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30 October 2013: Attention beautiful ladies of the world, you don’t need a man to be happy. You can be happy with just about anything. Whether it’s fixing your hair real nice, doing your makeup, or going out in the fresh air. Doing something that you love can be ...
Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.
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27 November 2012: Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down. Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s complete...
Just in honor of world peace.
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16 April 2012: I've had an absence since 2010, I know, it's been a while, but I'm coming back just to help out with anyone, it doesn't have to be based on just relationship trouble either. So I apologize if that's what you're looking for in this article, these are ...
Trying to make a change!
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16 October 2010: When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...
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Rejected 3 times by her! What should I do?
Q. I like a girl for no reason. I've been waiting for her for 5 years already. During this 5 years, i've got rejected by her 3 times. Any advice?...
A. 6 December 2012: She's NOT worth it, do not go after a girl who keeps rejecting you especially if you've been waiting for 5 years. You are amazing, do not let this woman phase you, she isn't worth the heart break. You hear me? Eff her, she doesn't deserve you ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but his behaviour has changed. Am I being taken for granted?
Q. hello, Our relationship got serious 5 months ago. we've been best friends for over a year. We never fought. We did have our different opinions, but we respected and accepted all that. When we realized we love each other, he told me he will alwa...
A. 6 December 2012: Please hun, you can't keep staying quiet about this, confront him at once about how you feel. And even if it doesn't seem like him, there must be a reason for it. If he doesn't tell you why, then you know what you have to do. It's either that or you ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in telling him how I felt, or should I have just kept quiet?
Q. So, I asked a guy out...and now it is weird. Basically it all came to a head after a really interesting day spent with him. We spend a lot of time together, even though we have only known each other for just over 3 months. We are both at Universi...
A. 6 December 2012: To keep it brief and short, no you weren't wrong at doing what you did. I think it was a good call because now you know he isn't interested and you can always move on and find someone better, there are plenty of fish in the sea. :) Just stick with ... (read in full...)
Question for the girls out there about responding to texts!
Q. I've a question for the girls out there about responding to texts. Ok.....I'll give a quick example on my situation and then you can hopefully ease my impatient side. I was with this girl at my friends 21st Birthday. She was a lovely girl ...
A. 26 November 2012: Hmm, you never know with those. Maybe she doesn't want to end up in a relationship or she's playing hard to get but that's on one side. On the other side she could be shy and really nervous but not sure. You'll have to try and talk to her, not all ... (read in full...)
Women: Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Q. Warning:(The following contains broad generalizations to illustrate a point, there are no rules nor concrete all encompassing truths in what I write, there are always exceptions. This applies to men too) I've been on this site for a while now and ...
A. 26 November 2012: I was in a relationship recently and I was the one making the effort and I thought he would too because he promised me he would. But I was proven wrong and I left him. This article is truly amazing and 100% valid. Thank you for this. :) ... (read in full...)
I want my ex girlfriend back in my life.
Q. so the problem is my ex gf who broke off with me 9 months ago started talking to me again after a month. I loved it, i loved her like crazy. When we started talking again, we tried to be just friends but did stuff that wasnt just friend ...
A. 26 November 2012: Personally, I think you're just wasting your time. If she wanted to be in your life she wouldn't have ignored you just out of the blue. I'm not sure, she could have had family problems or something but people shouldn't just ignore you without a ... (read in full...)
What would you do if this was you?
Q. Hy. Let me ask you this : what would you do if you had a family but never took a family photo with them, if you had parents who live in the same house but fight everyday, if your friends are 'not.so.good.friends' , if everybody just throws dirt ...
A. 25 November 2012: Listen to me, you may not think it will be easy 7 maybe it won't be but you have to try and talk with them. Have a family meeting you need t let them know how you feel. Being pressured to lose weight and feeling you have to try to please them is an ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get him to notice me?
Q. Hi. So there is this guy that I like. I am 15, he is 16. The thing is, we used to sit near each other in class, so it was easier to kind of get up the nerve to talk to him, I did a couple of times. He's hilarious and very nice. The thing is, we dont ...
A. 24 November 2012: Heck, go for it then. Don't let fear get the best of you honey. I'm sure he'd be excited if you went and talked to him. So go for it girl! Smile at him, wave at him maybe? I don't know, just do something to grab his attention, nothing too serious ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I were in car accident and he didn't even ask if I was ok?
Q. Please tell me if I'm overreacting here because I can't work it out. My boyfriend of 4 years and I were just in a car accident (he ran into the back of someone on black ice). I am ok for the most part, although I hurt my neck a little bit and I ...
A. 24 November 2012: I don't think you're being self-absorbed at all, dear. I just think that you don't need to overreact over it, you're not dead, are you? No. And your boyfriend shouldn't be throwing a big fit over it either, car accidents happen everyday. Just know ... (read in full...)
She says there is no love for me.
Q. so where to begin. my wife and i have been together for 5 years married 10 years together. we have 2 children together. we have struggled for years. it all started we had our first child when we were young she was 18 and blames me for taking aw...
A. 24 November 2012: Maybe it's time to just move on and go forward with your life... I know it's hard right now but it will only get worse if you keep thinking she'll do something but yet, she doesn't. Please don't depend on someone for your happiness, you do things ... (read in full...)
Don't know when or if I should tell this guy I'm a virgin.
Q. I've been reading a few questions people have asked on here about telling a guy their with that they are a virgin, well thing is i'm stuck on whether I should or even when. Because IF some guys see it as a conquest, then how do I know that he isn't ...
A. 15 September 2012: You know if they are the right guy by the way they act and the way they look towards you. The way they make you smile and the way you share laughs.. If you want to tell him you are a virgin, then go ahead, if he acts like a coward and wants you for ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend with online addiction???
Q. I have been dating a man I met online for 4 months now. After the first month he asked me to be exclusive. He is caring, affectionate, he wants to see me everyday and makes plans a lot, takes me places, takes care of me, and calls me everyday to see ...
A. 15 September 2012: If he's not willing to stop then I'd cut all ties. NOT worth it.... (read in full...)
He is the man of my dreams and we share a bed together, but he will not have sex with me. Any and all advice is needed.
Q. I use to think I knew everything but this time I am so confused and in desperate need of help. I am a gay male who has met the man of my dreams, someone who is sweet loving, responsible and I absolutely adore him. There is no doubt in my mind that ...
A. 15 September 2012: Ask him what's up and maybe he'll let you know.. Maybe he wants to wait and there shouldn't be any problem with waiting, honestly if you truly love someone you'll wait for them.. Not forever but wait for long enough to the extent where you're not ... (read in full...)
We have been hooking up for months, do you think he is starting to develop feelings for me?
Q. I've been hooking up with a guy friend for about 3 months. We've become so close and I like it a lot. I've started to develope feelings if you couldn't tell and I'm not sure if he has also. He seems to care more; we work together and he's always ...
A. 13 September 2012: If you feel it and you know that feelings true then odds are you have a connection. But if you only feel he cares after you make love then I'm not sure if it's there. I do feel he has something towards you however just don't go too sudden with it, ... (read in full...)
I'm gay my parents don't know it and I'm worried about what is going to happen in my life
Q. I don't know what to do anymore. I pretty much gave up on my parents years ago, I have no freedom, no nothing. I've been sulking in my depression for years now and I feel like it's gonna be like that for the rest of my life. Yes of course my ...
A. 13 September 2012: Listen.. I know it's hard now but there will always be an entrance after every exit. Just don't choose a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Some people don't accept it but honestly.. Everyone judges whether we realize it or not. But the ones ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend with online addiction???
Q. I have been dating a man I met online for 4 months now. After the first month he asked me to be exclusive. He is caring, affectionate, he wants to see me everyday and makes plans a lot, takes me places, takes care of me, and calls me everyday to see ...
A. 13 September 2012: Are you really willing to end a 4 month relationship, I mean most long distance relationships end in turmoil because at least one of people in the relationship don't believe in it. If he didn't believe in it I'm sure he wouldn't go out of his way to ... (read in full...)
I no longer desire sex with my wife but I do desire other women. It's consuming me, help!
Q. Ok,i'm married,and have lost my desire for sex with my wife,but have a desire to have sex with almost every female i come across! When i meet another woman,even for just a minute,i'm wondering what it would be like to have her! It's consuming ...
A. 13 September 2012: I feel bad for your wife, that's all I can say.. You should divorce her or separate if you feel you aren't as attached, don't just cheat on her like that. At least have the audacity to tell her how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Am I too short?
Q. I am only 163cm tall girl but my boy friend is 181cm tall.This is the only reason he always makes fun of me! Please tell me honestly if I am too short to be mocked! I really need to know am i too short? ...
A. 18 April 2012: Not at all, and being short's amazing! I'm 5'3, and I get called short all the time, xD.. It doesn't matter what your height is, and I'm sure he's joking, but if it hurts your feelings, tell him please. :)
Remember: We're not short, we're fu... (read in full...)
Is it a good sign that he smiled at me at school? or is it more like her overheard my friend?
Q. Hey, guys. I have a question So I like this dude and the other day I think he heard my friend and I talking about him (Well not about him but the conversation referred to him) We were in the computer lab and we all sat in the same row and he w...
A. 18 April 2012: He could have been smiling at something/ someone else, but not sure, you don't know if he was smiling at you unless he was looking directly at you, or looks but then turns his head in a different direction..
Don't assume he likes you unless h... (read in full...)
Is he with someone else or just busy?
Q. He only reaches out to me when I contact him first and sometimes does not even reply to me. We have been had sex a few times each time he cuddles me ask me about things but then disappears. He canceled last night @ the last min and now I am ...
A. 18 April 2012: He could be busy, sweetie, but by what you added and the impression I'm getting is that he is a liar..
I think he could be just using you for sex, but forgive me if I am wrong, I think you deserve to find someone who will take the time to chat ... (read in full...)
Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!
Q. Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they ...
A. 18 April 2012: It really isn't good for them to smoke around you, not at all... At least give them a brief chat stating all of the end results in being around second hand smoke, like
1.) How your child could end up being premature
2.) End up having a mental d... (read in full...)
Why is this guy acting so friendly now? Does he like me?
Q. Hello all! So I'm going to be the 98747432th person to ask this sort of question, and honestly I feel a little silly typing this out but this guy is confusing me that I would really appreciate some exterior, objective advice. So, here are th...
A. 16 April 2012: I'm not sure if you're going to take this the wrong way or anything, but I think it's obvious that you 2 share a really good relationship (as friends) but nothing more...
Usually, unless he's extremely shy, there would be more than enough c... (read in full...)
Missing: My period.
Q. i haven't had a period in two months and iv grown a little more tired but im also in college, i was more hungry than usual but now i just feel nauseated especially with greasy foods. Is this a sign of something, other than pregnancy because i'm ...
A. 14 November 2010: Just make sure you visit the doctors. And did you take a pregnancy test? ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? Like my friend?
Q. Hmm, so I started talking to this guy named Jordan.. Well we have been talking for at least 3 months, but we didn't talk alot. Since than, we have exchanged numbers and such, and we USED to text constantly, like everyday. Now I'm lucky if he ...
A. 12 November 2010: Thanks for the answer sweetie, I just needed that to let me know. I'll do that than and if no change, I'll go in a different direction instead of waiting for something with no catch. Take care, xoxo. :) ... (read in full...)
A shy girl meeting a shy guy that my bff wanted me to meet unexpectedly
Q. Hi, I'm a shy girl that hasn't ever had a chance. I've met this shy guy that my best friend wanted me to meet. We have been talking for a little bit after we first met. He never texted me first I was the one who did. Also when he asked me to go ...
A. 9 November 2010: Listen.. Next time please don't go after someone with a girlfriend, no matter how your feelings are. The ending verdict will just lead you heartbroken. Especially, if you like a guy and he wont reciprocate.. Than that just isn't okay, and is the ... (read in full...)
How do you get the one you like to like you?
Q. how do u get the one u like to like you..?? or how do u get a boiyfriend..?? i mean cuz i talk to my guy friends everyday and i still want to know how to get a boyfried if there not coming to you at the moment.. i mean dont get me wrong i do have ...
A. 9 November 2010: Try to give them hints, don't come off too hard. Sort of pull their attention.. Wear different attire, do your makeup nicely. Find things you have in common, just please don't get a boyfriend to get them to notice you.. Someone may end up with a ... (read in full...)
She won't go out with me because of our age difference...
Q. Hi! My problem is that when I feel that I like a girl I fall for her hard and fast!!! The reason for this is that I don't see a girl so that I can get into her pants but because I see a future with her. And that's precisely what my problem is. I met ...
A. 2 November 2010: Getting over people you like alot, is a huge factor.. It is indeed a hard adjustment. But you have to. Keep in touch with her, you'll meet someone just as good if not better suited for you in the future. People come and go, remember that.. Do more ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend physical with me, it always involves alcohol
Q. I love my fiance more then anything! We plan on getting married and having babies together. We have been through so much together and I know he loves me dearly! I have never been in such a loving relationship but the other day he beat me up quite ...
A. 30 October 2010: Hey.. If yuo're both in love and awaiting to get married. Than do what he usggested, go to counseling and relationship help.. Work out all your problems, but hun domestic violence is wrong.. On so many levels, you shouldn't ever let a man touch you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't talk to me!
Q. Dear Cupid my boyfriend at doesn't talk to me at school does he still love me...
A. 30 October 2010: How could you even call him a boyfriend if he doesn't talk to you? He isn't worth it, and I don't think he loves you if he did that's a crappy way of showing it. You need to realize what a good relationship is, and what a bad relationship is.. and ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I'm scared of everything
Q. Hello. I am 13 yrs. old. I am in the 8th grade. I dont have many friends. I dont really like people, and people dont really like me, but I want friends. I hope it will get better in high school, but I dont think so, and I dont know why I think ...
A. 30 October 2010: Listen to this quote please. "If you want to succeed, you must believe". It's true, you HAVE to believe in yourself. Look in the mirror, boost your self esteem. Go to counseling, let loose on your emotions, don't hold anything back. No one is ... (read in full...)
Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again?
Q. Does ex-wife of 13 years want to try again? We both remarried and divorced. The first time we had a few drinks buzzed then 3 days later again..she said she was feeling vunerable becuase of a problem we have since resolved with our son. A month later ...
A. 29 October 2010: Do what you feel is right for YOU! It seems like she still wants to be with you, if you didn't have a great time than you know she doesn't. So now you have your chance, there is still a connection. You both seem good for eachother, why the heck not. ... (read in full...)
I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?
Q. I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful. We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating. It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying. Im n...
A. 29 October 2010: Next time you should find a girl that you actually have things in common with, and spend more time with. Do not rush with finding someone, it wont be hard to find someone who will have the same characteristics as you, or similarities. So yes, since ... (read in full...)
Should I confront my bf about the inappropriate text messages?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years, last year, he lied to me about texting another girl because I would get "jealous", when I confirmed I wouldn't, he apologized and now tells me when he texts another girl. This morning though, ...
A. 29 October 2010: I don't get why'd they both even flirt in the first place.. I mean she shouldn't do that to her boyfriend who's out of town, and was wrong of your boyfriend to keep that from you. He should have told you he was texting her to begin with like he ... (read in full...)
I've been cheated on so many times and now I've done it!
Q. Hi i'm 15 and i've been in a relationship with my bf for 3 months exactly. I love him very much. We were friends for almost a year before we started dating. About a week into our relationship he almost cheated on me and when I found out I almost ...
A. 26 October 2010: You should just break up with him, I know it hurted that he ALMOST cheated on you, but he didn't.. You did, and he forgave you. But yet, you did it again, and you even know how it feels so why did you do it more than once? If you're sick of your bf ... (read in full...)
How do I become a stronger person?
Q. I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do?...
A. 26 October 2010: Okay this is something I've been trying to learn myself, but I've been tought.. To come out of beign negative, and being more self confident is to believe in yourself. Who cares what other peoples opinions are? Seriously. The only opinion that ... (read in full...)
I like this girl but her friend likes me! What do I do here?
Q. I really like this girl, so much I think I'm starting to fall for her, she likes me too, but the problem is that her friend likes me too. The girl I do like has said she feels bad and stuff cos of her friend and I dont know what to do, should I try ...
A. 26 October 2010: Hmm, if you really like the girl than go for her. Don't cut yourself off just cause her friends likes you.. I don't mean it in a bad way, but would you want to wonder what it would have been like to date her.. If you don't, than you could end up ... (read in full...)
He says he's not a bad guy, can I believe him?
Q. there is a guy and we used to kiss and snog but it didn't really mean anything i think it is something like friends with benefits? and we are really good friends. then he liked this girl and now they are going out. but me and him are really r...
A. 26 October 2010: Don't go back to it.. You're just going to end up hurt in the end, you can stay friends but tell him to not play mind games with you. You see through his games, I'm sure he wouldn't break up with his girlfriend for you, and it's obvious that the ... (read in full...)
Been dumped but not actually told?
Q. Has anyone ever been in a situation whereby you have been dumped but not actually told and you are given the silent treatment? Me and my boyfriend have not been speaking for a week now due to an argument (my fault), I tried to get in contact but hes ...
A. 23 October 2010: Ask his friends, he can't keep this going on longer if it's not over, he may just be trying to feel better. ou can't assume if it's voe ror not if he never told you anything, so I'm sure he's just trying to relieve. Good luck honey, xoxo. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends parents really dislike me
Q. Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...
A. 21 October 2010: Have you tried to speak with them over the phone, and asked them to just give you a chance to prove them wrong? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's DAD acts like he's his girlfriend!!!
Q. My bf's dad acts like hes his gf. Kinda hard to explain. First of all i think family is important and would never try to interfere or keep him away. Ok his dad gets butthurt if he doesnt call him like 20 times a day. My bf will call him like every ...
A. 20 October 2010: It's simply cause his father wants to know if he's okay, they seem to have a close bond and are probably close. his father probably gets paranoid, and his safety may be his main priority. No it's not wrong at all, but maybe he could call his dad ... (read in full...)
Why won't he take his relationship status off Facebook???
Q. My Boyfriend and i just started dating like couple weeks now but we knew each other back in high school. I Have Him As A Friend On Facebook and it says that he is in a realtionship with somebody else, i asked him about he says it's his ex and dont ...
A. 20 October 2010: Tell your boyfriend to take the pictures down, and to change his status on Facebook. If he doesn't than that just proves to you that he isn't committed, and not over his ex. If that occurs, please let him go, that isn't worth having around. I wish ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends parents really dislike me
Q. Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...
A. 20 October 2010: Tell your boyfriend to let you visit his parents, prove them wrong. That your friends changed you status, and such on your Facebook page, and that isn't true at all. I'm sure you will change their minds, and if not than don't give up, there is still ... (read in full...)
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