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Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?

Q.   Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...

A.   26 February 2009: you've just got to keep looking. maybe don't let yourself fall for a girl so easily. get to know her alot more before you make anything official.... (read in full...)

My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!

Q.   My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...

A.   14 February 2009: i'm sorry but just because a guy masturbates to some girl getting cum on her face, does not mean that his partner should fulfill this degrading fantasy, just to make him happy. if you don't want to do it babe. DON'T. let him carry on watchin... (read in full...)

First date! Any tips?

Q.   Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?...

A.   14 February 2009: well it all depends on if she is ready as well. maybe make a little gesture and put your arm around her on the seat. but for god's sake don't yawn and stretch as you do it. that's so cheesey and awful. i wish guys wouldn't do that! also you will... (read in full...)

My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!

Q.   My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...

A.   14 February 2009: i def think he needs to stop watching the porn films! those so called actors, if that's what you wanna call them, are paid too much money, so they have no respect for themselves and let guys cum on their faces. there is nothing nice and intimate ... (read in full...)

First date! Any tips?

Q.   Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?...

A.   13 February 2009: cinema's are a good first date for young teens. go for a comedy, so you both have something to laugh at and break the ice with a bit. buy her some popcorn. the gesture will be sweet and a little romantic. don't worry about making any moves on her, ... (read in full...)

My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!

Q.   My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...

A.   13 February 2009: then don't let him do it! if you don't like it then tell him and don't let him do it. i hate it as well and i would never let a guy do it to me, as i don't like it. if he wants to cum on you, let him cum on your breasts or stomache if you like tha... (read in full...)

My b/f wants to cum on my face & in my mouth but I hate it!

Q.   My boyfriend of a year wants to come in my mouth and on my face. I give him oral sex, and I let him come on my neck and boobs, but he is always unhappy. Having cum on my face feels disgusting and I feel violated and disrespected. He wants me to go ...

A.   13 February 2009: then don't let him do it! if you don't like it then tell him and don't let him do it. i hate it as well and i would never let a guy do it to me, as i don't like it. if he wants to cum on you, let him cum on your breasts or stomache if you like tha... (read in full...)

First time with a prostitute...

Q.   Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...

A.   13 February 2009: trust me. people always remember their first time! you can't say you won't, because you will. people either look back with a smile or with an ick factor. mine was ick. do you really want to tell your future gf's that your first time was with a hook... (read in full...)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

Q.   Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

A.   13 February 2009: well if you are going to do it, you will do it. but i think you are being responsible when it comes down to talking to your bf about it and seeing if he is ready. however if he is not, then you will have to wait. remember sex is a big deal, if... (read in full...)

I've never had to share my boyfriend before, his little girl makes me mad at times!

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been togeather for 4 months now and we both have daughters. Mine 8 and his 5. I love him sooo much but i am jelious of his daughter and his relationship with her.We dont fight about anything but his daughter or his ex. I know ...

A.   13 February 2009: it's simple. if you are going to be with a guy who is a father then you have to except that his child will always be number 1. there's nothing you can do to change that. maybe you should spend sometime with the kid, take her to the park, shopping... (read in full...)

First time with a prostitute...

Q.   Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...

A.   13 February 2009: but you won't think that you can just go and do it...you still won't be confident to go up to a girl and ask her out. cause you would not have done it before, paying a girl is not the same as asking her out on a date and being yourself. shagg... (read in full...)

Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?

Q.   Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...

A.   13 February 2009: i'm sorry but i don't ever get with a guy and fall in love, then dump him! that's just stupid. the only reason i have ever finished a relationship was because one guy told me he loved me, then he asked me if he could date another girl while we... (read in full...)

Does the size a woman's boobs matter to men?

Q.   I am worried... I have small boobs and that the guy I like won't find me attractive becasue of it, does the size a woman's boobs matter to men? Is there anything I can do to make me feel more attractive in front of my guy and is there anything I ...

A.   12 February 2009: boobs are like penis sizes. we all think it really matters whether they are big or small, but the reality is that it does not matter one bit. if you are already in a relationship, then he is obviously attracted to your body and your mind! guys lik... (read in full...)

Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?

Q.   Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...

A.   12 February 2009: not all girls do that. i certainly wouldn't tell a guy after 2 months that i love him. how can you fall in love that quickly?! are you sure you didn't pressure them into saying it, by you saying it first? love and lust can feel similar. sometime... (read in full...)

A car accident a couple of years back have left my breasts mis-shapen.

Q.   Okay a bit of a boobie question. I really hate my breasts, I know I should try to accept and 'love' them but I can't. I am a 36a and they seem mishapen. I was in a car accident a couple of years ago and they are scarred and slightly puckered, also a ...

A.   12 February 2009: makeup. a little powder and bronz can make them look sexy and also add a little shadow to the cleavage. you would be amazed at what they do in films, tv and porn. also there are some very sexy bras out there. you don't have to take a bra off du... (read in full...)

What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him?

Q.   What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him? I don't want it to be able to be taken the wrong way, though. just something little... any ideas?...

A.   12 February 2009: NOTHING! you shouldn't get your teacher anything, because that it crossing boundaries. you are a student. you mean nothing more then that to the teacher. at the end of the day they go home and forget about work and their students. there are no e... (read in full...)

First time with a prostitute...

Q.   Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...

A.   12 February 2009: why do it with some hooker. you mean nothing to her, she just wants the money at the end of the day! just wait for someone special to come along, it will happen! be patient.... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my wife give me her password, I gave her mine!

Q.   My wife recently brought home her laptop from work. I asked her if she would bring up her email acccount, and she refused. I caught her having an emotional affair last May and wanted to make sure that nothing was still going on. I'm still having ...

A.   11 February 2009: she does not have to give you her password. shouldn't you just trust her, being that you are married to her? sometimes a woman needs some privacy! just because she does not want to give you her password, does not mean she is hiding anything.... (read in full...)

People in animal costumes doing group sex activities??

Q.   Hello everyone! I am going to try to ask this one more time! My last 2 tries were denied! Urg! Ok I was watching TV and it showed people in animal costumes doing group sex activities! It said that it was a common practice and the people that did...

A.   11 February 2009: ew yeah i saw that baby fetish thing. very disturbing, grown men wanting to act like babies and pretend to be breast fed and actually have some poor woman change their huge nappies. ew ew ew... (read in full...)

Why does his penis slip out?

Q.   i lost my virginity a year ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex his penis slips out half way through. is this my fault? can anyone explain why this happens?...

A.   11 February 2009: sometimes this can happen if you have changed posistions, but guide him back in and he will stay put. maybe tell him not to thrust out too much, maybe he is pulling away too much and slipping out.... (read in full...)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

Q.   Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

A.   11 February 2009: candles, satin sheets, bubble baths, soft lighting, music....non of that takes away the physical pain you will feel! you best wait till you are older. you're still a child! children should not have sex! there are too many pregnant kids around these ... (read in full...)

I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!

Q.   Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. ...

A.   11 February 2009: at the end of the day your actions have made you look and become a right ass. all i can say is good luck getting out of this one... (read in full...)

Is it normal to get spots on your chest?

Q.   is it normal to get spots on your chest in the middle? and how can i get rid of the spots? the same as any other or what??? :S...

A.   11 February 2009: i think it's caused by sweat. after all it gets hot in between your breasts. just make sure you wash well and don't worry about the spots, they will go on there own as long as you don't pick them! ... (read in full...)

Shouldn't I love him no matter what?

Q.   I love my bf, he's a great guy. But sometimes I wish he were better looking. I make him wear a hat all the time cos his hair is awful and he's going bald. But I sometimes feel like that is really messed up. Shouldn't I love him no matter what? But ...

A.   11 February 2009: ask yourself what attracted you to him in the first place. try and think about those first moments of getting together. he can't help it if he is loosing hair. it's in his genes. nothing wrong with Bruce Willis! he can make bald look hot.lol you c... (read in full...)

Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish?...

Q.   Is there a condition where a woman's orgasm causes her libido to diminish? If my wife and I have sex and she doesn't achieve an orgasm, she wants more. But if she achieves an orgasm, we can go days without her desiring more. And God forbid, she has ...

A.   10 February 2009: i think women can just go without sex for longer then men. we don't have such a high sex drive as men. i think men think about sex alot more then women. i can go without it for days if i didn't feel like it.i don't think it's a condition, i just ... (read in full...)

Is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation?

Q.   is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation? like, keep in contact via email and maybe, meet for coffee once in a while? i mean, it's not like they'd exactly be student- teacher anymore, right?...

A.   10 February 2009: well i graduated from uni a year ago and i still keep in contact with one of my tutors, but he got on with everyone. plus uni is alot different to school. but then again i still talk to odd old school teachers when i bump into them. nothing wrong ... (read in full...)

Did I ruin her birthday by saying I wasn't ready for under the pants action?

Q.   okay ineed a little help... mee and my girlfriend have been going out for over 3 months now,, and she's great, i love her to death, i cant be without her and she loves me too-she's a really great grl.. so yesterday was her birthday and she...

A.   10 February 2009: honey you are obviously not ready for sex and made the right choice in stopping her from trying to take it further. you should never just have sex to make the other person happy, you come first! if you are not ready then you should not do it. you ... (read in full...)

Anal sex: What is like to give it? What is it like to get it?

Q.   akward question my girlfriend confronted me the other day and told me she wanted to try anal sex with me (her recieving of course) ive never tried it so i dont know what to expect can any guys tell me what its like to do that to a woman an...

A.   10 February 2009: i think guys seem to like it more then girls. from what i have heard anyway. i personally don't fancy it at all. i think it would just be painful and make you feel like an animal or something he does not really care about. sounds silly i know, but ... (read in full...)

Son stealing my dirty panties to "relieve" himself...Help!

Q.   My 13yr old son has been stealing my dirty panties and I believe he is using them to "assist" himself. I have found several pairs under his bed and well lets say there is evidence as to what he is doing. Do I confront him about? Do I just ignore ...

A.   10 February 2009: saying "please don't use my panties" would just cause so many problems with the mother, son relationship and also could effect him in the future. just remove any pants you have found in his room, maybe keep your dirty underwear in a separate... (read in full...)

Girlfriend always has to masturbate before sex!

Q.   My girlfriend that I have been with for about 2 years has recently started masturbating before we have sex. I find it completely odd. This is how it usually plays out... I start doing stuff with her and getting "fresh" haha but after we start ...

A.   10 February 2009: maybe she finds it hard to get wet, maybe you are not doing enough foreplay with her? women are not like men, we don't just suddenly get turned on that quick. ... (read in full...)

Ex is so mean to me since we broke up, what can I do?

Q.   i went out with this guy about a year ago and since we broke up (it was kinda a mutual agreement)and hes really mean to me ALL the time! its really getting me down! hes really mean to me! i was just wondering what to do?...

A.   10 February 2009:  it's simple, cut him out of your life. don't talk to him, ignore him, pretend he does not exist anymore. if he hangs with the same group as friends as you, just ignore him untill he is mature enough to see he is being a little prick. remember he is ... (read in full...)

Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?

Q.   I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just ...

A.   10 February 2009: i think that's a little old fashioned now. most people have excepted female masturbation and i think women are alot more expressive these days. sure the older generation may still see it as taboo. i think it is excepted these days and i don't think ... (read in full...)

After the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle?

Q.   this is a question to the ladies. after the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle? my 2 best friends said their period was delayed after making love the first time. i recently had sex and i was due to come on on saturday. ...

A.   10 February 2009: no. what aload of old tosh from your friends. the reality is that periods are not always like clock work. also you are still young and your body is still maturing. when i was your age my periods were never on the same date each month. sure they ... (read in full...)

How can I bring on my period?

Q.   Hi, i know questions like these come up all the time cos i've seem them myself, but i just cant not say nothing! to cut a long story short, i had sex 3 weeks ago, first time with my current boyfriend and we used a condom, didnt see no split or ...

A.   9 February 2009: sometimes periods change dates. last month i was 5 days late, this month i came on the normal date. it just depends. i wouldn't worry too much.... (read in full...)

She's on the Pill, so can I go without a johnny?

Q.   hey guys bit of a sex question here.......wasnt really told this in school lol . errr my GF is on the pill that apparently makes her 95% less likely to get pregnant or somit, she finished her period like 4 days ago, she recons its nearly impossibl...

A.   9 February 2009: my friend was on the pill. took it every day, was really good.....then she found out that she was pregnant. use a condom!... (read in full...)

Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you?

Q.   Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you? What are some fun ideas? Do you like to have a romantic evening leading up to sex for Valentine's Day? Do you enjoy sex on Valentine's Day? How can your guy make Valentine's Day sex for ...

A.   9 February 2009: by spending the day with us. not going out with the guys! it's as simple as that. does not have to be anything fancy. maybe go out for the day or go to dinner, or have him cook something and just snuggle up on the sofa with a dvd. simple. everyday ... (read in full...)

Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?

Q.   Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay ...

A.   9 February 2009: it's disgusting. the thought that someone out there would do that. those sorts of people don't deserve to have bf's. asking someone to go through pain just for their selfish reasons is so awful and so wrong. ... (read in full...)

Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?

Q.   Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay ...

A.   9 February 2009: HELL NO! what are you thinking?!? you want this poor guy to go and be circumcsied just because you don't like uncut men! are you for real. do you really think a guy would put himself through all that pain just to keep you happy. i would never dr... (read in full...)

I like him but he says I'm too young for him!!

Q.   im 16 years old and the boy i like is 19 we have been talking for a while he came over to see me and we talked in his car for 2 hours...then i told him that my uncle said he dont want us dating and come to find out they are friends due to his cousin ...

A.   9 February 2009: well hun most 19 year old boys want a girl they can go clubbing with and have fun with. there is a big age difference really between a 16 year old and a 19 year old. you can grow up a hell of alot in a couple of years. you are better off sticking to ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend for not liking anal?

Q.   Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend of almost one year for not liking anal? I told him that I didn't like it while we were doing it and he insisted that we continue because I was only lying that it hurt so that he would think I am ...

A.   9 February 2009: whoa you told him you didn't like it, but he continued! he has no respect for you and that is bordering on the lines of rape. if you told him to stop, he should have stopped! he sounds like a right asshole! you would be far better off without him. ... (read in full...)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

Q.   Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

A.   8 February 2009: see your reply is very immature! that to me says it all. why come on here and ask for advice and opinions then say i'm not going to listen to you. that's very irresponsible and immature. no way should you have sex. how would you cope with the... (read in full...)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

Q.   Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

A.   8 February 2009: i'm sorry but you ARE WAY TOO YOUNG! i know you don't want to hear it, but you are young and believe me you have no idea, you may think you are ready for sex, but the reality is that you probably aren't emotionally mature to have sex. ask your... (read in full...)

Doesn't "natural" feel better?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about condoms but I'm wondering if intercourse is more pleasurable if you can feel a boy's real penis and semen rather than just rubber?...

A.   8 February 2009: if you know the both of you are negative for STD's and have been tested. then USE A CONDOM! also the pill is not 100% safe and you could still fall pregnant. my friend sure did!... (read in full...)

Tips to make masturbation more fun and enjoyable?

Q.   hey. im 16 and i get really horny i mean big time every day almost. is this bad? when i get horny i finger myself i love doin this but its gettin a bit borin. i dont have vibrator and i dont think i could buy one but does anyone no any ways i could...

A.   8 February 2009: just a question, if you are 16 then why does your age say 35? you can order toys through the net. if you dont want to buy a sex toy, you could always buy an electric toothbrush. just don't let anyone in the house use it to brush their teeth. k... (read in full...)

What do you do when the hymen breaks during first time sex?

Q.   what do you do if your hymen breaks during sex for the first time, do you keep going or what??????????...

A.   8 February 2009: you can keep going. it may be a little painful and there may be blood but nothing major. it's bound to break during first time sex, unless you used to horse ride alot. ... (read in full...)

I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!

Q.   Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. ...

A.   8 February 2009: yes you did do the wrong thing! why on earth did you cheat on your wonderful partner just to screw around your ex's head. if anything the ball is in your ex's court, as she was able to use this against you. you should have thought about that! ... (read in full...)

Son stealing my dirty panties to "relieve" himself...Help!

Q.   My 13yr old son has been stealing my dirty panties and I believe he is using them to "assist" himself. I have found several pairs under his bed and well lets say there is evidence as to what he is doing. Do I confront him about? Do I just ignore ...

A.   7 February 2009: i think you need to talk to him about it. just say you were tidying his room and found your pants under his bed, ask what they are doing there and see what he says. it's not normal for someone to use their parents underwear as a tool for ... (read in full...)

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