I have never been subjected to being dominated by a girl before, should I let her do with me what she pleases?...
Q. I recently bumped into a female friend from years ago. There was some chemistry in the air and we reacted. The other day when this girl came to see me, She totally sexually dominated me and told me point blnak what she was doing I was bit take...
A. 21 February 2008: Boy are you in trouble! This girl's sexuality is really not compatible with yours.You are just hanging on.Talking of your next date.You need a master plan on how to survive otherwise come up with an excellent excuse to postpone indefinitely.Calling ... (read in full...)
A split condom... 2 times in a row!
Q. One night, we were having sex when we noticed the condom had split. Two nights later, we were having sex again and the condom split. Why is this happening?! It's never happened before until now....
A. 18 February 2008: That's what happens when you rush into sex and have it with a guy with little or no experience.As a guy ready for sex,you should know how to put on a condom and also be aware that friction makes condoms break.You two rush into penetration,i ... (read in full...)
No sex for a year and a half and it's driving me CRAZY!!!!!
Q. HI! PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME!! I'm 18 years old, and I haven't had sex in a year and a half!! I'm feeling unattractive, yet very horny! I could just yell into a pillow for hours with frustration. I really am starting to feel like I NEED sex, and I ...
A. 18 February 2008: If you have not died all this one year,it's a sign you won't die anytime in the near future.Think of other things apart from sex besides you never know what 2morro holds for you.You may meet a wonderful girl that may give you the best sex ever! Get ... (read in full...)
How can I be intimate with my boyfriend without this horrible ordeal coming back to haunt me?
Q. Hi, this is kind of a strange problem as a lot of the main event I cannot recall. Basically, after nearly 5 months of being with my boyfriend, we decided it was time to have sex and I was in full agreement, feeling very strongly for him and feel...
A. 18 February 2008: Even if it happens again don't feel guilty or bad.You can't overcomme yourself but you need to train yourself to get intimate with him.Take it a step at a time and with time you'll get over this just don't push yourself.My ex was in a similar ... (read in full...)
How can I have an orgasm without masturbating during sex?
Q. Hi, Every time I have sex with my boyfriend the only way I can have and orgasm is when he is in me and I am masturbating and then I feel a good sensation. How can I have an orgasm without masturbating during sex??!! Please answer asap!! thnxx...
A. 18 February 2008: Penetration alone can not make you orgasm and infact in some positions it's next to impossible e.g classis missionary.What you are doing is good to help you achieve orgasm because only two spots in/on your body are a source of orgasm when ... (read in full...)
Turns out the girl I slept with is much older than me and married with kids!!! I had absolutely no idea!
Q. Dear Cupid, Not sure what to do about my problem, so here we go... I was out on Saturday night, at a bar near where I live. I met a girl I liked, we had a few drinks, and we continued on to a club. More drinks, and we ended back at my frie...
A. 18 February 2008: I'm really not a big fan of alcohol and sex but i'm not gonna put sacks on yo head! I'll look at the bigger picture.It seems you were looking forward to a next meeting but were disappointed when you found out she's married.Personally,i would say ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but I always have to fake orgasms...
Q. Hi i'm 30 and been married for almost 6 yrs now. Since the first time i had sex i only had 2x orgasm with a partner. I can only get orgasm when i masturbate but not with my husband or with my past relationships. I always have to fake it everytime we ...
A. 18 February 2008: Namatjira has really elaborated alot so i'll try to be brief and take another angle.There are two aspects you've brought out here.Firstly,even in your past relationships,you never used to orgasm then you also say that your husband is bad in bed.I ... (read in full...)
My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??
Q. Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last...
A. 18 February 2008: Is this Andy the musician we once gave advise to some time back? Dude no chik will tell you that i'm officially causing you pain.Infact in most cases they never know it's causing you pain.You are the one feeling it.However,i suspect they have an ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me twice with her ex. Do I forgive her?
Q. i am going thru the exact same thing as i write this....i have been with this girl for the last 3 months, she was coming off a relationship of 2 years, her ex betrayed her a number of times. The first month of our relationship, she two timed me with ...
A. 15 February 2008: You would be a bigger fool if you gave her chance to play you a third time.If a girl can cheat on you once,she's 99% likely to do it again and why should you always be a victim to the same person? She knows how much you love her and is taking ... (read in full...)
How can I compete with the 'train wrecks'??
Q. Before I met my b/f he had a tendency to get involved with what I call "train wrecks", meaning women who were kinda bad, kinda bad for him, unstable, unpredictable, kinda wild, kinda raunchy, didn't have much of an education, sometimes didn't work, ...
A. 15 February 2008: If you knew his past lovers are "train wrecks" why did you start dating him? You are really making an issue where there's none.If he really still wanted that type of a lady don't you think he would have left you already? The problem with people in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I tried to have sex last night... and we couldn't get 'it' in!
Q. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex last night... and we couldn't get 'it' in! I'm not sure if it was because i've not had sex that many times (once before, a long time ago)... or nerves ...or both. Oh. it was soo embarassing :( How can we avoid ...
A. 15 February 2008: Oh i've been there and almost thot there was a problem with my manhood.You see foreplay is not all about you,the girl but also da man.It's also important that you really turn him on.Actually it's easier on a man's part as it takes less time.I really ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken and confused...
Q. Hello. I'm finding it really hard to cope losing my girlfriend. She ended our relationship Tuesday because she was not happy but I really love her. If we were still together today it would of been 14 months and 2 weeks. I love her so much my heart ...
A. 15 February 2008: My friend that are two things that are almost impossible to change;mountains and a woman who doesn't love you.If you want some more sweet pain continue mingling with her but if you want peaco of mind,be brave and concetrate on other girls to help ... (read in full...)
Lately our conversations have been short and awkward. Does that mean she doesn't like me anymore?
Q. Desperate as I am gonig to this site... I need assurance of sorts. This girl and I both like each other. We both have told each other and considered dating. We are really good friends and afraid to ruin that.... so we're holding off but she says...
A. 15 February 2008: Either she's just shy or she's lost interest in you.Don't listen to what girls say most of the time.Listen to their actions rather thaan her words.You'll always be played like a fool if you take what girls say as gospel truth.Most girls never say ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's hiding something from me?
Q. Give me some feedback, my boyfriend always hides his phone, keeps in his pants and hardly lists any phone numbers, they are unlisted, just by digits, to top it off he turns his cell phone off when he charges it, the ringer is always silent, to me ...
A. 15 February 2008: You are being played with your eyes wide open! How can you hide your mobile from the person you love.In this day and age such behaviour is unacceptable and it's clear that there are some things he's hiding.I stayed with my ex for 3 months without ... (read in full...)
IIlike her, she likes me, but she has a man. what do I do?
Q. rite ill get straight to the point, ive known this girl for a number of years and as times gone on weve got closer and closer, i like her, she likes me, i know this because weve told eachother, 1 problem she has a fella, we both have feelings for ...
A. 15 February 2008: I personally would advise you to look elsewhere coz you are gonna hurt sum1 else in the process.If you really want her,let her sort her personal life then take it from there.If she agrees with you in your thinking let her break off with the other ... (read in full...)
Disagreement about virginity with my boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend and I seem to have a disagreement regarding virginity. Four years ago, when I was just a 15 year old, I gave a BJ to a friend of mine. He was always a friend, nothing but. Two years later, this friend introduced me to my now boyfriend...
A. 15 February 2008: Ask him if your mouth and vagina are da same.Tell him that while having a hand job he was also penetrating the girl's hand.Bottom line is that he's being jealous and childish and probably looking for a reason to cause a break up with you.Don't feel ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend put the condom on wrong! Am I Pregnant?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend a week ago last wednesday and i were due to come on my period wednesday just gone,, i used a condom but my bf put it on the wrong way at first then just turned it over,, could i get pregnant from that write bak asap plz...
A. 15 February 2008: That's what happens when you are not ready for sex.A guy whose ready for sex will not experience such coz he's practiced on how to wear a condom and he's nerves are under control.From my experience when you wear it the other way round it rolls back ... (read in full...)
Planning first time sex. Does it hurt? If so, for how long?
Q. My friend and I have recently been talking about sex, A LOT. I am a virgin and he isnt. A few weeks ago, he asked me if I wanted to have sex, but I said no, because I wasnt ready. Now I am ready, and I have told him this. He is about 100 miles away ...
A. 15 February 2008: He's only trying to calm your fears.It even makes me laugh to see what guys do to have sex.It'll surely hurt all day and maybe a bit longer so brace yourself.It'll surely sting but it'll also feel as though you have a sore in your vagina.I would ... (read in full...)
My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??
Q. Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last...
A. 15 February 2008: Dude why do you even think about someone in between her legs.Look,no matter how much she likes you,she doesn't love you and very few women will inform you that someone has been shaggin her,especially that you are her.That game thing is a way of ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always ask me out after the first date?
Q. What does it mean when a guy asks you to be his girlfriend after the first date? This has happened to me 4 times now and I wanted to know whether I actually impressed these guys that much for them to want me to be their girlfriend. Or if it was just...
A. 14 February 2008: If that's your photo,i wouldn't be surprised why guys ask you out so fast.Maybe i would myself! Your conscious is right.They are so attracted to you that they can't wait to bed and i guess the only way they know how is to ask you to be their gf.The ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and he doesn't believe that I am!!!
Q. I am pregnant and he doesn't believe me... What should I do...? He thinks that I've cheated on him and I havent. I don't know what to do. He was supposed to go to the doctors with me today and he never even called me. I called him a million ...
A. 14 February 2008: Your bf is just being childish and scared chicken.If you are 100% sure you aren't/haven't cheat(ed/ing) on him don't worry so much.However,if he continues treating you that way,you may need to involve other people like parents or you can even ... (read in full...)
I've had to come home alone on the night before valentines day. I feel like I've missed a big chhance tonight. What can I do in future?
Q. Hi. I've had a brilliant night!: I walked around with a women's football team, who were playing something called Pub golf. They walked from pub to pub ordering different drinks each time, and downed them as quick as they could. Most of them wer...
A. 14 February 2008: As you've read from most always prepare enough cash when you go out so you don't panic when da bus leaves you.Don't worry too much you may meet someone even on Valentines.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Staying with his sister every night.
Q. So my fiancee lives 4 hours away, his sister travels and sometimes ends up in the same city as him. Whenever his sister is in town, he stays with her at the hotel. I think the rationale is that since her sister's paying for the room anyhow, he ...
A. 14 February 2008: For your own peace of mind and mine if i were you,do some fact finding and find out if she's really his sister.Suggest you visit her sister together and probably book a room so you also spend a nyt there and then see the reactions from both.His ... (read in full...)
I have never been subjected to being dominated by a girl before, should I let her do with me what she pleases?...
Q. I recently bumped into a female friend from years ago. There was some chemistry in the air and we reacted. The other day when this girl came to see me, She totally sexually dominated me and told me point blnak what she was doing I was bit take...
A. 14 February 2008: There are two options here.Either you try and do things your own way that's if what she's doing isn't enjoyable to you.Or you can lie back and enjoy if she's good at what she does.A compromise could be exchanging leads.Do it your way one time and ... (read in full...)
How do I prevent from starting to love my ex again without wrecking our friendship?
Q. I have a problem with my current gf and my ex..... me and my girl have been going out for 3 weeks now and everything goin wonderful and moving along great....and I have extremly strong feelings for her... but my ex.......we broke up almost a ye...
A. 14 February 2008: Even though you haven't really admitted it but it seems those feelings have started developing already.How do you expect those feelings not to develop when you are constantly communicating with your ex.Concetrate on your new gf if you want things to ... (read in full...)
My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?
Q. Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...
A. 7 February 2008: Welcome to a crazy family my bro? Hw in da world does a mother try to replace her own mother in law,sexually? Do you really wana give in? If i were you,i'd avoid her.Don't tell your wife coz you'll create problems between her and da mum and your ... (read in full...)
She recently forgot my birthday. How can I tell if she still loves me? Should I say I won't call until she asks me to?
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I are in a long distace relationship. Last year she missed me a lot and found it hard in college. This year she is happier in school and doesn't miss me as much. Recently she forgot my birthday. What does this mean? I kno...
A. 7 February 2008: Women are so emotional as you witnessed earlier when she missed you alot.If i were you i'd be seriously worried.Look i don't about your gf but doing that will only hurt you more coz you may realise she can live without you calling her.What you need ... (read in full...)
Broke up with my boyfriend recently, how long should I wait to start a new relationship? (worrying about my reputation)
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated, even after I took him back the first time. In total, the relationship lasted 6 weeks, so it was barely serious. I've met a new guy though, that I think I can have a stable and healthy ...
A. 7 February 2008: If you think people will think that way then you'll always think like that even after a year of being single.Don't feel so guilty.If you've moved,waiting would be unfair to yourself.It's good that you've found someone serious.Be serious as ... (read in full...)
How can a tall person have intimacy with a short one, without major... inconveniences?
Q. dear cupid i will try and rephrase this as much as possible, basically my question is how can a tall person have intimate sex with a short person, and lets say the Mr X height is 5"10 and Mrs X is 5"1 wont that suffocate the girls face when on t...
A. 7 February 2008: I'm rather on the fat side and my sex life hasn't been that bad.It's all about exploring ways in which you can find maximum satisfaction for both partners.If you can find positions comfortable for you then you'll b ok.Believe me the differences in ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my jealousy?
Q. Just wondering... So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and we already know that we are going to get married. But before we were together he had been with a lot of girls, too many to count off hand....and everytime I hear sto...
A. 7 February 2008: This is a typical case of what we call inferiority complex.You always feel threatened by any other girl who tries to come close to your man.For how long will you go on like that? You need to tackle it from a different unique angle.Instead of feeling ... (read in full...)
Why can't I move on?
Q. My ex partner and I were together for 7 years then split up a year ago. He got a girlfriend straight away, almost too quick if you get my drift. He cheated on me twice in the relationship. I am still in love with him and he keeps phoning and texting ...
A. 7 February 2008: You guys have been together for a long time and despite what has made you seperate.Do you expect himto just forget about you and start another life like that.My guess is that you still stand a chance with him though it's evident he doesn't love ... (read in full...)
He never says he loves me first anymore...how do I bring it up??
Q. Recently, my boyfriend and I had a chat that almost resulted in a break-up. The next day, he called me and told me he couldn't live without me... but that our relationship needed work. We're working out how to see each other more (we're in a long d...
A. 7 February 2008: First of all,my heart goes out to you coz i know how hard it is to be in a LD relationship.You have to work twice as hard to make it work and in most cases one is highly committed to make it work while the other is really not sure and ends up ... (read in full...)
What shall I do about the four guys I like??
Q. Hey,I like these 4 guy at my skool. (G,A,D,and S) D-Doesn't likelike me but ALWAYS flirts with me. G-Knows I like him but didn't say anything about.Me and him talk EVERYDAY at skool and we laugh and joke around with each other. A-Does't kno...
A. 7 February 2008: In my opinion,you don't stand a chance with G.He may be interested in another girl or may have a gf. As for D,i'm sure you know by now that he's just for flirts and anything more serious won't work.The only two real option are A and S but i would ... (read in full...)
Too wet!!! Please help!!
Q. When I have sex with my boyfriend I get really wet. I'm serious.... really wet but I usually don't even cum!! I just get very wet. My boyfriend says not to worry but I think it bugs him. How can I not get so wet during sex??? ...
A. 7 February 2008: I guess you have heard the lot that wetness aint a problem and if your man says he has no problem with it why should you start doubting him.Believe me if you stopped getting as wet as you do you would be back here with another problem.Consider it a ... (read in full...)
I haven't had Sex in a year and It's really getting me down
Q. I'm 19, I've gone a year without sex, and I feel pretty upset over it. It seems like such a terrible thing to say to your friends; "Well guys, I've not had any for a year, now". I've been in relationships, but they haven 't worked out, and so I'm ...
A. 7 February 2008: I had to read your post over and over again.Is it a law in your country that every one above 16 should be having sex? Is it a crime if you stay a yr without "getting any"? I think your friends are corrupting your mind.Don't give in to peer ... (read in full...)
Should I be more touchy feely with my new boyfriend, does it matter to guys?
Q. This is a question for guys...... i just started going out with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago.We had been friends for about 3 years before we started dating an our relationship is really friendly and not very romantic. We have kissed and what-not...
A. 7 February 2008: I'm da type who's touchy,feely but i know alot of my mates would care less if you didn't walk hand in hand or kiss.Try doing it and check his response.At your age i guess a guy can be ok with da stuff you are thinking about.Myabe he's asking ... (read in full...)
Insecure about the way I look.
Q. Ok, I'm very insecure looks-wise. Media images mostly make me insecure, and porn. I know it's very plastic though. However, I just see how guys drool over actresses and porn. It's just fantasy they say. But I just get so down every time I see...
A. 7 February 2008: You really think too much and need to give yourself a break.So do you think you'll look much better when you look like a porn star? Are you interested in all guys drooling over you? You need to stop thinking too much and concetrate on you! If you ... (read in full...)
Can I forget about everything and get a good night sleep for a change?
Q. I do hope I can get some good advice. Broke up four months ago with my boyfriend. We still talked and occasionally saw each other when he visited me (don't know why he bothered travelling all this way!). Well, last weekend I was in his city visiting ...
A. 5 February 2008: I understand your pain.Even as a man,i'm going through a similar thing as i can't seem to get over my ex.You really have no option but to be strong for your won sake.The less you know about his life the better.That's what i believe.You need to ... (read in full...)
How can a tall person have intimacy with a short one, without major... inconveniences?
Q. dear cupid i will try and rephrase this as much as possible, basically my question is how can a tall person have intimate sex with a short person, and lets say the Mr X height is 5"10 and Mrs X is 5"1 wont that suffocate the girls face when on t...
A. 5 February 2008: It's called the art of love making.It's not like he lies on the girl like she's a mattress.He has to position himself so that they can both be comfortable but allow for penetration as well.That calls for experimentation of various positions.In short ... (read in full...)
My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?
Q. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks ...
A. 31 January 2008: You really have a heart to even ask after being officially told in a polite way that you are being played and she's not ready to give it up.I struggled through such a relnship recently and it ended up bruising my heart.She's a two timing player and ... (read in full...)
Would you allow your wife to have sex with another man?
Q. If you were unable to satisfy your wife sexually due to health problems, would it be ok to allow her to have sex with a person of your choice?...
A. 31 January 2008: I think most people haven't realised that you are female and probably the wife in such a couple and looking for self justification to seek sexual pleasure else where.Ask yourself.If you were in his position would you sanction such a decision? If so ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be TOO nice to women?
Q. How do I avoid being nice towards women? I've had relationships but they always end in me getting dumped. My best friend says its because im too nice. what does he mean?...
A. 31 January 2008: Dude i've always been asking myself the same question and there are only two reason/responses i can give:
1.Be nice but don't be too nice.Do things to hurt them at times.It keeps them alert and curious and interested.
2.You just picked the w... (read in full...)
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