My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?
Q. Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...
A. 28 January 2009: what is wrong in telling your friend that they might not fit? why is being a size 12/14 such a big deal to you.
maybe she comfort eats because her friend is constantly going on about her weight and how she is not normal. i'm sorry but it's bul... (read in full...)
She ditched our friendship for a guy, now he dumpted her.
Q. ok so basically throughout high school i there were 4 close friends. one got a bf a few years ago and decided to ditch the rest of us. we never heard from her, but tried to invite her out. she never did come out, her bf was her life and she had no ...
A. 27 January 2009: i wouldn't be happy for her if she went back with him, considering he was a cheat. i still don't get why she just forgot about her friends, i never forgot my friend when i was in a relationship the other year. i felt strongly for him too, but always ... (read in full...)
Do guys like petite girls?
Q. Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...
A. 26 January 2009: every man is differen't. they all like different types of girls. some like petite,some like normal and others like the bigger ladies.
i'm abit worried about why you are so interested in what much older guys think? you are only a teen, so why woul... (read in full...)
My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?
Q. Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...
A. 26 January 2009: wait a moment..you think a size 12 is fat? honey size 12 is normal. do you no that the average woman in the UK is a size 16.
you're saying you are a size 6..well i think you need to maybe realise that you could possibly be under weight. but then... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm now!
Q. Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex ...
A. 26 January 2009: i'm confused. why are you giving yourself advise? ... (read in full...)
Girls and sexual relationships.
Q. I have been wondering in what ways do girls change when they start having sexual relationships? For example does your period stay the same or it changes completely? or your body do you actually get thicker? or your mood does it change? or in any ...
A. 26 January 2009: non of those things. why would having sex effect your body and period? what do you mean by thicker anyway?
all what happens is that you gain a little sexual confidence. nothing else.... (read in full...)
Guys: Is the first thing you notice about a girl REALLY the size of her chest?
Q. So, I'm in high school, and I've come to notice a trend in guys' behavior. (well the ones I'm around at least) They always stare at your chest. There's one guy, when asked if he knew me, said, "Oh yeah, she has really big boobs." Swear to God. My ...
A. 26 January 2009: it's probably because of their age. they have raging hormones and boobs are these fun things that they want to get their hands on.
when guys get older and more mature they start to look up at your face and notice the whole of you, rather then jus... (read in full...)
Just split with my first and only sexual partner...
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I recently split, He was my first and only sexual partner. Now that we are not together, I feel depressed and empty...Like I've lost something important to me. I feel like I just want to go out and have sex with ra...
A. 26 January 2009: you will find someone else.
it's all part of life to experience different relationships. just because he was your first, does not mean he is your last. look forward to the future. you are still very young and shouldn't worry about it. enjoy yo... (read in full...)
I told her if she had a termination we were over!!!
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and she recently found out she is pregnant, she wants to terminate. She's also only 22 and says she's not ready to have a child. When she told me I didn't talk to her for a week then told her I ...
A. 26 January 2009: hell no you did not say that!
at the end of the day you have only been with her for 3 months. she is only 22 and if she is not ready for a baby then she should have the choice to decide what she wants to do!
yes it is as much your responsibili... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex with him, would a BJ be acceptable?
Q. This guy I work with I think just wants a one-off, he has asked me round to his place, I want to go because I fancy him but I don't want to have sex the first time we are alone, what can I do instead of going all the way, would a blow job be ...
A. 25 January 2009: a BJ usually lets the guy think that you want more then just a BJ. if you don't want sex, don;t give him a BJ. hand job sometimes is a better option. but make it clear that's all he is getting.... (read in full...)
How do you casually ask a guy if he's single?
Q. Does anyone know how you can casually ask a guy if he is single? I really like this guy and he says he likes me and we flirt all the time, the thing is I heard someone say he s with someone. I don't just wanna come out and ask him, I just want to ...
A. 25 January 2009: when you have a conversation just drop in "so are you seeing anyone at the moment" you will probably get an answer. but remember just because he is not seeing anyone special, does not mean that he is not dating.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. So, it'll be a year next friday since I fell in love with my teacher, she's a girl and so am I, and she's approximately 15 years older than me. I'm 15 and I leave school just before my 18th birthday in about 2 and a half years time. I know it'...
A. 24 January 2009: chances are that she has a bf,husband or gf. who knows. she will only see you as a student and nothing else, especially if she is professional.i think you need to try and get over your feelings for her. as nothing can happen, plus who knows what you ... (read in full...)
I don't understand what this guy is about?
Q. I once met this guy in a nightclub,he is three years younger than me.He made it clear to me that he liked me,i gave him my number,but he never contacted me. A few months later,we bumped into each other again,and he still acting like he liked me...
A. 24 January 2009: maybe text him. if he does not contact you or seem bothered then move on. no point in wasting your time over someone who is not interested. plenty more fish in the sea.
maybe cause of his age he does not really want to settle with just 1 girl? ... (read in full...)
Opinions!!! My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??
Q. Me and my man michael have been togther almost 5 months ever since we hit about 3 months he has been asking me to have a threesome with another man and him i dont feel comfortable i did it like 4 or 5 times thinking he would give it up but he told ...
A. 24 January 2009: maybe you need to consider where this relationship is going? he obviously does not have real deep feelings for you, as no man would want to watch their girl shag another man for kicks. maybe you just need to think of yourself and cut the strings ... (read in full...)
What's the difference between male and female fantasy, do we fantasize the same
Q. Hello: What's the difference between male and female fantasy, do we fantasize the same? This guy told me that he fantasizes about me, I'm thinking like, living together, sex of course but having a life together, then it hit me, that maybe men a...
A. 24 January 2009: maybe you should relax and forget about all the mixed up stuff. if he said he has a fantasy of you then that's nothing bad. don't worry about what it is, sometimes fantasys are best not known. just enjoy being with him.
if you can't understand him ... (read in full...)
I gained a little weight could that make my period late?
Q. well...basically im 13 and i started my period about 3 months ago and i start it around the 18th...the problem is i havent had it this month. I HAVENT HAD SEX the only thing that has changed is i gained a little wait over xmas...is this normal?...
A. 24 January 2009: remember you have only just started your period. it's all part of your body getting used to these new things. basically it's puberty. you may be abit irregular for a while, but once your body sorts it'self out it will become regular and ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and can't get over the loss of my baby.
Q. im 14 and cant get over the fact i lossed my baby its been a year now and every time i seem to get better i see some one with a baby or my friends will talk about it what should i do please help it is efecting my school work ...
A. 24 January 2009: oh i'm so sorry to hear your sad news. my cousin also lost her little angel last year. it was the sadest time for everyone and she is still obviously in grief.
you live in the UK right? if you do you can contact a charity called SANDS. they off... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the "nasty", hardcore, pissing porn?
Q. Do you think it's a serious problem if my boyfriend of two years looks at " nasty" porn , like with women drinking piss while getting f@cked? I don't have a problem with him looking at "regular" porn, but what scares me about this is that it seems ...
A. 24 January 2009: as long as it stays a fantasy and does not become a reality.
there is nothing wrong with him having a little fantasy, cause if anything that is all it is. i'm sure he wouldn't actually want to dominate you, unless you were into all of that. as... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to masturbate for her, but I don't want to!
Q. hey, my gf wants me to masturbate in front of her..but the thing is, ive never masturbated (i dont like it) and she doesnt know that. shes coming over and i dont know what i should do. i cant tell her and i dont want to masturbate in front of her, ...
A. 24 January 2009: maybe you should turn the masturbating for her into something that you both can do. ask her to help you do it, so use her hands on your penis and put your hands over hers. that way she is the one giving you a hand job, but it looks like you are ... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to masturbate for her, but I don't want to!
Q. hey, my gf wants me to masturbate in front of her..but the thing is, ive never masturbated (i dont like it) and she doesnt know that. shes coming over and i dont know what i should do. i cant tell her and i dont want to masturbate in front of her, ...
A. 23 January 2009: how can you be a manwhore if you have never masturbated and found out what you like sexually? masturbation is a great way for men and women to find out what they like. my ex bf used to jerk off in front of me all the time when we were getting hot, i ... (read in full...)
He wants to get it on, but I'm a virgin and he doesn't know! What to do?
Q. I need some help, I am a twenty six year old virgin, there is a guy at work whom I have been flirting with for about a year, he has said to me that on the next night out we should get it on back at his. I am thinking wow because he is gorgeous and ...
A. 23 January 2009: just ask yourself if you want your first time to be with some guy who "wants to get it on" or with someone who really cares for you.
it sounds like he just wants sex and not much else. i'd becareful with him. there is nothing worse then waking u... (read in full...)
How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???
Q. So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...
A. 23 January 2009: i'm going to say it again
SHE IS JUST NOT READY FOR SEX.
when she is, she will let you know. ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young
Q. hey, i'm 15 and my gf's 16. The problem I'm having is that she doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks I'm too young, but I've already had sex and she knows but she still thinks I'm too young, what do i do?...
A. 23 January 2009: she obviously does not want to break the law. you can't force her to change her mind. you just have to wait.... (read in full...)
Why are women sluts if they sleep around and men Gods if they do?
Q. why is it that if a woman sleeps around she is a slut, but if a man sleeps around he is seen as a God? this is just something that my friends and i were talking about and made me think that it would be good to get a guys perspective. ...
A. 22 January 2009: lol uncle phil!
i do hear some guys calling girls sluts and then they cheer on their friends for having slept with loads of girls. i would like to think that guys are more intelligent then that, so maybe it's only the odd few. lets hope!... (read in full...)
I need some (non-abusive) abortion advice, please.
Q. I guess i am remaining anon because i am ashamed... Im 16 soon 17 in my first year of college studing for my A levels live a life with good people in it such as my friends and a very lovely boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now...
A. 22 January 2009: i think it is your choice if you want to abort the pregnancy. but i do think you should seek help from a family planning clinic. they will advise you to speak to a therapist before the procedure is arranged.
my friend had an abortion when she was ... (read in full...)
I am completely heterosexual but I get these random urges, that range in strength, to go down on a man.
Q. I am a 25 year old male, I am in a relationship with a woman and feel completely heterosexual but I get these random urges, that range in strength, to go down on a man. How weird?...
A. 22 January 2009: i think you are normal hun. i am a straight girl but now and then i have the odd fantasy of a girl touching me. in reality i wouldn't find it exciting at all, but as a fantasy it sometimes works for me. i think it is just us being experimental and ... (read in full...)
How painful will first time sex be and how can I make it less so?
Q. ok ive been with my boyfriend for five months and hes been my best friend for ages.Im a virgin but Im sure that i want to have sex with him but im slightly nerous about two things.The first is how much pain it will cause me.From experience how bad ...
A. 22 January 2009: the pain is almost like you feel like your vaginal entrance has been torn abit. it really stings and is pretty unpleasant. but don't worry it is very normal. it almost feels like a stinging burning sensation. it does go off abit the more he SLOWLY ... (read in full...)
Female with a very prominent bony chest...
Q. hi, I seem to have a problem and hope someone in here can help me. I am a female, 25 years now, with a very prominent bony chest, and small boobs 34b which make me look like a little gal sometimes. I have a very good personality, and I am natural...
A. 22 January 2009: you cant change the way you are unless of course you get a boob job. but eve then you can't change your bone structure. you sound like you have a very petite feminine frame. there is nothing negative about this at all, you should embrace it and then ... (read in full...)
How can I make him believe that I was a virgin?
Q. hi,after i had sex for the first time, i realised i wasnt a virgin. my boyfriend does'nt belive me when i tell him he was my first since i wasnt a virgin. i think the cause of loosing my virginity is riding bicycles alot since it was one of my ...
A. 22 January 2009: if he does not believe and trust you, then why waste your time with him?
you should be with someone who does not care about whether you were a virgin or not. that's just petty and going back to the dark ages. he needs to get over himself! find som... (read in full...)
Pretty girls.
Q. When a pretty girl wakes up next to you in the morning and her face doesn't look so pretty and her hair's a mess, does it bother you boys? or if she's always doing her make-up does it make her seem insecure? curiosity...
A. 22 January 2009: well i work in TV, so i am always surrounded by these "beautiful actors" but it don't stop me from going to work looking a mess. i think women who need to put on a full face of makeup must have a little insecurity. guys love waking up to a natural ... (read in full...)
Do boys see girls who give blow jobs as easy or slutty?
Q. Do boys see girls who give blow jobs as easy or slutty?...
A. 22 January 2009: if it is with someone who is in a loving relationship then no it is not easy or slutty. as usually each person pleasures eachother. give and recieve.
however if it is a first date or with some random guy. then yes i think the girl is a big fat ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend want me to dress girly for all ocassions?
Q. He mentions 'It's a huge turn-on for me when girls wear dresses or skirts.' Here's the thing..I'll wear them like to church, wedding, maybe a nice dinner. But he's like even if we go shoot pool you can wear a knee-length dress or skirt. But at the ...
A. 22 January 2009: wear whatever you are comfy in. you don't want him to start telling you what you can and can't wear. otherwise he will think he can control more of your life. sure dress up nicely for him on the odd occassion, but if you feel sexy and great in a T ... (read in full...)
How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???
Q. So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...
A. 22 January 2009: just because she is comfortable giving you head and jerking you off, does not mean she is ready for intercourse. god i was giving hand jobs and blow jobs a few years before i went all the way.
you need to listen to her when she says "she is not r... (read in full...)
When are my "safe" days???
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for 3 years and we started having sex like one and a half years ago. My problem is that I still don't know my safe days so am forced to use emergency pills which I believe are not advisable to use ...
A. 22 January 2009: what's wrong with contraception?
most people who try and use the natural calendar end up having a lot of babies. just use a condom or go on the pill. ... (read in full...)
How can I make him believe that I was a virgin?
Q. hi,after i had sex for the first time, i realised i wasnt a virgin. my boyfriend does'nt belive me when i tell him he was my first since i wasnt a virgin. i think the cause of loosing my virginity is riding bicycles alot since it was one of my ...
A. 22 January 2009: riding a bike does not make you loose your virginity. otherwise we would have all lost it at the age of 4.
you can only loose your virginity by having sex (intercourse) ... (read in full...)
How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???
Q. So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...
A. 22 January 2009: i don't get why guys just don't understand the term..."wait untill she is ready"
she obviously is not ready for a sexual relationship.
there is nothing wrong with her! she is just not ready.... (read in full...)
How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???
Q. So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...
A. 21 January 2009: maybe she does not want or feel like she is ready for sex. did you ever think to maybe talk to her about it? you can't just make her decide over night that she should have sex with you. she is not a blow up doll who is there to pleasure you. maybe ... (read in full...)
Will I hurt her?
Q. This is yet another penis size question folks! Well, I have been dating a girl of over a year now and we have not had sex yet because she isn't ready, but, I am scared I may hurt her since she is a virgin and I am also. My erect penis length is 6 ...
A. 21 January 2009: yeah it will hurt her. but then it would hurt her if you had a 2 inch errect penis. first time sex for us girls just hurts. just take it slow and gentle and maybe only put so much of your penis into her.... (read in full...)
French kissing & oral sex
Q. Would you french kiss a girl who engage in oral sex with her ex boyriend 3 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?...
A. 21 January 2009: oh please!
this is just silly. you're telling me that by kissing your girlfriend you feel like you are taking in her past bf's oral experience? that's just silly. how will you ever go through different relationships with this attitude? you need to g... (read in full...)
The walls of my vagina have collapsed, (what do I do? )
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, I'm 15, but 16 on Monday, I have become sexually active for 1 year, my periods have always been regular, not much menstrual pain and recently the walls of my vagina have not collapsed but ...
A. 21 January 2009: go see a doctor. i have heard of this sort of condition before where some women's vaginal entrances actually close up as they have not got medical help. this may not be you at all, so don't worry. plus i am not a doctor so don't take this as 100%. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this sick after losing your virginity?
Q. is it normal to get really bad stomach cramps and feel sick after losing your virginity? we did use protection and it didnt split so i cant be pregnant, im just kinda worried....
A. 21 January 2009: i wonder if guys have any wierd effects after their first time? just something that i thought of. us girls seem to have to go through alot.lol ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this sick after losing your virginity?
Q. is it normal to get really bad stomach cramps and feel sick after losing your virginity? we did use protection and it didnt split so i cant be pregnant, im just kinda worried....
A. 21 January 2009: i remember i felt abit faint and sick after my first time, as well as sore and achey. i think it's your body going into shock abit. as it's something that is different and you have had a foreign object inserted into you. i remember i was ok untill i ... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm now!
Q. Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex ...
A. 11 January 2009: don't worry, this is very common. alot of women find it hard to have an orgasm through penetrative sex. the best thing to do is teach him where you like to be touched and where it feels good for you. from foreplay a guy can learn alot and then this ... (read in full...)
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