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writes:Me and my girlfriend broke up 7 months ago but now we are back together.I havent been with someone else during this period and she knows that, but when i ask her the same she gets mad at me, saying she is not going to tell me anything about it and i can think whatever i want!! why is she doing that?? my thinkin is that she has been with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): What she means is she`s hurt because it never worked out for her,so will you take me back? Say No !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): sounds like she got dumped too if she`s that touchy. i wouldnt get back with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): dont sound good sounds more like shes hiding something from you mate
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (1 March 2011):
Well, let's face it. If she won't answer is because she's been with someone else. But that is not the actual problem here. The question is why do you want to know if you dumped her. When you break up both members of the relationship broken are free to go.
I could understand you wanting to know if it were you the dumped one. In such situation I guess you have the right to decide if you start dating again, based in the fact that she didn't see another person in the meantime. But, again, you dumped her so you don't have this right. If you want her back just start dating again. Don't ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): Yes, she probably has been with someone else.
She has no right to lie to you about anything. But she has the right to refuse to answer any questions she doesn't want to.
You have the right to stay with her or break up based on whatever amount of info she chooses to give you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto give some more details.I broke up with her. Few days ago she comunicate with me and told me that she wanted me and have feelings for me still after all this time. we met and she said she loves me but she is still very hurt and i understand this.but why she gets so mad for asking her? this i canot understand. We are not together officially yet
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Well you were broke up for about 7 months. That is quite a long time, so what if she had been with someone? You should be happy that you are back together, and hope she doesn't do it while you are together! Just drop it. And trust her. Hope that helps
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