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Did I lose my virginity?

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Question - (15 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

if i am a virgin and someone fingers me and i bleed afterwards did i lose my virginity if i feel it in my heart?like it makes me emotionl.does that mean it's gone?most people say that when you lose it you will remember it for the rest of your life therefore it will be in your heart......is that true?or does it take a penis to take virginity?

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

you are still a virgin. the only way that you lose your virginity is when you are penetrated with his penis. so his penis has to go into your vagina for you not to be a virgin anymore.

as for people telling you when you should lose your virginity, i think thats really wrong. only you can decide when the time is right.

i lost mine with an ex when i was younger and at the time it was magic, hurt..but was magic. but now i look back and think it actually was not that good. but then everyone has that feeling, so whether it;s with someone you love or some random it will still seem rubbish compared to other times. but no rush, just do it when you are ready.

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A male reader, Rapustin Nigeria +, writes (15 November 2008):

personally i think u r still a virgin but only because i believe u when u said u were just fingered, u seem like a veri strong but sensitive person which is the recipe 4 a good life-long partner, so i suggest u desist 4rm all sexual activities, since u seem veri sensitive 'bout ur virginity, save ur self 4 marriage most guys feel they owe u more if they marry u as a virgin...

Goodluck..

pls tell me how it worked out ok...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

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well what if i felt emotional about it and i still do and i thought when it's broken that means it's gone?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

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what does ruptured mean?broken or strecthed

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