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28 June 2014: So why use Internet Dating? Over the last few years Internet Datings popularity has soared! There are now millions of us looking for love, romance and friendship online. Like so many aspects of life - shopping, banking, communicating with frie...
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How much does porn influence a mans expectations of how a woman should look naked?
Q. Ok please help aunts and uncles .... I'm single and ready to date again after a lengthy marriage. I have met a few guys but one really nice one and I'm pretty sure things will become physical soon I'm just a little worried thought as I know he has...
A. 30 April 2014: Anyone with any maturity and common sense can see past the fakery that is porn...all that "oh baby! its so good baby! oh yeah baby!..." is so fake and tacky! I use porn but I know the difference between real life and fake nonsence. After making love ... (read in full...)
I'm a shy, quiet person and wonder what volunteer or other opportunities I should explore?
Q. I am on Jobseeker's Allowance, which are benefits that we have here in the UK. I get these benefits from the jobcentre. I have been told my advisor at the jobcentre that I have to do some voluntary work soon. She said that I can choose where to ...
A. 30 April 2014: My reply has come out mixed up so probably reads wrong!... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?
Q. Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did...
A. 30 April 2014: He has made it clear - he wants just sex. "friends with benefits" is not a friendship. Its about two people having sex as and when it suits. If you only want sex too and think you can keep your feelings in check then that's fine, each to there ow... (read in full...)
I'm a shy, quiet person and wonder what volunteer or other opportunities I should explore?
Q. I am on Jobseeker's Allowance, which are benefits that we have here in the UK. I get these benefits from the jobcentre. I have been told my advisor at the jobcentre that I have to do some voluntary work soon. She said that I can choose where to ...
A. 30 April 2014: As someone who lives in the UK, works as a volunteer and used to work at a Jobcentre I can clarify a few points for those unfamiliar with Job Seekers Allowance... Job Seekers Allowance (JSA) is a financial benefit paid to people who are unemploy... (read in full...)
What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.
Q. I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...
A. 30 April 2014: She wants an ego boost. Her relationship is not great at present so she feels undervalued, taken for granted, insecure, or whatever....so she is flirting with you as a confidence booster. She is clearly blowing hot and cold with you and you don'... (read in full...)
I'm not sure we can get over these differences!
Q. I've always dated guys my age or slightly older however I've been seeing this guy (for 7 months) who is 4 years younger than me. I'm 27, he's 23. We get on really well but he does a few things which I'm not sure about. For example we went ...
A. 30 April 2014: Bottom line: you are a grown woman, He is an adolescent. You clearly like a man to act mature, sensible and dress smart, He likes to involve to "impress" with adolescent antics and laddish larking about. Your not a snob, just at an age where you... (read in full...)
How much does porn influence a mans expectations of how a woman should look naked?
Q. Ok please help aunts and uncles .... I'm single and ready to date again after a lengthy marriage. I have met a few guys but one really nice one and I'm pretty sure things will become physical soon I'm just a little worried thought as I know he has...
A. 30 April 2014: Men don't usually use to porn to compare a womans body with there real life partner. They watch porn to get turned on by the sex acts. Some men watch porn with ugly, fat or old women that they would never sleep with in reality. Some men enjoy porn ... (read in full...)
Break up? Try the LDR? Be realistic about the partying? Give up my dream of having children? What do I do?
Q. I am 34yrs old woman and in a relationship with a 23yr old man. Yes, yes... I know. When we met, I look around 23 and he looks around 25...until of course we found out each other's real age a few dates after! I thought it could be a bit of fun...
A. 30 April 2014: At 34 you still should have a few years yet to have a baby. Obviously there is a limited amount of time but that should not let you rush into a baby with the wrong man. One bird in the hand is worth two in the bushes? Hmmm not really - this is... (read in full...)
He's pressuring me to get pregnant
Q. Hi everyone. I've been in a relationship with my bf for three years and three months. I'm 25 and he's 29. Since the beginning of our relationship, he told me that he wanted to settle down and start a family. I told him, that while I wanted to...
A. 30 April 2014: Im glad you've separated for this fool! I think you already had a child...HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Do I wait for this girl to get out of this teenage phase if she does love me? Or do I force myself to move on?
Q. Hi all, Never used one of these sites before but I am currently feeling rather lonely and upset about my current situation. I think I better try to explain the situation: Well, I have known this girl for a while, probably 2 years. Im 23 a...
A. 30 April 2014: I've been in the same situation. Anorexia isn't just about the lack of eating, its a form of self harm and lack of self worth. Sadly even long after gaining weight and eating normally anorexia sufferers can be very self destructive to themselves and ... (read in full...)
Woman I'm sleeping with is becoming weird and clingy, how do I handle it?
Q. Okay, So I have a little dilemma. I've been sleeping with this woman I met. She's cool and everything and when we hang out we have a nice time, but she's becoming extraordinarily clingy. She texts things like "Do you miss me? What do you miss...
A. 30 April 2014: Some women SAY "yes just no strings fun is fine with me!" when what they actually mean is "I really like you and hope that by sleeping with you it will make you fall for me!" Also sometimes people get into a sexual relationship because they are... (read in full...)
He's pressuring me to get pregnant
Q. Hi everyone. I've been in a relationship with my bf for three years and three months. I'm 25 and he's 29. Since the beginning of our relationship, he told me that he wanted to settle down and start a family. I told him, that while I wanted to...
A. 30 April 2014: "Is it that wrong for me not to want children yet?" Of course not! You should have children IF and When you and a partner are BOTH ready. Sounds like your BF is so keen to get married and start a family that it is more about ticking that box... (read in full...)
I don't know how to feel about my ex now!
Q. I had my first bf when i was26. He's three years younger than me. We spent four years together and planned to have a family before he dumped me. Its been a year since we broke up. I'm trying to move on. I'm doing okay now, but I know I'm not over ...
A. 30 April 2014: Hi I had my first relationship quite late too and it hurt like hell when it ended. But I realize now I'm older and more experienced that it was mainly because I had spent so long not having had a relationship that when I finally got a partner I was ... (read in full...)
The elderly lady who lives just down the street from me indulges in nasty gossip and its making me very uncomfortable
Q. Hello. There is an elderly lady who lives just down the street from me. I walk past her house every day. She is friendly and talks to me - in fact, she talks to everyone - and I am happy to chat to her. However, she gossips about people and is often ...
A. 30 April 2014: how elderly is she? Maybe wait a few more years and she will vanish by her self LOL Seriously you need to be more assertive and make it clear you don't wish to chat to here any more. If she falls out with you tough. Not your problem. You don't want ... (read in full...)
Why do guys tease women they find attractive?
Q. What does this mean? This guy playfully teases me but he only does it in the presence of others, mainly men. Alone he's nice. I find some of it funny. He says stuff like it's raining outside it's your fault don't know why, he's obviously joking ...
A. 30 April 2014: He's attention seeking, trying to impress his male friends and it may even be his way of flirting with you. Either way give him a wide birth! ... (read in full...)
Has anyone lost the love of their life? Do I keep fighting? And how do I deal with the thought of her with someone else?
Q. Hi All, Here's my situation that I need advice on: I was dating a girl for around 6 month who I was madly in love with, she was the girl of my dreams, I have never been happier. Then all of a sudden one day she turns round to me and says s...
A. 29 April 2014: "I love you but I am not in love you"
Sounds as if she realized she loved you in the wrong way, like a brother maybe. Its very common in younger relationships. Please move on and busy yourself with your interests, friends, family and you will soo... (read in full...)
Over 30 and single - what did I do wrong?
Q. Every girl dreams of the happy family and nice man that they will one day marry. We are taught from an early age that the Princess always ends up with the Handsome Prince. The scatty girl in the Rom-Com always finds her true love. Your best friends ...
A. 29 April 2014: "Princess always ends up with the Handsome Prince. The scatty girl in the Rom-Com always finds her true love. Your best friends all have husbands who would walk to the ends of the earth for them." To be honest I think you have an idealistic view ... (read in full...)
I just cant seem to make decent friends!
Q. I've been attempting to look for decent friends these days to absolutely no avail. The people I choose are, for lack of a better term, flakes. Its always the same formula with me. I will become friendly with someone, we will share similar interests ...
A. 29 April 2014: Hi from the UK. I had this all my life until quite recently. Im now 36 and find it easier because im more relaxed about it all. When I was younger I would try to hard, be OTT trying to hard to appear friendly and being over eager to meet people. Now ... (read in full...)
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