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How do I show up to have a Bikini wax?
Q. I want to get my Bikini waxed but I am a very self conscious person and I am very anxious at the thoughts of going because I don't know if I should wear full undies or a thong or what... Please help me relax and offer your best advise... ...
A. 27 February 2008: Sweetie im a beauty therapist and you should not be nervous at all were always proffessional and to us its a job we have to go through it while training so we know what its like. As for what to wear wear anything we tend to move it to reveal the ... (read in full...)
How do I reassure myself and stop being paranoid?
Q. Right I'm a 16 year old, average-looking female and although it might not seem much of a problem, I actually fear for my own safety! I get these guys (between 20 and 50 years old) staring at me, checking me out and whistling etc. I suppose I can ...
A. 26 February 2008: Buy yourself a rape alram and if you can find it pepper spray and everytime you get scared keep it in your hands it will reassure you. I know there are bad people out there but you cant live in fear all your time just try not to be alone at night ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to have intimate thoughts about a work colleague but I'm married. How can I tell if she's feeling the same way?
Q. I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and dancing and she comments...
A. 26 February 2008: Well she is either the biggest flirt/tease or she is into you but wait a sec your married? Shouldnt you be talking to your wife about this or are you going to start an affair and break her heart, and if she is married to she is either unhappily ... (read in full...)
I cheated - what shall I do?
Q. I cheated on my boyfiend at the New Year he doesn't know but I was wondering what I should do, he doesn't suspect anything. Shall I just keep it to myself or tell him what happened? Please help this is so important....
A. 26 February 2008: Can you live with the guilt of keeping it to yourself or do you think it will eat you up inside till you blurt it out? Is there anyway he will find out? Do you really want to have this hangiing over your head?
Its up to you if you tell him or n... (read in full...)
I have loved her from afar. How do I meet her?
Q. Desperately need help! I’m Tim and I’ve just turned 26. I work in a corner shop. I don't get paid very much but heck I don't care. I didn't offer my services to get paid, I wanted to see her. I know her name now. Tina. Doesn’t it sound heave...
A. 26 February 2008: Ok not to sound incredibly rude but you gotta a real stalker thing going on,girls dont like being followed and having complete strangers finding out where they live.
Just talk to her strike up a freindly conversation and build up from there ta... (read in full...)
Does masturbation change the shape of the vagina?
Q. 2 virgins, one masturbates and other doesnt is there any difference in their pussy shape?...
A. 25 February 2008: Is this a serious question? After all theses years you have chosen now to ask?
The answer is no... (read in full...)
Why was she embarassed at the prospect of all her bush being seen through panties but not about the many hairs curling from under her panties?
Q. A few weeks ago I took some professional photos of a beautiful Caribbean girl with very large breasts. I had asked her to put on underwear that was slightly transparent. She refused to put it on because of the panties being a bit see-through. I ...
A. 25 February 2008: Your a proffessional photographer i believe its your job to pose and take photo's of models not concern yourself with body hair, maybe she was growing her hair for a bikini wax maybe she thought you could airbrush out it or maybe just maybe she ... (read in full...)
My gf, to whom I offered everything, told me she likes someone at work. What next?
Q. I just dont understand what went wrong, but my girlfriend of 4 years had just told me today the worst news I could possibliy ever hear. She told me she liked someone at work and that she wanted to be with him. I have never expected this to happen ...
A. 25 February 2008: *Big comforting cuddles* Hun im so sorry that this has happend but im afriad thats life relationships end doesnt matter how hard you try some times that just happens and you just cant stop it, i know your hurting but dont you wan her to be happy ... (read in full...)
He said he hated cheatings but cheated himself! What to do about our long distance?
Q. Ive been with him a very long time (over 2 years) he used to tell me that he hated cheats and lies i thought i could always trust him, its a long distant relasionship. I love him but it hurts, recently i found out he cheated. He says it was a ...
A. 25 February 2008: Babe i know you love him but can you really trsut him, i was in a long distance relationship and i know how hard they are and its always in the back of your mind that maybe they are sleeping around.
This girl is either tellin the truth or just tryi... (read in full...)
How does someone get to a size zero????
Q. heyx i was just wondering how u can get to size zero, and dont tell me that its bad for you, i already know. And looking so skinny isnt even attractive. I just want to know for my bestmate, she is really skinny now and she tells me that she is a ...
A. 24 February 2008: I can fit in a size 0 and i ate like crazy and barely do any excercise (but i think its because the sizings are wrong in some shops) it really depends on your height and your body type, but the models who get that size dont do it by eating and ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there agree with staying a virgin until they are married?
Q. heyx I was just curious, is there anyone out there that agrees with me when i say i want to stay a virgin til im married? Does anyone think thats good? Im 15, and believe that you shouldnt have sex untill you have had your wedding. do you think th...
A. 23 February 2008: I think if you can really ait and you can last then you should wait if thats what you want gives you more self respect to and atleast your first time will be with someone who loves and respects you as you do them... (read in full...)
How long can someone last without food?
Q. heyx I am 15 years old, and just out of curiosity, how long would you say i can last without any food? And dnt tel me about how its bad for me, i already know that. Im just curious how long a girl like me, about 5 ft 3 weighing in about 9 and a ha...
A. 23 February 2008: well u can last about a week with no food but only a few days without water, but either way i wouldnt recommended it not if you want all your organs to fail and to end up dead ... (read in full...)
If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?
Q. I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...
A. 23 February 2008: Well thats a shame about your parents but with any problems you can post on here and atleast you will get answers ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to be friends but then he told me to leave him alone!?!
Q. Hi! My ex bf insisted on being friends. I agreed but when I called last night he was rather mean and told me to let him live peacefully. I wasn't angry, not sad. Disappointed in myself for letting him treat me this way again. Where does he get off ...
A. 22 February 2008: Sounds to me like he was a complete jerk and trying to make him self feel better by saying you can be friends, when really he wanted to hurt you again and make you feel bad by once again hurting you by breaking his friendship, you dont need him he ... (read in full...)
If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?
Q. I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...
A. 22 February 2008: If you have sex if a mans penis enters your vagina protected or not you are no longer a virgin its as simple as that, and i think it was a little strange for your parents not to explain that if you asked. ... (read in full...)
Part 2 - Why did they put their pictures on facebook?
Q. My ex and I split up a little while back. All throughout our year ling relationship, she desperately tried to get him back. Now, through photos on Facebook, it seems she has got her wish. Hundreds of photos of them doing stuff together, amoungst ...
A. 21 February 2008: Some people are just so childish and pathetic she is treating him like a prize and he is stupid enough to go back with that fake loser, just leave them to it darling she will get bored when she realises your not botherd and probably dump him again, ... (read in full...)
I'm happy for my gf to be bushy, but how can I suggest a style?
Q. My girl is not into porno, but I want her to trim her pubic hair with style but I am unable to find site that has gallery of styles or an instructional site that explains the different styles of pubic hair trimming for women. Can you help me with ...
A. 21 February 2008: Why dont you ask her if you can do it yourself?... (read in full...)
I'm gay and have slept with a married man, now I don't know what to do.
Q. im gay and 27. i fell in love with a coloured guy and he is striagt married and has 3 kids. he is 30. we slept together and now i dont know what to do, can you please help me. i realy like this guy. ...
A. 21 February 2008: I forgot to add that he cant be all that straight if he is sleeping with you i hate men like that who want everything and have no sympathy for those they hurt im sorry you ended up liking him and im sorry you got hurt but we live and learn.
(Oh a... (read in full...)
I'm gay and have slept with a married man, now I don't know what to do.
Q. im gay and 27. i fell in love with a coloured guy and he is striagt married and has 3 kids. he is 30. we slept together and now i dont know what to do, can you please help me. i realy like this guy. ...
A. 21 February 2008: He is married darling im sorry you might not want to hear this but he wont leave his wife and kids for you its just not gonna happen, and do you really want to break up a family and have them and him hate you for it? I dont think so you just need to ... (read in full...)
I feel so worthless and humiliated and think it's my fault that he returned to his ex who was giving him a baby. How can I move on?
Q. last year my man left me for the ex who was having his baby. he said it was tha right thing to do. I was devastated. i asked him why he couldt just man up to his responsibilities if he still wanted to be with me and he said no. Do you think he did ...
A. 21 February 2008: Huni its time to stop this now! You are a princess your a darling you dont need a man in your life and you shouldnt waste anymore tears crying over a guy who went back to an ex who was having a baby, you dont deserve to come second to anyone ... (read in full...)
Noticed a lump as I pulled back my foreskin. Anyone that may know what this is before I book an appointment?
Q. I'm 16 and i have recently taken note to a problem ive seen. A while back i thought i needed circumsition but the docter told me i just needed to wash regualry as i was kind of afraid of pulling back the foreskin, and im still finding it difficult ...
A. 21 February 2008: Ok sweetie dont panic it could be anything from an STI (if you are sexually active) to just a small cyst its very very unlikely to be cancer so dont freak yourself out so much you will only get yourself worked up into a panic, so just pop to your ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy tests came up negative but I missed my period for several months now. Could I still be pregnant?
Q. hi all just wanted some advice please, i have not had a period since December. done 5 tests all negative, feel bloated, got heartburn. could i still be pregnant, i am going to a doc at the end of month if nothing happens....
A. 21 February 2008: Home pregnancy test do have the problem of false negative and false positive so its best to go to your doctor for a proper test, also if you believe your pregnant you can have symptoms without actually being pregnant (your body works in mysterious ... (read in full...)
When you were single, how long did you usually have to wait before you found somebody? I miss companionship... and sex.
Q. I just want to ask any aunts/uncles who are 16 - 24: When you were single, how long did you usually have to wait before you found somebody? I was in a long relationship just over a year ago, and I've been single since! I haven't had a rela...
A. 21 February 2008: I gotta be honest im only 19 and i was single for almost a year (partly cause i feared all guys were complete freaks like my ex)it happens you cant force yourself into a relationship you gotta ask yourself do you want a relationship or just sex? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making me do things and I am not confortable with it
Q. ive just got in to a relationship with someone that made me do things i wasnt sure i wanted to do. he is 16 im 12 almost 13 i cant tell my mum or dad i still love him and want to be with him but i dont know how to say can we slow down beacuse ...
A. 19 February 2008: Get out of this relationship NOW he is taking advantage of you and using you, you dont need this your young you dont need to be put through this you deserve someone who will respect you and not abuse your trust, please i beg with all my heart you ... (read in full...)
Who are Leo's most compatible with?
Q. What are Leo's more compatible with? I mean like I am a leo star sign and I do not know which star sign I am more compatible with?...
A. 17 February 2008: http://www.romantic-tips.com/leo.shtml
i found this for you hope it helps but i dont know why you didnt google it yourself.
I dont want to be rude but starsigns are 90% made up you shouldnt go out with someone because of there star sign you sh... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 17 February 2008: 13 and you have done everything to a guy? Darling its time you stop living in a fantasy world and learn to respect yourself you are way to young to just give yourself away and way way way to young to have a baby.
How will you afford it? What abo... (read in full...)
What should I do? My husband never offers me oral.
Q. Hi, my husband and i have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex every night sometimes even twice a night. He never gives me oral. He will tell me that he will do it one night and then finds an exscuse like i'm to tired, or he tried and i ...
A. 17 February 2008: Just talk to him about it, its unfair that you do it to him but dont get it back most people only give it to get it back, you need to talk to him and if he says he will do it but makes another lame excuse then stop doing it to him. ... (read in full...)
What does this phrase mean?
Q. Question for the agony aunts. What does this phrase mean? "What goes on tour stays on tour". This is regarding my husband's trips away with a couple of friends.(some are day trips and some are overnight/two days away in another country) It is ...
A. 13 February 2008: It means what he does when he is away stays with him while he is away. ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to get pregant without having sex??
Q. Is there anyway that you can get pregnant without having sex? I've heard you can get pregnant if you were suppose to be a twin cause there egg some how got inside of you is this true please help i really want to know........
A. 11 February 2008: You have to get sperm in contact with your vagina to get pregnant. I dont know who told you about the twin thing but i think there a bit misinformed ... (read in full...)
He cheats and cheats and cheats. What to do?
Q. hi i been wid my partner from last 5 years. Several times he has cheated on me, but i love him more than anything . is this just stupid love? evrytime he gets caught he promises me neva again. this has been ongoing. i have considered leaving ...
A. 11 February 2008: Leave him!! He says he will never do it again and off he goes to do it again because he knows you love him! He is using you he is having his cake and eating it and your letting him you deserve someone so much better then this you deserve someone who ... (read in full...)
I've heard that condoms aren't very good when you want pleasure so should we use one?
Q. I've been in a relationship with a lad for about 2 years now and I'm ready to sleep with him. I'm 16 years old so I'm legal, and I'm on the pill. I've heard that condoms aren't very good when you want pleasure. Since I'm on the pill is it okay to ...
A. 11 February 2008: I would still wear a condom people always says it doesnt feel good but to be honest i dont mind but if you want to make sure it feels good for both of you try buying the tingly durex condoms there really fun and safe. ... (read in full...)
Was this poster wrong?
Q. This is a bit wierd, but in science i saw a poster of a woman - cause we are on the topic of sex ed - and the woman had three holes down below. do they??? or was the poster wrong cause i alway thought they just had two... thanks:) ...
A. 9 February 2008: Well in sex and the city Samantha (while going through her gay phase) said there were three holes down there so maybe there is ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the man I love that I'm not divorced?
Q. I met a guy 2 years ago whom I began dating secretly, I say secretly because I had just moved in with my boyfriend. He knew I had a boyfriend but there was an undeniable connection that we couldn't let go of. We saw each other randomly and ...
A. 8 February 2008: Tell him if he loves you like you love him then he wont care but if he doesnt love you like you love him then you wil probably end up hurt and alone, but to be honest its better then you deserve marrying someone who loves you but you dont love but ... (read in full...)
Do we all have a purpose??
Q. Do we all have a purpose? I wonder how can you explain,if your life doesn't go well?I mean if its a complete disaster. Is the best way , to think, it is happening for a reason? Or that you are punished? Or what is the best way to explain downfall? ...
A. 8 February 2008: Well some people believe the older you are in spiritual years (as in reincarntatrion ect) the less you suffer, for example if this is your souls first life then you will have a alot of s*** happen to test you the more stuff you can deal with the ... (read in full...)
Is marrying my bf the right thing to do??
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years... he's Turkish... I'm going to his country to marry him in March... am i doing the right thing?...
A. 8 February 2008: Your asking a bunch of strangers whether you should marry a man? If you dont no the answer already then DONT DO IT your young you have your whole life to get married and settle down live your life while you still can ... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a boy, but he doesn't know who I am. What can I do?
Q. i met this boy 2day and i have totally fallen head over heels for him he is gorgeous but hes in the year above and he hardly knows me.:'( i want 2 stop feelin like this. My heart is acheing :'(...
A. 8 February 2008: You met him today and your head over heels for him in a day? Wow thats quick well get yourself noticed talk to him flirt with him give him ur msn addy give him your number, nothing will happen if your shy about it be upfront dont waste time ... (read in full...)
My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?
Q. Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...
A. 7 February 2008: You are aware your wife would find out you would lose her and her relationship with her mother would be ruined and that her entire family would hunt you down like a dog right? Yeah you must do is another fantasy of yours tearing familys apart and ... (read in full...)
Can I use a condom during a BJ?
Q. can i use a condom when doing a blow job cause i cant imagine myself sucking his thing?i have never done it and am a 29 year old virgin...
A. 7 February 2008: Yeah you sure can they even make flavoured condoms for that reason... (read in full...)
Can I use a condom during a BJ?
Q. can i use a condom when doing a blow job cause i cant imagine myself sucking his thing?i have never done it and am a 29 year old virgin...
A. 7 February 2008: Yeah you sure can they even make flavoured condoms for that reason... (read in full...)
I think I may have caught a sexually transmitted disease. What now?
Q. i like having sex, but after i have it i feel really bad, i have it with my cosins and i am afaid i might have cought a dissease .what do i do? tell my my mum and get cheaked out or leave it and keep it too myself . by the way don't think im a...
A. 7 February 2008: Is this a serious post reallly? Let me get this straight your 11 and you had sex with your cousin and now your worried you have caught something, to be honest i would be more worried about sleeping with my cousin! Your 11 you are way way way to ... (read in full...)
If I'm not bulimica then what I'm I?
Q. So for the past 2 years or so I have noticed that my ways of eating have changed. Everytime I eat about 5 mins. later i throw it up. I dont make myself do it or anything, it just happens. Ive told my mom about this before, but she says im fine, and ...
A. 6 February 2008: Go to a doctor ASAP especially if you have lost alot of weight with it it could be something physically wrong with you, beg your mum to take you because this isnt NORMAL.... (read in full...)
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