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Okay so i'm not an expert at giving advice or anything but I know that there are a lot of people that would be grateful with a good ear and a bit of honest advice and that's what I am. Honest =)
I live in the UK near Cardiff. I am 21 years old.
Just a little about me, I love to read, and i love horror movies. The scarier the better. Ghost's and alien movies freak me the hell out, but i tend to watch with someone or during the day LOL ;)
The thing i can't stand the most is Jealousy and Lies. They are both good things but only to an extent. When people choose to abuse it, that's when it ticks me off.
I'm single and have been for a while. But i'm still smiling =)
My best friend is male. My friend is a compulsive liar. But I try to see the best in people even though it is really really hard.
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Should I trust her? And if so, how do I get her to hook me up with the guy I like?
Q. There's this guy I sort of like. His name's Rick. He's tall and always wears hooded jackets even though we live in mild climates. I'm guessing this is just his style, and I find it cute. I want to talk to him, but we barely cross paths or share ...
A. 3 March 2011: So he know's that you like him? What is the problem exactly?... (read in full...)
He criticizes me and sends mixed signals, should I stay with him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a year now... I am in love with him and feel so low when im not with him.. but I feel as though he is mentally torturing me. He doesnt liek me wearing make up and the other day he gave me an ultimatum betwee...
A. 2 March 2011: Good for you hun. Sounds like an awesome plan =)... (read in full...)
I don't want her to fall in love with someone else!
Q. I am currently 21 i just broke up with my gf (27) We have had a long distance relationship for 7 months we talk and see each other on skype everyday or on the phone. I only seen her psychically maybe 1 month. We just broke up since valentines day o...
A. 2 March 2011: I think she still has feelings with you but maybe she broke it off with you coz you are so far away, she feels sad knowing that you won't wake up with her in the mornings, or be there when she falls asleep..
Ask her if there is any future for you ... (read in full...)
We never have quality sex and she's talking about her ex!
Q. My wife and I recently got married and we have a 5 year old together, it seems like we never have "quality" sex, I mean we have sex but only for her to shut me up. She tells me that she lost the emotional connection with me, but about a few weeks ...
A. 2 March 2011: She shouldn't be even asking about her ex if she is recently married.. It's obvious she still has feelings for him, or feelings that are just sexual. I think you should ask her about it. You recently got married and she's already hiding secrets? Not ... (read in full...)
How do I let her down nicely?
Q. I'm a 24 year old guy. I'm a bit shy, I'm not a lady's man or anything, but older women sometimes hit on me in an aggressive way. The thing that really bothers me is that sometimes it's as if they do it only because they know I'm shy. p / p / L...
A. 2 March 2011: Don't give her attention. No eye contact and always be busy. She'll sooner or later get the hint and Get lost. It's nothing worse when you have someone flirt with you excessively and it ain't mutual. Or the old fashioned way... You have a ... (read in full...)
My baby's dad walked out on me, my friends have their own life, and I feel there is no hope for me to ever be in a relationship again....
Q. I am a single mum. My baby's dad walked out when she was only 19 weeks old due to me finding out he had been cheating on me, for how long I have no idea but I was crushed. I have been single for almost a year now. I know I am not the first female...
A. 2 March 2011: Glimmer of hope yes. I'm 20 with a 3yr old and without her life would be bleak. If it wasn't for her smiles in the morning i'd be so depressed. I left the guy, before I even had the baby coz he was bad news and I knew i wouldn't want someone like ... (read in full...)
Will we last if we get together??
Q. So this guy and I both know we fancy each other and have been friends for just over a year. We used to talk for hours, and get along ridiculously well and flirt every now and then. But it wasn't until recently that we both admitted that we liked ...
A. 1 March 2011: You won't know unless you try. It may surprise you. Go for it i say. Hope this helps =)... (read in full...)
What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?
Q. Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: ...
A. 1 March 2011: I think it's rare that a guy your age is a virgin but I also think it's a good thing =) I know you don't want the cliches but sometimes they come in handy. Go out, meet some girls, get on some dating sites or something. Put yourself out there. I ... (read in full...)
Will a guy ever find me attractive?
Q. Will I ever find a guy that likes me? I'm 14 (15 in a few months), and no guy has ever shown any romantic interest in me. Only one of my friends has had a boyfriend, but all of them have either been asked out or has had someone obviously crushing...
A. 1 March 2011: Aw hun you are still very young. Give it a couple years and i'm sure you will fighting them off with a stick =)
Wear a bit of make up (not too much cos most guys don't like it) Don't be insecure, guys your age are usually nervous about asking girl... (read in full...)
He criticizes me and sends mixed signals, should I stay with him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend a year now... I am in love with him and feel so low when im not with him.. but I feel as though he is mentally torturing me. He doesnt liek me wearing make up and the other day he gave me an ultimatum betwee...
A. 1 March 2011: Hey there.
I think you need to sit him down and give him an ultimatum. You or no you. Make up? Really? I couldn't live without mine and why should you? I think that is ridiculous. Sit him down and tell him how you feel about everything. And if he d... (read in full...)
Insecure about the size of my penis?
Q. my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:...
A. 1 March 2011: I think 5 inches is the average size of the penis. Anyways, who says size matters? It's how you use it is important. I think you are worrying over nothing. Hope this helps =)... (read in full...)
Girlfriend always getting hit on and never invites me to work parties!
Q. My gf and I have been dating for almost 3 years,im 27,shes about to turn 26. About a year ago she started a new job at car dealership,as a receptionist.Now because she is on the 'frontline' of the company,she has to dress nice.Now i dont have a ...
A. 1 March 2011: Wow! She is acting a bit suspicious i must admit. I think you should ask her outright if she is having an affair. And by telling you what they are saying about you, is she trying to rub it in or make you feel jealous? I don't know. Either way it is ... (read in full...)
We just kissed and now she's back with her ex!
Q. i need some advice, right ive really liked this girl for about a year or two now but thing is she has been going out with one of my friends for about a year and before they started going out she liked me but then went out with him instead. Recently ...
A. 1 March 2011: You are very young... there will be a lot more girls i'm sure. But play hard to get. Take notice of other girls around you, act as though you don't care. I'm not saying ignore her or anything, just don't give her much attention. Hope this helps... (read in full...)
Is grinding with other guys considered as cheating?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I have girls night out sometimes. So here's my question: Grinding/dancing with other guys considered as cheating? I mean, i wouldn't want my bf to be upset if i dance with other guys but my gfs tell me it's fine... what are ...
A. 1 March 2011: If that's all you are doing it sounds fine. As long as you ain't kissing/having sex. I don't see a problem with it at all. Tell him that you do dance with guys, but that's all you do do with them. Hope this helps... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do I really like this girl
Q. Known this girl for like 5 years, shes my best friend that is a girl, i have on and off feelings that i really like her however i have always had the back lying feeling that she was better than any other girl to me. Just now i really like her, ...
A. 1 March 2011: I think she already may like you. Why else would she kiss you at parties? I don't kiss my best friend and he's male. Although i'm not remotely attracted to him. (Even though people think we would make a perfect couple, neither of us feel that way) ... (read in full...)
Is she refusing to answer the question because she has been with someone else?
Q. Me and my girlfriend broke up 7 months ago but now we are back together.I havent been with someone else during this period and she knows that, but when i ask her the same she gets mad at me, saying she is not going to tell me anything about it and ...
A. 1 March 2011: Well you were broke up for about 7 months. That is quite a long time, so what if she had been with someone? You should be happy that you are back together, and hope she doesn't do it while you are together! Just drop it. And trust her. Hope that ... (read in full...)
What are the rules of flirting?
Q. I am wondering about flirting. Is it a harmless activity that is just fun, or does it really play with peoples' emotion in a potentially harmful way? Of course, I think flirting is fine and even good if the flirter (the person who is flirting) has...
A. 1 March 2011: I have a very flirty personality. So I see it as being a little over friendly. Even with people I am not attracted to I'll flirt a bit. I get it from my mum. I think it is harmless fun, but people can take it the wrong way. Some people may think ... (read in full...)
Need advice on this relationship!
Q. seeing if any of who could give me some advice or your own opinions on my situation. ok, so ive dated this girl for 2 and a half years. Right before she went to college we got into a huge fight, which was my fault, but she broke up with me. a few ...
A. 1 March 2011: Text her. Just see how she is feeling. But if she doesn't love you anymore you can't force her or change her feelings. Perhaps she ended it abruptly so she didn't wanna see that she hurt you.
Ask her if there is any future for you both, if she igno... (read in full...)
I love him, but I'm still insecure.
Q. I met a guy online over 2 years ago...I fell in love with him and he me. I met him for the first time in real for 2 weeks in January and well im even more in love now than I ever was, we get along soo much better in real than what we do online a...
A. 1 March 2011: GUYS LIKE BIG GIRLS!!!
It's true. You don't see it very often but it does happen and it's such a good thing to see. My friend is a size 26 (UK), and her boyfriend is skinnier than a prawn lol but they get on perfectly it's unbelievable =)
Don't... (read in full...)
Should I trust her? And if so, how do I get her to hook me up with the guy I like?
Q. There's this guy I sort of like. His name's Rick. He's tall and always wears hooded jackets even though we live in mild climates. I'm guessing this is just his style, and I find it cute. I want to talk to him, but we barely cross paths or share ...
A. 1 March 2011: Why don't you approach him yourself? The worst thing he could say is No right? Go out of your way to find him. I have a friend just like Yolanda, It's hard to know if you can trust her or not 'cos you don't know if she's joking, lying, or being se... (read in full...)
She's always bringing a friend along!
Q. I like a very shy girl..we are both 20.i approached her and made obvious i wanted to hang out with her...at first she brought a friend.But then i ignored her so she started texting to me.I asked her out alone and she accepted.Next days she kept ...
A. 1 March 2011: I think that if she is really shy, and she has only known you for 2 months, she still doesn't know who you are, so maybe taking a friend along with her makes her feel more comfortable around you 'til she gets to know you better. Being 20 myself I... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a former flame, but I can't leave my wife!
Q. My screen name describes me, i really do feel like an asshole. I married my wife when i was 19 before i joined the military. Before we got married things were great. We only knew each other for 4 months before we married. When i went to bootcamp...
A. 28 February 2011: To be completely honest with you. Leave her. You sound like a really really nice guy and she sounds like a B*tch! Not writing you back when you were lonely and expressing how you felt about her. Your her husband!!! I don't think she loves you at ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?
Q. Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our...
A. 28 February 2011: Well, he wasn't much of a friend when he picked his girlfriend over his best friend was he? And your current boyfriend has stuck by you and everything is good? I think you are with the right one hon. Sure there's no harm in talking to him, but I ... (read in full...)
I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!
Q. Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...
A. 28 February 2011: You're at the age where you gotta make mistakes to get better in life. I'm not saying this is a mistake. If you like/love him and he feels the same. Have some fun. Follow your heart. But be honest with your family. You know in yourself what is right ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not want to date people older than me?
Q. hey there, I was just wondering if i'm meant to be attracted to people older than me. I mean i'm gay and I like people my own age, but not older, and I was wondering if thats normal. Cause some of my mates have older gf and bf. So any help woul...
A. 28 February 2011: It's normal. You might find one day that you are attracted to an older person. Everyone is different. I know a lot of people that like to have a younger partner and they get on fine. Do what you want as long as it makes you happy =)... (read in full...)
She made her choice, but now I'm hurting..
Q. Ok so I met this girl a while ago, we swiftly hit it off and became friends. Knowing this girl was in a relationship, I didn't push for anything more. After a while we became best friends simply spending each evening talking, it had been a while ...
A. 28 February 2011: She seems to have made her decision very clear and being her friend i think you need to accept her and be happy that he treats her well. It would be a different matter if he abused her or something but he sounds like a good guy. As a friend i think ... (read in full...)
I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?
Q. Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life qui...
A. 28 February 2011: This made me smile. I don't know why... Why would you think you're gross for having encounter's with escorts? A hell of a lot of people do it these days. You're a guy. All guys no matter how masculine he is, he will sooner or later start to have ... (read in full...)
I've been hiding it, how do I tell my mom and brother that I am gay?
Q. hello , okay i am not quite sure how to ask this question , but i am living in a constant battle with myself , so i figured if i asked total strangers who lived what i am living right now it will help me ... See i had a rough year , i failed my la...
A. 28 February 2011: It's the 21st century. People are gay! If they are loving and caring enough they'll understand. Come out. You obviously weren't happy with women, so don't make people happy by pretending you're straight when it's making you miserable. I'm sure the... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between my teacher and me?
Q. Ok, so I've read some stories about "teacher-student relationships" on this websites. (I'm 16 btw) And now I wonder......I've had this teacher for two years. Last year was when I got to know him. I was involved in basketball and didn't want to leave ...
A. 28 February 2011: You need to steer clear of that one. You're very young and if he is flirting with you it could cost him his job. He has known you for 2 years so you were 14. It's very wrong and there is no right in it. Avoid him as much as you can x... (read in full...)
I want to meet somebody, but how?
Q. Am 23years old sexy healthy guy from East europe but am shy to meet girls or get a girlfriend how to approach them and how to ask please help...
A. 28 February 2011: Just be yourself. That's all that you can be. Women aren't as scary as you think =) And if ther are not interested in you, then they don't deserve you. Good luck =)... (read in full...)
Which guy wants me for me?
Q. I have been infatuated with this guy for about 6 months now.. i asked him out twice in the time i liked him, and even though i knew it was wrong, i used to sext (sex text) him, but recently, i moved on, though i still love him. I now fancy another ...
A. 27 February 2011: To be quite honest. I think they are both just wanting the quick thrill of a sext. Don't lower yourself. When they ask tell them you're not in the mood, and see which one continues to text. But i think you're better off finding a guy that just wants ... (read in full...)
Baby on the way, when is the right time to.....
Q. I found out a few weeks ago that I am 12 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner are very happy, we have been together 1 1/2 years, I Know that isn't a long time but we love each other. We want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part ...
A. 27 February 2011: Okay you're very young. Same age as me when i got pregnant. Scariest thing in the world right? But if it's what you want and it makes you happy go for it. You might be surprised at your parents reaction. You're still their daughter and now you're ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my age...what do I do now?
Q. Okay.So I met this guy through a roleplay thing.We became friends and soon began "roleplay dating" Don't ask. Anyways at the time he asked how old I was and I said 16 when I'm really 18 and he's 16.As time moved on we started liking each other an...
A. 27 February 2011: Guys around that age are always happy and very proud and consider themselves lucky to be dating an older girl. Tell him =)... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!
Q. I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...
A. 27 February 2011: Okay this is the perfect question for me because i was in your situation. Please do not read anything into it. Girls can be best friends with males even if it is their ex it doesn't mean that they still have feelings for eachother. He is an ex fo... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!
Q. Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...
A. 27 February 2011: Sounds like your gf needs to come forward and tell people (her mother) about ur relationship. Then they shouldn't expect ur gf to attend a prom that wasn't with her bf. And you need to be honest with her. Make sure she knows ur not happy about her ... (read in full...)
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