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Insecure about the size of my penis?

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Question - (1 March 2011) 10 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2011)
A male United States age 18-21, *siansmalls writes:

my penis size is 5inches im very unsecure and afraid that It wont penetrate or fit! and my girlfriend wants to have sex veryy soon. should i be worried please help!! and please be honest.. thank you (:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011):

It will penetrate as long as you are erect, and it will fit. 5" is average or at worst a bit on the lower side of average. That means you are NOT small. Like someone said, be glad you arent huge. There are guys who simply cant have sex with many women because they are too big. Sure, some women like big ones, if not for the sensation, for the visual stimulus. I've been with women who had bigger, and they are VERY happy with mine. In some ways, MORE happy than the big guy.

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A male reader, ClearEyes United States +, writes (2 March 2011):

Theres tons of penis size questions on here dude, just remember that average is average, a woman who you are with for strictly sexual purposes will NOT turn you down if your between 5-8 and 3-6 in circumference. They'll give you a shot to do what you do because the difference isn't really that great. People are made to fit, taller guys are largely better for taller girls, more petite girls are probably more comfortable with a smaller one but there are always exceptions

If your over or under that 5-8 range, you may face some rejection for either lack of sensation/discomfort. However, if you are in a relationship, a loving woman will accomodate most any size because she loves you. Most girls don't have a clue about size either, the Kinsey study, which also did the average size showed that women, overestimate size by 1.5-2 inches. Small and large mandates are a niche thing for women with small or big vaginas.

I have no doubt that a guy with a 8x5.5 schlong and great skill will outdo an identical man with an average penis. However, the studies that HAVE been done, which are a bit flawed in and of themselves show that ~90% of men are 7 or less. with ~1.5% being 8 or more. So called "big wangs" make up literally 1/10th of the pop or less. Encountering a guy with skill and passion to match his size is ridiculously rare, which is why average guys like you, me and nearly every other male on this planet can make great love to a woman. The odds of them meeting a huge guy who isn't an asshole or ignoramus are simply low. Sure there are some places we can't reach, but there are 1000 other ways to compensate, meaning that if your in the average range, life is generally good.

This answer better kill the f***ing size debate.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (2 March 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntOh you'll do just fine. Just be sure the insecurity is actually about your penis size and not something else :)

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (2 March 2011):

Perfectly normal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011):

If you are that worried, I think maybe it is not the right time to have sex for you and that is perfectly okay.

When it is the right time with the right person, size does not matter at all. Sorry Dr Cal I totally disagree - it is the media that says size matters. At heart most woman are grateful for romance, a nice man, good hands and careful attention and they simply want to get married one day to the right man. (Regardless of size or what the television tries to tell you).

Who cares about size (ps. 5 inches is perfectly normal).

Frankly big is frightening for a girl.

And if she is a small woman or a delicate person at heart and she probably is if she likes you - she won't be attracted to a big guy with a big honker anyway.

There we go good luck. Just keep paying attention to her, relax, make her happy and that is all you need to think about.

Maybe also talk to her about how you feel, chat about your future and ask her what she thinks and what she is hoping for to give you some clues about each other expectations.

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A female reader, Inutashy United States +, writes (2 March 2011):

Inutashy agony auntThe average size a the human penis is 5-6 inches. It will penetrate(even men with 2inch peniss do) as it should be fine, size dosnt matter as much as men(and some women) tend to think. If your comparing size to those in porn there's are one of those "movie magic" type things.

Have fun:)

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A male reader, ClearEyes United States +, writes (1 March 2011):

Your size is average, just focus on pleasing her before you put it in, that way your 2 minutes or less staying power won't be an issue because no guy lasts very long the first time.

Many people are going to tell you that size doesn't matter and that its technique and connection that counts, but there is evidence scattered around this site saying that a woman does really enjoy a bigger penis. The issue is most women haven't experienced it because a penis of alot over 7 is kinda rare.

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A male reader, free advice India +, writes (1 March 2011):

Five inches is good enough. The vagina of a woman who hasn't had a child is only 7.5cm (3 inches) long when she's not sexually excited. The figures for women who have had babies are only slightly different. Even when aroused, a woman's vagina usually extends only to a length of about 10cm (4 inches). Now you have the answer.

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A female reader, StarryEyes101 United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2011):

StarryEyes101 agony auntI think 5 inches is the average size of the penis. Anyways, who says size matters? It's how you use it is important. I think you are worrying over nothing. Hope this helps =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011):

Five inches is average my man. youll be fine. Every guy thinks about this. dont worry so much. Im average and yes sometimes i was insecure, but the women ive dated never complained. Go for it.

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