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*ndrew loves hali
writes:hi, well im dating this girl and we have been going out for a really long time like 2 or 3 years, and i know im only 15 but i love this girl. but in the last couple of days she has been talking to her ex and ill be like "who are you talking to?" and she wont tell me right away and now im a lil worried. i love her and I'm not comfortable with them talking but i dont want to tell her what to do though. what should i do? i dont wanna lose her....again do i just deal with it or tell her how i feel or break up with her (which i dont think i could do)? im so confused we were doing great what happened?
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reader, n00dl35 +, writes (7 February 2009):
 alright so me and my boyfriend (well ex now) had this problem. i would text a lot of guys and some were exes and he got mad and he told me how he felt and i respected it.. so just tell her how you feel and she'll probably feel bad about it and realize how you're feeling. i knew if my bf ever texted one of his exes i would get mad so i thought about it and calmed down with it, sometimes i would even give my phone to my bf for him to look at the texts. oh well just tell her how you're feeling. i'm sure she'll understand but DON'T accuse her of anything, now that will piss her off. good luck and take care!xx
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (7 February 2009):
 If you really love why would you break up with her? Just tell her how you feel, tell her that you just don't feel comfortable with her talking to him xCommunication is the key. Good luck bro
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 Talk to her about it but don't get stroppy be honest and calm about the issue, I'm sure talking to a guy isn't a dumping offence.
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