I can't have an orgasm now!
Q. Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex ...
A. 26 January 2009: i'm confused. why are you giving yourself advise? ... (read in full...)
Age difference is causing problems with sexual compatability
Q. I have been an absolute idiot and don't know what to do. I have been so stressed out I can barely sleep. I am in a relationship with a much older man and have been for four years. It has been my only serious relationship. I have no issues or any...
A. 16 January 2009: ok first of all he is only your first serious relationship, so therefore he does not need to be your last!
you are young and should beable to go and have some fun. don't settle for someone who is older and has done everything that you want to do. ... (read in full...)
My husband told me that most men don't like to give oral and he does it only because I like it.
Q. I have been married to my husband for seven years. I have told him exactly what I would like when it comes to oral sex. More often than not, he doesn't do it. He told me the other night that most men don't like to give oral and he does it only ...
A. 15 January 2009: most of my ex's seemed to not enjoy having to give oral sex. one just never did it but was always confused when i stopped giving him head.lol. but then i guess i can't stand giving blow jobs, i only do it to get something back. guess it's the same ... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe that I am a virgin
Q. i am a girl of 23 years old. i never have sex before one day i was with my boy friend kissing each other he now then put his finger inside my vergina and told be look you are not a virgin why are u lieing to i started crying because i really know ...
A. 14 January 2009: he sounds like he has no clue about women! how can he tell from putting one finger inside of you! that is just stupid! you shouldn't be with someone who treats you like this. how dare he make out that you are lying. he does not deserve to be with ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I like to "tease" guys?
Q. I don't really like to hook up with boys any more but I like to have fun and the attention they give me. At parties, I dance and flirt with guys all the time and they think they will have sex with me but I don't even give them a kiss. Is it wrong to ...
A. 14 January 2009: teasing can be good, guys seem to like the chase. but they only like to chase if they know they have a chance of getting with you. but then i guess alot of guys tease girls and don't plan on taking them home.
just becareful and remember not ever... (read in full...)
Was dry-humping rape? Did I rape her?
Q. am i normal? i dry humped my girlfriend as she slept she woke up and started screemin rape did i rape her?...
A. 11 January 2009: it's not rape, but it could have been classed as sexual assault... (read in full...)
How much is the foreskin supposed to cover up?
Q. How much is the foreskin supposed to cover the head of the penis when erect? Mine only covers half of it, is this normal?...
A. 11 January 2009: every foreskin is different. some are really too much and hang down past the penis head, others are smaller. it just depends. you sound normal.... (read in full...)
He bit my tits and now I have red specks all over my nipples. Is this dangerous?
Q. I don't care if this may be stupid, but I really want an answer to calm my nerves. My boyfriend and I had some fun today and he bit my tits, that was about 6 hours ago and I checked and there are red specks like all over my nipples, should I worry? ...
A. 11 January 2009: sounds to me like bruising, similar to a love bite. if he was biting,sucking there may have been tiny blood vessels that were bruised and tissue. so i'm sure it will go back to looking normal once it calms down. maybe ask him not to bit so hard?... (read in full...)
I'm gay, he's straight (he says)..I want to make a move
Q. okay, in order for me to avoid sounding like an idiot. i should explain. I'm gay, and I've fallen for a "straight" boy. We'll call him Sea. Sea dated a good friend of mine once, a girl. but he told her he was bisexual. he know kind of denys it...
A. 11 January 2009: i would make sure that he does go for guys and girls before you even make a move. you need to be certain, otherwise you will end up getting hurt and he may feel embarrassed. ... (read in full...)
Locking eyes during sex?
Q. Just curious...so, I read in an article of Cosmopolitan that if a guy locks eyes with you during sex, even just for a few seconds, it means that he wants more than just a physical connection with you. Do you all think that is true or is that a bunch ...
A. 11 January 2009: don't go by cosmo mag or any of these mags. i know they are fun to read, but don't take anything seriously. one of my ex's used to always look into my eyes, but he certainly didn't want anything more then just sex. ass! lol... (read in full...)
Why are white people more promiscuous? Don't mean to offend!
Q. Hello everyone, I am about to ask a question and its going to sound really awkward and I honestly don't mean to offend anyone i'm just curious.... I am african american and lately I've been noticing that white people are different then black pe...
A. 11 January 2009: i am so sick of people trying to make out that white and black people are different. the reason there always seems to be race issues is because of petty things like this. white women are not all the same, just like black women. we are all ... (read in full...)
He wants to pee on me!!!!
Q. Hi there! Today I have a strange question.... or maybe not. What should I think about a man who likes to pee on a woman and get horny with it? Is it common? Once again, I think I know it all, but always being surprised... over and over again......
A. 11 January 2009: ew don't let him give you a golden shower. that is disgusting. tell him to keep his fantasys in his head and his pee in the toilet. maybe do something that will be similar to his fantasy, like let him trickle water on to your naked body or ... (read in full...)
Why do guys not like long distance relationships?
Q. When the girl wants a relationship and guy a agree to do so but it always ends up the guy moving away(to another state). Then he breaks up with the girl because of the long distance...... Why do guys don't like long distance relationships? ...
A. 11 January 2009: because there won't be any sex!... (read in full...)
My Bf' is 15 and is having erection problems! Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I are both 15. We have had sex once before. (Please dont post anything saying im to young,im being very responsible and i love him and know what im doing) The bad thing is that tonight, we were going to do it again but he couldnt ...
A. 11 January 2009: it may be that he thinks he is ready for a sexual relationship, but really he isn;t. he may be nervous and worried about it. it sounds like a physcological thing. maybe hold off from the sex if it happens again or spend more time with just foreplay ... (read in full...)
Bleed when you have sex?
Q. is it necessary that when women goes for sex first time is it necessary to bleed .....or not......?...
A. 11 January 2009: it is normal for women to bleed after first time sex, as your hymen is torn/broken. you may find you may bleed on the second time, but don;t worry about it. it;s normal.
as for the answer to "get it removed or something by a doctor" there is... (read in full...)
Do most guys answer the door 1/2 naked?
Q. Hello everyone! :) I have a very quick question to ask y'all: Is it normal for guys to answer the door topless? I recently had an experience where a guy I had only met once before opened the door to me with no top on. I was a little taken aback...
A. 11 January 2009: am i the only one who likes it when a hot guy opens the door topless? don;t complain.lol. as long as it;s not some random man. lol. ... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm now!
Q. Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex ...
A. 11 January 2009: don't worry, this is very common. alot of women find it hard to have an orgasm through penetrative sex. the best thing to do is teach him where you like to be touched and where it feels good for you. from foreplay a guy can learn alot and then this ... (read in full...)
Am I sell out because I like white men?
Q. Well for the past 10 years now since I was 14 yrs old, I add an attraction to White guys. Something about them turns me on so bad. I can count on one hand and 1/2 of all the Black and Latino men that I've dated. My friends and family think I'm...
A. 11 January 2009: i don't think it should be a problem at all. i am white, yet i like white, hispanic and black guys. the colour of someone's skin should not stop you from being able to date them. maybe your parents and family are abit traditional in their ways? you ... (read in full...)
I want to start tap dancing!
Q. Hiya im 17 and i really wont to start tap dancing i wonted to start when i was 15 but didn't have much money but now i get ema My brother thinks tap dancing is weird and my bf just laughed 1. question.. Am i to old ??? 2. and what...
A. 11 January 2009: i think it is great that you want to start up tap dancing. you are never too old to learn something new. i started salsa the other year and i am 22. ignore your brother and boyfriend, they are guys after all and don;t always understand things like ... (read in full...)
Rough crazy sex!! Now I'm torn & in pain
Q. My boyfriend and I had crazy/rough sex and I ripped really bad two days ago. The worst thing is that where I ripped is directly under the urine flow. It hurts so bad and it is ripped in about three spots. I have delivered two girls vaginally and one ...
A. 10 January 2009: go see your gyno. ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 want to date a 15 y/o afraid of what people will say
Q. I'm a 21 year old male.... and I found a girl whom I have feelings for.... the thing is she's 15 years old... I'm afraid to date her because of what people might think. Shes a great girl but the age difference is the only problem... Anything ...
A. 10 January 2009: wait untill she is 16. it won;t be such a bad thing then and plus you will never get yourself into any trouble.
just a question, but do you actually have much in common with a 15 year old? i know i could never even think about dating a 15 year ... (read in full...)
Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????
Q. I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have...
A. 9 January 2009: well guys listen and take this in!!!
WE DON'T ALL WANT A HUGE MONSTER COCK COMING OUR WAY, BIGGER IS NOT ALWAYS BETTER!
... (read in full...)
The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.
Q. About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...
A. 9 January 2009: it does hurt for the first few times, it;s just your vagina stretching. it probably hurt a little on the second time as it was so close to the first. i remember i was abit sore for a couple of dayes after my first time. it will get better and it ... (read in full...)
She keeps pausing to catch her breath during oral sex, which is ruining it for me!
Q. Hi i ve got a simple question.. My gf is not able to give me a blow job. Whenever we try for it she gets prob wit her breathin. My cock is just 5 inches.. Not tat big to choke her.. Its like she sucks my cock for 30 sec then pauses to catch her ...
A. 9 January 2009: tell her not to put the whole thing into her mouth. us women are not porn stars, we can't suck the whole thing. they don't call it a job for nothing, all that gasping, jaw ache and trying to get you men off. it;s hard work!
the best thing to do is... (read in full...)
A first is all.
Q. Is 32 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss?...
A. 9 January 2009: no get yourself out there and kiss a man. there is no age limit, but the longer you leave it the harder it will get.... (read in full...)
My husband was raped by his boss!
Q. I'm 31, my husband is 33 and we've been married for 4 years now. My husband works in management for a local distribution company. On Tuesday he came home from work, early in the morning after doing 3 day negotiations with a client, and said...
A. 9 January 2009: i think it is awful that the police would not even look into it. after all male rape sadly does take place. you should go to a lawyer and take it to the police again. maybe a different station. don't let the boss get away with it, she needs to be ... (read in full...)
Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????
Q. I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have...
A. 8 January 2009: of course, if they don't know how to use it whether it is small or huge then the sex will be crap.
a big penis does not make a man more manly! i think guys need to really understand what a woman wants and then they will feel less worried ... (read in full...)
Another dreaded penis size question!!!
Q. I know that this question comes up all the time but I'm looking for specific answers. My penis peaks at about 5" length and 4" - 4.5" round and it's really preventing me from pursuing relationships. I'm only just starting to get ready for the dating ...
A. 8 January 2009: i'm confused are you saying your penis is too small or too big? because the size you are saying is what i call perfect! just the right lenght and thickness. girls don;t like a giant piece of meat, it hurts and is not enjoyable unless the guy is ... (read in full...)
How can I pluck up the courage to kiss him?
Q. Hii xx So here's the thing. My bf and I have been going out for a while now and we both would like to kiss but we are kinda nervous about it. How can I pluck up the courage to do the first step? And what should I do to enjoy my first kiss, how to d...
A. 8 January 2009: surly if he is your bf you would have kissed on a date? well anyway the best thing to do is just take his hands and lean into him. let him come the rest of the way, if he does not get the hint maybe give him a little kiss on the cheek then smile and ... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 8 January 2009: i never said anything about teens not having sex. i just don't understand why some teens and even adults don't have basic sex knowledge. like for instance someone asked if women have sperm? seriously! that is just worrying. ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my online long distance girl?
Q. im 14 and i met a girl on msn and iv been talking to her 4 a few months and we are sort of going out on line like but she lives in London and i live in Bilston and she said she wants to meet me but i dont think i should and if i do i think i should...
A. 8 January 2009: are you a 100% that she is who she says she is? people lie online all the time and yes the perverts that are out there do pretend to be a young girl to attract younger boys who are minors. it's sick but that's what they do. have you had a cam ... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 8 January 2009: by the way girls, if you live in the UK the dream boys are amazing. and it's a great girly night out or hen night.
see nothing awful about it. just pure fun. ... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 8 January 2009: no offence but it is only a strip club. it;s not like he went and cheated on you with someone or paid a hooker.
i don't get why people have such a problem with strip clubs. sure they are tacky and full of girls exploiting men for their money by r... (read in full...)
Can I lose weight even if I don't exercise?
Q. Hi there, Im just wondering can you lose weight if i dont exercise? im a little bit overweight so i decided to go on a diet, im just eating really healthy and not eating any junkfood. But im not doin any sort of exercise programme. I'm n...
A. 7 January 2009: you can loose weight but you won't tone up. so don't expect miracles.
i personally am not a gym lover, so i like to do alot of walking, mainly at the weekends. also my work is physical, so i get alot of exercise while being at work. also i love t... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my Mom about getting my period?
Q. hi, ok erm i have a really big issue. well last april sometime i started my periods, im not really that close with my mum for no reason really im just not. I dont even discuss normally girly stuff with her so you can imagine how hard it was when my ...
A. 7 January 2009: you should just tell your mum. i remember i was really scared to tell mine, but when i did she just seemed happy for me.strange, as it's not like it's a pleasant thing.lol. she then offered advice on sanitary towels,etc. i felt alot better once i ... (read in full...)
Bullied at work
Q. I need some advice/help, I am being bullied at work and I reported the bullies because other members of staff advised me to and now it has been turned around on me because I am shy an I don't speak much, I feel so low and I feel very isolated. ...
A. 7 January 2009: do you know that bullying at a work place is a sackable offence? you should really keep following up the reports you made, maybe make more if it is still carrying on. maybe you also need to confront the bullies? i've been in a similar posistion ... (read in full...)
I get embarrassed because my nipples stick out too much.
Q. I have small boobs and my nipples seem to stick out really far. They stick out abut a centimetre. Is this a turn off for men, I get embarrassed by them!...
A. 7 January 2009: men love nipples. i don't know why, but they do. so you should be very happy that you have one of the things men love. if you notice in some dirty lads mags the models have pointy nipples, because that's what men like. so embrace the nips and stop ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 7 January 2009: just stop questionion it and get it checked out. it maybe nothing serious, but at least you will know and feel better about it. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?
Q. I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...
A. 7 January 2009: well they are not a best friend if they bully you are they?you need to talk to your parents or even her/his parents. make them suffer a little, by facing their parents and possibly a punishment for being a bully. you need to speak up about it. maybe ... (read in full...)
Body language and prayer request....
Q. I have a request and a question, what does body language has to do with getting a gal? Secondly, this is not a question actually, its a request to all readers. my prayer to all readers is, whether u r all da religious type or not, pls pray for me. ...
A. 6 January 2009: you sound like you just need a good confidence boost. then your body language will be so different, you will walk around upright and feel really good about yourself. but before you can get a girl to want you,love you...you need to learn to love ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 6 January 2009: look i had a bf who had the same problem, apart from his did tear and gave him extreme pain, he ended up having to have a operation.
if it hurts when you get hard then that is not normal. therefore you need to go to the doctor. why ignore advice t... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 6 January 2009: pre-cum. you obviously have dreams what turn you on. there is nothing wrong in masturbation. it may help.... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 6 January 2009: oh i do think they need to learn about body parts, i think most kids that age learn that anyway. i think it is important that they know the difference between a girl and a boy too. but the sex stuff is a no no. ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?
Q. I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very ...
A. 6 January 2009: ok you need to tell your teacher everything, she or he can't sort out all of the problems unless they know it all. do you have a school councelor? go to them, as they are very clued up on this sort of thing. also tell your parents! these little ... (read in full...)
People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???
Q. This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...
A. 6 January 2009: i don't agree with little kids being taught the facts of life too early, such as this crazy government scheme to teach 5 year olds about sex! but i do think kids who are early teens need to have the talk with their parents or a teacher if a parent ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 6 January 2009: you should see a doctor because if you try and stretch it, it could cause it to split and therefore it would be very sore and could get infected. maybe tell your dad? you can't ignore it. your parents used to change your diapers, they know what is ... (read in full...)
I have frenulum problems, please help!
Q. Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...
A. 5 January 2009: the only thing you can do is go and see your doctor. dont be embarrassed or worried, they have seen it all before. you may be given the option of circumsision or some sort of procedure to get rid of the layer of skin. i'm no medical professional, so ... (read in full...)
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