My husband is very selfish in bed!
Q. I have been married for a year and the problem is that I think my husband doesn't love me. The only time when he kisses me or hugs me is when he wants to have sex. To make it worse, when we have sex it is all about him, receiving massages, oral sex ...
A. 28 November 2008: you just need to tell him you dont want to have sex as you are tired or whatever. make an excuse. do this for a few times and he may get the message. ... (read in full...)
It itches and burns,(down there). What is it ?
Q. kinda personal but need help figureing this out. so for the past week or so my vagina has been very itchy and burns. it has got to where when i go to the bath room it burns and hurts to even wipe. and after sex it burns twice as bad. i was wondering ...
A. 23 November 2008: all you can do it see your doctor and not worry about it. after all the doctor is the best person to ask.... (read in full...)
Are there any good websites for sexy positions that aren't completely trashy?
Q. I was wondering if anyone could suggest a good website that teaches different sex positions. I want to read something sort of informational, and all I keep finding is kind of nasty websites. Thanks for the information!...
A. 22 November 2008: the only thing with alot of the posistions in sexinfo101 is that you have to be physically fit to pull some of them off. but if you are adventurous then go for it and have some sexy fun... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and cannot relax for my first time ! I don't know what to do..=(
Q. well..hum me and my boyfriend actually didn't have sex..The thing is that i cannot relax and i contract...=/ I don't know what to do..=(...
A. 22 November 2008: you are way too young for sex!
and the fact that your body is not letting you have sex just shows that you are not ready for sex!!!!!
if you were you would be relaxed and ready. don't just have sex because your bf wants to. do it when u r ready, w... (read in full...)
I look at porn and enjoy it then feel digusted, am I normal?
Q. im 15 years old and look at porn. i masturbate of it and everything but i feel really disgusted after. AM I NORMAL? my boyfriend thinks its hot, so is it just me that thinks its kinda freaky and disgusting..? helppp!...
A. 22 November 2008: your normal. yes us girls look at porn as well. there's no harm in it, as long as you dont become obssessed with looking at it and find you'd rather stay in with porn then go out with friends. but don't worry, if it turns you on then enjoy it. as ... (read in full...)
Girl tells me "a secret code" then says I am going to have to find out its meaning. What does this mean?
Q. Hi, There's this girl that I know of, and lately, when smsing her, she'll write "iahfadlfahkl" on her messages, and she says it means something and I'm going to have to find out. It could be something innocent (my guess... I'll think pessimis...
A. 22 November 2008: not being rude here or anything, but aren't you both a little old to be having silly text games? why don't you just go out on a date and stop with the code? unless she isn't the age she says she is? you may need to check on that, as for someone her ... (read in full...)
Since he found out I'm not a virgin, he's claiming I'm "dirt and someone's leftovers".
Q. About 2 months into the relationship, I was curious about whether he was a virgin or not... but he wouldn't tell me and wanted to know if I was. I wasn't sure what to do--tell the truth and have the chance that he might think i'm a slut, or lie. So ...
A. 22 November 2008: the guy is a dick. walk away from him if he thinks like that. if he had been honest with you from the start that he was a virgin then maybe you wouldn't of felt so pressured to make out that you had never had sex. he's not worth the worry, just ... (read in full...)
I don't have the courage to give him head, what do I do?
Q. iv been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we've had sex and everything but i cant seem to get enough courage to give him head. hes fine with it but i really want to. iv only done it once before, im just scared i will be shit! help me?...
A. 22 November 2008: doubleM has the right idea. getting him to tell you what he likes is not only exciting for him but also great for you. once you know what he likes you can put your own little twists on it and try some new techniques.
also if you dont want to ... (read in full...)
It itches and burns,(down there). What is it ?
Q. kinda personal but need help figureing this out. so for the past week or so my vagina has been very itchy and burns. it has got to where when i go to the bath room it burns and hurts to even wipe. and after sex it burns twice as bad. i was wondering ...
A. 22 November 2008: could be thrush or some urine infection. the only thing you can do is go and see your doctor. ... (read in full...)
Grandad of 71 hitting on my girlfriend of 19!!!
Q. I have a real problem..... My grandpa (father's Father) had been acting so stupidly around my girlfriend that I started becoming very agitated. He would always tell me to calm down and that he just really admired her. Then he began bragging t...
A. 22 November 2008: oh dear!
i can kind of understand why maybe she kissed him, i personally wouldn't find a much older man attractive. but i have heard about younger guys having fantasies of older men. but your grandfather is really bad to dis-respect you by comin... (read in full...)
My boyfriend fingers me regularly ,but sometimes I start bleeding...Why ?
Q. my boyfriend fingers me regularly but sometimes i start bleeding. i know its not my period because its regular ands not due and the first time i didnt care cuz that was when he broke my hymen. whats going on? is something wrong with me?...
A. 22 November 2008: it could be a medical problem but more then likely it is just the fact that your boyfriend is being too rough.
for some reason young guys think that poking us really fast and rough is pleasureable for us. well guys it's not!
teach him to stay awa... (read in full...)
He wants me to talk to my mum and dad before we have sex.
Q. This guy I am with now, who I have been with for like 2 years has asked me if I am ready for sex. I said yes and he told me to talk to my mum and dad about it first because he don't want to be on the bad side of my parents. He is really close to ...
A. 21 November 2008: i personally think that even though he is very respectful of your wishes and obviously your parents, i dont think your parents will see it in the same way.
after all he is a teenage boy with hormones raging all around him and parents can be very... (read in full...)
I'm 20 but look much younger and it's causing me problems....
Q. Hi everyone I'm 20 years old but look so much younger and I really hate it. I always get ID'd and once I wasn't allowed into an 18+ gig because the bouncer didn't believe me! I wondered if anyone had any tips to help me look older? The only thing I ...
A. 21 November 2008: yeah my friend is nearly 23 and gets mistaken for a little girl all the time. it's really bad when we go to clubs as she is always stuck at the entrance with some stupid bouncer questioning her real id.
it makes me mad that some bouncers are stup... (read in full...)
Is it ok to wear 2 bras?
Q. Heyy Everyone I'm 15 years old and I kinda have small boobs... I want them to be bigger but I don't wanna get plastic surgery or anything when I get older cuz I just don't want to but I wear two bras so they look more round and fuller... is tha...
A. 21 November 2008: 2 bras, are you kidding me?!
all you need to do is go to a good bra shop and get fitted with a good bra. there are so many enchancement bras around now. no need for 2 bras! you can't wear 2 bras forever,love what you have and learn how to use them... (read in full...)
Lmfao at my girlfriend who's upset because I don't want to talk to her 24/7
Q. haha well this is pretty funny but i need help lolz ok my gf of 6 months calls me like every hour evry day 24/7 even when im in school i receive calls andi text her saying i cant answer im in class so shes like ok and next hour she calls again lm...
A. 21 November 2008: it's called teenage drama. immaturity from both of you. at that age you both are still learning about relationships and sometimes this means you dont understand about giving eachother space. it's just something that all teens experience, clingy gf's ... (read in full...)
His mom is so strict about us when I'm at his house.
Q. My boyfriend (who is 18) and I (turning 19 in a just a couple months) have been together for two years and lately, things have sort of... slowed down for us, sex-wise. It also kind of has to do with his mom wanting to interrupt us all the damn time ...
A. 21 November 2008: god i hate how some parents are so OTT. it's ok if you are like 15 or something, but 18,19 it has to stop.
i had a similar sort of situation where an ex's mum always got in the way. one time we were having sex and she knocked on the door asking for ... (read in full...)
Do first relationships ever work first time for good?
Q. Hi! I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 17 and nearly 18, lol, so I'm ten months older then her, though taller, and many have said considerably more mature :p lol I'm her 3rd boyfriend however she is my first. Her first one broke up with because she woul...
A. 21 November 2008: it depends. for me my first relationship only lasted a few months. thank god.lol
but then my brother and his gf got together when they were teens and now they are in their 20's and still together. they have nearly been together for 9 years. so i gu... (read in full...)
I want to keep my virginity so is this compromise solution I found, normal?
Q. Hi, Im 21 and wish to keep my virginity until I am married however i still want sexual pleasure. My bf and I thrust a lot with underwear on but topless (dry hump) but I cant feel his penis properly. So he took it out but after a bit my lacey ...
A. 20 November 2008: maybe carry on dry humping, but use a softer pair of knickers. cotton is probably better then lace or even silk. it will allow his penis to glide over them easily and will feel great for him. plus with silk it;s a thinner material so you will feel ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins and I can't seem to penetrate her.
Q. Hi, I was wondering if anyone has had a similar problem... my gf and I are virgins and well we are now ready to have sex, however for some reason when we try to have sex, i seem unable to penetrate her... She seems sooo tight and i dont know what...
A. 20 November 2008: i found that after my first time, toys helpped alot to stretch me and this made sex much more easier.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is not ready for sex... what can I do?
Q. I want to have sex with my girlfriend as we are living with each other since last 3 yrs i told her i can use condom while doing sex but yet she is not ready for doing sex wht should i do?...
A. 20 November 2008: if she is not ready for sex then you have to respect her wish and leave her alone untill she is ready to have sex. you CAN'T do anything to make her. ... (read in full...)
If I masturbated before, do I still count as a virgin?
Q. if i masturbated before do i still count as a virgin? i don't know if i've had an orgasm. i really like the way it feels to masturbate, but when my boyfriend asks if i'm a virgin do i tell him yes? i do it almost twice a week. ...
A. 20 November 2008: you're a virgin. it only counts as loosing your virginity when a guy has put his penis inside of your vagina. ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when he puts his fingers in my mouth? Why didn't he try to kiss me despite all the touching?
Q. Hi, I am 22 and a virgin. I'm not very experienced with guys - I've never been kissed or even had a boyfriend. A guy who I have been friends with for the past few years has started to be quite flirty with me whenever we meet up and when we are ...
A. 20 November 2008: yeah i've never really understood the fingers in the mouth thing. it's just another wierd guy thing. if you are not comfortable with him sticking his fingers in your mouth then dont let him do it. if you dont mind it but dont understand it ask him ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to tell my parents that I don't got my virginity anymore?
Q. When is it to be the right time to tell my parents I don't have my virginity anymore? I am only 13 years old, and I just lost my virginity a few days ago with my girlfriends I have been dating for 13months (1year1month). I understand it is...
A. 20 November 2008: why tell them at all? i dont no any 20 odd year old ppl who told their parents, i lost mine when i was 19 and never told my parents. it;s something parents dont really have to know about. if you feel like you need to tell them, then tell them. but ... (read in full...)
19 year old virgin, will guys ever want to be with me?
Q. please help! I am 19 year old and a virgin. I have had one long term relationship, but have a total lack of experience! Will guys ever want to be with me?...
A. 20 November 2008: of course you will! i was 19 when i lost mine. some people i know are now 23 and still virgins. when it;s right it will happen for you.just dont rush into it! make sure you are happy with whoever you end up with.... (read in full...)
When will it stop hurting me to have sex?
Q. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, and today we had sex again for the first time since then, but once again it was really painful for me and I bled quite a lot, even though my hymen broke the first time. Why did this happen? Did ...
A. 20 November 2008: the more you insert a toy or his penis the less painful it will become, as your vaginal opening will stretch more. make sure you are wet and ready, also use some lube if it helps. ... (read in full...)
She wants me to do her but I'm afraid it'll hurt her too much, we're 16, your thoughts?
Q. me and my gf are both 16 and we've been talking about sex lately we have protection and whenever she gives me a blowjob and i finger/eat her out it gets so intense... i just wanna go in we love each other very much and i dont wanna hurt her though ...
A. 20 November 2008: sorry to say this, but it will hurt her even if you are as gentle as you can be.
a posistion which may help is the missionary posistion, but with a slight difference. instead of you laying on top of her, you both should lay on your side facing each... (read in full...)
I can't get over the fact she killed my child!
Q. My Fiance and I Have been going through a lot. In the beginning things were perfect, she got pregnant and things were still fine but she was becoming distant. I was sitting watching a football game one night (this was the day before we were going to ...
A. 20 November 2008: i'm sorry for what you have both gone through. but she must of had a reason for having the abortion. i think the only way you can understand about why she did it, is to talk to her about it.
i believe every woman has the right of choice, but peop... (read in full...)
Are there any good websites for sexy positions that aren't completely trashy?
Q. I was wondering if anyone could suggest a good website that teaches different sex positions. I want to read something sort of informational, and all I keep finding is kind of nasty websites. Thanks for the information!...
A. 20 November 2008: check out www.sexinfo101.com... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!
Q. I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna ...
A. 20 November 2008: ahh i remember my first date. did the same thing, movie. but had a dinner before hand. it kinda broke the ice a little, gave us a chance to have a chat. cant remember what we chatted about, was so long ago. but all i can say is relax, maybe talk ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?
Q. if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...
A. 19 November 2008: you are still a virgin. when a guy penetrates you with his penis, you loose your virginity... (read in full...)
My husband is very selfish in bed!
Q. I have been married for a year and the problem is that I think my husband doesn't love me. The only time when he kisses me or hugs me is when he wants to have sex. To make it worse, when we have sex it is all about him, receiving massages, oral sex ...
A. 18 November 2008: it's simple...don't give him any oral,etc untill you have had some. us girls need to learn not to give blow job,etc untill we have had some fun.
i've been in this situation a few times, where it's all about them. one of my ex's i gave a hand job ... (read in full...)
Men: why do you ask about a woman's past if you're just going to judge her for it?
Q. Men: Why do you ask about a woman's sexual past if you are going to (intentionally or otherwise) judge her for it and hold it against her? ...even when she has never been unfaithful, she has always been honest with you, she is with you and doesn't ...
A. 18 November 2008: i get sick of having to tell a current bf about an ex bf.
i dont like to ask questions about their ex gf's, because they are in the past. so why do men have to keep bringing up ex bf's?
it's like get over it, i'm with you..not him!... (read in full...)
Hard, soft, hard, soft... why are my erections doing this?
Q. I was hugging up to a girl this past weekend and a friends get together kind of thing and I kept getting an erection but a couple minutes later it would go flaccid, I wasnt really interested in having sex with her but it was kinda frustration. ...
A. 18 November 2008: it's probably due to your age. you are still going through puberty and your body is still trying to sort out all the raging hormones. it will probably calm down when as you get older. ... (read in full...)
I've got raging hormones and I need instructions on how to please a girl.
Q. hi everyone, i have 2 questions im very very curious about. i know im young im 14 years old but well i have raging hormones haha. well i really would like to know is 1.) how do i get a girl wet or make her wet? and 2.) how do i finger a girl like ...
A. 18 November 2008: hun you obviously are not ready for a sexual experience as you need instructions. we are not all the same, so the same technique wont work on every girl. you can't make her wet, if she is turned on then she will naturally get wet. but you can't ... (read in full...)
I hate breasts!
Q. I hate breasts! I hate the fixation, the obsession, the sexualization! Why can't we be just like other mammals who only get large breasts when they're lactacting, and have flat breasts the rest of the time? UGH! Yes, I'm small chested, I have ...
A. 18 November 2008: what's wrong with breasts?
so what men like boobs, it's no different to us girls drooling over a great six pack and pecs. it;s just what turns each sex on. men love boobs because it;s something they don't have and something they just want to feel... (read in full...)
What really turns a guy on during sex?
Q. What really turns a guy on during sex? i really wanna please my bf anything i can do to him? wear? say? we both enjoy it but i wanna spice things up and surprise him with something that will give him a spark :] help and advice pleasee!!!...
A. 18 November 2008: yeah i have to agree wrapping your legs around him when he is on top makes a guy hot. it must make them feel like you really want them more and more. also some guys i have been with love it when you give their balls a little tug. also during oral ... (read in full...)
I have no one to talk to... what is masturbation?
Q. ok well this is probably 1 of the hardest questions for me to ask anyone. so this is why i am asking everyone here i dont want to ask my friends or my parents because its embarrassing. what is masturbation? what is jacking off? how do i masturbate? ...
A. 18 November 2008: if you are not 100% about stroking your penis to start of with, maybe just start rubbing your groin against a pillow or something. then start to rub it with your hand. you will learn what you like and will eventually enjoy the whole experience.... (read in full...)
I'm almost 17 and want to have a baby, but I'm worried what my Mom will say.
Q. Hi. Im 16, nearly 17 years old and i want a baby. Im in a very stable relationship with my boyfriend who i have been with for almost two years, and i just feel i am ready. at the moment i am living with my boyfriend and his parents as me and my mum ...
A. 18 November 2008: do you really want to have a child yet? it may seem all fun and games with having a little baby. but the reality is very different. if you're not ready for a child it could tear your relationship apart and as for your social life..well don't expect ... (read in full...)
Why does my cum numb my partner's penis??
Q. Please tell me you might know the answer to my question, I am a healthy female no medical issues, but my boyfriend states that after i get off really hard during foreplay, that when we go to have sex after a few minutes his penis goes numb. Why is t...
A. 17 November 2008: i think it;s best if he gets it checked out by a doctor. i know many men are too scared or embarrassed to see a doctor about their bits, but there's nothing a doctor has not seen. ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel when I orgasm, yet I know I have?
Q. Hello. I masterbate... alot, but when i orgasm i dont feel it but i can see that i have. Why dont i feel it? Is there any thing i can do so i can that i've came?...
A. 17 November 2008: maybe you are not having a full proper orgasm. this may be due to your age. usually if you do have an orgasm then you feel it.
when you say see it, do you mean you just get wet? because thats not an orgasm, thats just your bodies way of tell... (read in full...)
I don't want to go straight to sex... should we try oral or wait?
Q. hi me and my girl friend are both mature for our age , i would like to do more than kissing and snogging but i dont want to go straight to sex. would you recommend us tryin oral or wait till we both feel ready for sex and yes i really am ...
A. 17 November 2008: you are way too young for a sexual relationship!
you are not emotionally mature enough at that age, even simple things like blow jobs can make something complicated. if you really want to try something abit more exciting then just kissing, mayb... (read in full...)
Could my reaction to orgasm be a turn off to a guy?
Q. Hi, my question is kinda embarrassing. I had my first orgasm today and my entire body was just shaking like mad, like I was extremely cold, which I wasn't. Is that normal and if so, would that be a kinda turnoff for a guy when I do eventually have ...
A. 17 November 2008: it's normal. guys love it when a girl has the big O. enjoy.... (read in full...)
I don't think she is ready for more than kisses. How do I convince her though?
Q. ok so me and this girl have been together for a good amount of time now. i was her 1st kiss. i personaly am ready for more but i dont think she is. how do i get her to do more then just kiss? im ready for like a hj or anything actually haha. i just ...
A. 17 November 2008: you can't force someone to do something they dont want to. if she is not ready for a sexual relationship then she is not ready. anyway you seem too young for a sexual relationship!!!!!
i wouldn't just grab her hand and place it on your groin, that... (read in full...)
Why does he get sore the next morning after our sexual play?
Q. Okay my boyfriend have been pleasuring eachother with our hands for a week now. I come almost every time he fingers me. He always pulls my hand away before he comes because he says he doesn't want to gross me out. We do this a few times in a night, ...
A. 17 November 2008: he might as well just let you stroke him untill he cums and if any cum gets on you just wipe it off with a tissue or wash your hands. normally i find if you dont stroke the top of his penis when he is about to cum you get less cum on your hand, ... (read in full...)
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