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writes:My husband wants to work for a taxi company and I won't allow him. I told him to find a different job because when he was with his first wife he worked for a taxi company he liked a female driver. He would buy her things, follow her a lot but not as a stocker but also keep in mind he was married and has two kids with her. So that is why I don't trust him am I wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Key word there mr. q was "unless".
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reader, raiders +, writes (4 May 2010):
 You have trust issues and should control your jealousy because you might push your husband away. He cheated or try to cheat on his first wife not you but yet you are holding him to it, try to be more understanding. If he has the luxury of turning down this job in search for another, I wonder where he would go because I can't think of a place of employment that don't involve females workers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): *I won't allow him*
If you try to control a man than much eventually he is going to wriggle free
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 May 2010):
Rambini is right, unless he gets a job in a monastery, he's going to run into women at any work place. You need to work on that trust issue or you will be miserable every day he goes to work. He cheated on his first wife but did he ever cheat on you? Oh and q is right too, driving a taxi can be dangerous work, there are drunks out on the road all day and night long.
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reader, rambini  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 It is wrong, because there is just as much chance of him meeting women in whatever job he does. There are women in just about every occupation, so unless you are going to ban him from doing any job at all and keep him with you 24/7, then he is going to meet new people including new women. Meeting them at a taxi firm isnt going to make him any more likely to cheat than meeting them in an office or a call centre or tescos or wherever.
If you want to be with someone you need to trust them. That is the problem you should be working on, not the problem of his job.
best of luck x
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