Should I tell my future fiance I kissed another girl??
Q. I am doing long distance with my girlfriend for 2 years. I am about to propose to her and move in together, but for the next month we will still be apart. Last week, I kissed another girl. There was absolutely no emotional connection. Should I ...
A. 1 December 2007: I really think you should tell her and show that you are truly sorry.That way,chances of forgiveness are higher.Choose a place and time that both of you are relaxed and romantic.Don't tell her when you are arguing or upset with her.The bottom line ... (read in full...)
How can this txt have been a joke??
Q. I have known my wife for 21 years and been married for 17. She is my life, our love was the most passionate thing ever, we were best friends and always expressed our love. About a year ago I noticed a change in her, she would not cuddle me or kiss ...
A. 1 December 2007: If it was a joke why didn't she tell you in the 1st place?I can only imagine half of what you must be feeling but i agree with Richard_EMids,don't try to confront her so much as you'll be so emotional.Devise a plan of getting to know the whole ... (read in full...)
I can respect her vow of post-marital intercourse but I have my sexual needs/desires! I love her, but it's frustrating that she won't touch me.
Q. Im a 24 year old American male who has only been touched and had sex with one girl when I was 17. Over the past 7 years I have been desperate for intimacy and sex with only failed results. I did however meet a girl 4 months ago whom I have grown to ...
A. 1 December 2007: My oh my,are you on heat.Listen up bro,the truth of the matter is if you really love this girl you'll wait and there's alwaays the choice of you speeding up the marraaige process so you can have what you want from her.My girlfriend also told me the ... (read in full...)
A good place for your "first time" ? Suggestions, please.
Q. Where would you say is a good place to have sex for the first time for both you and your partner? and who esle would be around you? e.g. in a house parents etc.Suggestions, please....
A. 1 December 2007: Hey it really doesn't matter but nuetral ground's best.I thought you were male that's why i suggested your place but since you are a lady just find a place private enough. Not each others' homes.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that I do not have pubic hair yet?
Q. Hi I'm 18 but my penis hasn't grown and i don't have any hair around it and i haven't started shaving. my voice has broken but because of all this im a bit self concious about myself and ive never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. do you hav...
A. 30 November 2007: My friend don't hold a funeral over it.Are you 50 yet,to start worrying?Let nature take it's full course on you.If you are so anxious,go and see the doctor so they play with your body tissues like turkey! Biologically,men's puberty's slower and ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't it pay to be a nice guy? Why are women attracted to unkind men, abusive, players?
Q. Why dosen't it pay to be a nice guy? i do all i can 4 her and still no reward just get crap. I even tryed being bad to her and i got crap. So why are woman attracted to a%^ and *^*4? and why are they messed up? Someone tell me? because im so lost ...
A. 30 November 2007: I'm also curious and have asked myself that question a million times.I'm an adult now but remember how girls used to turn me down in high school and go for the guys i considered "unfit" for them.Here's the 911 on this.I'll let you in because i've ... (read in full...)
Is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? Is "it was just sex" just an excuse? Or is there actually a connection?
Q. is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? is it possible for a man to "love" a woman but cheat on her constantly and it mean nothing? when men say "its just sex" is there really a connection. Is this true or just intended to make it ...
A. 30 November 2007: That's the most stupid excuse i've ever heard in my life.It's like saying since i own a car,let me drive over the cliff.Men are made to love,just like women are and infedelity is a choice most men make.So please the next time you hear that even from ... (read in full...)
We have a child and live together, and he wants to experience extra-relationship sex before we setlle down - only with my approval. Is this OK?
Q. I have been with my love for almost 5 years. we have a child and live together. As all relationships experience we have our ups and downsbut always manage to realize what we have. We are both really young. He has just told me he wants to sleep with ...
A. 30 November 2007: You are not crazy.He's just being selfish and immature although i know you are both young.He needs to pull his socks up and learn to be a father and act like a husband,more or less.I know it'll hurt you deeply even though you agreed just to make him ... (read in full...)
Guys, can you be normal friends with a girl you find attractive, even though a relationship would not be possible?
Q. Guys: Can you be normal friends with a girl you find hot and wish you could sleep with, but know nothing can happen? Would you hang around and continue being 'friends', even though you never saw eachother out and only got on really well when...
A. 30 November 2007: To be honest with you,it's kinda hard because i'm in a similar situation.I'm in a LD affair and my girlfiend's in another town.There's this girl here that i like and just wana be a friend with benefits but she seems interested in a relationship and ... (read in full...)
A good place for your "first time" ? Suggestions, please.
Q. Where would you say is a good place to have sex for the first time for both you and your partner? and who esle would be around you? e.g. in a house parents etc.Suggestions, please....
A. 30 November 2007: Are you making a recording for you to have people around? I would advise you to book into a motel/hotel and have a great time.At either your places,you never know who would walk in on you unexpectedly.But if you are 100% sure you'll be alone,your ... (read in full...)
I cant help screaming when my man and I have sex, but it wakes the old lady next door, I cant help it though, is this normal?
Q. I like to scream when I come. My boyfriend asks me not to make too much noise because there is an elderly lady living next door. Not long his neighbour complains about it. I feel embarassing and bad to wake her because we always make love after ...
A. 30 November 2007: You are really lucky to have a man that makes you go da whole nine yards.Just try to bite the pillow as you come and not his hand because you may end up hurting him.Try making love elsewhere and at other times.
WOW!!! Let your man share the secr... (read in full...)
Help me about natural life source???!!!
Q. Hey I am in need of a bit of help I am staying on till 6th year but I am in 5th year, all my friends have had sexual intercourse and done lots of other things with boys and their bits and bobs. I am scared of mostly the disgustingness of a g...
A. 30 November 2007: I totally agree with missmel34.When you become sexually active at a tender age and keep it up,you are really draining the sexual energy meant to be shared with a very special person.I also remember girls who used to turn me down in high school ... (read in full...)
A neighbour changing in view of my wife and I!!!
Q. Hi Over the past few weeks our neighbour has been putting on a show in their bed room. What I mean by this is, she get undressed and gets changed without drawing the blinds. My wife and I can see all this from our lounge room if we have our blin...
A. 30 November 2007: If it really makes you uncomfortable,get your wife to speak to her but don't make it look as though you've been having a show of it.If she continues with such behaviour,use your blinds and if that's not good enough you can report her to the police ... (read in full...)
We broke up, now he's dissing me, but I still love him, should I just give up or can we be friends?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. There was no betrayal involved and it was mutual, but he has been nothing but rude to me ever since. He says he wants me to be happy, but he makes fun of me with his friends and gives me mean and ...
A. 30 November 2007: Let me tell you something,the guy's still in love with you but seems his friend's opinions are more important than his own and i can bet he would never say those things when you are just the two of you.It seems like your guy's displsying the child ... (read in full...)
We are getting married, but he's neglecting me in bed, is there hope I can turn this around?
Q. Hello, Well I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we are going to be married in a few months. When we were first together, he was a sensual and giving lover, and did perform oral sex on me occasionally. But as time ...
A. 30 November 2007: As much you may love him,it'll be harder and more painful when you wed.Continue to talk to him about it and try to make him continue on one of those moments he rolls over.He may be having a serious problem that you are not aware of which may affect ... (read in full...)
A new way to verify your partner has not been cheating during your time apart?
Q. My 'lover' says that his friends wife always knew if he'd been faithful when away on business, as his testicles would be 'high' (indicating abstinence) - I've never heard of this, is it true ... ?...
A. 30 November 2007: Not true at all.Testicles change positions due to temperature and moisture from underwear.That method is totally unreliable and may really mislead you if you try it and end up accusing your lover of false things because of nature playing on his ... (read in full...)
Is this just sex or a relationship? Should I just go along with it, and hopefully he will "catch on" ?
Q. Okay, So, I have been thinking. I really like this guy, and he likes me, we aren't dating, but have had sex a few times. We didn't mean to the first time, we were pretty messed up. But, we had been talking for almost a year or so about dating. He ...
A. 30 November 2007: Please sweetheart don't create unnecessary confusions in your head.Do you really care about yourself?If so you shouldn't be so sexually active,especially at such a tender age.
He told you that he wants a no-strings-attached thing,why do you expe... (read in full...)
Is there a difference between caring for someone and loving them?
Q. I was seeing a girl for about a year until 2 weeks ago when she decided to end things. The reason being "buried" feelings for her ex resurfaced. she is not with him now/yet but said she wanted clarity and possibly give it another go with him in ...
A. 29 November 2007: I really feel for you man but you gotta face reality.You were just someone to fill up the space left by her ex and now that she's realised you can never be him and now wants him back.Atleast she's honest that she's not in love with you.FORGET ABOUT ... (read in full...)
Am I not enough for him?
Q. Why does my boyfriend feel the need to masturbate when I'm here and willing to try whatever he wants?...
A. 29 November 2007: Sometimes it's a habit that is hard to stop no matter how much your partner satisfies you in bed.So don't feel betrayed or cheated.It's a bit normal.However,ever since i started having sex with my girlfriend i musturbate less and only because she ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to try to do something wrong?
Q. Ok lets start with this i'm 18 I love my boyfriend but its so hard not to I mean everthings like perfect in every way. Is that wierd? Its like everything I do is right! Whats up with that? I know usually the questions are about them messing up and ...
A. 29 November 2007: How long have you been with him?I bet you haven't been together that long.He just wants you to be happy no matter what the cost.He doesn't wana lose you.Tell him to be himself and not treat you like mother theresa.Tell him you'd love to see him ... (read in full...)
How do I work through my jealousy and confusion?
Q. Me and my long distance girlfriend recently went on a break. I am 20 and she is almost 19. She has been very confused for many different reasons. first off...it seems to make her way upset to see other couples doing the things we do the rare ...
A. 29 November 2007: Let me share something with you.As a man you have the responsibility of making your woman feel secure.Which means that you will need to do everything in your powers to chase her fears away.You need to give her a reason feel confident and happy.Show ... (read in full...)
Was I treated unreasonably?
Q. One night my fiance asked if I wanted to go with him to a bar that him and his friends were going to that night. It was a family night so some of his friends were his friend's younger sisters that he is better friends with and they are like 13 and ...
A. 29 November 2007: Yes he's really behaving strange and needs a questioning session.Even if we know that friendship knows no age boundaries,what would he be doing in a bar with "his" friends? Let me guess,he's scared that he may be flirting with them and you'll get ... (read in full...)
How do I keep this relationship alive?
Q. Any suggestions on keeping an 8-month relationship from becoming "boringly comfortable"? * cliff notes version: **been together 8 months, known eachother for 16mo. ** Age gap relationship, I'm older ** everything is still good (no fig...
A. 29 November 2007: A great way i now trust is to take a moment before sleeping and thinking of your partner and all the things you would love to do and try them out when you are together.Your imagination is sharpest at that moment.Another way is to help him come out ... (read in full...)
How can I get over this whole thing?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been officially together for a year now, but we have been seeing each other for 2 years. He cheated on me a few months after we made it official. He slept with her once, but they usually met twice or three times in a week. ...
A. 29 November 2007: Yes no relationship is perfect but lying even in the early days is a sign that you got bigger problems ahead.I think your man needs to own up and stop taking advantage of you.I've already seen that you are a sweet loving person who would do anything ... (read in full...)
Have I sacrificed too much, too soon?
Q. In August of this year I moved to the USA from Great Britain to marry the man I loved. We were wed only 5 weeks ago however I had serious doubts even before the wedding but felt I could not back out as my family had all paid for their trips over and ...
A. 29 November 2007: I'm also curious about how you met this guy.I want to believe you met him online and further advanced your relationship.Committing to marraige was a risk you took.Going to live with him was even a bigger risk you took and you are now paying the ... (read in full...)
What if I get it wrong?
Q. I am a virgin and i really like this guy and i want to make the move on him but i am just scared becuase i don't know what i am doing and what if i am going to do it wrong, i would feel stupid....
A. 29 November 2007: You make a move on him or entice him to make a move on you? Just chill out for a moment and think twice.You are one of the most rarest species on earth,a virgin,and deserve to lose it to a very special person.Take time to know the guy and see where ... (read in full...)
Is she lying to me?
Q. Hi, I met my girlfriend before 1 year and 6 months and i love her so much, in the begining we used to see each other every two weeks. during the first year i am helping her financily all the time and she used to see me when i have to give her the ...
A. 29 November 2007: Learn to be tolerant towards women.They rarely act according to our wishes.You 1st need to try and see things from her perspective and if they don't make sense then you can start being suspicious.In short be a bit more understanding and patient.I ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date an ex's best friend??
Q. Well i am going to ask this girl out soon and we flirt alot and it just so happens that her best friend is my ex. I was wondering if it was looked down upon. Me and my ex are still really good friends. Any help would be great... ...
A. 29 November 2007: It's good that you and your ex are still good friends.See what she thinks by asking her in a what if question what she thinks about you dating her friend but always remember that she can't stop you from dating her friend as long you both like each ... (read in full...)
He's catholic I'm not, will this create problems later on?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering what people think about long term relationships between people of different religions? Can it ever work? I'm in a relationship (almost a year and a half) with a lovely guy and we are very much in love and spend all our ti...
A. 29 November 2007: One thing is for sure,one of you has to "bend" and the chances are that it's you who'll have to do the bending.I'm mormon and my girlfriend's catholic.She's agreed to join me before we get married.Unless your man isn't insistent,you have nothing to ... (read in full...)
He prefers not seeing each other every day, only in weekends - and not calling either. Isn't a relationship having one life?
Q. Hi, I ve been with my bf for 2 years, im 20 hes 22. We love each other very much. I depend so much on him, i like callin him everyday, talkin to him, see him in college between classes if i can. I cant get enough from seein him. But he doesn...
A. 28 November 2007: It's quite normal to feel like that.You need to find things that can keep you busy because just sitting idle will make you miss him alot.But tell him restricting calls to weekends is too much,maybe three times a week can do.Unless he doesn't miss ... (read in full...)
I wanna go down on my boyfriend, but my mouth is too small!
Q. hey, well the thing is: i wanna go down on my bf, i tried it once but my mouth is small, and his thing is big, and i wanna do it for him. any solution? :S...
A. 28 November 2007: Do you mean it's too wide for your mouth or too long as is usually the case.If too wide for your mouth,then it's probably too wide for you vagina.If too long for your mouth then don't try gulping everything.Start with the tip and see how far down ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!
Q. Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...
A. 28 November 2007: How much do you care about your bestfriend?How would you feel if a guy you just started dating dumped you for your bestfriend?Would you still consider her your bestfriend? Just stop your flirting with him for your friend's sake.I know you must be ... (read in full...)
He likes filming us having sex, why is this?
Q. I need advise, I have been involved with a guy on and off for 4 yrs. over the last 2 yrs he has asked if he can video he and I having sex. I did it then but was extremely paranoid when he kept it and didnt delete. a few months after he filmed it ...
A. 28 November 2007: It's like asking,why do guys like porn? Just seeing himself making love to you probably makes him musturbate when alone.However,you have every right to know what he's going to use it for. Somehow i think your guy has developed a passion for what i ... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to be friends with benefits, but we never had sex during our 7 year relationship, help me figure this out?
Q. This is the situation. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago after a 7 year relationship. I cheated on her and I know I was wrong for doing so. We had been together all that time without having sex and I felt the need for intamcy. Thats a ...
A. 28 November 2007: It seems your ex has issues.She wants to move on but doesn't want to let go of you and she's easily trapped you in her web.Stop seeing the girl,for crying out loud. For all we know,she might have an STI she wana share with you.I think you never ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I get along great... so why am I falling for this other guy?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we get along great, I love him to bits. We've been through at lot together and we have such a great connection. This is a long distance relationship though and although it can be annoying I ...
A. 28 November 2007: It seems you are having doubts about your ability to stay faithful and this guy presents an opportunity to confirm you can't.One thing i can tell you,being in a LD relationship myself,is that it's quite normal to fall for other people but what you ... (read in full...)
I don't get turned on at all, is this normal?
Q. I don't get turned on at all...No matter what my boyfriends or myself do, nothing really seems to turn me on..Is this normal?...
A. 28 November 2007: It's a sign that your body's not ready. Sexual excitement is caused by hormones when released and if these hormones are not released,you won't be "turned on". So don't force yourself and let nature work for you.If your boyfriend finds this hard to ... (read in full...)
I know what I deserve and it's not to be "the other woman" or someone's "play thing..."
Q. Trying to keep this short, I was in a relationship with "Frank" for a while before it went down hill and he cheated, we split. We were the best of friends prior to dating and did our best to stay friends through everything. Over the past year we ...
A. 28 November 2007: You really are caught up in a world of complex feelings women go through after break up. If you are that scared of your own emotions,tell him to drop it by your office. At least that way you can hide your emotions.Just try harder to think less of ... (read in full...)
We've been together 6 years and he still won't commit to me!
Q. Why has my boyfriend of 6 years never committed to me and just enjoys visiting twice/three times a week? He's not soft, he has his own flat and life. I am really fed up with the set up even though I think I love him and want some happiness ...
A. 28 November 2007: Sweety open your eyes and look at reality.The guy's quite happy with what you guys have and i strongly feel he has no plans for marraige in the near future.You have two options here.On the assumption that he loves you but not sure when to ... (read in full...)
Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?
Q. Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...
A. 28 November 2007: Ask him how he would feel if you had pictures of you going down on your ex or doing the cowboy.Tell him you are offended with those pictures and if he's still keeping themm delete them yourself and check his reaction.If he raises hell over it,be ... (read in full...)
?She needs space what do I do?
Q. Hi there, my girlfriend for 5 months now needs space but she says she loves me. It's been about a week now and she texts me I do miss you. Why is that she told me that she needed to be single for a while and be on here own and she can't be my ...
A. 28 November 2007: You really have no choice but to give her the space she requires. She's not really sure about her feelings for you. If you truly love this woman,WAIT! But as a man i would seriously advise you to move on because seperations rarely work to bond ... (read in full...)
Certain things he said whilst breaking up have really hit me hard; I'm afrad that if I lose him, no one else will love me.
Q. Hello, Im just looking for some advice really from someone who might know what im going through. Ive been with my boyfriend for 19 months now, im 18 and he's 22, and ive always been happy with him and love him to pieces, and ive made some mis...
A. 27 November 2007: He really got you where he wants you. I know the time you spent together bonded you but at times the best thing to do is usually the hardest. Honey look inside you and know that you are special like no other. Don't concentrate on the negatives ... (read in full...)
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