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30 October 2013: Attention beautiful ladies of the world, you don’t need a man to be happy. You can be happy with just about anything. Whether it’s fixing your hair real nice, doing your makeup, or going out in the fresh air. Doing something that you love can be ...
Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.
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27 November 2012: Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down. Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s complete...
Just in honor of world peace.
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16 April 2012: I've had an absence since 2010, I know, it's been a while, but I'm coming back just to help out with anyone, it doesn't have to be based on just relationship trouble either. So I apologize if that's what you're looking for in this article, these are ...
Trying to make a change!
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16 October 2010: When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...
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My boyfriends parents really dislike me
Q. Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...
A. 21 October 2010: Have you tried to speak with them over the phone, and asked them to just give you a chance to prove them wrong? ... (read in full...)
Why won't he take his relationship status off Facebook???
Q. My Boyfriend and i just started dating like couple weeks now but we knew each other back in high school. I Have Him As A Friend On Facebook and it says that he is in a realtionship with somebody else, i asked him about he says it's his ex and dont ...
A. 20 October 2010: Tell your boyfriend to take the pictures down, and to change his status on Facebook. If he doesn't than that just proves to you that he isn't committed, and not over his ex. If that occurs, please let him go, that isn't worth having around. I wish ... (read in full...)
I feel so humiliated... but at 58 it will be so difficult for me to leave him.
Q. Four years ago I found that my Husband of then 35 years had been having an affair for 7 years... we have tried to make a go of it, we go on holidays.. share our passion for gardening/children/ grandchildren etc and are about to celebrate our 39th ...
A. 20 October 2010: Age isn't even the issue, he is. From my understanding, leave this so called man. I know you have been with him for a long while, but it's for the best honestly. You have put up with this backstabbing, and denial for 7 years! It's time to put it to ... (read in full...)
Did I deserve to lose my baby?
Q. hey x so i had a miscarrige last year and at the time i just put it to the back of my head an forget about it as well to be honest i was ashamed because i was only 15 but i recently started going out with my best friend and when arguing, he brought ...
A. 20 October 2010: Babygirl, I hope you're still not with him. That was a rude thing of him to say even IF he was just trying to get you fuming. You may have been young, but as long as you learn from your mistakes and will wait later in time than that is a good thing. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends parents really dislike me
Q. Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...
A. 20 October 2010: Tell your boyfriend to let you visit his parents, prove them wrong. That your friends changed you status, and such on your Facebook page, and that isn't true at all. I'm sure you will change their minds, and if not than don't give up, there is still ... (read in full...)
Halloween Date Ideas?
Q. What is a good date for me and my boyfriend on Halloween night? We have to double or triple in order for us to go, but what are some good suggestions?...
A. 20 October 2010: Yeah, do as dirtball said, go to Fright fest,Frightworld, or go to a maze & go on the hay ride! It'd be awesome to do, as you could share alot of romantic moments with eachother.... (read in full...)
Could he like me or am I just a friend?
Q. I Really like this guy and I think he likes me because earlier he told me something extremely personal said that he was telling me the secret because he can trust me. Also the other day we had this moment when he looked into my eyes and said they ...
A. 20 October 2010: Girl, he likes you! & You like him too, ask him out.. Or if you want to wait til he asks you out than just do that! Cause there is a connection, by what you were describing. (: Be confident hun, xoxo. ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? I think he likes me...
Q. I work with a guy, its been a few months now. When we see eachother he always gets a big smile on his face, he notices the smallest things I do different IE: wear my hair slightly to the left or wear lipstick when i normally do not. When we have a ...
A. 20 October 2010: Sounds like you answered your own question, he does indeed like you obviously. Tell him you have feelings before it's too late! He thinks you're pretty so there's nothing to be shy about. Good luck, xoxo. ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, should I tell her?
Q. Hi readers! So I became friend of this girl that i like and today she said i was her best. about a week ago everyone started saying that she likes me, and when someone says that out loud she denies it. Also, I personally think that three other guys ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hun, don't be afraind.. If she likes you for you, which I'm sure she does. Than go for her, ask her out and tell her you like her. It wont be surprising if she says the same to you, there's a spark. I can tell. Good luck, xoxo. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore!
Q. I love my girlfriend very much, we have been dating a good 2 years. The problem is is that I don't find her sexually attractive anymore. Because of this I have cheated on her a couple of times, once was on a break. I don't want to break it off ...
A. 19 October 2010: You should just tell her, because that my friend.. Is utterly disrespectful. Sure you may be miserable, but if you think single would be great than you mine as well be. Instead of cheating behind your girlfriends back. ... (read in full...)
Why isn't he too busy for her?
Q. My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he claimed to be "too busy" to handle school, work and a relationship (we're both in college, he's 22) It really came out of nowhere, he was just saying how beautiful I was and what a lucky guy he was to have ...
A. 18 October 2010: I know it's hard dear, but you have to not let this control your life. You WILL, in no doubt in my mind find someone who isn't a prick, you will indeed find a man worthy of you. & Not ever try to shatter your heart. You'll find someone that will put ... (read in full...)
Trying to make a change!
Q. When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...
A. 17 October 2010: Thanks dorothy Dix.
@yaytenacles. I wasn't asking a question, if I was than it would be clearly in the question section. I was simply writing down what I felt. ... (read in full...)
15 and 3 months late for period but all the tests are negative!
Q. i need help...i am 15 years old and i am 3 months late for my period. i am having all the symptoms of pregnancy but ive taken four pregnancy tests but they all came back negative. do u think i could be having false negatives or its just all in my ...
A. 15 October 2010: I'd go to your doctor, and have he/she check it out.
Best of luck to you, xoxo. ... (read in full...)
Scared to meet my daughter.
Q. i know this is a strange one for most of you out there but hear it goes. im scared to meet my daughter. we have been estranged for 2 1/2 yrs not through any fault of ours. her dad came up one saturday afternoon had her for the weekend and neva ...
A. 15 October 2010: Tbh, I do not think she will hold a grudge on you.. you did cry, you do care, and you do love her. She will be appreciative of that, and I know she will be so excited to see you. Make her feel like the angel she is, and that you missed her so much, ... (read in full...)
It's hard to talk to him! what should I do?
Q. i've got a big crush on a boy from our class!! he said to his friend that i'm one of his good friends..i want to tell him but i'm scared and since i'm quite shy,i find it hard to talk to him sometimes. What should i do??What can i do?? help!!...
A. 14 October 2010: If you can't talk to him, than perhaps the usage of body language will come into play. When you catch him looking at you, smile! And when you gaze int his eyes that'll show him that you're interested. I'm sure you'll blush while doing it too haha. ... (read in full...)
I don't know what he wants from me ...
Q. I have worked with this guy for 2 years.. we have been through a lot together. I really really like him and we hang out all the time. Our personalities just match perfectly we have never fought and we really enjoy each others company. The first time ...
A. 14 October 2010: Just understand that the business is his priority atm. Once he hires staff, managers, and gets everything situated. I'm sure he'll plan on making a committment with you, and you will be together. I really think he does like you, and he isn't using ... (read in full...)
I think I'm done with her.
Q. Well I think I'm over my ex. She blocked my phone number and wont call me back, she gave me a text the other night she did that only to say she wont be able to talk to me for a day. I thought that was crap and told her to quit playing me. And some ...
A. 14 October 2010: You should get into more hobbies, and have fun, enjoy your life. If your ex doesn't even keep in contact with you, than you should move on, I think you're on the right path with talking to this other girl. Just go a different direction and be happy. ... (read in full...)
How do you stand up for yourself?
Q. I don't know how but people think im too flirty. I barly have any guy friends and the ones I do have I don't love them like that. And one person called me a bitch about it. I don't know how but people think I am and I never liked a guy before or ...
A. 14 October 2010: They're just seeking for attention, don't let it bother you. They aren't worth it.. Be who YOU want to be, not who they want you to be. No one knows the kind of person you are so, and their impression is nothing spectacular. Don't change, xoxo. ... (read in full...)
Is he over me? My friend says he's not
Q. I saw my ex (let's call him X)over the weekend. We've been broken up since July and he has a gf. I was in a relationship but ended it this weekend b.c the guy I was seeing basically 'cheated' on me with his ex. When I saw X he hugged me and ...
A. 13 October 2010: I think he's trying to trick you into thinking he's over you when he's obviously not. You can't take one perspectives on this.. I'm not sure he COULD be in love with his gf but he may be trying to make you jealous which I'm assuming is correct. ... (read in full...)
Stuck with old lover,new person treats me better
Q. Basically I was with this girl C for nearly two years, for the first year the relationship was perfect and I fell madly in love. But as time went on, the relationship fell to pieces, she left me. Everything came out she cheated on me, and id ...
A. 13 October 2010: If you're in love with C but you don't want to get hurt... Than J doesn't hurt you but you're not in love with her. Then yes, I think you should move on. Save the hassle of choosing, you will have the right person in the future. One that wont do ... (read in full...)
I want out of my LDR
Q. Hi - In short i have a long distance casual relationship and i would like to finish it but in good terms, keeping the friendship bit - if possible. We talked, liked each other, went out, slept together, traveled to meet everywhere ... during months. ...
A. 12 October 2010: In my opinion; yes, dissappearing would be very rude.
In terms for you to tell him how feel, just tells him you can't handle the long distance relationship anymore. It's as simple as that.. He may be caring and sweet, but there are plenty of fish... (read in full...)
How much will it take me to leave?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for nearly 12 years. I am now 26, he is now 30. In the beginning of our marriage was bad, he cheated with one of my best friends 6 months after we were married, than a year later with another ...
A. 12 October 2010: I'm so so sorry hun.. This is deffinetly a hard decision. I know what you mean on how the divorce would be alot of pressure for your kids. But I mean if he told you to kill yourself?! That is no reason to keep staying with him. You are right, that ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity with him?
Q. Hi. I'm Nessie, I'm 16 years old and I have a big problem. I met my best friend [Bobby]3 years ago and we dated for about 6 months and then we broke up... Lately, we've been really "touchy" if you know what I mean and he admited he is feeling ve...
A. 12 October 2010: You are still young so you have enough time to think if this is the person you are destined to lose this to. If it is than do it.. If he wants to have sex with you, and you want to do it also than do it! You're both willing. ... (read in full...)
We've been out twice, we talk everyday non-stop, but does he like me the way I like him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's...
A. 11 October 2010: Have you ever asked yourself if he's looking for a relationship? Maybe he doesn't want to get hurt.. He sounds interested, but his job may get in the way as he seems to be busy with that also.
Don't overreact, since you both talk everyday... (read in full...)
My fiance is very controlling!
Q. My fiance is a very dominating person.. he tries to control me.. he has a problem with all of my male friends.. he manipulates me..i tend to compare this relationship with my past relationships and i am afraid to say that the past relationship was ...
A. 11 October 2010: As for the person below me, I agree. Let him go before you marry him, or else you are going to be miserable. & You don't want that, this is a serious situation. His dominance can turn into domestic violence if he doesn't get his way.. Don't give in, ... (read in full...)
I have severe dating anxiety what can I do to control my symptoms?
Q. my problem is that i have severe dating anxiety. this is the reason i run out on most guys after the second date. a few days ago i met this really nice guy and he wants to take me out this thursday. i said yes but now the anxiety has kicked in. im ...
A. 11 October 2010: Calm down dear, take a deep breath and chill.. Take it easy, if he is a good man than there is no reason to panic. On dates you are supposed to eat, so why would it bother him if you did? It wouldn't be normal if you didn't. Trust me, I'm 15 and I ... (read in full...)
I like two boys, they both like me, what should I do?
Q. I am 13, but I am still having difficulties. I have a boyfriend, but I really like this other guy, who happens to be my best friend. They both like me, but I like them both for different reasons. What should I do?...
A. 11 October 2010: Does your boyfriend treat you better than your friend... Or is it the opposite? Depending on the way you guys act towards eachother. I'm not sure if you feel more attracted to your best friend than your boyfriend.
But if one of them treats y... (read in full...)
Is it true that guys prefer non-virgins?
Q. Okay, so as me and my friend were walking she told me the reason why I don't get guys is cause I'm a virgin. She said if I lost my virginity then that would be better. Since she said a good percent of guys prefer non-virgins rather than virgins. ...
A. 11 October 2010: Thank you all for your comforting answers. I really really appreciate it! I don't want to lose my friend but I do feel as if she gives me alot of bad advice, maybe a form of jealousy?
I'm not sure why though. & I don't think I'll lose my virgi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hate my best friend. Is it right that I pick him over her?
Q. My boyfriend and his friends hate my bestfriend! she annoys me quite alot too. but she is still my friend and there is no way im going to just ignore her presence. i call her names and slag her off to my boyfriend and his friends but im still ...
A. 11 October 2010: Hmm, just think. She may annoy you, but has she stuck with you through alot of diffcult times? If not than maybe it's for the best to just choose him over her. But I mean, what does she do that's so wrong besides annoy you, if he was a true ... (read in full...)
Flatmate has Hepatitis C and I'm concerned
Q. Hi everyone. I am in need of some insight here. It is not a relationship question per se but I hope you won't mind answering.. So I have recently found my dream apartment. It is big and perfect in every sense and I signed a sub lease contract ...
A. 11 October 2010: I don't think you're at any risk for getting it Hepatitis C. As it can only be transmitted by blood-to-blood contact as you stated. If you ever see any blood disinfect it, matter of fact.. I'd recommend you to buy disinfecting wipes and a few ... (read in full...)
His friend turned out to be more than a friend!
Q. I'm going through a lot right now. I'm going to make this short as possible. My Ex and I, were doing good. Til his so called "friend" was always around. When my ex went back to college, i looked at his call records, because he only would text ...
A. 11 October 2010: Hun, don't show any interest. You can't keep thinking about him all day, that's the first step in the process.
You'll get support from family, and friends. If he really cared he wouldn't have gone with her. You did all the supporting, I mean you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has terminal cancer, I want a baby but he doesnt. Should I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend has terminal cancer, i want a baby but he doesnt. Should i leave him? We met a year or two ago and we have fallen in love. He has a child by a previous marriage and is content with that but I am becoming desperate. I dont want to ...
A. 11 October 2010: No, what you can do is have them save his sperm when he ejaculates, so then in the future. When he passes away, you can be impregnanted.. I'm just taking what my mother said. However, I do understand why he wouldn't want one, just so the child ... (read in full...)
We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships
Q. Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...
A. 10 October 2010: First off, your girfriend is not fully committed if she is going to break up with you because you're a different race. She needs to have a conversation with her parents, and not give up..
If she gets to them and they accept the relationship than... (read in full...)
E-cards sent to wrong person?? How could this happen?
Q. Hellol, I sent my friend some E cards about 8, when I got the message that the cards have been viewed and opened it. it had the sender as a man I never heard of and a female the receiver I did not know. know one uses my computer. so I am wondering ...
A. 10 October 2010: Do you have firewall? Someone could have possible hacked onto your computer, it's a possibility. If not than I'm sure the person you sent the e-cards to gave you a fake email address, or maybe typed it incorrectly. ... (read in full...)
Stretch marks everywhere! What works on them?
Q. Hi. I weigh around 105 lbs and im around 34C-D. But I have stretchmarks everywhere on my breasts, and I can feel them and see them and I dont like it, is there anything I can do? I have tried Bio-Oil and I stopped using it because I forget to put it ...
A. 10 October 2010: I have the same problem, what I use to get rid of them would be Palmer's Cocoa butter, and Shea butter. Maybe you should go check out a Lush or Bath & body works! and if that doesn't help, than perhaps you should go to the doctor and they should ... (read in full...)
He's an alcoholic and I have to get out!
Q. I have known this man for 38 years and have recently begun a relationship with him 3 years ago. The first 2 1/2 years were inredible. The last 6-8 months have been not so desirable. He is truly an alcoholic. The verbal abuse is abhorent! I love ...
A. 10 October 2010: I hope this helps, or somewhat does.. Well, my parents are separated, my father lives about 15 minutes away from us. The reason for the separation; alcohol. They have been separated ever since I was born, so figure 15 years. He drinks alcohol every ... (read in full...)
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