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36-40,
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writes:Hii am in the university and i recently fall in love with this lady from our home area though she lives in germany' i lov her and i cant help it, my problem is that, she is 6yrs older than me n it meks mi feel a littl unsure of her lov for me, she sometimes talks to me about it and no matter how she tries to hide her altitude, i stil can see how she feels about the age difference. Please help me.Victorkenya
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 6 years is nothing,really. It may be though that you are at two different places in your life. Like, if you are still in university and she is close to 30, she may be feeling is time for her to get married, have children etc. and she wonders how long that would take with a partner who has not started a career yet. Talk to her about that, be open to hear if she has doubts or misgivings. If you two are really in love, and both feel you can have a future together, she will wait for you.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Victor I don't think there is a big age different and if you truly like her tell her that her age don't matter to you. She probably thinks that because you are so young you are immature and is only interested in being a player and she is probably putting a protective wall to protect her from getting hurt.
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reader, EmoGir0 +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Honestly, age shouldn't matter when it comes to love. It may bother her, but in the long run she needs to decide. Is she going to give up true love because of an age difference? or is she going to accept the fact that she is older than you and you to can be happy? Ultimately it is her decision, but try to subtly bring those points up to her.
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