Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 4 February 2009: ok i don't think anyone should tell someone to get a divorce. that's not going to really help.
just make sure you take part in her weight loss. food shop together, cook together, take up an activity together. you will both be fit and healthy ... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...
A. 3 February 2009: glad it turned out to be good. ... (read in full...)
I like to watch gay porn
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?...
A. 3 February 2009: sure people get addicted to porn,kinda sad. but by watching the odd bit of gay porn does not mean you have to stand up in a room and say hi my name is blah blah...
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I like to watch gay porn
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?...
A. 2 February 2009: i don't think she is addicted to porn. she just likes to watch abit of gay porn. there is nothing wrong in that. it's normal. ... (read in full...)
Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 1 February 2009: i can't believe what Leonardo said! that if she does not loose weight then she is not a good wife. how fudging backward and stupid is that! what is wrong with some men? sorry but that reply made me so angry, i feel sorry for any woman who goes with ... (read in full...)
Laws on teacher student relationships?
Q. hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me...
A. 1 February 2009: usually a teacher is forbidden to have a relationship with a student. usually if they are found out the educational board get involved and the student is usually expelled and the teacher is fired and not allowed to teach at other schools, so ... (read in full...)
Touched by my cousin and don't know what to do...?
Q. Okay so tonight I was at my aunties and uncles house, and I'm really close with my cousins. So me and my cousin were watching a film in the front room but I was on the side of his chair so I could go on the computer, he put is arms round my waist ...
A. 1 February 2009: you need to make it clear to him that if you tell him to stop and he doesn't that is sexual assault! you could report him for that.... (read in full...)
Touched by my cousin and don't know what to do...?
Q. Okay so tonight I was at my aunties and uncles house, and I'm really close with my cousins. So me and my cousin were watching a film in the front room but I was on the side of his chair so I could go on the computer, he put is arms round my waist ...
A. 1 February 2009: stay away from him!
if you can't avoid him due to parents taking you there and he tries it again just go and tell your parents or his. or stand up and shout out to him, but so others can hear "stop trying to put your fingers in my underwea... (read in full...)
Is it too much?
Q. It's always been so hard to decide what I should give for the boy I like on Valentines day. Well here's what I'm planning : - pre-made t-shirt that says "You dance to the beat of my heart" (because we dance together) - a tiny teddy bear hugging ...
A. 1 February 2009: hmm well even though it is all very sweet and is obvious it is coming from a 13 year old girl. i would say there are not many guys who would probably actually wear that sort of T shirt. he will probably end up just putting it in the wardrobe as a ... (read in full...)
21 year old dating a 15 year old?
Q. So I recently have been attracted to a younger gal. The thing is shes 15, and I'm 21. I've been to dinner with her family many times, and they like me a lot. They invite me to a lot of occasions, dinner and drinks every week or so. But I'...
A. 1 February 2009: just don't have sex with her untill she is at the age of consent! ... (read in full...)
I like to watch gay porn
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl.. Is it weird that I like to watch gay black male porn.. i'm far from being gay (trust me!) But its something about that type of sex is fun to watch.. Help?...
A. 1 February 2009: i must admitt i like watching gay porn. i don't think it's because of the male on male action, it's because gay porn actors have really hot bodies! you don't find many good looking guys in normal porn, as it's all about the girls. so i'd say you are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks hes a three year old!
Q. Hey all, Well here's the basics im seventeen been with my boyfriend a year, everything has been great until around the end of november. When "the baby voice" came into my relationship. Out of no where my boyfriend started speaking like a baby, it ...
A. 1 February 2009: eeewww that baby talk has to stop.
do you know that some men actually have a fetish where they role play being babies and they like to be mothered! they do things like go to these "whore houses" where they put on nappies and get some older wo... (read in full...)
Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex
Q. I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...
A. 1 February 2009: you're forgetting one important thing....how do you think it is making her feel?
when a woman puts on a little weight she starts to feel unconfident and unsexy. with you not wanting sex with her, probably is not helping her feel good about he... (read in full...)
Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?
Q. Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...
A. 30 January 2009: i still think they are desperate. lol... (read in full...)
What are some hot, sexy party games we can play?
Q. hey i am having a get together with my lover and some of our friends and was wondering does anyone have any ideas for some hot party games sexy, kinky, sweet or otherwise plz and thank you...
A. 30 January 2009: strip poker
strip twister, or just sexy twister without the removal of clothes if your with friends. basically for sexy twister you have to stick to the usual game rules, but add a twist..so whatever move you have to make it has to end up being like... (read in full...)
He says if we're not 'intimate', he won't introduce me as his girlfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had the 'sex' talk last night. He's been making comments, jokes about us having sex, so I set him straight and said, 'I'm not ready.' He was respectful and we continued on... We're all lovey dovey. But he did say, "I want to ...
A. 30 January 2009: if he really was respectable he would not give you this emotional pressure of saying that if you are not intimate with him then he does not see you as a girlfriend. all i can say is that he is desperate to get you into bed, he does not care about ... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...
A. 30 January 2009: if you don't want to have sex during your period, just tell him and ask him to wait a few days. if he says something like "your not really on your period" or whatever ask him to stick his hand down and find out. that always works, because the guy ... (read in full...)
I think he's ready for sex but I'm a virgin and not sure I'm ready!
Q. im kinda nervous about this but i need to know.My boyfriend may be ready to have sex,and hes told me he has before.Im still a virgin and I was wondering if i should or not.Ive heard its gonna hurt really bad and i hate pain but im not sure.Any ...
A. 30 January 2009: if you are not ready for sex, don't have sex. but at the same time the longer you leave it, the harder it will be to get the courage to do it.
yes the first time will hurt, but after that it is amazing. as long as you both care for eachothe... (read in full...)
Doubts about a lasting relationship without christ...
Q. Hello everyone my name is Feeljoy please my question is: is there really a lasting relationship on earth without christ in your life?...
A. 30 January 2009: of course you can. take my parents for instance, they are not religious, but yet they have been together for 26 years. my grandparents are also not religious and they have been together for 50 long years and love eachother dearly.
you don't ne... (read in full...)
Curious sex question
Q. I have a curious question Would you french kiss a girl who engaged in oral sex with her ex boyriend 2 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?......
A. 30 January 2009: you've already asked this silly question. it's no different to kissing a guy who has eatten out his ex in the past. you just don't think about it! why are you even worrying over that? what's the difference if you end up getting oral from her and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.
Q. Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...
A. 30 January 2009: hmm i don't agree with Tra4od saying "spit" if you don't like the taste, just don't let him cum in your mouth..period! i always tell a guy, let me know when u r going to cum and as he is about to cum i stop giving him a bj and just give him a hand ... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 30 January 2009: well good luck in finding someone if you are looking for someone. and all i can say is that the whole purity pledge thing in the USA does not seem to help kids by the sounds of it. good luck to them too. ... (read in full...)
Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?
Q. Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...
A. 29 January 2009: desperate.... (read in full...)
Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?
Q. Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...
A. 29 January 2009: desperate.... (read in full...)
I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.
Q. Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...
A. 29 January 2009: if you don;t want to give blow jobs, DON'T!
forget the guy, you should never feel like you should do something just because he wants it. just tell him you don;t want to, if he has a problem with it...dump his sorry ass. he obviously does not resp... (read in full...)
Strange headaches
Q. Since I was young I've been having these terrible headaches which sometimes lead on to migranes, I've tried glassess twice, been to the doctors etc, even been in hospital at one stage they were so bad. They stopped for a while but the headache...
A. 29 January 2009: there are so many different types of migranes. my mum suffers from a form of migrane which causes her to black out and go numb down one side. at first they thought it was a stroke, but she comes round and regains the feeling down her side. after ... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 29 January 2009: what a stupid thing to say. of course i knew it would hurt, he knew it would hurt, he was gentle and slow. but the reason i say it was horrid, was because compared to other times it was. as it hurt! so therefore i am glad the first time was with ... (read in full...)
Pain & cyst on testicle..any advice?
Q. I am experiencing pain in my right testicle and have been researching online - i need some advice..the back of my testicle on the epididimus is really quite tender and is sending an achey pain through me. I have a small cyst there anyway and i am ...
A. 28 January 2009: it's simple hun. go see a doctor!
why leave it and worry about it. if it is anything it could get worse if left, if it's nothing serious you will just worry yourself by not knowing.
doctors have seen it all, so don't be embarrassed abou... (read in full...)
When do you become too old for this kind of stuff?
Q. Is it normal for teenagers to randomly pull guys at parties and stuff? when do you become too old for this kind of thing to stop happening?...
A. 28 January 2009: nothing wrong with pulling guys at parties, it's no different to going out to a club or bar and meeting some guy and flirting. you should never stop flirting if you are free and single. nothing wrong with it. life would be pretty boring without a ... (read in full...)
How do I help my girlfriend stop blaming herself for bad sex and start blaming the GUY?
Q. My girl friend met a guy and a party and began dating him - he pressured her for sex. After a couple weeks she gave in because he said all the right things and she trusted him. Once he got what he wanted he dumped her. She moved on to me - and ...
A. 28 January 2009: sorry but i had to laugh at jam jar.." i'm 14, but no about this stuff" hahaha sorry hun, but no way can you know about what it is like for a girl to feel used. plus you are only starting out in life, so your life experience is not that much. but ... (read in full...)
I fell in love over MSN but he doesn't return my feelings.
Q. i fell in love wiv some guy over msn (i didnt know him but i couldnt help it) and when i told him i loved him he sed he loved me to. he likes it when i flirt wiv him but a few days later he told me to stop thinking of him in tht way and, like i sed ...
A. 28 January 2009: sorry to say this, but i doubt it was love..it was probably more like lust and need. i know that sounds harsh, but you can't fall in love with some one who you meet over MSN. love is when you no everything about that person, their smile and you just ... (read in full...)
How do I help my girlfriend stop blaming herself for bad sex and start blaming the GUY?
Q. My girl friend met a guy and a party and began dating him - he pressured her for sex. After a couple weeks she gave in because he said all the right things and she trusted him. Once he got what he wanted he dumped her. She moved on to me - and ...
A. 28 January 2009: i've been in a similar situation before. met a guy, thought he was great, we had sex and next minute he was ditching me for some other girl. of course i felt awful and used, but i got over it. she will get over it, all you can do to help is show her ... (read in full...)
My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?
Q. Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...
A. 28 January 2009: what is wrong in telling your friend that they might not fit? why is being a size 12/14 such a big deal to you.
maybe she comfort eats because her friend is constantly going on about her weight and how she is not normal. i'm sorry but it's bul... (read in full...)
Which kind is prefered? Straight or bent?
Q. iv a question for the female population, but iv been wondering. what kind of penis do you prefer? a straight up one, or one with a bend?...
A. 28 January 2009: straight,bent...who cares!
not many girls give a damn about what the penis looks like. ... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time didn't work! Help!
Q. hi, i desperately need some advice. I tried having sex for the first time last night, it was with my boyfriend of 7 months and we were perfectly save and everything. There was just one problem, he couldn't get his penis into me. Has anyone else had...
A. 28 January 2009: you need alot more foreplay. you need to be relaxed, because if you are tense or worried your muscels shall tense up and therefore your vagina shall tense up, making it harder for him to enter you. also if it's your firs time, you shall have a tight ... (read in full...)
Extra skin "there" is it normal?
Q. Hi, I've recently noticed that theres quite a bit of extra skin around my vagina. If i try to put my finger up my vagina i can feel flesh around the opening that sometimes slightly blocks it. Is this normal??? Will it make things difficult having s...
A. 28 January 2009: i think you are very normal. it won't cause a problem at all.... (read in full...)
I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties.
Q. I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties. Is this ok because I think she suspects something?...
A. 28 January 2009: no. just put them back. never do it again.... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 28 January 2009: are you saying i didn't trust the guy? of course i trusted him, why would i have slept with him if i didn't. at the time he was great and i was falling for him. your reply does not make much sense. whether i had been with a random guy or a bf, the ... (read in full...)
Do girls like being stared at?
Q. I stare at cute girls practically all the time... do they find it perverse/repulsive or does it make them feel good?...
A. 27 January 2009: a little look is fine. but staring is just creepy and wierd.... (read in full...)
I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties.
Q. I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties. Is this ok because I think she suspects something?...
A. 27 January 2009: no it is not ok!
why would you think it is ok to steal her undies? it's just plain wrong and very creepy. i would hate it if i found out someone had been taking my bras and panties. the thought makes me feel sick.
you need to STOP!!!!... (read in full...)
Is it legal to marry your first cousin?
Q. Would it be right marrying my first cousin??? We don't want kids but is it still right ...
A. 27 January 2009: i think it is still a form of incest. so i doubt it is right to marry your cousin.
think about your future...you may not want kids now, but one day you will....and you don;t want to mix up the genes by having a baby with a relative.
you need ... (read in full...)
How can I hint at her to give me a blow job?
Q. Hey, I recently started fingering my girlfriend and was just wondering what I could say to get her to start giving me bj's. Weve talked about it lightly and she said she would rather give bj's than handjobs. I kinda think it's fair that she sh...
A. 27 January 2009: how does a Blow job compare to a little fingering?
i don;t get how she would prefer to give head then a hand job. a hand job is much easier and nicer for the girl. sure i give head to guys, but only because i like to get oral sex as well. have you... (read in full...)
I feel I'm being bullied and I'm in my twenties!!!
Q. A guy down the local keeps on starting on me - getting in my face and demanding I do stupid things for him and coming over and interrupting my conversations by taking the piss and he's really threatening. I've never spoken to or seen the guy before ...
A. 27 January 2009: you know what you can do. go and report him to the police! he can't get away with it. don't let it become bigger then you, there are too many freaks out there with weapons these days. you don't want to get yourself hurt.
contact the police!... (read in full...)
I hate condoms, will mini pill protect me?
Q. ok so i have been with this amazing boy an we have started to have sex .. it has been both of our first time. i hate using condoms and we never use them and i think it feels way better wit out them. i am on the mini pill for period pains and spots ...
A. 27 January 2009: the pill won't stop you from getting STD's and it's not 100% safe. my friend got pregnant while on the pill.
what is wrong with a condom? how does it effect the sex? stop being immature and irresponsible and use a condom. you can moan at me for s... (read in full...)
She ditched our friendship for a guy, now he dumpted her.
Q. ok so basically throughout high school i there were 4 close friends. one got a bf a few years ago and decided to ditch the rest of us. we never heard from her, but tried to invite her out. she never did come out, her bf was her life and she had no ...
A. 27 January 2009: i wouldn't be happy for her if she went back with him, considering he was a cheat. i still don't get why she just forgot about her friends, i never forgot my friend when i was in a relationship the other year. i felt strongly for him too, but always ... (read in full...)
My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?
Q. Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...
A. 26 January 2009: wait a moment..you think a size 12 is fat? honey size 12 is normal. do you no that the average woman in the UK is a size 16.
you're saying you are a size 6..well i think you need to maybe realise that you could possibly be under weight. but then... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 21 January 2009: "who 'wished' they would've saved themselves and put you down to make themselves feel better"
i'm sorry but i don't believe that people were trying to say this. i personally am glad that i lost my virginity to my ex, as it was a horrible experien... (read in full...)
How do I find a virgin?
Q. I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...
A. 18 January 2009: the only slight problem is, is that if you did fall for someone there is no certainty that she is a virgin, especially as you are in your early 30's. maybe you need to try and get past wanting a virgin. i can understand where you are coming from ... (read in full...)
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