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writes:I am fifteen years old, and my ex boyfriend and I we're dating for around seven months. October 12 07 - May 9th 08. We had alot of unprotected sex, and it started in febuary and ended early June. I never have got pregnant but I've had alot of pregnancy scares. I was just wondering, that since I've never got pregnant during this period of time that we kept having unprotected sex, means that in the future when I am ready to have kids that I won't be able to get pregnant? Am i one of those people who can't? Even though I have always got my expected period, lately I have been feeling sick and queezy around cigarette smoke and other scents. People say these are some signs of pregnancy. But I have got my period since the last time I've had sex. But those we're somethings I've been feeling lately. Should I talk to my ex boyfriend about how I have been feeling lately? I don't know what to do! All advice greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Young child u are a baby yourself. Believe me YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO RAISE A CHILD ON YOUR OWN. When u get older and have a good carrer and a good man on your side then it will be the right time to star planning your pregnauncy. Until then use condoms and get on birth control ASAP!!!!
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reader, dangerouslove. +, writes (30 June 2008):
dangerouslove. is verified as being by the original poster of the question I thank all of you for your answers. I am not pregnant!
Thank goodness.
Best of luck to you all :)
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reader, theOC +, writes (23 June 2008):
I agree with smiles on this subject. There is a possibility that you will be bleeding or spotting if you are pregnant. Technically, when you're pregnant, your menstrual cycle is disrupted, so you shouldn't be having your period, but there are times when the egg is planted in the uterus at the beginning of your cycle, so you may see some light bleeding or spotting.
I'd suggest you follow everyone's advice by getting a pregnancy test. If you're still not convinced by the pregnancy test, you can go see a doctor. Someone mentioned Planned Parenthood and I know that they offer free examinations if you're at a certain income level bracket. Best of luck to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Sorry I disagree with the those that are saying you are not pregnant because you have had your period; you can be pregnant and still have a period; it does not happen often, but it does; specially in the first 3 months;
the only way to be sure if you are pregnant or not is to do a prenancy test.
I suggest you have that done a.s.a.p.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): You're not pregnant hunny. Not if you've got your period since that last time you had sex. Smoke makes me feel sick too.
It could be pure luck that did not get pregnant. Or your ex-boyfriend could be infertile. You will not know that unless you go to a doctor and get tested.
Try not to worry about it until you are older and are ready to settle down and have children.
For now, presumme you were really lucky.
Good Luck hunny. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Are you trying to fall pregnant? If not why were you having unprotected sex and not using birth control?
I don't think you need to worry your ex boyfriend about some pregnancy"scare"; he will not appreciate this;
I suggest you do a pregnancy test; if the results are positive; by all means contact your ex boyfriend.
Yes, those are sometimes symptoms and yes you can have a period and still be pregnant; THUS get a pregnancy test done.
Please make sure you do not have any further unprotected sex; it is dangerous; not just the risk of pregnancy but also there is STD's and AIDS.
Get the test done a.s.a.p and then you will know!
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 You are playing a form of Russian Roulette by having unprotected sex, to see if you can get pregnant. Please use condoms.
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reader, bday121 +, writes (22 June 2008):
 I think you've just been extremely lucky! Get a pregnancy test. If it's positive you need to very seriously weigh your options. If it's negative, thank god and get on some birth control!
Planned Parenthood offers birth control pills cheap; I get mine there and they're $14 a month. That's about as cheap as you'll get them anywhere. The pelvic exams are cheap, too, and they WILL NOT tell your parents if you decide to get on bc (unless you say they can). If you don't want to do that, then stock up on condoms. There's no excuse to be having unprotected sex.
I'm sure that you're perfectly capable of getting pregnant. Don't worry about it for now. When the right time comes, later in your life, I'm sure you'll be able to get pregnant just fine.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (22 June 2008):
 No you've just been incredibly lucky. Get some condoms or other form of birth control you really dont want a baby at 15 x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): I would suggest that you did a test, if it comes back negative then you have no problem, if it comes back positive talk to him about it.
No it doesn't mean you're one of those people who can't get pregnant, you just havn't yet. But at 15 I would consider that to be a good thing! Good luck!!
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