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6 May 2009: Ok, we’ve all been there. A relationship we invested so much time in has come to an end one way or another and now you’ve got far too much time on your hands. No doubt, if you’ve been investing all your time into your relationship somewhere along ...
I want my EX back... Do I get back with my EX?
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18 January 2008: I've been through it myself. That stage following the breakup where I can't help but want my EX back. Whether you dumped them, or they dumped you I think everyone goes through these feelings. Here are some reasons to (or not) get back together that ...
How to get over your EX.
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9 January 2008: BACKGROUND Following breaking up with my EX a couple of months ago I’ve been finding it extremely hard to get over her. Sometimes I think about her still and I seem to go through periods of wanting her back, only to then go through periods ...
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I get loads of attention from other girls but I really want my ex back...
Q. Hi All, Well what an absolute nightmare. I’ve just ended a 15 month relationship. Everything was great at first but for the last 6 months or so we’ve been having petty rows pretty regularly. We never make up following a row, although I always t...
A. 16 January 2008: "A male reader, anonymous, (11 January 2008)"
Thanks for your response :)
Over the last couple of months I've grown to realise this myself having read a couple of books on the subject and done loads of research.
Even though I'm now on my own... (read in full...)
Her Facebook messages seem to indicate more than she admitted...can I trust her again??
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for just over 3 years, but for the last 6 months I have been very depressed which has affected our relationship. She has to commute quite a long way for her job and so stays over at least once a week in a hotel. ...
A. 12 December 2007: FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO WORK YOU NEED TO BOTH WANT IT AND BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER. IF ONE OF YOU HAS SOMETHING TO HIDE FROM THE OTHER THEN IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK.
A relationship is NOTHING without TRUST.
I had this issue with my EX. My friends ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for different positions?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship for almost 1-1/2 years, my boyfriend is passionate about sex. We are physically active. Can anyone suggest me with some good tips of passionate sex and also some cool ideas that i can try out with my boyfriend and some ...
A. 12 December 2007: I took my girlfriend into Ann Summers there to get some stuff for her and I loved it. She did too. Spiced up our sex life no end.
If you want to spice things up get some sexy underwear or a french maids outfit or something.
DON'T DO ANYTHING... (read in full...)
She says she's going to leave her husband for me, but I'm not sure, neither me or her husband deserve this, should I say enough is enough?
Q. i am having an affair with a married girl , i have tried to end it cause i love her but she cannot be with me . but she came right bk the next day saying she had made a mistake to let me go , and i am the only one she wants so i took her bk , and ...
A. 12 December 2007: I've already given my response but I'd like to add a little more if I may...
I NEVER go looking for girls. I go out and enjoy myself with my friends and have a good laugh. I'm not saying I'm great looking or anything (average but I do have alot of e... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to enjoy receiving anal-play during sex?
Q. Is it normal for a man to enjoy having his anus played with during sex? When my husband and I are having sex, he likes for me to put my finger in (just the tip) or around is anus. This gives him ultimate pleasure. I haven't questioned him about ...
A. 12 December 2007: Have to say the idea turned me off completely until my gf tried it on me and WOW! Like anything in sex - just experiment and be open minded and you'll be amazed.
I have to say I liked it :)... (read in full...)
She says she's going to leave her husband for me, but I'm not sure, neither me or her husband deserve this, should I say enough is enough?
Q. i am having an affair with a married girl , i have tried to end it cause i love her but she cannot be with me . but she came right bk the next day saying she had made a mistake to let me go , and i am the only one she wants so i took her bk , and ...
A. 12 December 2007: Time for the "him or me" ultimatum. She might choose you or she might choose him. Either way you'll know where you stand and can move on.
You are of course right in that she isn't being fair to either of you, but then again you're not exactly bein... (read in full...)
I feel like a big fat liar!
Q. i am so bourd of my boyfriend and i dont know how to break up with him and i am so not good in breaking up and now whene he tell me that he loves i tell him "me too" and i feel like one big fat laier so please tell me how to end this in a nice way ...
A. 10 December 2007: How long have you been together?
Chances are your bf has already noticed a change in your attitude. I think you two need to talk and you have to be cruel to be kind.
If you do break-up you need to know it's very hard to stay friends. You both wil... (read in full...)
Any ideas for different positions?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship for almost 1-1/2 years, my boyfriend is passionate about sex. We are physically active. Can anyone suggest me with some good tips of passionate sex and also some cool ideas that i can try out with my boyfriend and some ...
A. 10 December 2007: WHy not buy the Karma Sutra or pop into an Ann Summers shop and buy some stuff there?... Always good for keeping things ALIVE.
"Variety is the spice of life" as they say.... (read in full...)
What would be best for me?
Q. i am with my boyfriend over 4 months I really love him but he promises not to go and rob car radios and he still does when he is drunk only. and stabbed my ma's fella wit a glass bottle when he was drinking and on antiboiotics he never hit me do you ...
A. 10 December 2007: "i am with my boyfriend over 4 months I really love him but he promises not to go and rob car radios and he still does when he is drunk only"
This is trouble. I'd be EXTREMELY worried about this and to be honest would run a mile!
"... and stab... (read in full...)
Her Facebook messages seem to indicate more than she admitted...can I trust her again??
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for just over 3 years, but for the last 6 months I have been very depressed which has affected our relationship. She has to commute quite a long way for her job and so stays over at least once a week in a hotel. ...
A. 6 December 2007: I think it would be very difficult to trust her again. If you both love each other as much as you say then I'd suggest going to couples counselling TOGETHER. I'm sure if the shoe were on the other foot and you did the dirty she'd have trust issues. ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave it well alone? I'm torn on this one since I do love her and will always have feelings for her.
Q. Hi All, I've had an amazingly good weekend and really enjoyed myself. I split up with my ex who I was with for 15 months about 3-4 weeks ago. For those of you who don't know the stories they're here (in chronological order): I met u...
A. 6 December 2007: Thinking about it I also think my ex's brother has this to some extent and his girlfriend left him, one day just walked out without giving any reasons. She lived with his family for about a year and felt like a prisoner in their home at times. In ... (read in full...)
I think I'm being stalked by my psycho ex who tracked me down on a school reunion site!
Q. A friend who asked a question here and got some good advice recommended me to this site. I just started looking around, but I like it. I might just start answering questions myself. Anyway, my request for advice deals with an ex-girlfriend fr...
A. 5 December 2007: I would say just change your telephone number, perhaps even contact the phone company to put a block on the number she's possibly calling from.
If it gets out of hand I'm sure you can do something about it legally - harrassment or something.... (read in full...)
How long should I be with my gf before we sleep together?
Q. i'm kinda a fish outta water when it comes to relationships, being that iv only had one, ever! which im still in, im jus wondering how long should i be with my gf before we sleep together?...
A. 5 December 2007: Well I tend to just go with the flow... If I'm in a relationhip she'll let me know when she's ready and I'll wait. With my first girlfriend I was a virgin at 17 and I think we first had sex after about a month... I was so nervous as I had never done ... (read in full...)
My ex is hot, I can't get him out of my head, but there's no way he will take me back, how can I get over this?
Q. Im drivin myself crazy thinkin about my ex NON STOP!!! He was absolutely gorgeous and so sexy i wish I was still with him but he couldnt put up with my worrying about other girls!! Ive tried to get him back but he doesnt want to know. But all I can ...
A. 5 December 2007: Sounds like you need to move on... I've been in a similar situation from your boyfriends point of view and it went really ugly... No trust, suspicious all the time, gave me aggro for stuff I've never done, never did and never thought of doing, ... (read in full...)
Why do men look at she male porn?
Q. Why do men look at she male porn? Does it mean they are bi?...
A. 5 December 2007: NO way! This makes me feel ill! As a bloke I have obviously looked at porn (and still do - not that I'm a sex maniac or anything - it's perfectly normal).
I don't know what it means but perhaps if a mate had shown me one of these pics I'd be like ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave it well alone? I'm torn on this one since I do love her and will always have feelings for her.
Q. Hi All, I've had an amazingly good weekend and really enjoyed myself. I split up with my ex who I was with for 15 months about 3-4 weeks ago. For those of you who don't know the stories they're here (in chronological order): I met u...
A. 5 December 2007: Thanks for the response! I cant completely relate to what you've been through and what you say!
"My ex constantly felt rejection from the slightest thing even down to me saying i couldnt make it straight after work as i wanted to have a shower f... (read in full...)
Should I just leave it well alone? I'm torn on this one since I do love her and will always have feelings for her.
Q. Hi All, I've had an amazingly good weekend and really enjoyed myself. I split up with my ex who I was with for 15 months about 3-4 weeks ago. For those of you who don't know the stories they're here (in chronological order): I met u...
A. 4 December 2007: Ooops previous posts are here (in chronological order):
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-get-loads-of-attention-from-other-girls.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/suspected-the-cheated-becomes-the-cheater.html
http://www.dearcupid.... (read in full...)
How can I get over my strong feelings for me ex.
Q. I've broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We broke up because we both came from different worlds. When we broke up we were both still in love with each other. I thought i was over him but i guess im not. i dont know what to do as i have the...
A. 3 December 2007: "thank u 4 all the good advice... the thing is i really do want to contact him but i dont know if i am strong enough too...also i dont know how he feels now and his feeling may have changed. I don't like rejection and he may be coping fine without ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my strong feelings for me ex.
Q. I've broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We broke up because we both came from different worlds. When we broke up we were both still in love with each other. I thought i was over him but i guess im not. i dont know what to do as i have the...
A. 3 December 2007: bgagirl2692: "You both let your differences get in the way of your relationship. The more differences you both have, the more that it should bring you both together" Couldn't agree more. Life would be so boring if you went out with your ident... (read in full...)
I love her but I am getting tierd of waiting for her to leave her bf...should I wait for as long as it takes or move on??
Q. Ok, so i really need some advice on what to do. I've been friends with this girl for a little over a year know and we became the best of friends ever, but when i met her she just got a boyfriend and they have been goin out for just about as long ...
A. 2 December 2007: "We've talked about being togther and she says once its done with her boyfriend but what i dont get is that its been a year know and still nothing"
Well first of all, why are you seeing someone who has a bf? I could never do that and would be... (read in full...)
I think she fancies me...but I don't feel any physical attraction.
Q. I have a problem. There's a christmas party/formal in about 2 weeks and this girl invited me to come with her and some friends. I know it seems harmless, but I think she might fancy me, she's always talking to me on messenger, and last night my...
A. 2 December 2007: Speaking as a bloke who's had loads of female friends I'd have to say that the relationships I've had; the one's where there's been strong physical attraction have lasted the least. On more than a few occassions I've been mates with girls first an... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy to get over my second love?
Q. Well what can I say? I've been frequenting this site every day since I discovered it after I split up with my ex. We split up 3 weeks ago but have only had no contact for a week. I'm quite chuffed I've managed to stop myself from getting in touch...
A. 1 December 2007: It's amazing how far I think I've come over the last few weeks. I cringe at reading this headline and have a new found sense of "what-the-hell-was-I-thinking-I'll-be-ok-I'm-not-that-messed-up" sort of thing.
Thanks for the response. I don't th... (read in full...)
My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week
Q. Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relation...
A. 30 November 2007: "Is it at all possible tht she is unconsicously driving you away so that you will leave her, but she does not have to take responsibiltiy for the break up?"
Well we did break up and yes, I do believe this is what happened. I had to take responsi... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to 'get it out of his system'?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We are best friends first then boyfriend and girlfriend. The number one rule in the relationship is brutal honesty. We are currently taking a break because he is depressed because of work reasons and ...
A. 29 November 2007: I was with my first girlfriend from the ages of 17 to 22 and whilst she had previous boyfriends and sexual partners I did not. I was a virgin, she was my first love and we stayed to gether through thick and thin. Like you we were like best mates as ... (read in full...)
Am I being very selective about my Internet acquaintances? Why did this guy retreat when he seemed so enthusiastic initially?
Q. Have been on line dating for few months, not much success really because some of the guys are damn rude if you don't send a pic or give your email out immediately...been on a few dates, very boring no chemistry at all. I think I'm being really ...
A. 28 November 2007: I think the likelihood is he was already seeing someone at the time you were online dating... It may be he ran a mile when he realised he couldn't go through with it and stayed with his girlfriend/wife.
Don't worry about it. Move on and by the w... (read in full...)
Is love worth waiting for??
Q. In relation with my last question... i do know he still loves me its one of those things you just know but is love really worth waiting for? I mean even when you got to go through a bunch of crap?...
A. 28 November 2007: "In relation with my last question... i do know he still loves me its one of those things you just know but is love really worth waiting for?" Love isn't easy to find but I beleive it certainly is worth waiting for. I've just split up with my ex, a... (read in full...)
My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week
Q. Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relation...
A. 28 November 2007: Hi Mr Kermit, "I really have to ask you with no apprehension...why would you have tolerated a woman that treated you so bad like this for so long? Rule of relationships # 5: The MOST important thing is how she treats you." I think the reason I... (read in full...)
I've lost his trust through lying about my past...how can I reassure him I'm now telling the truth??
Q. Ok, I messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months. Of those, we've been having issues for about 8 months. I sorta sensed from the begining that he would dissaprove of my past. It's not a terrible past, but it involves a mutual f...
A. 27 November 2007: "He says I looked for this. That I deserve it. For being easy in my past, but especially for making a fool of him by lying. I wish he finds happiness, but mostly I wish I find both happiness and sanity." Sounds like a complete idiot. I think y... (read in full...)
I've lost his trust through lying about my past...how can I reassure him I'm now telling the truth??
Q. Ok, I messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months. Of those, we've been having issues for about 8 months. I sorta sensed from the begining that he would dissaprove of my past. It's not a terrible past, but it involves a mutual f...
A. 27 November 2007: You know what I just read you're question again and it's so spooky! I've had exactly the same thing. 15 months and the first 6 were AMAZING... After that something must've happened and HELL started. I thought she was depressed (she was having a hard ... (read in full...)
I've lost his trust through lying about my past...how can I reassure him I'm now telling the truth??
Q. Ok, I messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months. Of those, we've been having issues for about 8 months. I sorta sensed from the begining that he would dissaprove of my past. It's not a terrible past, but it involves a mutual f...
A. 27 November 2007: Collaroy wrote:
The most worrying thing about your post is the comment: "Do I just have to pay for my mistakes". What mistakes would these be? the fact that you lied to your boyfriend or that you had a life before you met him.
I can see why you ... (read in full...)
I've lost his trust through lying about my past...how can I reassure him I'm now telling the truth??
Q. Ok, I messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months. Of those, we've been having issues for about 8 months. I sorta sensed from the begining that he would dissaprove of my past. It's not a terrible past, but it involves a mutual f...
A. 27 November 2007: Collaroy wrote: The most worrying thing about your post is the comment: "Do I just have to pay for my mistakes". What mistakes would these be? the fact that you lied to your boyfriend or that you had a life before you met him. I can see why you ... (read in full...)
My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week
Q. Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relation...
A. 27 November 2007: Hi again Mr Kermit,
"As for the gf...she was COMPLETELY out of line. Now then, if this were a test again for dominace on your part, maybe to see if you will put up with her abusive nature, and you did not call her on her bullshit, then you fail... (read in full...)
I've lost his trust through lying about my past...how can I reassure him I'm now telling the truth??
Q. Ok, I messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months. Of those, we've been having issues for about 8 months. I sorta sensed from the begining that he would dissaprove of my past. It's not a terrible past, but it involves a mutual f...
A. 26 November 2007: Just wanted to pick up on a couple of points here: "I sorta sensed from the begining that he would dissaprove of my past" - you need to give him the benefit of the doubt. If you lie and get found out it's very difficult to then believe anything... (read in full...)
My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week
Q. Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relation...
A. 24 November 2007: HI Mr Kermit, you do raise some interesting points. I have to say I did put my foot down after each argument and told her whats what. She would call me and text me 10 times in the one night I went out for a work dinner (which I only went for the ... (read in full...)
My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week
Q. Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relation...
A. 24 November 2007: I've read what you've said Mr Kermit. Unfortunately I don't agree with she was testing me. I was 100% committed to her and supported her emotionaly, I was affectionate and romantic. I have needs to and when I'm doing everything for her and got ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?
Q. my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...
A. 24 November 2007: Haha I can't believe this is a serious question. I've never had a threesome and not really that fussed to be honest. But then for me sex is at it's best when there's a lot of emotions there... being intimate, loving and caring makes the sex a ... (read in full...)
Do you think there's someone else? Or that he's not attracted to me anymore? His sex drive decreased very much...
Q. For a couple months it seems like my boyfriends sex drive has dramaticly decreased. We use to do it atleast 3 times a week and now ill be lucky if its 2 times a month. And when we do i have to start it. Also i mention it and he just acts aggravated ...
A. 24 November 2007: Be VERY careful before you jump to conclusions. Funny to hear I'm sure if you've read about my situation on here. In my first ever relationship after a year or two I had a low sex drive for a while. I'm not entirely sure why but it was a phase I ... (read in full...)
My ex - I've hit a low point now after some great progress this week
Q. Hi All, I’m feeling really low today. I don’t know why but I feel like I’ve been crushed. I don’t understand how my ex-girlfriend can treat me the way she did, find someone else while we were going out, and then jump straight into another relation...
A. 24 November 2007: Call me messed up (and YES I am a little typsy right now)but I wanted to let you all know tonight's events. For those of you that don't know my previous posts are here: 1) 21/11/07 http://www.dearcup... (read in full...)
I miss her so much it hurts! Should I call her or should I wait to not ruin the work of getting over her?
Q. Hey all my original post is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-has-been-giving-me-the-runaround.html So i've now started a new job since uni graduation, I am living in a new location, new house with new people. The thing ...
A. 23 November 2007: Mate, I'm feeling you. However, I was single for approx. 5 years between girlfriends and during that time my Dad passed away suddenly and unexpectedly at just 51 (on Fathers' Day too!). I never found anyone special during that time until I met... (read in full...)
I get loads of attention from other girls but I really want my ex back...
Q. Hi All, Well what an absolute nightmare. I’ve just ended a 15 month relationship. Everything was great at first but for the last 6 months or so we’ve been having petty rows pretty regularly. We never make up following a row, although I always t...
A. 21 November 2007: Thanks guys. There's no way she'd go to counselling with me. She prefers to live in denial I think and simply shifts blame elsewhere. I did mention it but she just closed up and said I don't want to talk about it.
Anyway, this is by the by, afte... (read in full...)
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