How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 30 January 2009: well good luck in finding someone if you are looking for someone. and all i can say is that the whole purity pledge thing in the USA does not seem to help kids by the sounds of it. good luck to them too. ... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 29 January 2009: what a stupid thing to say. of course i knew it would hurt, he knew it would hurt, he was gentle and slow. but the reason i say it was horrid, was because compared to other times it was. as it hurt! so therefore i am glad the first time was with ... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 28 January 2009: are you saying i didn't trust the guy? of course i trusted him, why would i have slept with him if i didn't. at the time he was great and i was falling for him. your reply does not make much sense. whether i had been with a random guy or a bf, the ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this sick after losing your virginity?
Q. is it normal to get really bad stomach cramps and feel sick after losing your virginity? we did use protection and it didnt split so i cant be pregnant, im just kinda worried....
A. 21 January 2009: i wonder if guys have any wierd effects after their first time? just something that i thought of. us girls seem to have to go through alot.lol ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this sick after losing your virginity?
Q. is it normal to get really bad stomach cramps and feel sick after losing your virginity? we did use protection and it didnt split so i cant be pregnant, im just kinda worried....
A. 21 January 2009: i remember i felt abit faint and sick after my first time, as well as sore and achey. i think it's your body going into shock abit. as it's something that is different and you have had a foreign object inserted into you. i remember i was ok untill i ... (read in full...)
I hate the idea of sex, is this normal?
Q. I hate the idea of sex. I haven't had any bad experiences with it or whatever (I've never even been kissed) but I just hate the idea of sex. Is this normal?...
A. 21 January 2009: of course you are normal for your age. sex at that age seemed scary and wierd. you shouldn't be worrying about it now anyway. when you are older you will think very differently about sex and that's when you know you are ready for it. ... (read in full...)
What's with the eye contact when I'm masturbating?
Q. When I masturbate in front of my man he just looks me straight in the eyes and he won't even blink. Why does he look into my eyes and not pay attention on how I masturbate?...
A. 21 January 2009: yeah it's probably to do with facial expressions. if you want him to learn how to make you feel good, get him to put his hand/fingers on top of yours. so he can feel what you do while looking at you.... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 21 January 2009: "who 'wished' they would've saved themselves and put you down to make themselves feel better"
i'm sorry but i don't believe that people were trying to say this. i personally am glad that i lost my virginity to my ex, as it was a horrible experien... (read in full...)
How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment?
Q. I have a good relationship with a female friend. I want our relationship to become closer and I want sex. She seems hesitant. How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment? What are some benefits she could receive by ...
A. 20 January 2009: if she does not want to have sex with you. then she won't and does not have to.
you can't persuade or brain wash her into having sex with you. for one it would probably ruin your friendship. also she may not be the type of girl who wants to have ... (read in full...)
Extreme menstruation happening and I am scared!
Q. Dear Cupid's, I have a question for all the girls out there and any guys who are medically oriented. I suffer from excedingly heavy periods, that are very painful and completely dibilitating. Included in my flow are huge clots and things that are ...
A. 20 January 2009: go get medical professional help from either your doctor or a gyno. talk to your mum about it and let her help you out. it may be nothing serious, but you will feel so much better once you know.... (read in full...)
7 year old daughter touched by 9 year old..what to do next?
Q. My 7 year old daughter has recently informed me of a 9 year old boy that has touched her privates on different occasions. She stated to me she thought it tickled and even liked it. Now she does it to herself. I thanked her for telling me and t...
A. 20 January 2009: i think it would only be innocent curiosity. but you need to maybe talk to his parents, so they can have a chat to him about how touching girls parts is not right.
... (read in full...)
Can guys be circumcised at any age?
Q. I have a question... can guys get circumcised at any age no matter what?? Like forty or something or did they have to get it when they were little??...
A. 20 January 2009: what is wrong in having a foreskin? as long as you keep yourself clean there shouldn't be a problem. why put yourself through all that pain of having it removed because some girls are petty?
i've been with guys who have foreskins and some who don'... (read in full...)
We're going at 2 different speeds and I wish he'd slow down a bit.
Q. He's like.. Let's get it on! But I'm not ready yet! I just started dating this guy.. Our kisses are very, very passionate. I mean enough to lead up to sex, but I'm putting on the brakes. Of course I want sex but much later in the relationship. I ...
A. 19 January 2009: it's because he is a guy. they are all like that. whether they say they are or not, they all want to get some at some point.lol
you need to just tell him that you want to slow down abit, but love being with him and being intimate, but you're j... (read in full...)
Why do people put their dogs before their own life?
Q. is it normal for someone to give up the chance of a holiday because they have to look after a fudging dog? my friends and i are trying to book a holiday, but one of them is being very difficult because she can't possibly leave her dog with someone...
A. 19 January 2009: her excuse is " she needs the company"
she has the rest of the family for company! it's sad and abit pathetic. one day she will have to move out of her family home and leave her dog. what then? will she become depressed and become a recluse ... (read in full...)
Confusion about God
Q. well i gots an issue... im usually a very religious person but now im so confused about god and life and everything i love the most (acting,singing,ect) i cant take anything any more... now to my real problem. I have one person telling me on thing ...
A. 19 January 2009: ignore what everyone else thinks. everyone has their own ideas and faith. i personally don;t believe in God, but believe in the after life. but you should believe in whatever you want to. no one else should tell you otherwise. just go with what your ... (read in full...)
I want a baby really badly!!!
Q. Ok me and my bf have some what of an age difference but its not a big deal. The thing is we've been together for 2 almost 3 years febuary 2. And i love him with all my heart and he feels the same...the problem is i want a baby really really badly. ...
A. 19 January 2009: for god sake how can you look after a child when you are still a child!
you can't finacially support the baby, you can't go to school and have a baby at the same time. you can't go out with your friends and do normal teenage things with a baby. yo... (read in full...)
Can guys be circumcised at any age?
Q. I have a question... can guys get circumcised at any age no matter what?? Like forty or something or did they have to get it when they were little??...
A. 19 January 2009: they can. but i think it is mainly due to medical reaasons.... (read in full...)
Why do people put their dogs before their own life?
Q. is it normal for someone to give up the chance of a holiday because they have to look after a fudging dog? my friends and i are trying to book a holiday, but one of them is being very difficult because she can't possibly leave her dog with someone...
A. 19 January 2009: but the point is, is that she lives with her family! her brothers are there and her parents are there. it;s a family dog! so what excuse does she have in leaving it!
she is letting her youth go past her because of a dog. she turns down dates be... (read in full...)
I have sexual feelings towards my own mother since childhood, what to do...?
Q. Myself 22 year old, I never asked this to anyone coz it's too weird but I want to ask you. I have sexual feeling for my mother since I was very small I use to smell my moms clothes left in the bathroom like her bra and panty I didn't know about ma...
A. 18 January 2009: also i think it would of helped if you had stopped sleeping in the same bed as her when you got to about 4 years old. a 16 year old in the same bed as the parent, is just not right. there are no physical boundaries! like i said before...get ... (read in full...)
I have sexual feelings towards my own mother since childhood, what to do...?
Q. Myself 22 year old, I never asked this to anyone coz it's too weird but I want to ask you. I have sexual feeling for my mother since I was very small I use to smell my moms clothes left in the bathroom like her bra and panty I didn't know about ma...
A. 18 January 2009: i was going to mention Freud, but someone already has. to be honest i can't stand anything about Freud and believe it is aload of old rubbish. such as men being powerful because they have a penis! please! anyway back on subject, i think you need to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 18 January 2009: leave his sorry ass.
he obviously has issues and to hit you in public! well that just takes it to the next level. why would he be so obsessed with finding out what the girl said to you anyway, i think he is very insecure and has real issues.
but y... (read in full...)
When we have sex he wants me to talk about him with another man! What is THAT all about?
Q. Hi there! I have a Q. When me and my bf are horny/playing/having sex he loves me talking dirty which is fair enough but he always wants me to talk about him with another man every time we do have sex. Whenever i talk about him with another man he ...
A. 18 January 2009: i think it is just a fantasy that he has. you can't tell me that you have never had a fantasy of being with another woman. the reality is he will probably never actually go with a man, it;s just the fantasy.
you may have to talk to him about it a... (read in full...)
He's emotionally abusive, and physically as well. He's manipulative, controlling, and a very angry person.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship with each other for almost four years now. I am 17 and he is almost 18. I do love him, and he says that he loves me. Things have been going sour for awhile now. I'm confused, and would ...
A. 18 January 2009: it's simply.
DUMP HIM! there is nothing from stopping you ending it. what is the point in torturing yourself by staying with him?! there are plent of nice guys out there. he is not going to stop abusing you, so you just need to get out of there... (read in full...)
Why do SOME men have a problem when women breast feed in public?
Q. This is just a random question that I want to get a male perspective on. Basically why do some men find it so rude/insulting when a woman breast feeds her baby in public? I personally don't understand it.. if a baby has to be fed and there is ...
A. 18 January 2009: i just think people need to get over themselves! it's a natural thing for a mother to feed her child. ... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 18 January 2009: the only slight problem is, is that if you did fall for someone there is no certainty that she is a virgin, especially as you are in your early 30's. maybe you need to try and get past wanting a virgin. i can understand where you are coming from ... (read in full...)
I can't control my dick
Q. hi everyone.. i need a little advice so im 14 years old and im in the 8th grade and lately ive been having a really- really strong erge to have sex... and its like i cant control my dick.. i get hard so easily and it happens when it wants to...
A. 18 January 2009: it's called puberty babe. it will calm down eventually. all boys go through the same thing. maybe you need to start thinking of something different when you start to feel these urges, take your mind of it.
it's only because your hormones are all ... (read in full...)
Can dating get us into trouble since we're minors?
Q. my b/f, 18, and me, 15 r going out in secret, and when were talking to a teacher, while i said things that made it obvious that im in his life alot, like a g/f, so the teacher asked if him if we were going out, and he said to ask me, and by then ...
A. 18 January 2009: you can date and be friends, but if you take things further and have any sort of sexual activity then that will be breaking the law and he could go to prison for rape. ask yourself if it is really worth it, as there are plenty more fish in the sea!... (read in full...)
He's going to college, date him? or not?
Q. well im 15 and my best friendiis 19 .we have be friend for 2 year .i really like .well i think im falling in love with him .well he asked me out but i dont want to go out with him cause he bout to go off to college but then again i do cause i love ...
A. 18 January 2009: i think it is great that you are friends, but i don't think you should date him.
for a start he is much older then you and when it comes to romance he probably has different ideas then you do.
also he is about to start college/uni, from my exper... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with other girls before he marries me...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years now. We are both in our early 20's and I've been thinking about our future together. He's told me that he doesn't know if there will be a future with us. He says he loves me and wants to marry ...
A. 18 January 2009: he's not ready for marriage! whatever you do, do not marry him yet. if he was really ready to marry you the only person he would want to be with, is you! you either need to really think about your future with him or maybe suggest putting the ... (read in full...)
Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.
Q. So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ...
A. 18 January 2009: from what i can tell i think you really want to have your baby girl. so the last poster probably was not a great help giving you info about abortion and adoption. you can only abort up to 24 weeks anyway. i may be wrong, but it is around there. ... (read in full...)
Second date and I want to know where its going
Q. WEll,here goes.Tonight,I had date number two with this WONDERFUL guy.Im very interested in him,and have taken quite a liking to him.But he is sort of quiet and soft spoken.Im the same way myself.I dont have a problem with that but im wondering what ...
A. 17 January 2009: relax a little, it's only the second date. you should still be getting to know eachother and having fun. stop worrying where it is going and just enjoy the ride. it's just dating. if you both feel like you want to be official eventually then you ... (read in full...)
Want to get naughty, but parents do "room patrol"
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and he wants me to give him a hand job. Im ok with the idea its just that whenever i go to his house, his parents are there and they sometimes come into his room to “check on us”. I ...
A. 17 January 2009: double M is right. if you are between 18-21 then you should beable to do whatever you want. i suggest he gets a lock or you go to your house? however if you are under 18-21, then i understand why they would be worried.
if you are over 18 i think ... (read in full...)
How do you I flirt with a straight guy?
Q. HEY! i'm in love with a straight guy, but he dosent really notice......so i was just wondering.......how to flirt or give hints that you like him.....since everything i'm doing is completely useless!!!!! unfortunately my talents arent helping me i...
A. 17 January 2009: if he is straight then he won't be interested in you and you will be wasting your time flirting with him, when you could be flirting with a guy who would be interested in you.
a straight guy will not feel happy with a gay guy flirting with him,... (read in full...)
Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.
Q. So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ...
A. 17 January 2009: no offence but no guy your age would probably be interested in dating a girl who is pregnant. they would rather be out having fun and doing things their age should be doing. ok there may be that really special guy who would stick by you, but the ... (read in full...)
Does it always hurt first time???
Q. Is it always the case that when a woman has sex for the 1st time then she should have pain while doing intercourse with her husband...... or not?...
A. 17 January 2009: there will always be some sort of pain. some women have it worse then others. i personally thought my first time really hurt and was really horrid. it was not pleasant at all and all i kept thinking throughout was "i wish he would hurry up and cum" ... (read in full...)
I don't prefer breast feeding, but I have an alternative, what do you think?
Q. I'm not pregnant, I don't have any children, I'm not in a relationship. But I have been asked the question if I did have a child would I breast feed. I don't want to. Now, I'm willing to pump the milk and bottle feed. People have reacted so hosti...
A. 17 January 2009: chill. you will never make up your mind untill you actually have a baby. my friend used to say that she would not breast feed a baby, but then she had a baby and breast fed him untill he was 6 months. alot of it also has to do with the fact that ... (read in full...)
Need handjob advice!
Q. Hey people, Right, i'm really scared to give a guy a handjob because iv'e never gave one before. And I kind of know what to do but i don't at the same time, if you get me. Do i go on my knees and do it? And what happens when he cums? P...
A. 16 January 2009: you don't have to go on your knees, you can do it with him sitting next to you or laying down looking at eachother.
just simply rub his groin and then put your hand into his boxers and maybe suggest that he takes them off. once they are off just... (read in full...)
Boyfriend likes it rough
Q. Hi guys its Bailey again with some other questions about that rough sex i've been having with my boyfriend. these are just simple opinon questions and i need an honest oppion. 1. Do you think its because he's really buff and i have very little...
A. 16 January 2009: it's non of those questions...it's simply that he thinks you enjoy rough sex, because you have never told him other wise. tell him you don't enjoy it and want him to go slower.
age,build,experience has nothing to do with having rough sex!... (read in full...)
Getting hurt/bruised during sex
Q. ok so my boyfriend and i just moved in together and on the second night i come home and he's standing there naked and wanted to have sex. I really not the kind of person who has sex with a person that fast(we've only known each other six months) and ...
A. 16 January 2009: why did you move in with him if you have not got a close sexual relationship? you shouldn't of rushed into moving in together, as you both obviously have different ideas of what living together means.
fair enough it is not right that he should be r... (read in full...)
How do women feel about a foot fetish man?
Q. Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wonder...
A. 16 January 2009: ok personally i hate feet, so i find it really odd and creepy. but that's just my opinion. i personally could not stand a guy touching, kissing or sucking my feet. however if he wanted to buy me nice shoes to make my feet look nice then that would ... (read in full...)
The only Marine who's never had a girlfriend.
Q. I'm a 20 year old United States Marine Corps, I've been in for 1 year and 7 months, I'm an infantryman and I'm shipping out to Afghanistan soon. I have never had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl. All the other marines I know have all had ...
A. 16 January 2009: hey give me your number!
i'm sure any lucky lady would love to be with someone like you. sometimes things happen for a reason, maybe she will be waiting for you when you come back from your tour. you will make it back and the right girl will be ... (read in full...)
Pro life vs Pro choice?
Q. So I've been dating a wonderful woman for about 7 months. We met on a popular dating site back in May. I kept it cool for the first few weeks, as I was casually seeing a couple of other people at the time. I'm in my early 40's, so I've been ...
A. 16 January 2009: at the end of the day it is the woman's choice. it is her body after all. i think some men are against abortion because it is one thing they can not really control. i think if a woman wants to have an abortion then it is up to her. i don't see why ... (read in full...)
Why do so many women want to be in control?
Q. My relationship is great except for the following: She's a real nag sometimes and it drives me nuts! She's controlling and it effects my self-esteem. Why do so many women want to be in control? Don't they know it makes us feel like less of a m...
A. 16 January 2009: what is wrong with a little romance? not everything has to lead to sex. sometimes back rubbing, cuddles can be amazing. she probably nags you because she feels like she is the only one doing simple tasks like house chores,etc. try and understand ... (read in full...)
He's asking for topless photos of me? Is he using me?
Q. Hiya, well basically im 18 years old girl and i've never done anything with a guy. Im not allowed boyfriends and when i would get close 2 a boy my own age or older, they would always show their true colors sooner or later making me just feel like ...
A. 16 January 2009: don't send them...he will only show his friends or worse..like stick them on some awful internet site! so don't do it.... (read in full...)
Age difference is causing problems with sexual compatability
Q. I have been an absolute idiot and don't know what to do. I have been so stressed out I can barely sleep. I am in a relationship with a much older man and have been for four years. It has been my only serious relationship. I have no issues or any...
A. 16 January 2009: ok first of all he is only your first serious relationship, so therefore he does not need to be your last!
you are young and should beable to go and have some fun. don't settle for someone who is older and has done everything that you want to do. ... (read in full...)
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