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Why do I hesitate in making the moves on this girl I like?
Q. Hey guys i have a question that i have thought on and i just can't seem to find the answer. There is this girl that i have known for about 8 years and for some reason i just can't stop thinking of her for the last couple of weeks. I have not seen ...
A. 4 August 2011: Haha it took you a while to answer back.
Anyway I am personally against long distance relationships. If she is two hours away it is fine, but if you can only see her about twice per month or so I wouldn't recommend it.... (read in full...)
Should I be experiencing life and dating and not in a LDR?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long-distance relationship. He lives in Boston. I live in California. We met online in a chatroom. We have known each other and have been talking for the past three years, but have only dated for the past 2 years...
A. 26 April 2011: Honestly, you should look more into someone closer to you, someone you can see everyday and get to know properly as the two of you live life "together". You have met this Boston guy, that's good, but only three times. You have not yet experienced a ... (read in full...)
A LDR chatroom for teens?
Q. I want to find a free chat room to meet other teens who are looking for a long distance relationship, texting, skype, facebook, etc. I really haven't had any luck at my own school and it hurts me so much inside to be lonely and have to hold a whole ...
A. 26 April 2011: Honestly, man, chat rooms will not help you. You might think you like a girl online but in fact you cannot love or like that way someone you have never met. It is all a fantasy...Talking in person to girls is the only way to eventually find ... (read in full...)
Could shower water wash sperm into me?
Q. my boyfriend ejaculated on my breasts and stomache, he then wiped it of using tissue. afterwards i took a shower; what im worried about is the shower water washing any remaining sperm into my vagina????(obivously i was standing up in the shower, and ...
A. 26 April 2011: You said you took a shower. I bet you took this shower a considerable amount of time later. Sperm won't survive for long outside a human body, so don't worry. Those remains must not have gotten into your vagina and if they did you wouldn't be at ... (read in full...)
Why does he need to know about my sexual past?
Q. My bf cannot get over my past. and he almost all the time asking me how my past sexual encounters where like and wht positions did i do with them and did they kiss me in certain places he just wants to know so much details.. but after he knows the ...
A. 23 April 2011: He is jealous about these guys, and jealous that you did so much while he probably did not. He is wishing you had never kissed or been with another guy. Most guys feel like this, but most of these can see past this. He has an obsessive retroactive ... (read in full...)
I'm facing all kinds of peer pressure...I definitely need help dealing with this!
Q. I'm feeling really pressurized to be 'normal' at the moment. I don't understand why I'm being treated like a freak just because my interests are a bit different from other people I know and I didn't even think they were that weird. For example I ...
A. 21 April 2011: YES! Screw everyone. The other people are dumb and shallow. They act like animals, not human beings. I drink, I must admit it, but I am totally against violence, smoking, and that kind of disorder in life. You need to change who you pay attention ... (read in full...)
Should I trust that he'll come home loving me or should I worry?
Q. Hey everyone, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now. He is in the Marine Corp and is currently on a deployment. He and I knew each other from high school, and have been good friends for years before we started dating. He had d...
A. 21 April 2011: Honestly, one thing is being kind to others, but your boyfriend telling his girl friends "I love you" sounds like a bit of flirting. For him it's probably right but since it bothers you, it should be brought up and discussed.
Now, as regards ... (read in full...)
LDR girlfriend had sex with 2 other guys and I just don't know how I can deal with it
Q. Hello, me and my girl have been going out for 11 months now. We are in a long-distance relationship (6 hours) we care for and respect each other greatly. And we both love each other, and how we manage to bring out the best in each other. We rarely ...
A. 21 April 2011: Honestly, she doesn't love her. If she did love her she would not have done what she did nor hidden it. She cheated. Twice. It was something serious what she did. Long distance relationships are tough, specially when people are stressed out.
You a... (read in full...)
I want to call him every night, and he said he would like that, but would he really??
Q. Hey, so my boyfriend said that he loves me and that he said he sees us having a relationship in the future - we have only been going out for 7 months but he is the most loveliest guy I have ever met. He is always saying to me that I am the most ...
A. 19 April 2011: Personally I think that's not clingy, it's fine to show some love to your boyfriend before each other goes to sleep. Of course let him see his friends, family, etc. What I mean is, if he wants to see his friends one day and has arranged something ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend is being too distant. Please advise.
Q. My long-distance boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months (due to be ten in a few days) but lately, we've been having communication issues. I have no idea what goes on in his life. He doesn't tell me anything.. And he doesn't really a...
A. 17 April 2011: How did you meet this guy? I bet it was over the internet.
Don't waste your time online. Break it off and find someone real. You cannot love someone you have never met because you don't know how he is in person.
You have already wasted 1... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt him like I was hurt. How should I do it?
Q. Okay here goes, I'm 16 in a couple of weeks, I am in love with a 20 year old. I'm from the UK so it's perfectly legal when i turn 16. Anyway about 6 months ago i told him i liked him and he just kinda didnt really say he didnt like me but he didnt ...
A. 17 April 2011: The answer is: be honest. If he finds out the truth afterwards he will feel even worse. No point in doing that. Be 100%. No other solution... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's nervous or intimidated?
Q. so i have been with my boyfriend for a few months now. he is a senior and i am a sophmore. this is pretty commom around where i live and people are fine with it. A lot of girls, however, are surprised i guess you could say, or jealous. Now, he ...
A. 17 April 2011: Being from Poland (Europe) I am surprised you haven't even kissed. I am from Argentina and I'm sure that Europeans and South Americans can be very affective and I find it strange that yours is a relationship without making out considering your ... (read in full...)
When I said I wanted to end the 'benefits' part, I didn't mean I didn't want to be friends!
Q. I recently decided that I did not want to be friends with benefits with this guy I've known for 5 years. The last time we saw each other we got into a little argument Here is what I said, after the argument: I am sorry about the other day, and...
A. 17 April 2011: I think he was using you, and since he has lost this possibility he no longer needs nor cares about you. He is a guy and guys are not as emotional as girls. You might feel a friendly bond to him but he doesn't really care about that as he can get ... (read in full...)
Want him to think I'm a virgin
Q. {Moderator note: two questions combined} Okay i just wanna know , i lost my virginity about two year ago since then i havent had sex ,it was against my religion and culture to do that .Im due to get marrid in 2 months will i be tight i know i wont b...
A. 17 April 2011: That is one of the saddest most dishonest things you can do to your future husband. Instead of hiding it, be honest about it. If he loves you he will be able to see over that.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
He's in love with me but my feelings seem to change everyday
Q. So I have never been more confused in my life. I've known this guy for three years and we have always been good friends and recently he told me he's madly in love with me. I feel like I have feelings for him but my friends tell me I can do so much ...
A. 15 April 2011: So you're going to let your friends destroy this bond with him just because he is overweight. If you can see past that, ignore your friends and things might work out with the guy.
If you cannot see past this, let go of the guy. He deserves... (read in full...)
Do you believe in full disclosure?
Q. This issue is really about how much someone should really share with their bf/gf. I'm not trying to be secretive for the sake of it. My boyfriend and I have had very, very different lives. His has been very normal and he hasn't gone through man...
A. 14 April 2011: I think this guy is a jerk. NO offense but he should be considerate of you and instead make you FORGET and leave your past in the past. He is not being helpful to your recovery and he's making you feel bad often. I think you deserve a prince, not ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to talk to these people I've met online? One is an ex...
Q. In the past few years I have been talking to many people online, first in a multiplayer games site for many years (pogo.com) and more recently, a few months ago, on a teen site. I have had two online girlfriends (long distance and purely online as...
A. 14 April 2011: Thanks for the help! Youre right about my ex. I feel much better not talking to her... (read in full...)
Is he just being nice because I am his friend's sister?
Q. My friend (lets call her bribri) told my brothers friend (lets call him Char) that i like him....and i do, but i didnt want him to know......I dont know him very well....my brother and i go to different skools. When he found out he started to tickl...
A. 14 April 2011: he likes you a lot. If you are interested, you might try to get to know him better! Good luck... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to talk to these people I've met online? One is an ex...
Q. In the past few years I have been talking to many people online, first in a multiplayer games site for many years (pogo.com) and more recently, a few months ago, on a teen site. I have had two online girlfriends (long distance and purely online as...
A. 13 April 2011: I have lots of friends and I don't have any problem talking to girls. I go out a lot. This thing bugs me but it did not stop me from developing any of that.
This is why I'm posting this question here: I really don't know if there's anything... (read in full...)
I keep giving him money, he keeps lying to me and standing me up!
Q. I was seeing a guy for a few months. I thought whatever we had was good. Then things fell off. I wasnt seeing him as often. He'd always forget to call me back. But I put it up with it. Then he lost his job, and me being stupid I started giving him ...
A. 12 April 2011: I suggest you read an article by someone on here: chigirl
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-avoid-being-used-financially.html
This article is some of the best stuff I've ever read... (read in full...)
Has anyone here has been lied to by an online love?
Q. Please guys I dont want any negative comments, Okay, I have known this guy for about 6 years online, and we developed feelings for each other, I love him, and he loves me. Problem is I lied about my identity (name and race, but, he has seen...
A. 11 April 2011: I've recently been cheated on by a girl online...Yes it was an online relationship. I'm never gonna do anything like that again. She found someone "in real life" but kept talking to me for a few weeks. In that period I sent her a letter saying such ... (read in full...)
How can a boy like a girl and suddenly change their mind?
Q. how can a boy like a girl and suddenly cnage their mind for no reason?...
A. 11 April 2011: At your age, don't expect anything to be serious or long lasting in the love department.... (read in full...)
It's over but I can't stop thinking about her. Why?
Q. I find myself thinking about my ex throughout the day. We were only together for a few months and we split up about a month and half ago. It's hard to explain... it's like, I'm not thinking about anything specific, it's like - she is just on my ...
A. 11 April 2011: You've answered yourself really. Time will heal you up eventually, just avoid thinking about the time you spent with your ex and instead get distracted as I said before.... (read in full...)
How can he be kissing other girls and texting and then say I'm the one for him?
Q. So last weekend my boyfriend and I were at his friends house for the week end living it up... The first night I only had a little to drink, and decided to go to bed, my boyfriend told me to take his phone with me and plug it in, and that he'd be ...
A. 9 April 2011: You saw him cheating and you acted like that? I wish I could be that calm.
RUN!!! He deserves nothing from you. The other people have answered the right thing.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my ex talk to me?
Q. My ex and I broke up a year ago and now we have the same class together. He is a really nice guy who made a douche bag move when he broke it off, saying he was too busy for school, work and myself. Even though he had a new girlfriend (at the time), ...
A. 9 April 2011: My question is: why don't YOU talk to him? Think the opposite way.
I certainly agree with Denise32 but it would be polite that you two said hi and ackknowledged each other's presence, in my opinion.... (read in full...)
Part of me wonders if he is hoping for a reconciliation?
Q. My boyfriend's ex fiance was a photographer. They broke up over two years ago, after being together for seven years. Now, we have only been together a few months, but I gradually came to the realization that he still has some of her pieces hanging ...
A. 8 April 2011: We are glad to have helped and we're happy to see you could solve this :) thank for letting us know... (read in full...)
It's over but I can't stop thinking about her. Why?
Q. I find myself thinking about my ex throughout the day. We were only together for a few months and we split up about a month and half ago. It's hard to explain... it's like, I'm not thinking about anything specific, it's like - she is just on my ...
A. 8 April 2011: There's a lot you can do. In general, I've found out that being out of home helps a lot, even if it means to go around in your car or bike for no reason. When I am too bored or thinking negatively, I go out to ride my bicycle with a friend or alone ... (read in full...)
She led me on believing she wasnt dating anyone when she was, why do I still badly about her?
Q. This is about an online relationship. My question this time is, why do I care so much about my online ex girlfriend? We dated in january and it was fantastic, she was the "perfect girl" emotionally, and we shared lots of values and hobbies. ...
A. 8 April 2011: My feeling is weird. I don't want her back... But I miss talking the way we used to I guess. Just after having posted this question we talked yet once more and she told me some strong bad things that happened in her life. She did not tell me that to ... (read in full...)
It's over but I can't stop thinking about her. Why?
Q. I find myself thinking about my ex throughout the day. We were only together for a few months and we split up about a month and half ago. It's hard to explain... it's like, I'm not thinking about anything specific, it's like - she is just on my ...
A. 8 April 2011: I have a similar problem. I don't go crazy on it, but trust me, you only remember when you think about her. I bet there are times during your day in which you don't think about her. It's part of moving on. You sound normal for me. If it bugs you ... (read in full...)
I can't erase the imagine of me being in her mouth
Q. I formerly formulated a question concerning how I and my girlfriend had some bad experiences with oral sex. I got answered quite well but one thing still rests in my mind. It's as though, when I look at her mouth, I can't help but thinking ''My cock ...
A. 8 April 2011: I kind of have the same way of thinking. However, you should know the penis is cleaner than the mouth. It has fewer germs, fewer bacteria, and I can go as far as saying, it smells better than your mouth after waking up.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my virginity to her because she is not a virgin. What should I do?
Q. Hi I'm a virgin and I've met a girl. shes not a virgin though and she wants my virginity but i don't want to lose my virginity with her as she's not a virgin either what do i do about this? ...
A. 7 April 2011: You met a girl? What is that supposed to be? You have to provide many more details buddy.... (read in full...)
We sleep over each other's houses. Is what I am doing wrong?
Q. I need advice from parents with older kids. I'm 19 years old, have a job, keep a 3.9 GPA in college. I also have a boyfriend. I'm a nice kid, I do what my parents ask most of the time and I don't do drugs, don't drink, I'm quite responsi...
A. 7 April 2011: For me it depends on how well I knew the guy and on how long you had been with your boyfriend... I personally think that parents feel better to let their sons sleep at a girl's house more than letting a girl sleep at a guy's house because of safety ... (read in full...)
He's asked me to send pictures of my breasts over the phone...If I do it, will he think I'm slutty?
Q. I am married and have been on and on involved with a married man/friend on and off. He is now asking me to text him pictures of my breasts with a bra on and without. I trust him completely, but not sure if I should send them or not. We have never ...
A. 6 April 2011: Please read the titles of these news articles: http://mydeathspace.com/article/2009/03/07/Jessica_Logan_%2818%29_hanged_herself_after_her_boyfriend_circulated_a_nude_photo_of_her http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/... (read in full...)
Are men turned off by women who wear braces?
Q. Are men turned off by women who wear braces? I had them fitted last week, I really hate them and feel they make me look unattractive! My long distance boyfriend is due to see me again soon, we're in love but I'm worried he won't be attracted to...
A. 5 April 2011: My answer is the same as the other guys: NO :)... (read in full...)
I had to give up my friendship because he started telling me he wanted to be my boyfriend
Q. There is this guy that introduced himself to me last year and we begun talking and became good friends after a month or two went by. And he began telling me things about his personal life and ask for my advice on things, and I would always try my ...
A. 5 April 2011: I agree with the other posters except for the bit about telling your parents to interfere. You're old enough, be serious, I know you don't wanna hurt the obsessed guy but you have to be harsh. Speak strongly: make it clear that he should not bother ... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am in love with my best friend , also my neighbour , and I don't know what to do , if I should tell him , or leave it alone. Here's my story. Let's call him , Cody. Cody is my best friend. Not just best guy friend...he's my number one best ...
A. 5 April 2011: Im so happy for you :)... (read in full...)
How Much of My Own Beliefs and Opinions Should Enter DearCupidAnswers?
Q. I've noticed that in some of my answers to questions on this site, I have allowed my personal beliefs to color my opinions. So my question is, is that wrong? It seems nearly impossible to take my whole self out of the equation, but what level i...
A. 4 April 2011: Being 100% neutral is impossible. Moreover, various points of view are encouraged since askers get advice from every single answer and every answer should provide a different point of view. I actually mention my beliefs sometimes to clear things up ... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake in getting married?
Q. Ok so this is going to be a long question and I really need your help. You can be as blunt as you want because I just want to know the truth so thanks in advance. I'd like to know if I am making a big mistake in getting married to my fiance. We met ...
A. 4 April 2011: Honestly, as soon as I read you've only been together for 5 months, let me tell you NO! It is way too early, and if he said he loved you the first time you two met it sounds impossible, like a fairy tail or an uthopia, far away from the real ... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am in love with my best friend , also my neighbour , and I don't know what to do , if I should tell him , or leave it alone. Here's my story. Let's call him , Cody. Cody is my best friend. Not just best guy friend...he's my number one best ...
A. 4 April 2011: In my opinion you should tell him! Since you spend a lot of time together, you will have no trouble finding a good moment to tell him what you feel... As a matter of fact, tell him soon enough before you lose your chance (like before he finds ... (read in full...)
Online crush met someone real..
Q. Okay well 9 months ago i met this guy online. we kinda became cyber gf and bf. Well today out of the blue he told me he met someone....this is the second time this has happend to me( first he was a friend in real life not online) ... its crushing ...
A. 3 April 2011: Youre welcome and have fun !... (read in full...)
Online crush met someone real..
Q. Okay well 9 months ago i met this guy online. we kinda became cyber gf and bf. Well today out of the blue he told me he met someone....this is the second time this has happend to me( first he was a friend in real life not online) ... its crushing ...
A. 31 March 2011: The same has happened to me before.
You said you never liked someone as much as him...
But you don't really know this person. You don't get to know how someone is over MSN or Facebook. Not because he is bad, but because people act different ta... (read in full...)
Part of me wonders if he is hoping for a reconciliation?
Q. My boyfriend's ex fiance was a photographer. They broke up over two years ago, after being together for seven years. Now, we have only been together a few months, but I gradually came to the realization that he still has some of her pieces hanging ...
A. 14 March 2011: He probably is still not over her 100%. They were together for 7 years, that is a lot, so he will never forget her even 50 years in the future. You can bring up the question of why he still keeps this picture of her and you might suggest that he ... (read in full...)
Why do I hesitate in making the moves on this girl I like?
Q. Hey guys i have a question that i have thought on and i just can't seem to find the answer. There is this girl that i have known for about 8 years and for some reason i just can't stop thinking of her for the last couple of weeks. I have not seen ...
A. 3 March 2011: As starryeyes101 said, she has a boyfriend. Remain friends and keep contact. Meanwhile, learn more about her just to get closer to her, but respect the fact she has another guy. At the same time, do not focus too much in her. There are other ... (read in full...)
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