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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend did something to make me angry today, you see there was an event at school that i did for her so i could spend the day with her but she nded up having to work, that was fne, but then she said me and a coworker (girl coworker) are going to eat lunch, and i said ok and didn't think twice, i want her to be happy and dont want to argue, but it hurt like heck so i admitted it later, my question is what can i do to keep little situations ruin my day?? What do i do to just not let it bother me and me and her have fun?
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (7 February 2009):
oh for god sakes, be a man and stand up for yourself. just tell her how it is. she can go with her friends whenever she likes and you can see your friends whenever you want! you don't own eachother. your just in a teenage relationship. you both obviously are far too afraid to be away from eachother and that's just sad. you need a social life as well as a dating life. get off your backside and go and see your friends. if she does not like it, then you are better off not being in a relationship. by the sounds of it nither of you are even ready for a serious relationship as you don't know how to give eachother space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): Well, when she tells you that again, you can say 'Hey, when you had lunch with co-worker I was o.k. with it--I just wanted you to be happy--I like to spend time with my friends too' Then add, I love spending time with you the most though:) Having a girlfriend changes your life, it's nice to have someone to care about, and her care about you, but if she's being selfish and difficult then she has more growing up to do. And I would tell her what you told us---that you arranged your day just so you could spend time with her. She SHOULD feel some guilt about that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe told me she wants me all to her, and when i do go to my friends house she gets very pissed and wont talk to me!!!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (7 February 2009):
 then if that's the issue.. you two really need to get 2gether and tlk about this and to come up with and agreement..
both you guyss should be able to have a social life...give each other some space sometimes,,,,, chill out
beying together every second of the day becomes really tiring
tlk to her
gud luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe told me she wants me all to her, and when i do go to my friends house she gets very pissed and wont talk to me!!!
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (6 February 2009):
what's the big deal? she had lunch with a friend. she is allowed to go and have fun with her friends. she can't spend all her time with you. that's what makes relationships work, giving eachother time and space so that when you do come together it's even more fun. it's sad if girls spend all their time with a bf and don't have any friends. girls need girls to talk to and do girly things with,like shop and have lunch! chill, it's not a big deal and i don't get why it ruined your day. don't you ever just go off with your own friends and have a boys day? if you don't you should! it's not healthy to spend your whole day with the gf. you need a social life too and so does she.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (6 February 2009):
just relax and find something to do (as long as you're not crossing bounderies)im sure she'll be around your arms later on on or the next day
gudd luck
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