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writes: Hmm, so I started talking to this guy named Jordan.. Well we have been talking for at least 3 months, but we didn't talk alot. Since than, we have exchanged numbers and such, and we USED to text constantly, like everyday. Now I'm lucky if he even talks to me.. It seems he likes my friend, I'm not sure if it's true. But it wouldn't surprise me.. I told her about him, and that I was falling for him. He made me feel better about myself, and that he always wanted to hold me. So I told her, and now she talks to him, and added him on Facebook? I thought they were "just talking". It just puts questions in my head. He talked to me more before he ever told me he liked me, than I told him I liked him too.. We aren't as close it seems. Him and my friend don't talk, he supposedly told her he doesn't want to talk to her anymore. Maybe he wants to be with my friend or another girl? Or he's shy, like me? I don't know.. I hope I can get someone to clarify, and help me out of this situation, cause I'm seriously not the type of person to make the first move.. But if he showed me he was interested, and talked to me more.. I might take it in consideration. Should I keep waiting, or move on.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (12 November 2010):
[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] is verified as being by the original poster of the question![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Thanks for the answer sweetie, I just needed that to let me know. I'll do that than and if no change, I'll go in a different direction instead of waiting for something with no catch. Take care, xoxo. :)
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reader, Alexisonfire  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 i'd say he is just shy in a way, but you shouldn't put all your hopes up on him. i think you should make the first move, if you want something done you should do it yourself. if you made a move then you's might get back talking again. just text him a hey whats up or something.
at least then he knows that you are still interested. go and make your move, if he is still the same with you after then move on. good luck :)
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