How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 17 February 2009: wow...thank god you didn't do it with him. kind of obvious what he was after. he probably would have dumped you after you had sex. thank your lucky stars you never slept with him!
the right guy will come along eventually. just be patient and you ... (read in full...)
I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!
Q. Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. ...
A. 11 February 2009: at the end of the day your actions have made you look and become a right ass. all i can say is good luck getting out of this one... (read in full...)
Son stealing my dirty panties to "relieve" himself...Help!
Q. My 13yr old son has been stealing my dirty panties and I believe he is using them to "assist" himself. I have found several pairs under his bed and well lets say there is evidence as to what he is doing. Do I confront him about? Do I just ignore ...
A. 10 February 2009: saying "please don't use my panties" would just cause so many problems with the mother, son relationship and also could effect him in the future.
just remove any pants you have found in his room, maybe keep your dirty underwear in a separate... (read in full...)
What do you do when the hymen breaks during first time sex?
Q. what do you do if your hymen breaks during sex for the first time, do you keep going or what??????????...
A. 8 February 2009: you can keep going. it may be a little painful and there may be blood but nothing major. it's bound to break during first time sex, unless you used to horse ride alot. ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 8 February 2009: maybe you need something to take your mind off this crush. after all nothing can happen and i think you know that. maybe you should take up some sort of hobby or join a club and meet guys your own age. i'm sure there is some cute guy out there for ... (read in full...)
I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!
Q. Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. ...
A. 8 February 2009: yes you did do the wrong thing! why on earth did you cheat on your wonderful partner just to screw around your ex's head. if anything the ball is in your ex's court, as she was able to use this against you. you should have thought about that!
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My mate won't talk to me if I go out with this boy, what do I do?
Q. My best mate fancies the pants off this boy she told him that she likes him but he said that he likes me my mate said that i cannot go out with him or she will talk to me ever again. i want to go out with him but i don't want to lose my frie...
A. 8 February 2009: i will tell you one thing that will sum up your whole problem..
your friends and family should always come first, they will always be there when boys aren't. ... (read in full...)
Why is it easier for guys to get a partner than it is for girls?
Q. why is easier for guy to girlfreind then a girl to get a boyfreind, i find getting boyfriend next to impossible and i don't like dating web sites.i find guys don't like becasue i have a fat round face and short body thats out propertion,and chubby l...
A. 8 February 2009: don't go looking for a boyfriend, because you will never find the right guy. you need to just go out with your friends for a girls night out and he will find you. you will meet someone when you're not expecting to, like shopping or on a girls only ... (read in full...)
Men, would you let your partner sunbathe topless?
Q. Hey i was just wondering what guys out there would let their GF/Fiance/Wife sunbathe topless in public? Or any women out there who knows if their BF/Fiance/Husband would let them, or if they still would if their partner would let them or not lol?...
A. 8 February 2009: i personally wouldn't do it, just not my thing. but the reason i am replying to this, is because it's not up to the guy to tell his girl what she can and can't do. if a girl wants to sunbathe topless then she should. no1 should ever tell her to do ... (read in full...)
He wants to see me and another girl too!
Q. I have been seeing this guy who I know I am in love with, but he keeps telling me he doesn't want a relationship, but said he loved me too and really misled me. He is also seeing another girl as well which is killing me inside. He was honest and ...
A. 8 February 2009: his name isn't Liam is it.lol. if so dump his sorry ass!... (read in full...)
He wants to see me and another girl too!
Q. I have been seeing this guy who I know I am in love with, but he keeps telling me he doesn't want a relationship, but said he loved me too and really misled me. He is also seeing another girl as well which is killing me inside. He was honest and ...
A. 8 February 2009: omg it is like a memory flash back for me!
i started seeing this guy a few years ago, things were great, he even told me he was falling for me,blah blah, but then he creeped himself out and said we r just having fun right. so i got really conf... (read in full...)
I started bleeding during sex, help?
Q. hey i had sex with this boy and i started bleeding so we stoped but now im going to have sex soon with this other guy and i dont wanna start bleeding again because he might go off me , which i am very worried about becaUse i like him a lot any ...
A. 7 February 2009: whoa i never even realised you are 13-15. why are you even having sex!?!
oh well you've done it now, so too late. use a condom!... (read in full...)
How should I present his V-day package to him?
Q. Hiya all, I've just bought my boyfriend some fluffy handcuffs for valentine's day and was wondering how to give them to him? I've also got him a photo frame - a more romantic gift Lol! Do you reckon I should give him the present and then just sh...
A. 7 February 2009: if i was you i would give him the romantic gift first, at dinner or whatever you're doing in the day...then in the evening tell him to wait in the bedroom while you slip something on for him. find something sexy to wear,underwear or whatever you ... (read in full...)
Son stealing my dirty panties to "relieve" himself...Help!
Q. My 13yr old son has been stealing my dirty panties and I believe he is using them to "assist" himself. I have found several pairs under his bed and well lets say there is evidence as to what he is doing. Do I confront him about? Do I just ignore ...
A. 7 February 2009: i think you need to talk to him about it. just say you were tidying his room and found your pants under his bed, ask what they are doing there and see what he says. it's not normal for someone to use their parents underwear as a tool for ... (read in full...)
What is it with guys and their EMOTIONS??
Q. this person that i am starting to see ( month and a half) would tell me subtle things such as i am here for you...i would do anything for you and would love it when i would say i miss him. but as soon as i say i feel that we're growing closer h...
A. 7 February 2009: just be patient with him. remember men are not as expressive as us girls. especially in their 20's and late teens. just give him time, he will agree with you when he is ready. it took my ex about 3 months before he said "i am falling for you" then ... (read in full...)
Do women realise this about guys? Is it not true?
Q. To many women think we are playing mind games with them so guys I'm gona have to spill the beans and tell them what we are realy doing. When a guy has a great conversation with you wherever it may be and then all of a sudden seems to ignore you for ...
A. 7 February 2009: i think this is true for some guys, but not all.i do remember that most of my ex's did this no talking for a couple of days, but i always knew that if he was really into me, he would call..they always did. it's abit like when i had a first date with ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 7 February 2009: well next time you get a little close to him, such as making out,etc just tell him that you have never taken things to the last stage and that he may be the one who you want to do that with, but you're just not 100% ready yet. or just bring it up ... (read in full...)
Together for 4 years, this Valentines, he is going to a strip club, should I get over it?
Q. My boyfriend just told me that he's going to a strip club with his friends on February 14th... I had planned to take him out to dinner at his favorite restaurant on that day for Valentines day... Now I know Valentine's Day is just a stupid excuse ...
A. 7 February 2009: how rude! does he not realise that it's valentines day!
it's not a stag night is it? i would kick him out and tell him to go with the strippers as it's the only naked woman he will see for a long time.... (read in full...)
Need a few answers on oral sex, please help?
Q. I give my bf head a lot and when he gets close to cumming he pushes on my head and I can't deep throat him ): and I gag and its embarassing and I really wanna learn how to deepthroat without gagging!...
A. 7 February 2009: urgh no, i hate that! i think it's really out of order that they do that. how dare they, we are not all porn stars!
just tell him not to do it, or next time he tries to push down on your head grab his hand and push it away! make a real point. t... (read in full...)
I started bleeding during sex, help?
Q. hey i had sex with this boy and i started bleeding so we stoped but now im going to have sex soon with this other guy and i dont wanna start bleeding again because he might go off me , which i am very worried about becaUse i like him a lot any ...
A. 7 February 2009: was it your first time? if it was, that's normal. it was probably your hymen breaking. it may happen again, but you won't know untill you try. maybe before you have sex again try using a toy to stretch yourself out a little and then you may see if ... (read in full...)
What are the nice sexy words you can tell your boyfriend when you are having sex?
Q. 1.when having sex and your boyfriend tells you your sweet what do you answer? 2.what are the nice sexy words you can tell your boyfriend when you are having sex? 3.what are the nice sexy positions for a lady to be in when having sex? 4.is i...
A. 7 February 2009: tell him what he probably want to hear when having sex, such as how good he is, that he is really hitting the spot(only say that if he is making you feel good though, don't want him to think he is good if he is really crap)
tell him how sexy he i... (read in full...)
How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 7 February 2009:
if you don't want to have sex with him yet or at all, then simply tell him that you are a virgin and you are not ready for that yet. it's best to be honest.
when i was 17 i had a bf who thought that the reason i didn't want sex was because it w... (read in full...)
Little situations w/girlfriend really upset me
Q. My girlfriend did something to make me angry today, you see there was an event at school that i did for her so i could spend the day with her but she nded up having to work, that was fne, but then she said me and a coworker (girl coworker) are going ...
A. 7 February 2009: oh for god sakes, be a man and stand up for yourself. just tell her how it is. she can go with her friends whenever she likes and you can see your friends whenever you want! you don't own eachother. your just in a teenage relationship. you both ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)
Q. Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...
A. 7 February 2009: it sounds like you are in a typical teenage "relationship" i quote relationship, because at that age you don't understand what a relationship includes.
one important thing is that you both have FRIENDS and can go out with your FRIENDS without ... (read in full...)
What are the signs of a fairweather friend?
Q. What are the signs of a fake friend? I have a friend who completely cut me off when she got a boyfriend, and she arranged to meet up Saturday then blew me off to go somewhere else. I really try with her but sometimes she seems SO! selfish....
A. 7 February 2009: maybe you should stop making the effort and maybe she will realise after a while that she does not have many friends left.... (read in full...)
How can I break my hymen, since using a dildo doesn't work?
Q. Hi, I'm a virgin, and I'd like to break my hymen myself, so I won't have to worry about the pain when I eventually have sex. The problem is, that I've tried inserting a dildo before, and was able to get it in, but there was no bleeding, and no pain. ...
A. 6 February 2009: or just wait untill you have sex.... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal? And are my friends really as big as they say?
Q. I'm 16 and have around a 3" penis when erect, is this normal? Also my "friends" say their like 6+ can this be true or are they just trying to show off?...
A. 6 February 2009: 5-6 inches is not what i call the norm, it's called average. theres no such thing as normal. some guys are small, some are average, some are big. whatever they have it does not matter. ... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?
Q. I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...
A. 6 February 2009: the whole finger thing is not true!when i was a virgin all those years ago,lol,a guy would beable to get 2 fingers inside me. sure it was tight but it was not uncomfortable. you dont get much out of a finger tip. ... (read in full...)
Little situations w/girlfriend really upset me
Q. My girlfriend did something to make me angry today, you see there was an event at school that i did for her so i could spend the day with her but she nded up having to work, that was fne, but then she said me and a coworker (girl coworker) are going ...
A. 6 February 2009: what's the big deal? she had lunch with a friend. she is allowed to go and have fun with her friends. she can't spend all her time with you. that's what makes relationships work, giving eachother time and space so that when you do come together it's ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's new friend! (Yawwwwwn)
Q. Little stuff with my gf is pissing me off, she met a new friend at work and blew me off, I played it cool cause I love her and she doesn't have many friends. I love her to death, we will probably meet tonight and get a little intimate if you know ...
A. 6 February 2009: she probably does not have many friends because she spends far too much time being intimate with you! your suppose to give her space and let her go out with friends and even talk to you about her life, which includes her friends! i'm sure you bore ... (read in full...)
Do boys find a girl swearing attractive?
Q. Like in a tomboyish way. Girls who act like boys not in a lesbian way like the way they act and everything (you know what I mean) OR ANOTHER TYPE OF girly girls like sluts who think ther're all "IT".. They also swear alot and dab on makeup so muc...
A. 6 February 2009: boys like different types of girls. there's no 1 certain type. you are still very young and still in that clique stage at school, where you all have your so called popular group (who are actually just a bunch of people who aren't that popular) you ... (read in full...)
Do you let him taste his own semen after oral sex?
Q. I'd like to hear from the ladies on this one. As a finale to oral sex, do you ever let him taste your man his own semen? Does he willingly eat when you offer it to him?...
A. 6 February 2009: it's always more polite to clean your mouth before kissing. either with a drink or a quick wipe with a tissue. i don't find it very erotic, kinda grim really tasting yourself or letting him taste himself. ... (read in full...)
I want to try anal sex but my fiance says its disgusting
Q. I have been with my fiancee for just over two years and we are getting married soon. Everything is fine between us, we have a great sex life and we are not afraid to try new things to add some spice to the bedroom. However, one thing I would like to ...
A. 6 February 2009: if she says no then that's the final answer. you have to stop pressuring her and nagging her to have anal sex. she does NOT WANT to have anal sex! that's it! there is nothing you can do to make her change her mind.
sure some women enjoy it, but ... (read in full...)
How many sleeping partner have you had
Q. Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...
A. 6 February 2009: what a creepy question.lol. ... (read in full...)
What are the signs of a fairweather friend?
Q. What are the signs of a fake friend? I have a friend who completely cut me off when she got a boyfriend, and she arranged to meet up Saturday then blew me off to go somewhere else. I really try with her but sometimes she seems SO! selfish....
A. 6 February 2009: i have a similar problem with one of my friends. she got a bf a few years ago, ditched me and our other friends. she didn't talk to us anymore, meet up,etc. so we carried on having fun without her and then a few years later her bf dumps her and we ... (read in full...)
Guys: What kind of colors/clothes do you like girls to wear?
Q. guys, what kind of clothes do you like girls to wear? do you like dresses or the casual, sweatshirt look? do any specific colors catch your eye?...
A. 5 February 2009: hey you shouldn't dress in clothes just to please a guy. you should wear clothes that make you feel nice and colours that you like. some colours may not suit you, where others do. so if a guy says red, it does not mean it will suit you.
alway... (read in full...)
Men making noise during sex
Q. To all the ladies out there, what do you think about men making noice during sex? Turn on or a turn off?...
A. 5 February 2009: sure abit of moaning and groaning from the guy is great. shows that they are enjoying themselves. i don't like it when they have to talk the whole time and say stuff like "oh yeah, oh baby" that gets a little annoying. but normal enjoyment noises ... (read in full...)
I want to ejaculate on her face, how to convince her?
Q. my girlfriend and i have done a lot sexually. we have both performed oral on each other, she likes it when pull out and cum on her, and she has even let me cum in her mouth and on her face once. i only recently told her that i would like cum on her ...
A. 5 February 2009: yeah i personally couldn't hack a guy cumming on my face. i would let him cum on my stomache or breasts, but not face! i think that crosses the boundaries for me. but hey she may like it. if she does not like it, then you just can't simply do it and ... (read in full...)
I'm turned on by watching fat, unattractive men in porn videos, is this strange?
Q. Any other girl with the same "fetish"? Thanks for answers. Hay, This question might sound a bit weird. I'm 19 and I recently found out that i have some kind of fetish about watching porn movies with older man having sex with younger girls(18-25)...
A. 5 February 2009: i've been there myself. i couldn't understand it at all, as i actually go for guys in their 20's who usually have nice bodies and are great fun to be around. so an old man with a beer belly and a hairy back seemed an odd choice to be turned on by. ... (read in full...)
Mom says I have to break up with boyfriend
Q. i need help real bad!!!! im 13 and my bf is 17 my mom just recently found out and now she is telling me that i have to break up with him. i know im too young for him but im in love with my boyfriend he is just so perfect and he is not the kind of ...
A. 5 February 2009: you may not realise it now, but when you are older you will see that your mum is right about you and him. he is far too old for you. you may say you are not going to have sex with him, but not many 17 year old boys not want to have sex. if you do ... (read in full...)
Pretending to be the ex during sex?
Q. What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?...
A. 5 February 2009: i think it is disgusting! he obviously likes to believe he is having sex with his ex. he needs a good kick up the arse and out of the bed if you ask me.... (read in full...)
I want to ejaculate on her face, how to convince her?
Q. my girlfriend and i have done a lot sexually. we have both performed oral on each other, she likes it when pull out and cum on her, and she has even let me cum in her mouth and on her face once. i only recently told her that i would like cum on her ...
A. 5 February 2009: but then if she is into it. ask her and she may want to do it. you will never know if you dont ask her.... (read in full...)
I want to ejaculate on her face, how to convince her?
Q. my girlfriend and i have done a lot sexually. we have both performed oral on each other, she likes it when pull out and cum on her, and she has even let me cum in her mouth and on her face once. i only recently told her that i would like cum on her ...
A. 5 February 2009: EWWW! i don;t blame her if she does not want you to cum on her face. can't think of anything worse,actually swallowing is worse.lol. maybe compromise and cum on her breasts or something. only porn stars like cum on their face. reality = normal girls ... (read in full...)
Any tips about 'domination' in the bedroom?
Q. Hi guys, I was just wondering about 'domination' in the bedroom. Me and my bf have a good sex life, but we're a relatively new couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. Seeing as it's valentines day soon, I wanted to experiment some sort...
A. 5 February 2009: well it's best to start of with a little soft core domination. as you don't know if you will like it yet, so don't go straight for the gimp masks.lol.
start of with the sub being blind folded and being told what to do, such as where to touch th... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal? And are my friends really as big as they say?
Q. I'm 16 and have around a 3" penis when erect, is this normal? Also my "friends" say their like 6+ can this be true or are they just trying to show off?...
A. 4 February 2009: yes you are normal and the reality is, is that your friends are probably talking crap. most girls dont want a huge penis anyway, it just hurts.
guys seem to have this thing, where they need to make out they have huge cocks so they can feel rea... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin? or did my ex b/f take it from her?
Q. I need to know if my girlfriend is a virgin. She claims she is, my friends say she is not, i don't know what to think. Before we started dating, her ex bf (my best friend) and her were in her basement drunk and naked making out. He was on top of ...
A. 4 February 2009: to be honest, why does it matter if she is a virgin or not? her past relationships don't really have anything to do with you. ok so it may have been your best friend, but it was in the past! like i said why does it matter!?!... (read in full...)
How can I break my hymen, since using a dildo doesn't work?
Q. Hi, I'm a virgin, and I'd like to break my hymen myself, so I won't have to worry about the pain when I eventually have sex. The problem is, that I've tried inserting a dildo before, and was able to get it in, but there was no bleeding, and no pain. ...
A. 4 February 2009: you will still probably feel alittle pain or discomfort when you first have sex. there's no escaping that. it's just all to do with his penis stretching your vagina. it's just natural and you just have to relax and maybe use some extra lube.... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 29 December 2008: well hope it helps you out.... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 28 December 2008: it's not insulting advice at all. believe me. you just need to let it go like any crush. you go through the stages of being all loved up and then it just slowly goes, unless of course you get with the person. but just let it pass and you will feel ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 26 December 2008: i know how it feels because i once had a teenage crush on a teacher. of course nothing happened because i realised that nothing ever could happen.
the reason i said that you were immature was because you are too young to realise that nothing can ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 26 December 2008: you are obviously immature. another reason why nothing will happen. get over it and grow up!... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 24 December 2008: i'll say what i said before...you need to get over it. and trust me when you are older you will look back and see that it was not love, it was lust.
you are too young to understand what i mean. but for now just forget about him and move on. it may ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my math teacher?
Q. Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only ...
A. 22 December 2008: leave him alone!
if you tried anything or anything happened you would be expelled and he would loose his job, go to jail and never be allowed to teach.
it's simple realise that it is just a silly schoolgirl crush and that you will get over it... (read in full...)
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