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writes:hello,Our relationship got serious 5 months ago. we've been best friends for over a year. We never fought. We did have our different opinions, but we respected and accepted all that. When we realized we love each other, he told me he will always keep me happy, he loved spending every second with me and everything was great. But recently he has been acting a little distant. He is not replying to messages properly. We used to talk for hours during the night and day. Now he hardly talks for an hour. He even called me fat and I just laughed, taking it as a joke, but it really does hurt. Is he being a bully? He is being kinda rude now a days. I've never seen this behavior before! He has always been the chivalrous prince charming but these days, everything is so different! And now he asked me if I'm sure about us coz he wanted to tell his parents about us. I said yes of course I am sure about us! I really do love him, from the bottom of my heart! I still do little romantic things for him. but nothing is reciprocated. Am I being taken for granted? He doesn't even talk to me like he used to. I'm so scared and hurt.. please help me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2012): btw, today is our fifth month anniversary :)
thank you for the advice, aunt! i really appreciate it :)
i have my exams going on now.. i will talk to him as soon as i find the time.. tell him all the details, without leaving out anything. wish me luck :)
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?]  +, writes (6 December 2012):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Please hun, you can't keep staying quiet about this, confront him at once about how you feel. And even if it doesn't seem like him, there must be a reason for it. If he doesn't tell you why, then you know what you have to do. It's either that or you are going to feel like crap and that's not worth it is it cupcake? F*ck no. So let him know everything, don't leave a detail out. I hope everything works out peacefully. I am sorry that you're going through this, I know how that feels.
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