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writes:Hi i'm 15 and i've been in a relationship with my bf for 3 months exactly. I love him very much. We were friends for almost a year before we started dating. About a week into our relationship he almost cheated on me and when I found out I almost died! Every guy I date cheats on me I don't know why. I am a virgin and I plan on staying that way for awhile. Every girl my bf has dated has cheated on him with his bff. I promised him I would never do that..I broke that promise 2 months ago and he found out but we made up and now i've done it again! i've been cheated on so many times I know how it feels but why did I do this to him again? I don't understand. I love him more then life but I think I get bored with my bfs. I've only been faithful to 1 guy i've dated he was my first love but he was never faithful to me. He cheated on me with I don't know how many girls. I was with him for over a year and I always did anything he asked me to do. I still love him with all my heart and soul. Please help me understand why?
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I think you should break it off with your boyfriend because he doesn't deserve to be treated this way.
If you do break it off with him, I'd say wait another 2 or 3 years before you start dating again, you'll be surprised how much you'll grow up in that time. And you'll also have a better chance of finding someone who's more mature. You've probably been cheated on before because most guys at your age usually aren't ready to settle for just one person. And by the looks of things, you aren't either.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (26 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) You should just break up with him, I know it hurted that he ALMOST cheated on you, but he didn't.. You did, and he forgave you. But yet, you did it again, and you even know how it feels so why did you do it more than once? If you're sick of your bf than just end it. He doesn't need to get hurt over and over.. Maybe you should take a break from the whole dating thing, or just stay friends til you figure everything out. I'm sorry for being honest, but it's the best policy. I hope you learn a lesson, and don't become like your ex's. Good luck, xoxo.
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