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Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   8 February 2009: maybe you need something to take your mind off this crush. after all nothing can happen and i think you know that. maybe you should take up some sort of hobby or join a club and meet guys your own age. i'm sure there is some cute guy out there for ... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   1 January 2009: yeah he could ignore our advice, go have sex and become a father or get an STD. then he will come back on here with a question like "i'm 13 and i am a father with HIV,help" then i will just say i told you so you stupid little idiot. there... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   30 December 2008: well if you are not going to listen to any advice on here, then why did you bother asking the question? it just shows that you are too immature to be having sex as you obviously dont care about the consquences.... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   29 December 2008: well hope it helps you out.... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   28 December 2008: it's not insulting advice at all. believe me. you just need to let it go like any crush. you go through the stages of being all loved up and then it just slowly goes, unless of course you get with the person. but just let it pass and you will feel ... (read in full...)

Having trouble with erections

Q.   hi, im 25yrs old boy,from the age of 18 yrs i used to press my penis r testis for ejaction of sperm,but one day my penis loose erection power.now when ever i watch sex scene my penis will not erect what is my problem it is Erectile dysfunction r ...

A.   27 December 2008: it could be either mental or physical. you could be worrying about it so much that you are simply stopping yourself from feeling relaxed and turned on, so therefore you are not getting an erection. it could be a physical thing, i'm not a doct... (read in full...)

Which girl would you ask out?

Q.   what types of girl do guys mostlt for: A)heavy girl with class and sophication,sort of pretty just about B)blonde or red head or brunnette c)easy girl with no class ,dresses trashy ,goodlooking, D)girl of class, sophication,ed...

A.   27 December 2008: this is abit of a silly question really, as guys all like different types of girls. ... (read in full...)

What is the normal age for the following sexual activities?

Q.   I'm curious as to at what age certain sexual activites start to happen. If some one could tell me the average age for the following: Seeing a girl naked (in person obviously and not a baby or something) Fingering Oral (to a girl) Oral (recivi...

A.   26 December 2008: to be honest there is not right or wrong answer. everyone starts doing sexual things at different ages. all i can tell you is that most guys my age (23) don't like or know how to give oral sex. so it's a struggle to find one who does like it. as f... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   26 December 2008: i know how it feels because i once had a teenage crush on a teacher. of course nothing happened because i realised that nothing ever could happen. the reason i said that you were immature was because you are too young to realise that nothing can ... (read in full...)

Penis bigger than usual..why?

Q.   Alright so I'm wondering if anyone can explain this. A few days ago I was having sex with my girlfriend, it was the first time I'd seen her in a little while so I was pretty pent up. Anyways, she kept going on about it being bigger than usua...

A.   26 December 2008: from a female point of view, she was probably saying all that to make you feel real good about yourself. she was probably really excited to see that you have a nice big penis, so she was expressing that. we always tell the guy what he wants to hear.... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   26 December 2008: you are obviously immature. another reason why nothing will happen. get over it and grow up!... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   26 December 2008: just because you like to jerk off alot, does not mean that you are ready for sex and most girls your age are def not ready for sex. you are still a child and under the age of consent.think about why these laws are inplace and then you may see that ... (read in full...)

I think masturbating is affecting my health

Q.   I am 22 yr old..but just 45 kg..i am masturbating once or twice in a week..i think it is affecting my health..But i cant control it..What should I do?...

A.   26 December 2008: there is nothing connected to masturbating and weight issues. i think you need to maybe talk to your doctor about your diet and get them to sort you out a healthy balanced diet, which will help you put on weight. eat more carbs, make your port... (read in full...)

Sex with friends 14 year old sister?

Q.   i am 17 years old can i do sex with my friends sister but she is only 14 years old can i do with use of condom...

A.   26 December 2008: if she is a minor in your country, then no. because you could go to jail. also is she even ready for sex? 14 is very young and i doubt she is emotionally ready for sex. you can't just have sex with her if she don't want it. are you even in a ... (read in full...)

Why's he being like this to me?

Q.   Hi everyone merry christmas. This is about my ex bf, xmas eve i went down the pub where he works, i had my camera and taking loads of people with it, especially this one guy,as he's my friends bf, anyway i didn't think much of it but i saw him last...

A.   26 December 2008: don't feel bad. after all he is an EX. i have had this problem in the past, where i have been at the same pub as my ex and i was with some guy that i met, and the next day my ex was asking who he was,blah blah. i just told him that it was non of his ... (read in full...)

I've been mean to my b/f since oral sex!

Q.   ever since I gave my boyfriend head I feel like I've been really mean to him. do you think it's because I feel guilty for doing it. It was my first time and I wanted to wait until marriage for all of that stuff.. but I guess I didn't I feel really ...

A.   26 December 2008: you probably do feel alittle guilty. but all i can say is what's done, is done. you can't change that. anyway it's only oral sex, maybe you should just wait to have sexual intercourse. make that your special thing for when you are married if that is ... (read in full...)

Too old for a first boyfriend

Q.   is 30 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss,i know i am pathetic...

A.   26 December 2008: there is nothing wrong with it. just don't leave it too long, as it may get harder when it comes to your confidence. some people start relationships young, i had my first when i was 17 but then my friend who is 23 has never been on a date or been... (read in full...)

Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!

Q.   hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i ...

A.   26 December 2008: i would like to say that these feelings are due to your age, but then having a thing for your sister is not normal. my advice would be to call a help line, they are confidential and won't appear on your parents phone bill. there is obviously another ... (read in full...)

What do I do when my boyfriend's 21 and I'm only 13?

Q.   I met my boyfriend online, and had no intention of ever getting together with him. But we talked, and found we had a lot in common... and eventually it got to the point where he told me he was attracted to me; I reciprocated the feelings. ...

A.   24 December 2008: it sounds like the guy is nothing but a kiddie pervert. if he knows you are only 13 and that you are a minor then he is grooming you. you need to stop all communication with this guy. he is only an internet "bf" so you can't seriously think it is ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   24 December 2008: i'll say what i said before...you need to get over it. and trust me when you are older you will look back and see that it was not love, it was lust. you are too young to understand what i mean. but for now just forget about him and move on. it may ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my math teacher?

Q.   Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...

A.   22 December 2008: leave him alone! if you tried anything or anything happened you would be expelled and he would loose his job, go to jail and never be allowed to teach. it's simple realise that it is just a silly schoolgirl crush and that you will get over it... (read in full...)

He is always talking about sex, is that all he wants?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and all he ever talks about is sex. Am 15 and he is 17. Yes I know its a pretty large age gap. On msn he always says to me Shona .... would you ever do anal n am like no n he always asks me ...

A.   22 December 2008: hun take it from me...it's because he is a guy and very hormonal. most guys in their teens and early adulthood have very high sex urges.basically all they think about is sex. all you can do is say no if you are not ready and just make him wait... (read in full...)

Ladies: How would you feel if the guy you picked up had only one testicle?

Q.   I only have one testicle. I have had girlfriends in the past; but I was wondering how a girl would react if it were a more casual. If you don't already have an emotional attachment to him, how would you react if you found out a guy that you pick...

A.   22 December 2008: us girls dont care about your balls. some guys like to think we do, but really we dont. as long as you are cute,sexy,friendly,funny and can get it up, then thats all we want. 2 balls, 1 ball, no balls ...who gives a bull!... (read in full...)

Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?

Q.   I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...

A.   22 December 2008: you know honey it's up to you what you do. you shouldn't do something just because a guy wants you to. the all bald look if awful and trust me it itches. it;s not good. the best thing to do is just keep neat and tidy. ... (read in full...)

How to get a girl?

Q.   Im 17 and i want to experience sex with a girl. I life in a small town. Any tips on how to get i girl? None of my friends are interested in trying this. Any tips? ...

A.   22 December 2008: i'm not being rude here. but you can't just get a girl to have sex with her. that's called using and being a bastard. what's the rush, you are only 17. keep it in your pants.... (read in full...)

Worried and intimidated by a blooming sex toy that my girlfriend is waving around me!

Q.   My new girlfriend and I have known each other for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks, she told me today she got a dildo as a gift from co-worker... apparently not as a joke either. We are yet to embark on the sexual side of our ...

A.   18 December 2008: guys need to look at sex toys as a fun thing, not something to be scared of. most girls have some sort of toy. it's no different to you guys using your hands on yourself. you should embrace the sex toy. lol. make it part of the fun when you do ... (read in full...)

15 years old and never had a boyfriend. Strange???

Q.   I am 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. (trying to keep it simple) I am waiting for the right guy but I want to know what people think about it....

A.   15 December 2008: you are only 15! what is the rush? i know someone who has never had a date/bf and she is 23. so i dont think you need to worry. my first proper bf was when i was 18. sure i dated guys before, but i was 16 and they were not serious at all. just enjo... (read in full...)

Even though I'm extra careful having unprotected sex, I still worry something might go wrong.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have completely, unprotected sex. We're being really stupid about this (especially me) since I'm already and adult and she's still underage. Condoms are usually a little tight on my penis but, I forgot what the name was, that ...

A.   7 December 2008: not trying to make this underaged girl look stupid or anything, but if her parents wanted to report you she wouldn't beable to stop them. she can't control the law, she has to except that. and as you are the adult you need to be responsible and ... (read in full...)

Is masturbation good for your health? And how many times a day can we do it?

Q.   Im 20 yrs old guy.. i not yet experiment masturbation.. my penis size is 15cm when(erect) my friends said it is very big size.. It will affect my future wife..and i plan now to do masturbation.. does it good for health or not.. and tell me how many ...

A.   3 December 2008: lol your friends are obviously just very jealous. it won't effect your future wife at all. it will just make her very happy. your friends need a rain check!... (read in full...)

Even though I'm extra careful having unprotected sex, I still worry something might go wrong.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have completely, unprotected sex. We're being really stupid about this (especially me) since I'm already and adult and she's still underage. Condoms are usually a little tight on my penis but, I forgot what the name was, that ...

A.   3 December 2008: i'm sorry to say this, but man are you stupid!!! for a start what are you thinking having unprotective sex with a minor. that kinda puts you in the league with the sex offenders. sorry to say that, but if you are having a sexual relation... (read in full...)

Is "queefing" during sex a turn off?

Q.   is it a turn off when a girl "qweefs" (air being pushed out of the vagina making a farting noise) during sex? or what do they think about it??...

A.   3 December 2008: it's just from the air being pushed into you from the guy's penis. there is not much else you can do, as like the other person said...it has to come out. it really is not a noticeable thing, i'm sure the guy is not that concerned by the noise of ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant?

Q.   hi. I'm 17 and I'm getting worried. I have been gaining a lot of weight lately and I haven't had my period in almost 2 months. It doesn't look like my stomach is getting bigger but I'm starting to wonder... Could i be pregnant?...

A.   29 November 2008: just do a pregnancy test. it's the only way you can find out. after all asking people on here will only get you opinions, but you need facts. so do the test and find out for sure.... (read in full...)

I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex,

Q.   Hello, I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex, although I haven't got a boyfriend, the thought of it just scares me. If I got into the situation, I wouldn't have a clue what to do, it's not like I ever have boyfriends or stuff because my ...

A.   29 November 2008: just because you are turning 16 does not mean you have to have sex. i never had sex untill i was 19. there is no rule saying you must have sex once you turn 16. you are obviously not ready for sex, so just don't do it. wait untill you are olde... (read in full...)

My husband is very selfish in bed!

Q.   I have been married for a year and the problem is that I think my husband doesn't love me. The only time when he kisses me or hugs me is when he wants to have sex. To make it worse, when we have sex it is all about him, receiving massages, oral sex ...

A.   28 November 2008: you just need to tell him you dont want to have sex as you are tired or whatever. make an excuse. do this for a few times and he may get the message. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is overprotective of his phone but checks mine non-stop!

Q.   Something isnt right. My bf (who is 19 and so am i) of 2 months seems overly protective of his phone considering how he goes through my phone non stop and always has to know who im calling/texting etc. When he gets a message, if I ask him casual...

A.   28 November 2008: don't let him read your messages! it's non of his business. you should say if you can't see his then he certainly can't read yours. don't leave your phone around for him to look at it. hide it or keep it with you. he may get the message then. if... (read in full...)

I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past

Q.   I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past. She is a virgin, so with her being a virgin, I believed she had never done anything remotely sexual. I was wrong. Within the first 3 months she told me about flashing some random mexicans. I...

A.   28 November 2008: why does it matter if she has had sexual experiences in the past? before i had sex i had still given hand jobs,etc to ex's. it's not big deal. if you dont like hearing about her past stories then dont ask about them. it's simple. forget the past... (read in full...)

How do I speed up my period so it will end sooner?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have the whole house to ourselves on Sunday and we hardly ever get the whole house anymore. It should hopefully be good but there's one small problem.. I'm on my period. My periods normally last about 5 or 6 days and on Sund...

A.   28 November 2008: sorry but this question made me laugh. hun you can't speed up your period. you just have to be patient and tell him to be patient. periods are not something you can control. they don't come with a remote control. you have to just put up with it... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a lady plays with her ear lobe?

Q.   What does it mean when a lady plays with her earlobe when talking/flirting with a man?...

A.   28 November 2008: to be honest no idea. i think it;s just one of those little flirty things, like when a girl plays with her hair. we probably just do it without thinking about it... (read in full...)

Why did the other boy work better and not this one?

Q.   hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke ...

A.   28 November 2008: i remember being your age. i thought i knew everyone and was right the whole time. but i can tell you from experience, your not! you obviously are not mature enough for sex, because you are on here asking this question about why one guy was better ... (read in full...)

Stomach bug or Pregnancy?

Q.   Ive been sleeping with this guy for about 5 weeks, and im really scared im pregenent, Since yesterday afternoon during work i begain to feel faint, and had to go to the toilet 3 times as i had a bad stomach, i also felt like i needed fresh air ( ...

A.   27 November 2008: it could be the stomach flu thats going around. i had it myself a few weeks ago, felt really ill with it. but i would suggest you go to your doctors just to make yourself feel better. otherwise you will only worry yourself silly.... (read in full...)

Am I over reacting about my wife and her son?

Q.   I am 66 nearly 67 and my wife of 12 yrs is 22rs younger. we have both had previous marriages. We have 2 children and my wifes eldest son aged 23 (from her prevous marriage has come to live with us in the last 3 months having been kicked out of ...

A.   27 November 2008: you can't seriously be suggesting that your wife is having sex with her own son? thats just so wrong and disturbing that you would think that. ... (read in full...)

Will I regret saving my viginity for marriage?

Q.   Has anyone saved themselves for marriage and then regretted it and wished they had slept with their partner before or wished they'd had more than 1 sexual partner? Thanks...

A.   27 November 2008: there is no right or wrong answer. as the people who save themselves for marriage wont know what it;s like to have had sex before, obviously, and people who have had sex before marriage won't know what it's like to save themselves. so really i... (read in full...)

He wanted me to stick my finger up his bum! Why?

Q.   my bf and i was having sex the other day when he wanted me to stick my finger up his bum, why did he want me to do this, he said he liked it mut my nails where to long, i was going to do it again last nite but he said no why did he want me to do it...

A.   27 November 2008: male G spot! use a condom over your finger. use plenty of lube and enter his ass slowly. if you really dont like it, then tell him and don't do it. after all sex is a 2 way pleasure thing. it's not all about him! but give it ago and c how you go. ... (read in full...)

He's not well endowed enough for me so he wants a divorce....

Q.   I'm 31, and married with a 5-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter. I've been married for 4 years now. Last week my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I was shocked when I heard it. I asked him why, and he said "I'm not well-endowed eno...

A.   27 November 2008: 2 words...couple conseling he obviously has some sort of issue and before he jumps into the world of divorce maybe you need to talk about it properly, being with a professional may help him to talk about what is really bothering him... (read in full...)

Why did the other boy work better and not this one?

Q.   hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke ...

A.   27 November 2008: i'm sorry but why are you even having sex at such a young immature age?! you are both far too young to be having a sexual realtionship. wait till you are older and mature enough for sex... (read in full...)

Does a mouth ulcer indicate pregnancy?

Q.   Hiya i have one question does having a Mouth ulcer mean a sign of being pregnent my friends just found out shes pregnent and she said she had a mouth ulcer just before she found out, I actually said to her that shes being stupid and thats not one ...

A.   27 November 2008: mouth ulcers are a sign of low immunity, not pregnancy! otherwise why would men get mouth ulcers? ... (read in full...)

My husband is very selfish in bed!

Q.   I have been married for a year and the problem is that I think my husband doesn't love me. The only time when he kisses me or hugs me is when he wants to have sex. To make it worse, when we have sex it is all about him, receiving massages, oral sex ...

A.   18 November 2008: it's simple...don't give him any oral,etc untill you have had some. us girls need to learn not to give blow job,etc untill we have had some fun. i've been in this situation a few times, where it's all about them. one of my ex's i gave a hand job ... (read in full...)

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