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Boyfriend doesn't like my nude pictures?

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Question - (16 March 2011) 11 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2011)
A female Canada age 22-25, *or writes:

Every time I send my boyfriend naughty or nude pictures he doesn't say anything, how do I know if he actually likes them? I am embarrassed, every other guy I have sent them too seems to drive them crazy haha We have been dating for 5 months and he is 20 im 18

I want to turn him on real bad, make him want to ravage me hehe

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A male reader, lovetokissyou Canada +, writes (15 April 2011):

I cant talk for him but im sure he loves the pics most guys do. it is a turn on seeing a woman a girlfriend naked and if he is not interested in them , maybe he has his own problems.. you could just ask him if he got the pics see what he says.. take care

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A female reader, cor Canada +, writes (17 March 2011):

cor is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yeah I think I will just stop doing it, who knows what he thinks, if he wants them he will ask for them again :-) thanks to everyone who answered :-)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

Like another person suggested, it can be a bit of a turn off for a guy if he knows or suspects you've sent nude photos to a bunch of other guys as well.

It can depend on how a guy feels about you. If he has no feelings for you and he just wants sex, this probably wouldn't bother him, and he'd probably respond with some sexually explicit emails. If he views you as having potential for a more serious relationship, it could be a problem. Men tend to view sexually aggressive women as being likely to cheat on them if they were to form a long term relationship with them.

Some guys are just turned off by women who are aggressive sexually. They prefer to do the chasing.

Being aggressive sexually will tend to weed out the "nice guys" who are looking for something more than sex. Of course, that's not a problem if you are also only looking for sex.

My best guess is that he was hoping you had potential for something more serious, but now he's questioning whether or not he wants to get serious with someone who's so aggressive sexually.

But, it's different for different men, so it's hard to say what's going in your case.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

Suggestions :-

1.)U need to stop to send nude pic, if he do not response to them.

2.)Then if he like nude pic, he will tell to send again.

Even to be intimate is proper way to attract him.

3.)So, make him completely to u by Intimacy!

*Warning* Sending nude pic may remove his interest from u.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

If you want to be sexually pursued by him then you have to stop pursuing him and learn the art of seduction. Most men worth their salt, prefer to do the chasing. It turns them on. Its an irresistible, challenging hunt that excites them. If you are sending him un-asked for pictures of yourself then wheres the hunt for them that could have excited him? You are dealing your best hands without him having to work for any of it. Theres no feeling of reward or value when something is given away as a 'freebee'. So he wont be totally sexually stimulated.

One chases and the other runs. That seems to be how he is wired. He obviously doesnt want to run away because hes happy to be with you. But he cant chase you either, because you are chasing him! So hes not able to do what comes naturally to him. Which is to chase and hunt for the things he wants. And that will leave both of you, scratching your heads!

Its best not to send pictures unless the person you are interested in has 'earned' them. And then they should be clothed but teasing ones. Not 'full on' anatomical pics that wouldn't look out of place in a medical journal. Not only are they less sexy but also remember. Things can change between couples and you wouldnt want your pictures resurfacing all over the internet in a few years time, when you've just joined the school PTA! So always think ahead when you do things.

Teasing, flirting and being totally sexy, doesnt really have anything to do with getting ones butt out. So do some research on seduction and flirting. It will make things a lot more fun for you both and the day will come when he begs for some sexy pictures!

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (16 March 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntHis silence could be a compliment...?

He could just be "occupied"...?

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (16 March 2011):

Maybe he thinks you sent those pictures to a lot of guys already. And finds this ugly, but wont tell you a word about this right now.

If this is what he's thinking I guess this issue will come over later in your relationship and cause you a headache.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2011):

Fairy_Lu agony auntMaybe he does not know what to say to you when you send them maybe he is not really into that kind of thing or just does not want to give you the impression that all he wants is your body. Easiest thing to do is to just talk to him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

I know I sent my boyfriend a suggestive, although not nude picture and didn't hear anything from him about it.

When I eventually asked him about it, he said that he really respected me and have felt a little guilty because he came really quickly when he masturbated using my photo.

It wasn't that he didn't like it, he just felt a little guilty and didn't want me to think badly of him. I told him that he shouldn't feel guilty and that I had sent it because I wanted it to turn him on. He doesn't get stressed when I send him stuff anymore.

Like the other Aunt said, don't tell him about how your other boyfriends have loved them.

There are many possibilities about why he hasn't said anything. Maybe he didn't get them? Or an ex posted a similar pic of your on the internet and your current boy found it and is a bit worried?

Maybe like, mine, he's feeling a bit guilty that they turned him on?

But you'll never know until you ask him.

Good luck hunny


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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2011):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony aunt "...every other guy I have sent them too seems to drive them crazy haha"

With the knowledge that "every other guy" in the neighbourhood knows what you look like naked, it's hardly going to turn him on now, is it? Quite the opposite.

You're lucky he still wants to know you, actually. Try being a bit more subtle. Men can be sensitive too, you know.

Take it easy and good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

My god if he's not responding to your naked pictures then I don't know what to say!!! he must be a fool!

I mean comon, what guy on earth wouldn't like that????

Maybe you should send them to one of his best mates, that'll wake him up! lol :-p :-))

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