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writes:i need some advice, right ive really liked this girl for about a year or two now but thing is she has been going out with one of my friends for about a year and before they started going out she liked me but then went out with him instead. Recently her and the boy broke up for about a month or two and while they were broke up me and her started to get close again and ive started to like her again and i think she started to like me again. On the weekend we kissed and it was more then just a peck it was a proper kiss and lasted a while. But the day after we kissed she met her ex and they got back together and now shes back with him im stuck liking her and wanting her but im never gonna have her. I really need some advice and answers on what i can do? like to try get other her if so how? or do something different? please help thanks.
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reader, AnalyticalMentalityOx  +, writes (1 March 2011):
It seems to me that after the break up she needed someone to comfort her or just in fact be there. And hard as it is to hear you happened to be that guy. This girl seems like she knows what she wants, she kissed you and it probably made her realize she misses her boyfriend or in fact she just got caught up in the moment, it happens. That said, you can try and get her back by playing hard to get, but there is no guarantee it will work because she's with someone else now.
I don't think you should wait around for this girl, I know you really like her and want to be with her. But you'll get hurt and might be waiting for a long time.
You're both young! Just enjoy that, because believe me when I say that you'll find someone when you're not even looking... I really hope that this helps and things work out for you! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankss for the advice, im 15 nearly 16 by the way and ill properly play hard to get but the only thing is if i do that will i lose her?
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (1 March 2011):
 You are very young... there will be a lot more girls i'm sure.But play hard to get. Take notice of other girls around you, act as though you don't care. I'm not saying ignore her or anything, just don't give her much attention. Hope this helps
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