing you can do is just try and get to know them better and then they will see you're a nice normal guy. tell them you and her want to go out on a date by yourselves, but they can drop you there and pick ... (read in full...)
My teacher liked me and is now being prosecuted! How can I help him save his job?
Q. hi i have just been reading all the student teacher relationship questions and answers...and i really need help one of my teachers has told me he really cares about me and that he could imagine us spending the rest of our lives together i ...
A. 19 October 2008: Yeah I have to agree with emily's answers. Being a teacher he would be aware of the rules and laws and should know about student-teacher boundaries. He has to face up to his punishment, as he obviously knew he was doing the wrong thing all along. ... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex in over a year, I feel very bad about this, what can I do?
Q. im 21 years old and havent had sex for over a year and im desperate for it. i dont know what to do....
A. 18 October 2008: thats such a typical answer from a male! "why have you not had sex for so long" it does not matter sometimes about how many clubs,pubs,etc you go to, not all girls want to have casual sex! when you find the right guy it will happen, till then buy a ... (read in full...)
Is she still a virgin if the penetration didn't succeed? Is it normal that we noticed blood later?
Q. i tried to penetrate my gf but it was too tight and couldn't get in so we couldnt have sex. no blood came out right away but she was saying that she feels a little burning in her vagina. 2 hours later she showed me little bit of blood on her und...
A. 18 October 2008: it just means her hymen broke, which is normal if she is a virgin. kinda where the saying "pop the cherry comes from" sometimes girls who do horse back riding,etc don't experience this as their hymen has already broken through riding,but it's normal ... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found ou...
A. 18 October 2008: What is it with young kids emotionally blackmailing each other into having sex. Seriously for a start you both sound too emotionally immature for a sexual relationship, as he is using this "you don't love me" to try and get you to have sex with ... (read in full...)
My married lover suggested to abort our child. Does he love me as he says?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. He said he loves me very much n he is absolutely jealous over me that even my girl friends are a threat 2 him. I told him last night that I'm pregnant for three months and he suggested that i should abort. Does ...
A. 18 October 2008: sorry to say this, but he sounds a bit controlling. yes ok it is important that you both agree on things in a relationship, but he can't just expect you to go and have an abortion just like that. if you want the baby then you should have the baby. ... (read in full...)
I am scared of sex!!!!!
Q. I am actually 13 and one of my friends has been having sex (or so she says she does) and I was thinking maybe I should but I'm scared and my parents are overprotective -- not toooo much but I want to, now will I be a virgin forever if I'm scared to ...
A. 18 October 2008: please do not go and have sex! 13 is far too young and if your friend is having sex at that age then she is being really silly. at that age you can not handle the emotions involved with a sexual relationship. stick to going on dates with boys if you ... (read in full...)
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