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Does she just want me for sex?

Q.   Hey guys, I'll give you guys a brief background. I'm an emotionally needy person. I have been since my ex girlfriend of two years cheated on me. I became depressed, and still am really. I feel so emasculated. Anyways, I was on tinder and I...

A.   8 September 2014: Hi Y/n, I think you need to understand that she may not be everything you want. Maybe she really likes you, but she's not someone who likes to show her soft side quite a lot? Or maybe she's busy or worried about something. If she was just usi... (read in full...)

How close is too close for cousins relationships with each other

Q.   My brother is over a decade older than me and married with no children. Because of the economy my brother had to take a job in another state and he flies back home during the month. His first job was by our youngest female cousin who has always b...

A.   8 September 2014: Hi Y/n, I'm sorry that you're put in this rather uncomfortable place, but as you said, there's nothing you can do about it. Your brother probably does have a cousin crush on her, but then again, I could be wrong. I also think his wife had eve... (read in full...)

Will he ever regret it?

Q.   So I want to start off telling my story, starting 5 years ago. I met this man, and I instantly knew I was in love with him. crazy, but true. we started spending every day together, with friends, and by ourselves. time went on, and he started using ...

A.   8 September 2014: Hi, I'm sorry you're going through this. He probably does love you, but as olderthandirt said, because drugs rule his life he needs them. My older cousin does drugs, and he emotionally blackmails his mum to give him money, but I know he loves he... (read in full...)

My friends suddenly hate my best friend, do I tell him?

Q.   My best friend and I have gotten pretty close since we met last year, and we run in the same circles so we have all of the same mutual friends. Recently, some of our closest friends have decided they don't want to spend time with him anymore, and ...

A.   8 September 2014: First ask your friends why they hate him so much. Maybe he did something to hurt them in the past? If there's not a good enough reason, then explain to them that they're just being rude and how would they feel if they were being treated the way your ... (read in full...)

How can I start being nice to my mum?

Q.   Ever since I've become a teenager, I've become a bit rude and bitchy towards my mum. I don't mean to do it, but she really, really irritates me. She tells me to do one thing then when I'm trying she gets pissed and shouts at me to do another thing...

A.   8 September 2014: Hi, Thank you all for such great answers. I did once try and explain to my mum, and tried again with the same result. She just won't listen. She starts saying "oh. well then you should stop then, shouldn't you?" I tried to mention the fact th... (read in full...)

He's popular and I'm not. Are my friends right when they say he'll never like me?

Q.   I've liked this boy in my year who i've really liked since year 7. I'm now in year 9. I'm not sure if he likes me. Everyone says he's cocky, but he's always nice to me. He holds the door open, helps me out a lot and he always stares at me. The thing ...

A.   7 September 2014: Hi, First of all, I want to thank everyone for taking the time to help me out. I've decided. )deep breaths( I'm going to just take my own advice and find out. I'm going to ask him sometime this week. I'll let you know how I get on!!! Wish me lu... (read in full...)

The teenage (boy) mind

Q.   Hello readers, this is something I think should have a female counterpart, so if you would be kind enough to write one, I'll be happy to give it a view! Well hello friends! This is my second article here, and I'm excited to write it, because it's...

A.   7 September 2014: Hi, Thanks very much. I'll take your word for it. I'm planning to maybe do it sometime this week, and I'll let you know how I get on. Thanks! xxx!... (read in full...)

Broke off my engagement because of a huge crush on my dentist. What do I do now?

Q.   Really need some advice please. I was due to get married next year and in preparation for the wedding I decided to get my teeth straightened. The initial dentist I opted to go for couldn't fit me in so referred me to another dentist- ...

A.   7 September 2014: I think your friend is right, you're not ready. Don't you have any friends or family members who're dentists? If not, then the advice I can give is when you see him, and the feelings start to spin, imagine how his wife would be feeling. How would ... (read in full...)

Is a 20-Year-Old Girl Too Young For a 35-Year-Old Guy?

Q.   I'm 20, going on 21 very soon, and I've recently met a 35-year-old guy whom I really fancy through a friend at work (I have a full-time career as I never went to university). He definitely isn't my usual "type," and we have some quite significant ...

A.   7 September 2014: Hi Y/n, First of all, if you love him and he loves you, I don't think the age should matter, unless you're 16 or under. I remember writing a post saying that all guys are different, and although some seem the same as others, they have their ... (read in full...)

He said he'd post naked pics of me if he ever saw me with another guy

Q.   Please help me i have the same problem and it is much worse because he just doesn't wanna see me happy.. he hasn't post my naked pictures yet but he would if he see me happy. I dunno what to do with it... I don't want my pictures to be posted all ...

A.   7 September 2014: I think you should call the police or at least talk to someone you trust because this guy is blackmailing you. I don't think that's legal. I know this is gonna sound mean, but what you can do is get a picture of him and use the computer to put his ... (read in full...)

Why do guys seem to act weird around me?

Q.   Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my ...

A.   7 September 2014: Hi Y/n, I think that guy probably likes you, especially if he's nervous. But guys staring at you isn't weird. Maybe you're really attractive? Or maybe it's your personality that attracts them. Either way, I think you should be happy that you get ... (read in full...)

The teenage (boy) mind

Q.   Hello readers, this is something I think should have a female counterpart, so if you would be kind enough to write one, I'll be happy to give it a view! Well hello friends! This is my second article here, and I'm excited to write it, because it's...

A.   7 September 2014: Hi Forge, great article!!! I just wanted to ask your opinion. You know in your article, you said that guys like being asked out? How do they like it? Should the girl ask face to face? Or a note? I'm only asking because I'm considering ... (read in full...)

I might get rejected, and I'm freaking out! What do I do?

Q.   Hey DC, Forge back again, and I'm freaking out. I recently (the day I posted this) asked out a girl that I fell for on day one, and have had a serious thing for her since. We've known each other a bit less than two weeks. I was told by severa...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi, I've just read your followup. Move on from her, she's pushing her luck and you shouldn't be involved with people like that.... (read in full...)

A girl in my college class is being bullied. How can I help her?

Q.   Can I ask a question? I am at college and really enjoying it, however there is a girl in my class who is being bullied, she isn't very bright but is stunningly beautiful, and the other girls in the class talk behind her back saying stuff like, "ugly ...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi Y/n, These girls are just bullying her because they're jealous and they're trying to make themselves feel better. So be her friend, and ask her if she wants to tell. Good luck! xxx!... (read in full...)

My crush is going out with someone else!

Q.   Well please I kinda have a crush on this boy don't think he knows but some times we look at each other I've been dreaming about this guy I really like him BUT he is goin out with someone else pls what should I do...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi, Just because he looks at you, it doesn't mean he likes you. But maybe he does. Even if he does, you shouldn't go for him because he's with someone else, and think of how that would break her heart. Things could get out of hand and you could find... (read in full...)

My crush likes my friend instead... should I still try to impress him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Oh gosh, so I have an enormous crush on a boy in my grade. I have just started high school with him and we talk often enough. However, today he told me he liked another girl, one of my closest friends. What do I do? I want to impress ...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi Y/n, I've been through this a couple of times, and if there is a lesson to be learnt, it's that you can not change people's feelings. Move on from him, it's his loss. Oh. And I need to add, if he asks her out and she says no and then asks you ... (read in full...)

He's popular and I'm not. Are my friends right when they say he'll never like me?

Q.   I've liked this boy in my year who i've really liked since year 7. I'm now in year 9. I'm not sure if he likes me. Everyone says he's cocky, but he's always nice to me. He holds the door open, helps me out a lot and he always stares at me. The thing ...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi Cerberus, Thank you for your answer. I haven't added everything what he does, sorry about that! I think he might like me, because when I walk past, his friends always just giggle and the other day, one pushed him in my direction!!! Haha it was ... (read in full...)

Dating for teenagers in the 21st century: written by a teen

Q.   We all know that we want to date, and it's an exhilarating experience for us guys that can do it right; getting to hold the girl you've asked on this date in your arms, or get that long evaded kiss you've ever dreamed of. I'm unsure of the gi...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi Forge. This is an AMAZING article!!!!!! I can't put in to words how amazing it is. Woow!!! I actually didn't know that there were such things as nice 15 year-old guys like yourselves. Every other teenage guy I know is a jerk!!! This is sooooo ... (read in full...)

I really like this guy but sometimes he's nice and sometimes he's not! What should I do?

Q.   I really like this guy and I think he likes me to. I catch him staring at me and he flirted with me a lot at the school dance. But sometimes he can be mean to me which my friends say it's because he likes me. And sometimes he flirts soooo much with ...

A.   6 September 2014: Uh''' when you say "he's mean" what does he do? I agree with the other poster. If he picks on you it could mean he likes you, and is trying to make you jealous by flirting with your friend to see your reaction.... (read in full...)

I might get rejected, and I'm freaking out! What do I do?

Q.   Hey DC, Forge back again, and I'm freaking out. I recently (the day I posted this) asked out a girl that I fell for on day one, and have had a serious thing for her since. We've known each other a bit less than two weeks. I was told by severa...

A.   6 September 2014: Hey Forge. I forgot to add, those friends who are calling you names aren't friends. Real friends shouldn't do that. If it's really upsetting you, you should talk to someone about it, because name calling is classed as bullying and bullying is NOT ... (read in full...)

I might get rejected, and I'm freaking out! What do I do?

Q.   Hey DC, Forge back again, and I'm freaking out. I recently (the day I posted this) asked out a girl that I fell for on day one, and have had a serious thing for her since. We've known each other a bit less than two weeks. I was told by severa...

A.   6 September 2014: Hi Forge. Good question. Just because this girl told you that she'd think about it, it doesn't mean she's gonna reject you! Maybe she's nervous, or maybe she had problems in the past. However, if she does say no, then you should move on!!! I know ... (read in full...)

How do I figure out if my friend likes me the way I like him?

Q.   ok im 22 years old girl i have been friend with someone he is my childhood friend after a long time i saw him and i like him i don't know why i like him but how should i find that he likes me back or he just want to be a friend with me ...

A.   6 September 2014: Darling, all guys are different, even if some act the same. Everyone has different ways of showing love. The only way to find out if he likes you is asking him straight to the face. I mean, come on gurl!!!! What's the worst that can happen? He might ... (read in full...)

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