A
female
age
41-50,
*unttoto
writes:hi im 35years old and started a new relationship but im not very experinced when it comes to sex and my partner wants me to go on top but have never done that b4 as im queit large built and im to embarrased if i do it wrong and he wants me to go down on him but have never done that either im confused and embarrassed incase he thinks im strange and laughs at me Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Cowboy +, writes (28 October 2008):
I was seeing a girl a few years ago, and after a blowjob, she said 'oh, it doesn't taste that bad!'
At first I wondered why she had assumed that mine would taste any worse than anyone else's, but when she explained that she'd never tasted it before, I was absolutely over the moon!
My point is that a highly sexually experienced woman is often not as attractive as a more naive one.
Forget the technical details of fellatio, as long as you're not rough, he'll just be glad you're doing it. Ask him if what you're doing is good, and maybe get a few pointers.
He's not going to be lying there forming a critique in his mind about the finer points of your technique, he'll be too busy enjoying on the fact that he has his penis in your mouth.
Also, don't worry about your large build.
He's just entered into a relationship with you, so you can be sure that he finds you attractive.
Men aren't anywhere near as critical of women as women are of themselves.
Us men are often very simple creatures. If he has a naked woman bouncing up and down on top of him, that will make him very happy. It really is that straightforward in a man's mind.
A
female
reader, aunty_rach +, writes (28 October 2008):
honey you have come to the right place!
ok lets start with the blowjob. don't worry about looking like a porn star and trying to put the whole of his cock into your mouth, sometimes it just isn't possible as we gag! so the best tip i can give is start by simply licking the tip of his penis while you play with either his balls or his penis. then slowly start to suck the head, as you do this use your hand to rub his penis. then as you feel more brave start to suck abit more of his penis, only put in as much as you want to. While it's in your mouth lick the sides and top of his penis. just use your mouth like you would with your hand when u give him a hand job.
ok for the on top question, make him lay down on his back and simply kneel over him, with a leg on each side of his hips. get him to support you abit, by either holding your hands or by holding your hips. then once his penis is inside you just simply go up and down at whatever speed you are comfortable with. this posistion is great as you get to decide how deep he goes inside you. then off you go cowgirl! just have fun and don't worry about anything.
...............................
A
female
reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (28 October 2008):
 oh dont worry hun im the same i dont like going on top but my partner love it as for blow jobs he loves that too lol.. its really a case of trial and error but here is a link to a web page that can give you advice on what to do. good luck hun hope it works for you xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml
...............................
|
