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hello. im helpoutguy, and if it is within my power to hep you i will. first of all im not too smart but im one of those people that believe everyone is put on the earth for apurpose and i believe that i was put on the earth to help people during there times of need. if u dont like my posts let me know so that i can learn/improove from/on my mistakes. if you like me add me as a friend, also add staryeyes101 as well, shes cool. btw guys/girls REMEMBER YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE IN LIFE.

Is all this normal?

Q.   Hi all. Today i kinda slept with my boyfriend for the first time. It actually hurt a lot and i felt like i was burning. I cried through out and rihgt now i have an ugly feeling that his gona leave me. I've always been insecure with him but now i ...

A.   12 September 2011: yes, dont worry yourself :)... (read in full...)

I don't want to get hurt again -- help me with this potential relationship

Q.   It is long but it is interesting. Please give me 5 minutes. It is the 6th month in USA. I guess I have done good in the new country. Have a job, doing course work, have one best friend and know how to communicate effectively with people as I am i...

A.   13 August 2011: hello there, for the record your ex's are bitches! and a lot or C*ap has happened in your life. you seem genuine so im very sorry for what has happened. ok first be straight up. say have you got a bf. and if she says no then ask for her number and ... (read in full...)

Period problems and lack of appetite? I'm not pregnant, so what could this be?

Q.   i feel kind of silly asking this but im 19 on the pill for the last 2 years,im not a virgin but i have been single the last couple of months. But my last two periods have been strange and i just want to know if this is normal. basically when im ...

A.   1 August 2011: i know im stating the obvious here but go and tell your local docter and get checked out. good luck. ... (read in full...)

How to get to know him better?

Q.   So there is this guy and I sort of have a crush on him. I want it to go further, I think he is interested in me because he looks at me and gives me glances, when I look back at him he would keep long eye contact. I’ve seen him around school and we ...

A.   10 July 2011: no problem :) keep us updated.... (read in full...)

How to get to know him better?

Q.   So there is this guy and I sort of have a crush on him. I want it to go further, I think he is interested in me because he looks at me and gives me glances, when I look back at him he would keep long eye contact. I’ve seen him around school and we ...

A.   8 July 2011: ok hello, if i were you i would ask him if you could exchange numbers, as friends. get to know him. and then one day ask him out on a date. ... (read in full...)

I want to give her a night to remember with no sex involve. Any advice?

Q.   I want to give my gf an instance night of passion that will leave her shaking in pleasure. Only problem is we've agreed not to have sex and I'm not that good at foreplay. Any thought on how to give her an awesome night. Nothing for me to get of...

A.   4 July 2011: oh sorry i must have miss interpretated. ask he what she wants you to do to her. expirement . do thing you both enjoy. ... (read in full...)

We spent a night in a hotel and now no contact...please help!

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, i have a bit of a confusing situation in my mind. Recently ive been talking to a guy who i became very close to, he always text me 'good morning beautiful' every day and we stayed up til at least 2am most days just ...

A.   4 July 2011: thanks for the update, he could of got a new phone / number , and be worrying like you are now , contact his family/friends . find out what is realy going on.... (read in full...)

I want to give her a night to remember with no sex involve. Any advice?

Q.   I want to give my gf an instance night of passion that will leave her shaking in pleasure. Only problem is we've agreed not to have sex and I'm not that good at foreplay. Any thought on how to give her an awesome night. Nothing for me to get of...

A.   3 July 2011: hello there , if i was you i would meet her with some flowers then take out for a drink, after her favourite restaurant then for a walk, would help if walk is along a beach (suggestion) then find or sand sit together couldle her , and maybe kiss ( ... (read in full...)

We spent a night in a hotel and now no contact...please help!

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, i have a bit of a confusing situation in my mind. Recently ive been talking to a guy who i became very close to, he always text me 'good morning beautiful' every day and we stayed up til at least 2am most days just ...

A.   3 July 2011: huhm... this is a difficult situation , how old is he? he could be maried etc. and realy or busy at work? you just have to be patient. - here to help - helpOut.Guy -... (read in full...)

Has my masturbating taken full control of me?

Q.   I'm a 26years old male from nigeria and havn't any sexual intercourse with any woman before, but i do masturbate and this year will make it 13years that i have been masturbating. I watch a lot of x-rated movies and read a lot of sex novels. but i'm ...

A.   2 June 2011: hi there. im a young guy but i am married and trying for a kid so i can help. i too was scared of sex until my friend ( now my wife ) kindof gave me a tutorial. i was the same as you, i masturbated and watched porn alot. no there is nothing wrong ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend thinks he can watch all the porn he wants after our baby is born!

Q.   My boyfriend likes porn. He watches it every chance he gets and I've told him I hate that he watches so much of it but he starts getting into the statistics that all guys watch a ton of porn and blah blah. It really irritates me. And I am already ...

A.   29 April 2011: im sorry.i dont know what to suggest. He is wrong not all guys like porn. I hate it . i think women should not be objectyfied! and im sure that your beautyfull on the inside and outside. i hope you sort your situation out and that your baby ... (read in full...)

8 Golden rules!

Q.   Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...

A.   15 April 2011: hello. erm.. i would add sex to that. you gotta keep things alive in the bedroom department people ... (read in full...)

I'm vain but have no confidence in myself

Q.   I am 16 years old and I have no confidence in myself whatsoever and I am a vain person. I am shy of girls, and intimidated. I do not know how to "be myself" because i just don't. I always find myself trying to be someone else...that is just how I ...

A.   13 April 2011: i had the same problem at your age. but my first gf liked that. for some unknown reason. anyway it will eventualy become easier. dont worry. try practicing on a "hot" female friend . GL... (read in full...)

Am I his mystery girl?

Q.   im 18/f hes 19/m i apologize in advance cause its really long but i figured you'll need as much info to help with the situation; The last 4 months i have become really close with a guy i consider my best friend. I know as cliche as it i...

A.   8 April 2011: wow sooooo long .... lol anyways, i think that you are the mystery girl . why? well i once had a female best friend , and i said it was not her. tho she was. ASK him where you stand. explain how you realy feel. put yourself out there.... (read in full...)

Information on how to make a Russian girl happy on a date

Q.   I know it's silly to ask, nationalities aside, people are people. Saying that, I do need some advice regarding a certain wonderful woman that I have met that happens to be Russian: I want to know what NOT to do and what I SHOULD, how to make her ...

A.   30 March 2011: well i have a good friend who is russian and all she talks about is sex, porn, nuclear warheads and vodka . So.... maybe strike strike up a conversation about some of the above? also keep letting her know you love her in different romantic ways... (read in full...)

I found porn on my 53 year old dad's computer

Q.   My dad is 53yrs old.. a very simple, sober and decent man who practices meditation daily. But today when I went on his laptop, there were loads of porn (hardcore) websites in his browsing history. Is it normal for a person like him to be looking ...

A.   21 March 2011: dude every guy looks at/watches porn. nothing to be concerend about!... (read in full...)

Why does he kiss me on the check when he says goodbye?

Q.   What does it mean if when saying bye to a guy, they smile, pull you close and then kiss you on the cheek? I'm confused on would he do this even if he wasnt attracted to me? Or was he saying bye in a friendly way? i want to know what do you ...

A.   21 March 2011: in myopinion he just wanted to take things slowly. because he knows that some girls/women can find dating very emotional.... (read in full...)

He acts like my boyfriend...but doesn't want a relationship....

Q.   I just don't know what to do... I've been seeing this guy for about a year and half. We met online and we clicked. It's like we have so much in common and we talk about almost everything from music, books, movies, politics. He'll even attempt to ...

A.   18 March 2011: what dos he mean. your in one! ... (read in full...)

Falling for my best friend when I have a boyfriend

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I feel like our relationship is losing it's spark. Me and my boyfriend argue over silly things, and I don't feel 100% in love with him like I did at the start. At the same time, I've been hanging ...

A.   18 March 2011: i think you should tell him . i also think he feels the same way. and if were him i would want know if someone feelings for me :-) . ... (read in full...)

Love hurts...Is she interested in me?

Q.   The girl i like used to look at my eyes and i did the same, many a time i used to burn her talking to other girls. But 2 days back she addressed me as her brother ,we were friends since last 1 year ,can you give me tip to know whether she like me or ...

A.   16 March 2011: sorry dude but it looks to me like trying spare your feelings.... (read in full...)

Why does it turn me on that he doesn't pay any attention to me?

Q.   On a starting note, I'm 17, so for me, this isn't life or death, I'm merely curious. So I've been paired to work with a guy on my course, called Chris, but for some reason, I don't know what it is, he will NOT comunicate with me, he will not look me ...

A.   16 March 2011: in my opinion he is attracted to you to. he obviously nervous around you. he is trying to hide his feelings for you. I advise to try to speak to him alone and express your feelings. I know for certain that i was chris i would grately apprechiate you ... (read in full...)

Trying to date and maintain my friendships has become very difficult

Q.   So, I'm having some friend issues. In the past my friends have said that I become this totally distant person when I'm dating someone because I only spend time with my boyfriend. This isn't entirely true. I do admit that I tend to spend more ti...

A.   16 March 2011: im sorry to say this but you should stop being friends with them but before you do that confront them and tell them how you feel. If they are true friends they stop being such jackasses and try to patch things up. ... (read in full...)

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